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Dogs are haram I (30M) embarrassingly have a helicopter mom (56F). I need to start my life but I feel stuck at home. u/TopSecret88 quote:I moved back in with my mom and new step dad after graduating from University (with a worthless liberal arts degree). It was supposed to be temporary but I fell into a deep depression and haven't done much of anything in 7 years. lol
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Blue Train posted:Husband needs to sever immediately Pretty much. If you're asking the internet whether you're crazy, the right answer is "yes."* The internet's aggregate response will be a long-winded, self-indulgent, and often crazier "no." * Though not always for the reasons you're asking.
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May 21, 2017 18:48
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Clark Nova posted:How likely is it for a dog to do this to only one person if that person ins't abusing it? How can you have enough of an "intimidating presence" to terrify your own pet just walking around the house? Roommate has two dogs, one rescue, one not. From the moment the rescue came in the house, about a month ago, it has cowered at my approach, run away from me, and barked at me like an intruder. I've been nothing but kind to it, but apparently I resemble someone who used to abuse it. The non rescue loves me like it loves everything else in life.
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May 21, 2017 18:50
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Dead Reckoning posted:Roommate has two dogs, one rescue, one not. From the moment the rescue came in the house, about a month ago, it has cowered at my approach, run away from me, and barked at me like an intruder. I've been nothing but kind to it, but apparently I resemble someone who used to abuse it. The non rescue loves me like it loves everything else in life. Dogs are a lot like Paladins, and buddy I'm sorry to say he Detected Evil. We'll be around to resolve this issue shortly.
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May 21, 2017 19:02
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Dead Reckoning posted:Roommate has two dogs, one rescue, one not. From the moment the rescue came in the house, about a month ago, it has cowered at my approach, run away from me, and barked at me like an intruder. I've been nothing but kind to it, but apparently I resemble someone who used to abuse it. The non rescue loves me like it loves everything else in life. Same, but with a dog my folks took in. I'll probably never get a chance to visit without her cowering and jumping up to bark every time I move, since I don't have weeks/months of uninterrupted time to spend slowly getting her acclimated to me 
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May 21, 2017 19:04
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What do I do Reddit??????? Domestic violence issue. Do I (22F) divorce my husband (28M)? u/ms-momo114 quote:My husband last night was ignoring me for no reason. I was very unwell last night and was trying to explain this to him as I needed some help, he ignored me the whole time, only paid attention briefly when he would make fun of me being unwell (he's of the mentality that everything is always my fault) and it got to the point where his ignoring didn't cease so I decided to poke him on his back to get his attention (as I was needing help ASAP). He immediately turned around and grabbed me by my neck and pushed my head against the wall and told me that he is going to kill me. This has never happened before. I screamed and cried, he let go, I hit him back by using my hand to slap his arm yelling "how dare you do that to me" and he responded by pushing me fiercely and I went backwards off the bed, whilst falling backwards I grabbed his shirt automatically to stop myself from falling backwards and it ended up tearing his shirt entirely. He then hit me with his fist, and to protect myself plus to seek revenge, I hit him back. He claimed that I was "acting like a man so he will treat me like one" then proceeded to lock his fists, get into a boxing position, stare at me intently and then punch me in the chest right underneath by collarbone with full strength up to 6 times. The pain was immense. I hit him back a few times to get him to stop abusing me, so he used both his fists to punch my chest in one blow. I told him that I would call the cops, he immediately looked at me with longing and told me he doesn't want to lose me and showered me in affection, and even today same story.
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May 21, 2017 19:06
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fruit on the bottom posted:Dogs are a lot like Paladins, and buddy I'm sorry to say he Detected Evil. We'll be around to resolve this issue shortly. It's the goatee that gave it away, wasn't it?
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May 21, 2017 19:07
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Blue Train posted:What do I do Reddit??????? women's standards are just toooo high
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May 21, 2017 19:09
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I don't remember him ever saying he'd kill me before.
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fruit on the bottom posted:Dogs are a lot like Paladins, and buddy I'm sorry to say he Detected Evil. We'll be around to resolve this issue shortly. Same with my in-laws dog, a nice rescue dog, loves both in-laws but is very skeptical about other men in general. e: huh quoted wrong datajugend fucked around with this message at 19:16 on May 21, 2017 |
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May 21, 2017 19:13
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🙄 I (late 20sF) don't know what to do here with brother-in-laws (early 30sM) girlfriends (early 30s?) autistic son (9M). u/NorthKoreaUnicorn quote:A tiny backstory. The brother-in-law had A LOT happen in the last year, which is why he is living with me temporarily while he gets on his feet. I am not bothered with this at all. quote:Wake your BIL up, tell him that you have to go, and that somebody needs to watch his gf's kid. quote:While I certainly can appreciate that as a reasonable response, I would like to stay away from that if possible. It is wayyy awkward and me being holed up here is just an inconvenience, really. I don't need to leave, just want to. I am kind of hoping for an idea from other people that I just haven't thought of yet.
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May 21, 2017 19:15
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Blue Train posted:Dogs are haram this one's funny because it outright states he knows exactly what he needs to do. like he's not asking for advice or guidance or anything he's literally just venting into the void
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May 21, 2017 19:19
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This is fine, v silly [23/F] My boyfriend [24/M] gets ridiculously angry at video games and I hate it. u/glowinggreenlights quote:I know this might seem really silly.. but I really need advice about this. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. So basically whenever he isn't winning and he keeps losing at a game, my boyfriend gets extremely pissed and starts screaming profanity, hitting his things and throwing a fit. I hate it when he does this so much.
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May 21, 2017 19:27
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:My (25F) husband (29M) wants to get rid of our dog and it's making me hate him
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May 21, 2017 19:29
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Blue Train posted:This is fine, v silly Don't date men until they're 35 or so and the world's ground them down and they've accepted their inevitable death as an escape from their pain.
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May 21, 2017 19:37
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Lol if it takes you to 35 to get there
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May 21, 2017 19:38
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Blue Train posted:Lol if it takes you to 35 to get there
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May 21, 2017 19:55
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Clark Nova posted:How likely is it for a dog to do this to only one person if that person ins't abusing it? How can you have enough of an "intimidating presence" to terrify your own pet just walking around the house? Some dogs, especially shelter dogs, can just be really drat scared or hostile to one gender, depending on their past. I volunteer at the no-kill shelter in austin (the one that takes in hard to place dogs from the euthanasia list at other shelters) and lots of the dogs have handling notes saying they just start flipping out in the presence of one gender or certain people. It is possible he is abusing it, but it is a shelter dog so it may just be super accustomed to being abused by men because of its past before they even got it, and submissively urinating because of that.
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May 21, 2017 20:01
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My [23F] Boyfriend [22M] has friends who are girlsquote:I've been dating him for 6 months and everything has been going great, the only issue I have with him is that he has a lot of female friends. Like probably half of his friends are girls, and since he's started dating me he hasn't really distanced himself from them at all. I've seen texts between him & these girls and the girls use excessive emojis and seem flirtatious toward him. I don't want to be that girlfriend who doesn't let her boyfriend have friends who are girls but it makes me really upset when he hangs out with them over me. Like sometimes I'll ask if he wants to do something and he'll say he already has plans with one of them, like he is picking another girl over his girlfriend. I'll still let him have female friends but how can I sorta suggest to him so he comes to his own conclusion that he doesn't want to hang out with them anymore? I don't hang out with other guys so I think it'd be fair that he stops hanging out with other girls but I want him to make the choice for himself
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May 21, 2017 20:24
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I'll still let him have female friends but how can I sorta suggest to him so he comes to his own conclusion that he doesn't want to hang out with them anymore? Run away now my man
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May 21, 2017 20:29
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:My [23F] Boyfriend [22M] has friends who are girls https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RxabLA7UQ9k&t=70s
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May 21, 2017 20:30
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:My [23F] Boyfriend [22M] has friends who are girls I like how half his friends are girls, like he's got a balanced roster of friends and chicky can't handle it
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May 21, 2017 20:50
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C.H.O.M.E posted:Some dogs, especially shelter dogs, can just be really drat scared or hostile to one gender, depending on their past. I volunteer at the no-kill shelter in austin (the one that takes in hard to place dogs from the euthanasia list at other shelters) and lots of the dogs have handling notes saying they just start flipping out in the presence of one gender or certain people. Yeah, I realized after I posted that it is probably a skittish rescue dog who hates men (or people with hats or whatever) but she does such a fine job  -ing her husband as a mean, scary motherfucker that I just assumed he was abusing it. I'd probably want to re-home a dog if it hated me.
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Also often puppies aren't socialized well across a wide range of human groups, so when they grow up and are dogs, they flip out because they are anxious. They are reactive to being around a person who is different in some way, not because something bad happened to them.
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May 21, 2017 21:36
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It's not hard to get a dog to like you, even if it hates men/blondes/whatever
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:My (25F) husband (29M) wants to get rid of our dog and it's making me hate him This guy sounds like a piece of poo poo for unilaterally making that decision, also if a dog doesn't like you your bad
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May 21, 2017 21:52
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Lol at all of you taking an obviously crazy woman's side. Even reddit could tell she was wrong. She's loving that dog
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Blue Train posted:Lol at all of you taking an obviously crazy woman's side. Even reddit could tell she was wrong. She's loving that dog Me [28F] with my husband [30M] and FWB [25M]. His mother found out & threatens to tell people. quote:Now before you assume I'm cheating, I'm not. Please read. Thanks.
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May 21, 2017 22:23
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Nah that guy is a piece of poo poo.
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ravenkult posted:Nah that guy is a piece of poo poo. Well yeah, but the doggo is better chilling with people who aren't
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Haifisch posted:Me [28F] with my husband [30M] and FWB [25M]. His mother found out & threatens to tell people. The husband should be really drat blunt that she will be completely removed from his life if she says poo poo to anyone and destroys his & his wife's life. That's what she's threatening to do. In case she or anyone else wasn't clear, because framing it as a religious or moral thing is real dumb. ravenkult posted:Nah that guy is a piece of poo poo. Khorne fucked around with this message at 22:35 on May 21, 2017 |
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May 21, 2017 22:29
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Nah the guy's just a piece of poo poo. If my SO unilaterally put my pet up for adoption they'd be hitting the curb.
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TOOT BOOT posted:Nah the guy's just a piece of poo poo. If my SO unilaterally put my pet up for adoption they'd be hitting the curb. I'd get rid of the woman and let her take the dog with her personally, but that's just me.
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Khorne posted:It sounds like they talked about it a lot, it is both of their pet because they joint adopted it, and the pet is both a giant drat nuisance and really doesn't like the guy despite him not actually doing anything to it. She says in the post that he put the dog up unilaterally while she was at work one day homie
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May 21, 2017 22:46
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Maybe people who like dogs and people who are filled with self-loathing and hatred for all living things shouldn't date
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BENGHAZI 2 posted:She says in the post that he put the dog up unilaterally while she was at work one day homie After three times of saying he was going to, and taking the dog in on a trial basis with the option to return it
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Blue Train posted:After three times of saying he was going to, and taking the dog in on a trial basis with the option to return it Psycho Society posted:Maybe people who like dogs and people who are filled with self-loathing and hatred for all living things shouldn't date Khorne fucked around with this message at 22:55 on May 21, 2017 |
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When we took in Mia, she was a submissive urinator. We handled it by not making a big deal out of it and staying calm. She was very fearful, so we took her to some festivals with a lot of people to help her understand that her murder was not imminent. With patience, training, and some work on everyone's part she went from being terrified of everything to being my Service Dog. This woman sounds like she's reinforcing the dog's fear of her husband. Not overtly, but in a way the dog is picking up on. So the dog is now afraid of the man, not because he's done anything but because she's signaling to it that it needs to be afraid. End result is a dog that is scared, doesn't know why, and needs to be rehomed where it can feel love and comfort from everyone.
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