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My [22M] gf [22F] doesn't want to hang out in my apartment because "it's creepy," won't explain furtherquote:I have been going out with a girl I'll call Sarah for about 4 months now. Concerning our living situations I live in my own apartment and she lives in a detached house with a few other girls. I really like her and for the most part things are great but there's obviously an issue or I wouldn't be posting here. Either anime titty statues or a g-g-g-ghost imo
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Charles Get-Out posted:
That sucks. I just cut all exes out utterly now, just never thought it was worth any possible drama. GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 05:47 on May 2, 2017 |
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May 2, 2017 05:41
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I (20 M) am in love with a woman who lives in Croatia. I live in America. She just wants to be close friends for right now. Is being her friend a good long-term strategy for an eventual relationship?quote:Long story short, she's very sexually-attracted to me (especially my body), and she loves my devout Catholic nature, but she only wants to be friends. I love her so much, and I'm not willing to lose her. Is being friends with her--a really good friend--a good strategy for her to eventually love me back? Thank you 😊 (especially my body) GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:That sucks. I just cut all exes out utterly now, just never thought it was worth any possible drama. Yeah I learned that lesson the hard way. It's amazing how much easier stuff is if you don't have ex drama complicating things.
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May 2, 2017 05:42
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Charles Get-Out posted:I (20 M) am in love with a woman who lives in Croatia. I live in America. She just wants to be close friends for right now. Is being her friend a good long-term strategy for an eventual relationship? Short Answer: No Long Answer: Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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May 2, 2017 05:46
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Charles Get-Out posted:My [22M] gf [22F] doesn't want to hang out in my apartment because "it's creepy," won't explain further Maybe he's got that Rust Cohle aesthetic- it's filled with nothing but a mattress and murder books
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May 2, 2017 05:47
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Charles Get-Out posted:My [22M] gf [22F] doesn't want to hang out in my apartment because "it's creepy," won't explain further It wasn't your violent nature that scared me, it was your room, your empty heart. There wasn't anything in your room -- only a bed and a small desk. It looked like a prison cell. No television set, no family pictures, not even a poster. A lifeless room... almost like your empty heart.
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May 2, 2017 05:52
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Charles Get-Out posted:Yeah I learned that lesson the hard way. It's amazing how much easier stuff is if you don't have ex drama complicating things. It sure sounds like you did. I don't think I'm missing anything worthwhile enough to risk it. GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 06:17 on May 2, 2017 |
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May 2, 2017 05:58
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Maybe she just doesn't feel comfortable enough to be totally alone with him, if her housemates are usually there.
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May 2, 2017 06:02
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Barudak posted:It wasn't your violent nature that scared me, it was your room, your empty heart. There wasn't anything in your room -- only a bed and a small desk. It looked like a prison cell. No television set, no family pictures, not even a poster. A lifeless room... almost like your empty heart. An empty room is super creepy.
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May 2, 2017 06:09
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Pick posted:An empty room is super creepy. That's why I laid down plastic >_>
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May 2, 2017 06:09
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That's a beautiful lamp you have, made of human skin.
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May 2, 2017 06:14
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Pick posted:An empty room is super creepy. agreed 
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May 2, 2017 06:15
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Every doll and teddy bear whispers "I am gay" E- forgot the teddy bears GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 06:27 on May 2, 2017 |
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May 2, 2017 06:25
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Every doll and teddy bear whispers "I am gay" you better not loving forget the teddybears they are part of my lovable cuddly persona that the girls can't get enough of, along with my pets 
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May 2, 2017 06:29
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So this didn't come out of relationships, but it came out of Reddit, and it's about relationships! The thread was about revealing a secret that could ruin your life, well...quote:A while back, I was cheating on my wife with a coworker. It went on for months, and I never really cared for the woman I was cheating with. She was super hot, though. After a while my coworker started getting really crazy and threatening to tell my wife (whom I had a child with and a baby on the way) about everything. Obviously, I kept trying to cut things off because I realized I was making a mistake. She lost it one night and was freaking out and texting me telling me she was going to come to my house, and a drunk driver hit her. She died instantly. No one knows I was having an affair, and my family went to her funeral.
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May 2, 2017 06:36
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Charles Get-Out posted:My [22M] gf [22F] doesn't want to hang out in my apartment because "it's creepy," won't explain further It's the life sized, naked anime girl in the room. It's just a statue, right, and not a stuffed girl? Right?
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May 2, 2017 06:44
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I have pictures with titties and poo poo on my walls in my room, but they're actual paintings I've done. The rest is several bookshelves of literature and my RPG collection. Ghost Dog: Way of the Samurai, the RPG shares the same shelf space as a book of R. Green Ingersoll's lectures printed in the late 1800s (The Ghosts, and other Lectures). Both are precious artifacts. I ain't no creeper with a barren bedroom.
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May 2, 2017 06:47
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She emotionally pushed me when I was trying to stay silent and called me rude for not responding after a day of constant belittlement and patronizing. I then calmly (or as calmly as i could) asked her to leave me alone for i had nothing to say to her. As a result, she verbally attacked me and called me names. I then lost myself and called her a c**t and she kicked me out of the house. I stayed outside waiting for my mother to pick me up, whom I had requested to do so because I could feel the outburst coming. After a minute or so, she came outside because i was talking to my girlfriend through the window and attacked me again. My girlfriend started reminding her that I had aspergers and telling her to back off because she knew that i just needed space. Her mother then decided it was a good idea to push me. Never a good idea to do that to an autistic person... I asked her in a very grizzly voice not to touch me. She clearly noticed that it was getting me worked up, so she started to poke and prod me in the chest repeatedly like a child. It took all the love I feel for my girlfriend not to push her down the stairs behind me. I instead screamed at her that you don't poke someone with aspergers. She told me I was using my disability as a crutch. She said I was using it to get out of my problems. I tried to walk away from the house and she followed me. I tried to get away and I couldn't. That woman is lucky I'm more in control than I was even a year ago and she's lucky my mother wasn't there. On the ride home my mom tried to calm me down and held my hand and made sure I knew that I was going to be okay. This happened yesterday and the woman has only gotten more angry and is trying to stop me and my girlfriend from seeing each-other. All I have to say to that is this: The b***h can try. We're both almost 18 and there will be nothing she can do. I'm sorry for telling the whole story, but I needed to vent and this gave me the opportunity. I'm a high-school dropout, but her school is very close to my home, so I plan to meet her after school every day I can. It'll be a hard year if her mother keeps nurturing this blooming vendetta. Please give your genuine opinion on who was primarily at fault, because I honestly don't know. Thanks for reading.
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May 2, 2017 06:52
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I hate it when I consider murdering my girlfriend because I'm autistic. Every goddamned Tuesday it's the same song and dance. Those stairs are just begging to be fallen down.
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May 2, 2017 07:10
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Pvt.Scott posted:I hate it when I consider murdering my girlfriend because I'm autistic. Every goddamned Tuesday it's the same song and dance. Those stairs are just begging to be fallen down. I think it was the girlfriend's mom thst he wanted to murder. I have such a hard time deriving an accurate understanding of an event based on the writings of a very autistic person though because they seem to have a hard time with where the story starts and what parts they should tell you.
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May 2, 2017 07:22
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Why are there suddenly so god drat many autistic people in america ahhhhhhhhhhh, i hear the word literally every day here oN SA
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Fartbox posted:Why are there suddenly so god drat many autistic people in america ahhhhhhhhhhh, i hear the word literally every day here oN SA *In a very grizzly voice* Some self identify, and being a victim is en vogue now. Maybe it's that? Lowtax actually was a visionary. GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 08:24 on May 2, 2017 |
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May 2, 2017 07:48
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therobit posted:I think it was the girlfriend's mom thst he wanted to murder. I have such a hard time deriving an accurate understanding of an event based on the writings of a very autistic person though because they seem to have a hard time with where the story starts and what parts they should tell you. Oh, yep. You got it right.
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My gf of one year [32 F] won't take my [32 M] last name if we get married.OP posted:She said that she will not take my name if we get married, and she will not have a different name than her future children. She has no problem changing her name, the problem is she doesn't like my name. I am proud of my name, and though I don't care if she takes my name or not, I refuse to father children that dont take my name. I will not change my name. quote:double barrel the kids names? OP posted:Double barreling the kids names would make them different than hers, and thus the same problem remains. An unstoppable force meeting an immovable object, both made of loving dumb The obvious answer is to both change their last name to Pnurtis
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quote:I refuse to father children that dont take my name.  Okay, Mr. Caveman, we're all impressed, now just drop it and let her have the name thing.
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May 2, 2017 10:16
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:you better not loving forget the teddybears Even the TV can't bear to look.
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This is a fun one! Just found out that my[23/m] girlfriend[21/f] has been muttering swear words to me in her native language every time she was annoyed with me or we fought. quote:My gf and I have been together for a year. Great relationship, she's smart, beautiful, funny, kind, etc. A few arguments here and there but nothing earth shattering. I am from the US and she is studying here, but she is originally from a country in Asia. A few months into our relationship, i would notice that every time she was upset with me or we were in the middle of an argument, she would randomly start muttering / shouting these phrases in her language. In the heat of the moment I wouldn't really acknowledge it but later when I asked her, she would say that sometimes when she's upset she forgets to switch to English and she's just saying things like "what did I tell you" or "I hate arguing" - pretty neutral phrases I guess one would say during an argument? To me, this would actually be pretty funny to find out, but I have a decently thick skin. Also, why wasn't this your first guess, dude? She only did it while you were fighting.
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May 2, 2017 10:22
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WampaLord posted:This is a fun one! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zf6vGLpAueQ
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May 2, 2017 10:34
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WampaLord posted:
Eh, they're both being dumb because they have the same stance on that. "she will not have a different name than her future children". It's one of the weird consequences of not having the same last name and it's up to the couple to figure out a solution since there are advantages and. disadvantages to all the options. But if neither of them are willing to budge I'm not sure what they can do.
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Barudak posted:Short Answer: No I know this is basically a dad joke but it never fails to make me laugh.
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WampaLord posted:This is a fun one! Hahahahahaha my Filipino friend's parents speak Tagalog, but she doesn't (much). She recently translated online what her parents would always shout at each other when they fall out, for a long as she could remember - putang imo mo. It means "your mother's a whore'".
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May 2, 2017 12:30
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Barudak posted:It wasn't your violent nature that scared me, it was your room, your empty heart. There wasn't anything in your room -- only a bed and a small desk. It looked like a prison cell. No television set, no family pictures, not even a poster. A lifeless room... almost like your empty heart.  for this, btw.
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May 2, 2017 12:31
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Pick posted:Elsa you two timing bastard, how can you keep sending me PMs asking me to marry you and then be jerking off to one of my best friends !!! I can't help it you're both awesome and it's not that hard to type with one hand wait was I probated
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May 2, 2017 13:11
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oh okay last night is coming back to me it was dark and there was alcohol and I woke up in someone else's bed
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Who the hell let you out of your cage so early?
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May 2, 2017 13:29
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Elsa posted:oh okay last night is coming back to me it was dark and there was alcohol and I woke up in someone else's bed Were you covered in blood and chicken feathers?
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Danaru posted:My gf of one year [32 F] won't take my [32 M] last name if we get married. Yeah they need to hyphenate the kids names or her name. It doesn't really matter which . Otherwise whichever parent has a non matching last name is gonna have a load of administrative headaches every time they go to the doctor's office, the school, etc. Having the names match doea actually matter in terms of not being questioned about your relationship to the kids. Really though they are both unreasonable and should split now before they get into the hard stuff because if they can't figure out hyphenating the kids' last names then they are doomed.
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My [38/F] wife [38/M] change her mind on adoption. She said a bunch of mean/hurtful things about it to me. I am seriously worried about how this will affect our relationship.quote:My wife and I have been together 19 years, married 12 years and we have two daughters, aged 6 and 4. What should he do? 
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Yeah my mom kept her maiden name and hyphenated her kids' names. It's always been a total pain in the rear end, I'm going the traditional route if I get married.
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La Brea Carpet posted:My [38/F] wife [38/M] change her mind on adoption. She said a bunch of mean/hurtful things about it to me. I am seriously worried about how this will affect our relationship. Have a public conversation on facebook with his adopted brother about how he thinks his wife's 38 year old womb is probably now riddled with the possibility of autism and he's going to go get a vasectomy.
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