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when you think about it, doing paperwork you don't actually want to (FAFSA) in exchange for money is like, totally prostitution... intellectually. *hits bong*
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depending on how much of a bootstrap gently caress the father is fafsa may not have been a great option either
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:00 |
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purple death ray posted:illiterate dick suckin strawman that's an excellent username.
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:01 |
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When to disclose my weird deal breakers when dating? (35F)quote:So...yeah, I'm weird when compared to the mainstream. I'm really quite comfy with that, but some of my 'quirks' would probably be major deal breakers when it comes to dating. The whole dating scene is new to me, so I'm not sure how one goes about putting stuff like this on the table. I really don't want to waste other people's time or my own, so do I just spew it all out? Here's some examples.. my kinks are: not going out with you, also not talking to you, also not having sex with you
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purple death ray posted:You should read things better, you're yelling at an illiterate dick suckin strawman that has nothing to do with the reality of the situation "strawwwww maaaaaan!" he cried, through a cloud of vape and body odor.
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Esoteric Scientist posted:When to disclose my weird deal breakers when dating? (35F) if she's also into sending me gifts im down
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Esoteric Scientist posted:When to disclose my weird deal breakers when dating? (35F) the humane society always needs to adopt out some more cats
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Esoteric Scientist posted:When to disclose my weird deal breakers when dating? (35F) i'm really curious what "I have a lot of outside-the-mainstream interests that fall under the general heading of kink" means because they don't address them and i'm so curious
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Esoteric Scientist posted:When to disclose my weird deal breakers when dating? (35F) what a shame, fanfic has erased the concept of platonic friendships from her mind
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Thumbtacks posted:i'm really curious what "I have a lot of outside-the-mainstream interests that fall under the general heading of kink" means because they don't address them and i'm so curious Betting diaper bdsm
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:08 |
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Thumbtacks posted:i'm really curious what "I have a lot of outside-the-mainstream interests that fall under the general heading of kink" means because they don't address them and i'm so curious Is it a "kink" if they don't have sex? Are nerds running out of regular words to co-opt and dilute the meaning of, and now they're cannibalizing their own vocabulary?
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Thumbtacks posted:i'm really curious what "I have a lot of outside-the-mainstream interests that fall under the general heading of kink" means because they don't address them and i'm so curious reading and writing about the supernatural dog dick universe
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:09 |
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Dunning Krugerrand posted:If you're under 26 you either have provide your parents info or you have to go through lot of bullshit to prove you're not dependent on them anymore. Proof of income and your own tax return to prove they're not providing for you.
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:12 |
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:12 |
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Found the thread.quote:For me, kink is entirely removed from sex or arousal and is more about building trust with a partner. For a pretty vanilla example, think of rope bondage. The goal could just be sexy fun times and for plenty of people that's all it is. But other people use it as a way to share an experience on an emotional level. People seem to be able to wrap their heads around it being either about sex OR about sex plus emotional intimacy. Well, if you can imagine removing the intimacy part and just enjoying the sexual aspects, then maybe that will help you imagine removing the sex and just enjoying the intimacy.
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:14 |
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tbh sometimes fandom stuff is great because people make real good poo poo like Coelasquid's Overwatch comic which admittedly is about a nice blonde person who makes friends trying to get a dark-haired person who is an rear end in a top hat to not be such a dick and aaaaaaaaaaaa nooooooooooooooooooo
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Thumbtacks posted:Found the thread. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zz9qNH8ofWI
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Thumbtacks posted:Found the thread. Ah yes, the old "extremely awkward and doesn't realize that other people like emotional intimacy too" style asexual
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Esoteric Scientist posted:When to disclose my weird deal breakers when dating? (35F) it uh just sounds like this poor woman wants someone to talk about her fanfiction with
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:18 |
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this girl is a loving enigma, i'm so confused so she has "outside the mainstream kinks" but also hates being touched, has no sexual urges or satisfaction from anything, is fine with their partner dating other people in case they need to get off she keeps referring to it as "that kink thing" too and refuses to elaborate and keeps referring to it as an aside
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:18 |
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i'm wracking my brain trying to think of "outside-the-mainstream kinks" that build a sense of intimacy but is so weird that she refuses to elaborate but also doesn't think it's that big of a deal it could be basically anything but considering she doesn't like people being around her all the time i really hope it's an adult baby thing because that just means she puts on a diaper and sits in her room and cries and refuses to let any partners get near her or talk to her because they'd smother her and she thinks that's what intimacy is
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Esoteric Scientist posted:When to disclose my weird deal breakers when dating? (35F) "SWF seeking nobody. Go away and please leave me alone."
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Thumbtacks posted:this girl is a loving enigma, i'm so confused Okay, seeing it put like that reminds me way too much of my ex
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:25 |
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She should just marry the first schlub who happens along and suffer through the dating and honeymoon phases of the relationship in order to get to the dead bedroom, mutual contempt phase she craves. E: her kink is writing never-erotic fan fiction about George Costanza's parents
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:25 |
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The asexuals I talked to on okcupid were all extremely promiscuous, based on what they told me. I didn't try to understand.
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i posted and asked her but i doubt i will get a response at all, i will keep you all posted
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:The asexuals I talked to on okcupid were all extremely promiscuous, based on what they told me. It's frequently used by people that aren't actually asexual
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Thumbtacks posted:i posted and asked her but i doubt i will get a response at all, i will keep you all posted doing the lord's work.
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:30 |
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"Haha, hey babe, crazy idea, what if I cohabitate with my ex that is openly jealous of you? It would be weird! If you say no you're a shallow bitch." My (18F) boyfriend (21M) of 3 months is trying to convince me to let him live with his ex (21F). Help. quote:Soooooooo this isn't a story you see everyday. No throwaway because my boyfriend knows I'm posting this. It's pretty much all there in the title but for some context I'll be referring to him as Jacob and his ex girlfriend as Sam.
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Pick posted:ayeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesexual Only can get in the mood on happy days?
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Improbable Lobster posted:It's frequently used by people that aren't actually asexual Oh yes, it's frequently used by people the absolute opposite of that to extremes.
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Me [27 M] with my girlfriend [21F] one year: She accused me of kink-shaming for finding furry art funny and is still mad, what do I do?quote:Hi reddit, was hoping for some insight into a current problem. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year now. It's a good relationship and we rarely argue. When we do it's usually short and we're quick to understand each other's sides and reach a compromise. Until today. *takes wood pipe out of mouth and points it at you*: actually, let.,me tell youa bout how sex wiht many women is for feminism. I've receivd many compliments about this.
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:36 |
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someone make a new r/incel or whiny men thread so we can focus this thread on wacky stuff like evil french aunts
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Pick posted:Do you seriously still have student loans? Aren't you like 30? Ive never had student loans, I just wanted to fit in like all the cool kids.
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Barudak posted:Ive never had student loans, I just wanted to fit in like all the cool kids. yeah me either. for shame barudak, there should be posting sumptuary laws to prevent such manipulative slummery.
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# ? May 16, 2017 22:40 |
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Esoteric Scientist posted:When to disclose my weird deal breakers when dating? (35F) Turns out I've been dating a lot of women
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dudeness posted:Me [27 M] with my girlfriend [21F] one year: She accused me of kink-shaming for finding furry art funny and is still mad, what do I do? I think for kink shaming to take place there has to be someone of that kink around to feel the shame. Obviously girlfriend is a secret Furry and felt personally attacked
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this is amazingquote:LDR Me [19M] with my Swedish boyfriend [26M] want to go to Stonehenge but I don't want to go. Thumbtacks fucked around with this message at 22:46 on May 16, 2017 |
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Pick posted:someone make a new r/incel or whiny men thread so we can focus this thread on wacky stuff like evil french aunts Whoever makes it should make sure to include these two links in the OP: https://vimeo.com/28466163 (Shy Boys IRL) and https://exposingfeminism.wordpress.com/shaming-tactics/
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