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DragQueenofAngmar posted:we need a palette cleanser, have a story with at least one genuinely good human being in it Too be fair he could easily gain custody of those two girls. I know people think that there's a bias against single men looking after girls but that rarely translates to legal cases. I mean the grandma would probably sign them over at the drop of a hat since she seems like a slimeball but even if she fought him I bet he could easily win since he's basically got all of the key elements human services and child welfare look for when relocating kids.
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More proof that religion fucks people up: My [28m] fiancee [24f] wants to combine our bank accounts into one to make budgeting for the wedding easier. I feel like she is jumping the gun. quote:Hi everyone and thanks for taking the time to read.
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May 3, 2017 09:16
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Anony Mouse posted:Make up your mind dude. Is it "we" who have decided to wait until marriage, or are you a sex starved 28 year old virgin lunatic who resents your fiancee for not putting out? Hmm... Like she's so in the wrong it practically reads like stdh.txt meant to bait other subforums. e: where is the thread? I wanna read the comments.
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May 3, 2017 09:33
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found it lolquote:For example (we live in a smallish town by the way) every third Saturday there is a huge roundup - basically a big block party. There is a guy she has had sex with in the past who is now married and now religious and he and his wife have a family.
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May 3, 2017 09:39
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Screwing that guys wife is the only way to even things up.
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May 3, 2017 10:05
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ArbitraryC posted:found it lol I hope this guy has watched enough tawdry Investigation Discovery shows to know how this all ends.
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May 3, 2017 14:07
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Just laugh at the 28yo virgin imo
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May 3, 2017 14:10
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ArbitraryC posted:found it lol lol I was on her side mostly in the OP, since he doesn't get to complain about the no sex thing since it's his thing too. Joining bank accounts would make wedding planning way easier if she's doing most of the planning. Having to either have him come along or wait to get a check from him is annoying and if they're going to join finances after anyways it doesn't really matter. But then there's that, which reads an awful lot like she's cheating on him.
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May 3, 2017 14:09
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How would it make it easier? She has no job. I don't understand these grown adults that aren't in school and don't have kids, yet don't work.
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May 3, 2017 14:23
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ArbitraryC posted:I wasn't talking about power of attorney I was talking about the two kids living with the parent who physically abused them in the first place. Presumably she was not born as a 24 year old (not sure if you knew). So your reading skills do suck rear end then because it says in the post the abuse didn't start right away. Try to sarcasm only when you've read something properly.
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May 3, 2017 14:26
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El Estrago Bonito posted:Too be fair he could easily gain custody of those two girls. I know people think that there's a bias against single men looking after girls but that rarely translates to legal cases. I mean the grandma would probably sign them over at the drop of a hat since she seems like a slimeball but even if she fought him I bet he could easily win since he's basically got all of the key elements human services and child welfare look for when relocating kids. I hope so, I hope there's a heartwarming update
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May 3, 2017 14:45
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Leon Einstein posted:How would it make it easier? She has no job. Mooching is incredible, and its why you have to try and marry rich.
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Blue Train posted:Just laugh at the 28yo virgin imo I keep running across posts in r/relationships and r/sex where super old virgins come in asking if they're normal, and everyone is always like "no big deal! Everyone matures differently!" And I'm just like no. NO. NO. NO. If I had encountered late virgin when I was single I would have run for the hills. Even terrible people and autists and ham planets can get their bits touched these days.
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May 3, 2017 14:52
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Bamabalacha posted:I keep running across posts in r/relationships and r/sex where super old virgins come in asking if they're normal, and everyone is always like "no big deal! Everyone matures differently!" I dunno, I had a friend who was ripped to gently caress and not terrible looking and he remained a virgin till 25 despite being perfectly normal in every other respect. Sometimes life is weird.
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May 3, 2017 14:55
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therobit posted:You can't do it after the fact. If they have established power of attorney on the account, then anything the person with POA does while it is in force is essentially the same as if you had done it. Since she said she has given her mother POA over all of her accounts, then I am assuming this was done with a trip to the bank with her and her mother, not an external legal document. If her mother has a legal power of attorney document for her then then it will be a lot harder to untangle. If it is just with her bank(s) then she just needs to go in and say "please remove this POA." Either way the money is gone and she isn't getting it back. I don't think this is entirely true. A person with Power of Attorney is legally obligated to only act in the best interests of the other party, it's not a blank check to do whatever the gently caress you like with another person's money. IANAL but I would imagine that unless the mother could prove she transferred that $15K exclusively for her daughters benefit, then she's committed theft and could be legally forced to return it.
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May 3, 2017 14:57
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Leon Einstein posted:How would it make it easier? She has no job. I'm assuming here that she's doing most of the wedding planning and he's paying for most of the wedding since that's her stated reason for wanting to join finances early. It's easier because she can just write a check to a vendor instead of having to have him with her or wait to get home, have him write one and mail it out. I don't understand adult moochers either, but since that didn't seem to be his problem I didn't want to get into it.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:It seems the 4th iteration has control over russia again. mind blown
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May 3, 2017 15:13
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Girlfriend (22F) asks me point blank if I'm less attracted to her because she put on weight. Do I (23F) lie? What should I say?quote:We've been together almost 2 years. All of the comments are saying to tell her she's less attracted now and she'll appreciate the honesty 
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May 3, 2017 15:17
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Ouhei posted:I don't understand adult moochers either, but since that didn't seem to be his problem I didn't want to get into it.
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May 3, 2017 15:21
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Tender Bender posted:Girlfriend (22F) asks me point blank if I'm less attracted to her because she put on weight. Do I (23F) lie? What should I say? hahahahahahaha
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May 3, 2017 15:28
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Tender Bender posted:Girlfriend (22F) asks me point blank if I'm less attracted to her because she put on weight. Do I (23F) lie? What should I say? Come on post the update where you followed the advice.
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May 3, 2017 15:28
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Anony Mouse posted:[Guy who is bitter about fiance having sex, wanting joint accounts, and running off with an ex lover] Wow. Is it "burying the lede" if it's just ledes all the way down? Drunk Nerds fucked around with this message at 15:33 on May 3, 2017 |
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May 3, 2017 15:29
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WoodrowSkillson posted:hahahahahahaha Tender Bender posted:Girlfriend (22F) asks me point blank if I'm less attracted to her because she put on weight. Do I (23F) lie? What should I say? Get out, seriously?  that's sabotage
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May 3, 2017 15:36
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Drunk Nerds posted:Wow. Is it "burying the lede" if it's just ledes all the way down? You're burying ledes under ledes, so yes
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A part of me derives some kind of cosmic schadenfreudic pleasure that gay people are now free enough to love who they wish, and are normalized enough that they can fall into a million of the same identical loving traps that straight people have been dealing with forever. It's just so painfully normal that this is happening to this woman that it somehow is reassuring.
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May 3, 2017 15:41
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Leon Einstein posted:That's exactly his problem though; he doesn't want to share his money with her. Then he shouldn't be marrying a grown rear end woman that has no job/money of her own and gets all of "her" money from her parents. What exactly did he expect to happen after they got married? I mean, I can't say I blame anyone for not wanting to join themselves forever with someone that doesn't have a job and doesn't seem to ever want one, but that situation has been the same while they've been together and he proposed/wants to be with her anyways.
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scamming adult virgins by telling them you're born again so you can avoid ever touching them until after you've talked them into merging finances and milked them dry is incredible the fact that she's still loving her ex and straight-up telling him "if you weren't such a loving loser you'd see this is actually normal and fine" and he loving accepts that is next-level
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Ouhei posted:Then he shouldn't be marrying a grown rear end woman that has no job/money of her own and gets all of "her" money from her parents. What exactly did he expect to happen after they got married? why, given what is shown in the OP, are you expecting dude's life plan to be any more involved than no sex --> marry first girl who'll talk to him --> the Rapture My [37M] son [16M] "superkicked" my nephew [11M] and knocked 2 of his teeth out. My sister [34F] is demanding I pay the dental bill. I don't have the money. quote:I understand completely where my sister is coming from. My son has been grounded for that stupid prank. I wanted to post this earlier, but decided to wait until I spoke to my sister again. lol gee I wonder where the kid gets it from A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 15:56 on May 3, 2017 |
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May 3, 2017 15:51
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So no insurance on the car? Great life choices, mom!
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May 3, 2017 15:58
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kicked him in the mouth by mistake.
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WoodrowSkillson posted:A part of me derives some kind of cosmic schadenfreudic pleasure that gay people are now free enough to love who they wish, and are normalized enough that they can fall into a million of the same identical loving traps that straight people have been dealing with forever. Ok I'm embarrassed that I didn't even notice they were both women  I've definitely bookmarked that one, can't wait for the update.
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May 3, 2017 16:02
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Heteronormativity bad itt
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:kicked him in the mouth by mistake. He meant to take out an eye, not teeth.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:why, given what is shown in the OP, are you expecting dude's life plan to be any more involved than no sex --> marry first girl who'll talk to him --> the Rapture I'm not. I'm just pointing out that this woman having access to his bank bank account/money is the logical conclusion for their relationship and has been obvious from the get go. That he would be okay with it after they're married but not while they're engaged and planning their wedding is a hilariously weird line to draw. Him equating it out to sex is also hilarious because assuming he really buys into the no sex before marriage thing, it's not comparable at all. To be clear: I think he's a big dumb dumb that's not actually okay with the fact that his wife has had sex before and clearly never thought about the reality of his wife having no money/income of her own. She's more than likely sleeping with her ex and is thus a terrible person.
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May 3, 2017 16:08
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I honestly blame the dudes super hosed up logic on wanting to find a way to mentally make it ok to break it off with his fiance without admitting that she is constantly cheating on him.
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Ouhei posted:I'm not. I'm just pointing out that this woman having access to his bank bank account/money is the logical conclusion for their relationship and has been obvious from the get go. That he would be okay with it after they're married but not while they're engaged and planning their wedding is a hilariously weird line to draw. Him equating it out to sex is also hilarious because assuming he really buys into the no sex before marriage thing, it's not comparable at all. no but see a wife's duty is to obey so once they're hitched he can just tell her to get a job and she'll do it and God will make sure it's a really good one
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:kicked him in the mouth by mistake. A common mistake sixteen year olds make with eleven year olds.
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May 3, 2017 16:13
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Ouhei posted:I'm not. I'm just pointing out that this woman having access to his bank bank account/money is the logical conclusion for their relationship and has been obvious from the get go. That he would be okay with it after they're married but not while they're engaged and planning their wedding is a hilariously weird line to draw. Him equating it out to sex is also hilarious because assuming he really buys into the no sex before marriage thing, it's not comparable at all. He doesn't mind giving her money if he's getting laid. This is a common attitude.
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I was like 100 pages behind and skipped to the current page, if I skipped any good stories let me know Wife [37F] told me that she slept with another woman, am I [37M] an idiot for being angry? quote:Married for 8 years, with two beautiful kids, we've had our ups and lots of downs. My wife is semi-bi and we've joked about (but never acted on) introducing a third into our sex life. Fast forward this weekend, she goes out with a (girl) friend who happens to be in an open marriage, They both come home drunk and wake me to convince me to come down and drink. I decline (it was my turn to get up for the kids), and go back to sleep. Wake at 5, realize the wife is not in bed, go downstairs and see that she left a note saying that they both went out again. I initially thought it strange given that the pubs and nightclubs around us close very early but didn't give it another thought. Anyway, next morning we have a movie date and babysitter for the kids, she comes home (telling me that she end up crashing at her friend's house) we walk to the movies, and on the way, she drops the bomb that she slept with her friend (the way she dropped it was strange, almost as though she found it funny)
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