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I don't know, it does kind of feel like asexual people could feel like they're being picked on if they run across conversations like this?
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# ? May 20, 2017 16:32 |
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# ? May 14, 2024 07:43 |
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If you want to feel appreciated you should probably not post in gbs
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# ? May 20, 2017 16:33 |
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Pick: it does kind of feel like asexual people could feel like they're being picked on if they run across conversations like this? Somehow, also Pick: Never date people with aspergers, they ruin everyone they touch.
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# ? May 20, 2017 16:38 |
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I worked with an asexual guy during an internship in SF. He was pretty low key about it aside from being annoyed people continually found it weird he didn't want to bang his way across SF like most of the interns. Good guy, always down to check out a new restaurant. (Guess he had to get pleasure somehow)
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# ? May 20, 2017 16:38 |
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Pick posted:I don't know, it does kind of feel like asexual people could feel like they're being picked on if they run across conversations like this? Asexuals are the autists of the LGBTQ community i feel extremely compelled to say I'm joking
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# ? May 20, 2017 16:41 |
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I mean, I get that assexual people (self-described or not) can feel discriminated when people treat them like they need to be loving someone to be happy, but let's be honest, in the great scheme of things that is one of the most harmless things you can be possibly annoyed by. It is not like there are organized hate groups harrassing them or something. The poster who said they are the childfree of the sex world is perfectly on point and now Tumblr assexuals make a lot more sense to me.
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# ? May 20, 2017 16:45 |
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ZearothK posted:I mean, I get that assexual people (self-described or not) can feel discriminated when people treat them like they need to be loving someone to be happy, but let's be honest, in the great scheme of things that is one of the most harmless things you can be possibly annoyed by. It is not like there are organized hate groups harrassing them or something. you're welcome
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# ? May 20, 2017 16:49 |
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Im fine with asexuals but the ones who are only in straight relationships who keep trying to push themselves into lgbt spaces and say poo poo like I can totally call myself gay I'm ACE are the worst and I have run into many of them irl I have a mega low libido and could probably call myself some sort of asexual but that's mainly because of medication I take, I can't really identify at all with the community. I find it all very bizarre
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# ? May 20, 2017 16:56 |
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Troposphere posted:Im fine with asexuals but the ones who are only in straight relationships who keep trying to push themselves into lgbt spaces and say poo poo like I can totally call myself gay I'm ACE are the worst and I have run into many of them irl how do you handle that dating? do you find other low libido ppl or open up the relationship?
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# ? May 20, 2017 16:58 |
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Be goon, don't date
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:01 |
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I wonder if there is an equivalent for terfs for asexuals and those with low libido due to meds
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:01 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:how do you handle that dating? do you find other low libido ppl or open up the relationship? I'm not dating right now while I get my health under control which has been a four year struggle. when I do start dating again idk it's pretty easy to find other low sex drive lesbians from my experience haha
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:02 |
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Psycho Society posted:"I didn't think the memento of your dead sister you always keep on your desk was that important" I found one person who's like "well, you've said your sorry and that's all you can do" and everyone else jumped on that with "she doesn't sound sorry at all. Everything about her post is cold and insensitive Jesus loving Christ" So I think Reddit has this one handled onetwofee posted:You cleaned up but didn't bother to find the arm? OP posted:We tried, I'm sure it's around there somewhere. I'll look again, I hope. DaddyRocka posted:I don't think you tried very hard. Your entire posts and replies come off as not really giving a poo poo. Are you just looking for a way to get back in BFs good graces without actually caring?
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:07 |
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Troposphere posted:Im fine with asexuals but the ones who are only in straight relationships who keep trying to push themselves into lgbt spaces and say poo poo like I can totally call myself gay I'm ACE are the worst and I have run into many of them irl yeah, this also I've seen enough of them make jokes about LGBT people being oversexed and diseased that I tend not to sympathize with them being picked on, at least anymore
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:08 |
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I suppose it doesn't help that all the loudly self proclaimed asexuals and demisexual people I know have also very loudly and publicly been waaaay into gay erp and show everyone their gay porn.
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:12 |
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What is erp
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:16 |
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Its almost like its more important to these people that everyone notices them than it is what they're trying to get people to notice them for..
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:16 |
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Blue Train posted:What is erp Erotic role play lol
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:17 |
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Lately I've (24/F) been feeling like my boyfriend (27/M) is getting too comfortable, and then something gross happened and I don't know how to feel.quote:Hi Reddit, I'm using a throwaway because my boyfriend knows my account.
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:18 |
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Xun posted:Erotic role play lol Lol of course
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:18 |
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Asexuals trying to wedge into LGBTQ when they face zero legal, employment, etc. discrimination and/or possible physical violence against their person for their sexuality seems pretty appropriative and gross to me but gotta get those Tumblr oppression points somehow I guess. You don't like sex. Nobody gives a gently caress.
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:19 |
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Troposphere posted:I'm not dating right now while I get my health under control which has been a four year struggle. when I do start dating again idk it's pretty easy to find other low sex drive lesbians from my experience haha Isn't that all lesbians? You go on your first date, you move in together on the second date, and stop having sex about two weeks in after that.
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:35 |
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A Pack of Kobolds posted:Why would anyone marry an asexual person. Why would you want to be with someone who states in no uncertain terms that they are not sexually attracted to you and that it is impossible for that to ever change. "Thanks for letting us have sex tonight, I know what an unpleasant chore it is for you." A friend of mine and his husband haven't had sex with each other in over a decade? The live with each other, sleep in the same bed, share finances, have a great relationship, they just don't like having sex with each other although they do sleep with other people. They take care of each other, they love each other, they like the legal protections that their marriage gives them but they do not enjoy sex with each other. Personally I need to pound the gently caress out of my partner on the regular as part of our emotional intimacy but hey if it works for them good for them, it's none of my business.
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:36 |
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dudeness posted:Lately I've (24/F) been feeling like my boyfriend (27/M) is getting too comfortable, and then something gross happened and I don't know how to feel. I read the title and thought, "yes, hes going to poo poo his pants!?"
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:37 |
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dudeness posted:Lately I've (24/F) been feeling like my boyfriend (27/M) is getting too comfortable, and then something gross happened and I don't know how to feel. I thought engineers were good at identifying and reinforcing the structural points most likely to blow out.
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:41 |
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Batterypowered7 posted:Isn't that all lesbians? You go on your first date, you move in together on the second date, and stop having sex about two weeks in after that. idk I've met some butches that are absolute horndogs who do not like to take no for an answer
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:51 |
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Barudak posted:I thought engineers were good at identifying and reinforcing the structural points most likely to blow out. So do engineers.
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# ? May 20, 2017 17:56 |
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A genderswitched tale as old a s time How do I[27F] best have other women sleep with my roommate/fwb[20M] so he can lose his feelings for me, but maintain the current fwb/roommate relationship. quote:I recently moved to another city and decided that I get an apartment with a roommate.I found an apartment and a person to share with.Lets call my roommate Jason.Jason is a student at a university near our apartment.He's shy,quiet,and rather meek.He doesn't talk much, but he's also a kind young man and is pretty funny at times.
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# ? May 20, 2017 18:00 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:A genderswitched tale as old a s time poo poo who doesn't want a bangmaid
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# ? May 20, 2017 18:25 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:A genderswitched tale as old a s time This is such a perfect contrived romantic comedy plot that the genre will suddenly be brought shuddering back into existence once she executes her plan.
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# ? May 20, 2017 18:40 |
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13Pandora13 posted:Asexuals trying to wedge into LGBTQ when they face zero legal, employment, etc. discrimination and/or possible physical violence against their person for their sexuality seems pretty appropriative and gross to me but gotta get those Tumblr oppression points somehow I guess. I feel bad picking on tumblr too much since it's mostly idiot teenagers and college students, but . "Oh no, monogamous people expect exclusivity as part of relationship commitments. Oh nooo.", plus a bunch of points that are less about monogamy and more about immature nitwits. Reddit content: My [25f] husband [30m] is "asexual". Refuses to sleep with me & I just caught him masturbating to men. Help! quote:We've been married for 3 years next month and I don't even know what to do anymore. I feel like a joke, got married too quickly as his father was dying and I'm starting to think I made a huge mistake.
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# ? May 20, 2017 18:56 |
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He also says he doesn't masturbate for pleasure, as he has no desire. He says it's for the release. If you don't let the pipes drip they'll freeze
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# ? May 20, 2017 19:11 |
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Also he gay
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# ? May 20, 2017 19:25 |
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I'm not gay I just like to get off to gay porn I'm asexual, but I still get turned on by GAY PORNOGRAPHY and like to masturbate to it that poor woman is livin a lie
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# ? May 20, 2017 19:26 |
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Blue Train posted:He also says he doesn't masturbate for pleasure, as he has no desire. He says it's for the release. Actually this is kind of true, not regularly ejaculating is really bad for your prostate. But also he's gay.
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# ? May 20, 2017 19:36 |
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This derail makes me miss the tumblr threads.
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# ? May 20, 2017 20:58 |
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Blue Train posted:poo poo who doesn't want a bangmaid Hahaha that's exactly what I thought of too
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# ? May 20, 2017 20:59 |
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Women choosing asexual partners is natural selection at work. Instead of a virile man poisoning his own seed in her womb and possibly producing some flipper baby, she keeps those men available to women who can bear healthy children.
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# ? May 20, 2017 21:01 |
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Troposphere posted:my last roommate was "asexual" and she never shut up about gay homestuck sex fanfic and also anal sex I feel like Ace people (and what my gf has told me,) is that A.) It's a spectrum, so you get a lot of conflicting ideas, and B.) For her, she gets no enjoyment out of sex, or thinking about sex at all, but she is fascinated in the way it makes people feel. She doesn't get it's awkward to bring up, because she doesn't feel that way about it, so she wants to talk and learn about it, erego you get Ace people who constantly talk about sex and sex-like materials.
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# ? May 20, 2017 21:02 |
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quote:Reminder that all physical traits men are shamed for are the ones that can't be changed, while the only one women are shamed for can be controlled.
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