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[21 M] with my girlfriend [23F] of 5 months, racially charged conflict. I feel like she set me up.quote:Where to even begin. I'm white and my girlfriend is black, until this weekend race has never been an issue between us. It's something we're not afraid to talk about and we've both dealt with our fair share of assholes because of it (her more than me obviously).
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Ohhhh asexual as a search phrase has to be worth some gold. "I am thoroughly alienated from my feelings and desires." Thanks for warning me off.
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Hahahahaaaaa! Maybe he saw The Inspector General and thinks he needs the hat to prevent a hair fire.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:[21 M] with my girlfriend [23F] of 5 months, racially charged conflict. I feel like she set me up. it's not a good idea to date retards
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:[21 M] with my girlfriend [23F] of 5 months, racially charged conflict. I feel like she set me up. This story reminded me of that DnD poster who's really holier than though about social politics but roleplays as a slaver in the sack with his black girlfriend.
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# ? May 29, 2017 01:50 |
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ArbitraryC posted:This story reminded me of that DnD poster who's really holier than though about social politics but roleplays as a slaver in the sack with his black girlfriend. Zeitgeist
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# ? May 29, 2017 01:57 |
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ArbitraryC posted:This story reminded me of that DnD poster who's really holier than though about social politics but roleplays as a slaver in the sack with his black girlfriend. me too
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# ? May 29, 2017 01:59 |
maskenfreiheit posted:I don't think the cake is what's going to cause this Redditor's parents to pitch a fit Exactly, I don't think the rainbow cake is going to be nearly as gay as the two women getting married.
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# ? May 29, 2017 02:29 |
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Doc Hawkins posted:"I am thoroughly alienated from my feelings and desires." One of my friends told me she had to talk to me, that it was a super serious issue. I thought she was pregnant, or maybe she had cancer. No. No, those are too easy. She confided in me that she was asexual. Okay, cool by me. But she went into full detail, that she has no real sex drive unless she is really, really, really in tune with the other person (not her husband. They're on a break and he's transitioning. It's like a bucket of sexual fun.) and can't have sexual feelings for them unless she is super into them. So....like most people who aren't into one-night stands? I came out as a lesbian almost 15 years ago, haven't dated anyone seriously in years...and was in several pride parades, and the president of my Gay-Straight Alliance club in college, and even I never made as much a big deal as coming out as she has. She does go back and forth between finding yaoi 'super hot' and not being into any kind of talk about sex. I wonder if asexual ever crossed with the incels on reddit.
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Cowslips Warren posted:One of my friends told me she had to talk to me, that it was a super serious issue. I thought she was pregnant, or maybe she had cancer. No. No, those are too easy. She confided in me that she was asexual. Okay, cool by me. But she went into full detail, that she has no real sex drive unless she is really, really, really in tune with the other person (not her husband. They're on a break and he's transitioning. It's like a bucket of sexual fun.) and can't have sexual feelings for them unless she is super into them . So....like most people who aren't into one-night stands? Isn't that demisexual? I thought asexuals are supposed to be people who get straight up grossed out by the thought of bumping uglies with others. I think one of my profs mentioned that it's not that they have no sex drive as they can still get sexual gratification via masturbation, but the vulnerability/messiness involved with physical intmacy with others turns them off.
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No.44 posted:Isn't that demisexual? I thought asexuals are supposed to be people who get straight up grossed out by the thought of bumping uglies with others. I think one of my profs mentioned that it's not that they have no sex drive as they can still get sexual gratification via masturbation, but the vulnerability/messiness involved with physical intmacy with others turns them off. Internet asexuality and demisexuality are the same things: straight people pretending to be sexual minorities.
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# ? May 29, 2017 03:00 |
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:[21 M] with my girlfriend [23F] of 5 months, racially charged conflict. I feel like she set me up. my man i could have told you that was a fuckin trap
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# ? May 29, 2017 03:11 |
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Aardmania posted:Maybe he saw The Inspector General and thinks he needs the hat to prevent a hair fire. This has nothing to do with anything except to say thats a good movie and more people should watch it
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# ? May 29, 2017 03:20 |
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My (19f) atheist boyfriend (21m) burped loudly during gracequote:So I've been dating kevin for a couple months now. I was raised Christian and while I very much believe in god, I wouldn't consider myself super religious or anything, I go to church maybe 10 times a year. Because of that, i thought i might be compatible with an atheist. edit: there was an update and she broke up with him, nothing too interesting except for this gem quote:
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:[21 M] with my girlfriend [23F] of 5 months, racially charged conflict. I feel like she set me up. Should've turned it around on her and asked her to call YOU the n-word, with the hard R.
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# ? May 29, 2017 03:31 |
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Improbable Lobster posted:That's not an appropriate coat for anything besides LARPing Or challenging someone to a duel.
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# ? May 29, 2017 03:39 |
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Improbable Lobster posted:Internet asexuality and demisexuality are the same things: straight people pretending to be sexual minorities. I can kinda sympathize--a lot of the media we consume pushed the message that sex is all-important and everyone is out trying to get laid 24/7, so if you're not that interested in chasing dick/pussy it can be a little alienating. But yeah, the idea that we need new words and new sexualities to describe the concept "I am a normal person with a normal sex drive and not a hypersexual caricature like I see on TV" is more than a bit silly.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:[21 M] with my girlfriend [23F] of 5 months, racially charged conflict. I feel like she set me up. While dude's girlfriend is definitely a loving crazy as hell person, there's basically no chance she wasn't posing the n-word during sex deal as a test. Shockingly, it's kind of a huge deal and comes off as super racist when you actually say it as a white dude!
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Khazar-khum posted:That's a trilby, not a fedora. Fedoras have a wider brim. Is he cosplaying as a member of Panic! At the Disco? Because that's the only thing that coat would be appropriate for.
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# ? May 29, 2017 04:35 |
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Pick posted:Zeitgeist Appropriate name. Seems to have nailed the white, middle class American zeitgeist.
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# ? May 29, 2017 04:44 |
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Improbable Lobster posted:Internet asexuality and demisexuality are the same things: straight people pretending to be sexual minorities. Cough Drop The Beat posted:While dude's girlfriend is definitely a loving crazy as hell person, there's basically no chance she wasn't posing the n-word during sex deal as a test. Shockingly, it's kind of a huge deal and comes off as super racist when you actually say it as a white dude!
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# ? May 29, 2017 04:55 |
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Dead Reckoning posted:"Low self esteem: the sexual orientation" refusing to be GGG and say the phrase she asked based on her race would have also been racist - it's a no win situation
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:[21 M] with my girlfriend [23F] of 5 months, racially charged conflict. I feel like she set me up. Lol she is 100% going to ask him to do that again in the heat of the moment and break down crying after if he does, it's never gonna stop, it's Schrodingers raceplay
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:[21 M] with my girlfriend [23F] of 5 months, racially charged conflict. I feel like she set me up. Crazy: the human experience that is truly colorblind.
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# ? May 29, 2017 07:11 |
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He should have only agreed to do it if she called him a honky first.
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# ? May 29, 2017 08:42 |
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I wonder if it was something where she thought it would turn her on, but then the reality of the person she loved calling her the n-word actually didn't make her feel good at all.
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fruit on the bottom posted:I wonder if it was something where she thought it would turn her on, but then the reality of the person she loved calling her the n-word actually didn't make her feel good at all. Maybe she could like explain that instead of acting incredulous that he did exactly what she asked him to do even though it clearly made him uncomfortable to do so
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maskenfreiheit posted:it's not a good idea to date retards With a hard "R". EFB GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 09:35 on May 29, 2017 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:I wonder if it was something where she thought it would turn her on, but then the reality of the person she loved calling her the n-word actually didn't make her feel good at all. Yeah, turns out sex involves people playing out thinly-disguised versions of their own anxieties and ending up simultaneously attracted to and repulsed by a lot of the things they think they want. So yeah. She's an ordinary level of crazy. Dude is an idiot for stepping on a flagged mine. They should both know better but they don't.
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Streak posted:Maybe she could like explain that instead of acting incredulous that he did exactly what she asked him to do even though it clearly made him uncomfortable to do so idk if she is all like "how dare you" so much as that is what he assumes she is like though
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# ? May 29, 2017 10:49 |
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ArbitraryC posted:My (28F) friend (26F) pretends she is Japanese, is alienating everyone around her She's just being tsundere. Please don't erase her anime heritage.
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Is showering with a friend wrong? [20/m and 20/f]quote:My folks and I were staying over at my friend Jackie's place with her family. We were all going out together for the day, but everyone woke up too late and it was a big rush for the shower. Jackie and I were forced to shower together, which made it awkward because we are just friends. But no one else said anything. In the shower she wore a bikini and I wore my trunks, but it still made things feel a little odd though in the end we laughed about it and Jackie did look good showering. But that's where we draw the line. Anyways is showering with your friend of the opposite sex a bad idea? What about the same sex? For me two guys is just nasty, no thanks, but two girl friends isn't a bad idea at all. Anyone find a guy and girl who are just friend showering awkward? hahaha what
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# ? May 29, 2017 11:37 |
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Friend showering?
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# ? May 29, 2017 11:57 |
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Lets play spot the buried ledes I (25F) am getting incredibly frustrated with the sleeping situation now that I live with my boyfriend (25M) u/Sleepingissues98123 quote:My boyfriend (25M) and I (25F) have been dating for a year and a half and have been living together for 6 months. Everything has been going well except for our constant fighting about sleeping.
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# ? May 29, 2017 12:26 |
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Also what kind of garbage human needs the room toasty to sleep For that alone id suffocate him with a plastic bag
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# ? May 29, 2017 12:29 |
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Severing his windpipe fixes everything
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# ? May 29, 2017 12:31 |
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From the commentsquote:First, the practical advice. Insist he get tested for sleep apnea. There are also anti-snoring devices out there he can try. An old school remedy is to take his sleep shirt and sew a pocket dead center in the back (use an old tshirt or something for the pocket fabric). Insert a tennis ball every night before he sleeps. He will sleep on his side. He might have a few restless nights until he gets used to it, if he's been used to sleeping on his back. But he will adjust and eventually not even need the tennis ball.
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# ? May 29, 2017 12:32 |
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Haha yeah he definitely sounds like he'll do all of that.
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# ? May 29, 2017 12:35 |
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quote:Maybe, just maybe, you can ask him to clean his nose everyday while taking a shower. It might do wonders. Im not sure why i find this comment so funny
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Modus Pwnens posted:Haha yeah he definitely sounds like he'll do all of that. I like to imagine that he'll do it. Then his weight gain, evening drinking, and shiftlessness -- combined with her self-righteous obsession with all the wrong details -- can keep them locked in a lifelong cycle of mutual petty recriminations.
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