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Thumbtacks posted:this is amazing Buddy, if he tells you there can only be one he is not being romantic, he is being very, very literal Pick posted:yeah me either. for shame barudak, there should be posting sumptuary laws to prevent such manipulative slummery. Scholarships, mon frere. Barudak fucked around with this message at 22:50 on May 16, 2017 |
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they're both men im not gay so i dont know the gay secrets but is stonehenge like a secret gay charging station or something
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May 16, 2017 22:49
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Well I mean if they both go there will be a quickening so yeah, its like the gayest you can get.
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May 16, 2017 22:51
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Thumbtacks posted:this is amazing go charge crystals with your boyfriend jeez dudeness posted:Me [27 M] with my girlfriend [21F] one year: She accused me of kink-shaming for finding furry art funny and is still mad, what do I do? it's sort of reassuring to know that even these people find each other unbearable
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May 16, 2017 22:52
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Thumbtacks posted:this is amazing Just loving take gamer goku to Stonehenge you weird guy
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May 16, 2017 22:53
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I Was The Fury posted:Just loving take gamer goku to Stonehenge you weird lady there is no lady
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May 16, 2017 22:53
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honestly how can you refuse that? i would take that guy to stonehenge right now if i was dating him, i just desperately want to see "powering up"
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May 16, 2017 22:54
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Pick posted:there is no lady I have edited out my mistake. Please stop calling attention to my mistakes, you are shaming something about me and it hurts
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May 16, 2017 22:54
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im imagining this poor gamer boy watching his scottish boyfriend in a kilt stand directly in the middle of stonehenge, create a salt circle around him inscribed with celtic runes, and then goku screaming for 20 minutes until he passes out
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May 16, 2017 22:55
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I say young man, go to stonehendge and rock that dragon.
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May 16, 2017 22:56
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Thumbtacks posted:i'm wracking my brain trying to think of "outside-the-mainstream kinks" that build a sense of intimacy but is so weird that she refuses to elaborate but also doesn't think it's that big of a deal she wants to look at lots and lots of weird porn and not have actual icky gross sex with sweaty humans that have pores and non-canid dicks you know, asexual
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May 16, 2017 22:57
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Thumbtacks posted:this is amazing Uh she needs to go because clearly this dude is loving Goku and we need a savior.
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May 16, 2017 22:57
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MF_James posted:Uh she needs to go because clearly this dude is loving Goku and we need a savior. god drat!!!!!!!
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May 16, 2017 22:57
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Its just not cannon for Goku to date a dude, so were all thrown for a loop by these new changes Super introduced.
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May 16, 2017 23:00
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This is almost certainly happening because the sweater is somehow pinching the back of the cat's neck! They get picked up by the scruff as kittens (their mother picks them up with her mouth and it's adorable) and the reflex to go rigid and not move sometimes persists into adulthood  (emphasis on "sometimes" - vets handle all cats that way because sometimes it works and even if not you have a good grasp on them, and it's a common myth that it literally always works but it just makes some cats more anxious and who can blame them)
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May 16, 2017 23:03
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someone on reddit suggested he's planning on "charging his druid crystals" which doesnt seem to be a thing
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Now that I know it is a man preventing Goku from powering up at Stonehenge I have to agree with Pick. Men... are garbage
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May 16, 2017 23:04
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DACK FAYDEN posted:This is almost certainly happening because the sweater is somehow pinching the back of the cat's neck! They get picked up by the scruff as kittens (their mother picks them up with her mouth and it's adorable) and the reflex to go rigid and not move sometimes persists into adulthood Some cats also certainly do this just as a function of being harnessed, including harnesses that aren't around the neck. I think it's adorable.
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May 16, 2017 23:04
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Tale as old as time... No no no, the other tale as old as time. My BIL [27M] played a horrible prank on my husband [31M] who spent the night in jail quote:My husband, BIL, and I went to the beach this past weekend. We got a hotel room. My husband got way too drunk so I walked my husband to the hotel at 9:30PM. BIL is still at the bar.
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May 16, 2017 23:05
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DACK FAYDEN posted:This is almost certainly happening because the sweater is somehow pinching the back of the cat's neck! They get picked up by the scruff as kittens (their mother picks them up with her mouth and it's adorable) and the reflex to go rigid and not move sometimes persists into adulthood My cat has a harness which is handy for vet visits, because she is violently xenophobic towards any other cats and will try to murder them. She can stand and walk around perfectly fine but occasionally just falls over and won't get up. It doesn't touch her neck.
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May 16, 2017 23:11
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Haifisch posted:Tale as old as time... Posted and discussed within the last 10/15 pages.
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I think a lot of what he mentioned is going on. Also, girls tend to grow up a bit faster than boys, and middle/high schools are relatively small "ponds". So, teenage girls, becoming interested in boys before the boys themselves are interested, kind of are placed a bit in the role of "aggressor". I remember as an 8th grader being stopped in the hallway by a few girls who stood in my way and demanded that I hug them because I was "so cute". But that means that girls also become, on average, jaded and discerning earlier, so by the time both sexes are adults, the excitement and naivete has unfortunately disappeared for more girls than guys (at least it seems that way). It also depends on which men you are talking about. I know I don't speak for all aspies, but I am socially considerably "younger" than my actual years, and the gap grows wider every year. I was late even for a guy getting interested in girls, plus I had other issues going on, so I didn't take part in the high school boy/girlfriend "game". Now even in my early 30s I don't feel like an adult yet in terms of what I want from a relationship. Both sexes, it seems, get less friendly as they grow up and get more serious--plus they seem to have a lower and lower tolerance for any perceived immaturity. They seem to lose the desire to just get to know random people, and only want to get to know people who will help them get ahead in some way (I know this is a generalization). You'd think in some ways this could help aspies, since we tend to know earlier on what our real interests are and don't get involved in a lot of the immature teenage social posturing. But for someone like myself who expects the romanticized view of relationships and openness of a teenager, because that's where I'm at, the adult social scene often seems very rejecting, even when people really want to be nice. Of course, this feeling of rejection only makes the gap widen. This is exactly why I strongly prefer (read: almost require) that girls I date ARE just starting out in the dating world/are just discovering boys. It's not because of some religious purity notions, not because of a "whore-madonna dichotomy", or whatever else people might think the reason is. It's exactly because I want to learn WITH someone, not FROM someone (about romance and sex, that is). With a girl for whom it's "not her first rodeo", as you put it, even if she were to seem head over heels into me, there's this sense of missed opportunity, this sense that whatever I learn from her about what relationships are about, I'm not getting the same opportunity to explore that I'd get with another person who is just starting out in the world of getting to know the opposite sex. Granted, there also has to be attraction there. I have been sexually involved with two girls who I thought were very unattractive, primarily because they were at this same place. Neither had kissed a guy before, they both wondered what having a boyfriend was like. However, not feeling attraction toward them, they didn't end up helping me develop and answer what I wanted answered, namely how do I relate to a girl with whom I actually have romantic feelings. That's what sometimes feels hopeless--to find a girl out there who's attractive to me, yet who hasn't previously found mutual attraction with enough other guys to pass through this developmental process. I feel like if I were still in high school, I'd have a much better chance at that.
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Date a religious woman? That likely wouldn't work for several reasons. First, I don't believe in any form of religion, and I feel that their religious views would creep into their value system in other ways too that are incompatible with mine. This has been my experience with religious guys, like it's hard to debate certain things with them because these moral opinions come from "just so stories" rather than from anything I can actually understand. Secondly, many religious people, even if virgins, have relationships that are emotionally as intimate as sexual relationships, and even might be considered dating. Not all, but enough that many of them still, I feel, "grew up" interpersonally and romantically-speaking. That's why you hear of virgins marrying the first person with whom they have a relationship. Thirdly, I feel that there are other ways in which I am out of sync with most adults (including adult women) than just having not dated. Like, adults tend to be significantly less "hyper" than kids and teens--there's a difference in the general "energy" one gets from them. I feel like around adults I get restless because they expect a cool calmness that just isn't me. I've actually thought of dating ADHD girls for this reason.There's also the fading of imagination--adults seem less able or willing to live in a world of vivid fantasy, which is one of the main things I want a girlfriend for. It's like when people are kids and have the imagination they tend not to have the intellectual sophistication to make anything out of it, whereas as adults they have the knowledge but less capacity to be original (aside from some artists, that is). The women I've been attracted to since high school were anywhere from 19-mid 20s in age, but still had these traits, and that was a big part of what made them attractive. So I really think that an "outsider artist" type of girl is my best bet. Something along the lines of a female Henry Darger ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Henry_Darger ), but maybe not quite as reclusive, who combines innocence and a kind of naively optimistic worldview about relationships and everything with sophisticated thinking. It's obviously hard to find, and in fact the last girl I tried to date was low-functioning to the point where it's possible she would have been mentally incompatible (turns out she didn't like me back anyway).
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Batterypowered7 posted:Posted and discussed within the last 10/15 pages.  Non-repost content: Don't stare into the abyss too long, or you might realize the people you know are sex weirds. Found out my [30F] colleague [31 M] is into BDSM and now our working relationship is strained. quote:One of my colleagues, who's also a friend, is apparently into being dominant in BDSM. He left his Facebook open while we were working together on a project on his computer, and a graphic FB message popped up. I only saw some of it, but it was enough.
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Pick posted:Date a religious woman? That likely wouldn't work for several reasons. First, I don't believe in any form of religion, and I feel that their religious views would creep into their value system in other ways too that are incompatible with mine. This has been my experience with religious guys, like it's hard to debate certain things with them because these moral opinions come from "just so stories" rather than from anything I can actually understand. lmao no loving way
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Thumbtacks posted:someone on reddit suggested he's planning on "charging his druid crystals" which doesnt seem to be a thing You do know about the JO crystal thing, right?
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Gloryhold It! posted:You do know about the JO crystal thing, right? sadly yes i'm well aware but let's pretend i'm not because i haven't read that in a long time and it always makes me laugh, someone link it im just not sure if that was a reference to JO crystals or if that person thought "druid crystals" were a thing
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Wife [28F] doesn't want me [30M] to play DOOM around our [5M] sonquote:Hi there, Haifisch fucked around with this message at 23:31 on May 16, 2017 |
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May 16, 2017 23:29
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I'm sure there's plenty of female Henry Dargers in prison. What is it with dudes wanting to date naive optimists instead of pessimistic cynics? They're gonna end up there anyway, might as well get em pre-jaded.
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May 16, 2017 23:34
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dudeness posted:What is it with dudes wanting to date naive optimists instead of pessimistic cynics? They're gonna end up there anyway, might as well get em pre-jaded.
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May 16, 2017 23:35
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May 16, 2017 23:36
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Haifisch posted:I read enough of the past few pages I figured it wasn't posted, but apparently not that far back. I like this one because this person is so naively logical theyre struggling to understand how a person wouldnt be worried about having a flat tire if they drive home naked. Its like a toddler trying to figure out why people have jobs.
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dudeness posted:What is it with dudes wanting to date naive optimists instead of pessimistic cynics? They're gonna end up there anyway, might as well get em pre-jaded. what is even the point of dating if you don't get to personally destroy their faith in humanity?
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May 16, 2017 23:41
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Haifisch posted:Wife [28F] doesn't want me [30M] to play DOOM around our [5M] son  play Doom.
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Haifisch posted:Wife [28F] doesn't want me [30M] to play DOOM around our [5M] son Billy, you may not remember everything I tell you, so if you take anything away from our time together I want you to remember to Rip and Tear.
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maskenfreiheit posted:In all seriousness, FAFSA assumes parental support. If your parents won't contribute AND declare you on your taxes, it can be a really hard process to get emancipated or whatever the legal process of declaring "my parents are assholes" is. FAFSA uses your parents' income until you are 26 years of age, unless that has changed. So if you do the "American bootstraps," ritual of getting thrown out of your house at 18 and you need financial aid, you're either looking for Federal or private loans, working for 8 years and then going to school, doing a four year stint in the military so the GI Bill will pay for school, taking twice as long to get your degree while you work full-time and do school half-time, or getting all of the scholarships. I'm sure there's plenty of other options, too. College is a giant trap of a money pit these days for most people who attend college anyway, so it'd be best if getting loans were harder.
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dudeness posted:I'm sure there's plenty of female Henry Dargers in prison. they want to date children because they are pedos and because mentally they are still in highschool
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:I had a poo poo load of debt, zero support, and managed to fund everything without blowing the elderly. You would have had a much easier time if you had.
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Pvt.Scott posted:FAFSA uses your parents' income until you are 26 years of age, unless that has changed. So if you do the "American bootstraps," ritual of getting thrown out of your house at 18 and you need financial aid, you're either looking for Federal or private loans, working for 8 years and then going to school, doing a four year stint in the military so the GI Bill will pay for school, taking twice as long to get your degree while you work full-time and do school half-time, or getting all of the scholarships. I'm sure there's plenty of other options, too. College is a giant trap of a money pit these days for most people who attend college anyway, so it'd be best if getting loans were harder. The age for FAFSA independence is 24 actually (unless it has changed, which it might have)
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