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Pick posted:Then why do you post here? I'm trying to substitute for a love my parents were never able to express towards me, what's your excuse I have ADHD and a job that gives me the time to peruse the poo poo posting, what about you, hmmmm? I'm joking, you've been knocking out of the park lately 🤗
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fruit on the bottom posted:Wow go gently caress your self I spent a lot of time at my desk coming up with that rhyme instead of doing my job. A for effort
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May 9, 2017 22:07
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If Pick was serious, the answer would be, "when you self-select relationships on the basis of [factors] over genuine, unforced compatibility, friendship, and attraction you have doomed them to emotional turmoil and failure from the outset. This is because [factors] are a flawed proxy for self-esteem and self actualization - your full self - and no relationship can ever truly flourish if only part of a person is participating. Two half-flawed people don't make a whole - two whole people make a healthy relationship. Some introspection and reflection will do you some good."
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May 9, 2017 22:17
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If anyone talks poo poo about cats I will kick their rear end. My sweet baby Drew is a good boy.
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May 9, 2017 22:19
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Pick should post a thread in E/N. Or Reddit.
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May 9, 2017 22:19
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oh I thought you were fully aware of what happened (he's a misanthrope that spent all day coming up with ways to be dismissive of people) and just posting funny stories maybe try a dog. They're a lot like people, except a hungry one won't bite you for feeding it.
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blarzgh posted:If Pick was serious, the answer would be, "when you self-select relationships on the basis of [factors] over genuine, unforced compatibility, friendship, and attraction you have doomed them to emotional turmoil and failure from the outset. This is because [factors] are a flawed proxy for self-esteem and self actualization - your full self - and no relationship can ever truly flourish if only part of a person is participating. Two half-flawed people don't make a whole - two whole people make a healthy relationship. In all seriousness, half of it is irrelevant because he and I are done with each other. The other half is that it was a good experience because it basically taught me a lot about myself and how I continually beat my head over unwinnable scenarios over and over because I have mental problems owing to my upbringing. The only way forward is to try to be a person and not a storybook character or god forbid a martyr.
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Pick posted:In all seriousness, half of it is irrelevant because he and I are done with each other. The other half is that it was a good experience because it basically taught me a lot about myself and how I continually beat my head over unwinnable scenarios over and over because I have mental problems owing to my upbringing. The only way forward is to try to be a person and not a storybook character or god forbid a martyr. Good on you.
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May 9, 2017 22:22
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Pick posted:In all seriousness, half of it is irrelevant because he and I are done with each other. The other half is that it was a good experience because it basically taught me a lot about myself and how I continually beat my head over unwinnable scenarios over and over because I have mental problems owing to my upbringing. The only way forward is to try to be a person and not a storybook character or god forbid a martyr. Good on you Pick. Also isn't one of your parents some flavor of autist? I can see how that would incredibly negatively influence someone going forward.
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May 9, 2017 22:27
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If you only ever know conditional love, the concept of unconditional love seems like something to test and push and try to break. To check and see if its actually conditional. Love can be unconditional; a relationship can't.
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May 9, 2017 22:31
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Blue Train posted:A for effort Well I appreciate it. I can't take back the "go gently caress your self" though or I will appear weak in the eyes of my crew. You understand, of course.
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May 9, 2017 22:32
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My (26/M) girlfriend's (23/F) lovebird, who she lets eat off our plates and doesn't keep in a cage, is ruining our relationship.quote:Oh how I wish this post were a joke.
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May 9, 2017 22:33
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Pick this is your future, don't fight it.
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May 9, 2017 22:36
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Bamabalacha posted:Good on you Pick. Yep, my dad, and in fact he was way too much like my dad, to the degree that at a certain point it started to make me feel gross and weird anyway.
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May 9, 2017 22:38
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Three Olives posted:Pick this is your future, don't fight it. If we could all be so lucky.
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May 9, 2017 22:39
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blarzgh posted:If you only ever know conditional love, the concept of unconditional love seems like something to test and push and try to break. To check and see if its actually conditional. all love is conditional tho
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May 9, 2017 22:39
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Nazzadan posted:My (26/M) girlfriend's (23/F) lovebird, who she lets eat off our plates and doesn't keep in a cage, is ruining our relationship. Sounds like it's time for: Bird, it's what's for dinner.
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May 9, 2017 22:39
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Nazzadan posted:My (26/M) girlfriend's (23/F) lovebird, who she lets eat off our plates and doesn't keep in a cage, is ruining our relationship. Sorry Tendai and HIAC, but birds are... terrible pets...
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May 9, 2017 22:41
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Captain Yossarian posted:If anyone talks poo poo about cats I will kick their rear end. My sweet baby Drew is a good boy. My cat's pretty much like a dog in the friendliness factor. She's a good cat.
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May 9, 2017 22:41
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Nazzadan posted:My (26/M) girlfriend's (23/F) lovebird, who she lets eat off our plates and doesn't keep in a cage, is ruining our relationship. I would be reenacting the bird scene from nightmare on elm street 2 after five minutes
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May 9, 2017 22:44
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Three Olives posted:Pick this is your future, don't fight it. she looks happy and that cat is awesome
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May 9, 2017 22:50
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pick how old are you anyway ive read almost this entire thread from the beginning and im trying to figure out if you're just old enough that you've had time to accidentally run into weird people or if youve just been around weird broken people since you were born, you're either 26 or 40 and i cant tell
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May 9, 2017 22:55
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Thumbtacks posted:youve just been around weird broken people since you were born, you're either 26 or 40 and i cant tell portland massively accelerates this from what I understand tbf
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May 9, 2017 23:01
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Pick is gonna end up like the last few pages of Neverwhere, surrounded by normies and discontent, so she runs off into the Fairy Underground and hooks up with a troll that only speaks in rhyming couplets. they spend their days under a bridge, harassing wayward goats, happy and handfasted as gently caress. edit- y'all judge but at least she's open about being broken. if y'all shitflingers could get your cack-hands of your dick's keyboard for half a loving second you might realize the howling void inside you can only be silenced by love and empathy, and loving huge amounts of weed.
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May 9, 2017 23:07
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Pick if this is what your twenties are like then you're not gonna like your thirties because people just get progressively more petty and autistic with age.
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May 9, 2017 23:09
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Pick is a treasure and her stories of awkward men hiding under trucks to not have sex are joyful.
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May 9, 2017 23:11
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Pick posted:Like isn't the dream of deeply embittered strange-looking shy guys that an attractive, well-mannered, fiscally responsible blonde with a big heart and even bigger boobs shows up and is endlessly patient and supportive and loving and that he learns to love again?? Why was he just a dick instead? That's a dream of maladjusted idiots who want it, but wouldn't take it if it were right in front of them because when faced with actually having to bring satisfaction to another person's life they realize they're out of their depth and that call of duty is easier. Patience and love are almost infinitely available resources and are better spent on people who can return them in kind rather than brainfucked Sherlock wannabes.
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May 9, 2017 23:15
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Panfilo posted:Pick if this is what your twenties are like then you're not gonna like your thirties because people just get progressively more petty and autistic with age. tbf hugh was not like this ten years ago so there was some "woah horky poo poo" time devoted to realizing that he had changed in a bad way and was not gonna change back
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My [26F] boyfriend [27M] often uses the "If that was a woman instead of a man..." critique in random scenarios and I don't know why it bugs me.quote:relationshipsRelationships
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May 9, 2017 23:22
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Pick posted:tbf hugh was not like this ten years ago so there was some "woah horky poo poo" time devoted to realizing that he had changed in a bad way and was not gonna change back Yeah but just think about how him and others like him are going to be another ten years down the line at this rate.
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:My [26F] boyfriend [27M] often uses the "If that was a woman instead of a man..." critique in random scenarios and I don't know why it bugs me. He jelly
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May 9, 2017 23:23
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purple death ray posted:I love reading about Pick's hosed up life she's like the ms havisham of gbs but with a face down painting and trash cupcakes instead of ancient wedding lace and a moldering cake I feel like I should post this again
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May 9, 2017 23:25
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:My [26F] boyfriend [27M] often uses the "If that was a woman instead of a man..." critique in random scenarios and I don't know why it bugs me. Imagine being a guidance counselor telling a kid this is what the aptitude test said their career should be.
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Girl Trouble: Help me stop making a fool of myselfquote:I met a beautiful girl at an all night coffee bar, she took me home that night and introduced me to lesbian sexuality. I'm 5'4 250 lbs and she's 5'0 120 lbs. I feel massive compared to her sometimes. Anyways, I digress. A happy ending at least.
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May 9, 2017 23:28
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dudeness posted:I'm 5'4 250 lbs Lol
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May 9, 2017 23:33
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I [27f]was out on a girls night and was innocently flirting pretty hard with the bar tender. My fiances (28m) of 5 years brother (30sM) saw me and reported it back to him. Now things are so cold between us, maybe even breaking up and I want things back to normal. How?quote:Hello everyone. All names are fake... After I innocently hugged him, innocently got his contact deets, innocently flashed him, and innocently hugged him, I innocently gave him some head.
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May 9, 2017 23:34
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I feel massive compared to this girl, and I'm only twice her size. What's the deal?
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She can still do better than the otherkin
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