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DragQueenofAngmar posted:There's no way that first one isn't an MRA/incel fantasy i dunno he doesn't use any of the dog whistle language or mention he has a high paying job, which seem to be mainstays
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Breetai posted:The whole 'spreads legs to entice attention from adult males' and positions thing is a textbook example* of someone who has been sexually abused, and coupled with talking about sex stuff that she shouldn't know about paints a grim but likely accurate picture of what was done to her. I know we've moved on but I keep thinking about this. When I was 10, there was a 19 year-old single mother who lived in our building who would babysit me when my mom would have to work overnight once a week. I'd have to sleep in a twin bed with her 3 year-old daughter who would constantly try to grope me and get on top of me and try to simulate sex and I'd have to push her away over and over again and we'd barely sleep. It was really loving disturbing. Even at 10 I knew something was wrong but it wasn't until years later that I realized that OMG that kid was super molested. That was 30 years ago. I still think about her several times a year. I hope to Christ she turned out okay.
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Esoteric Scientist posted:Aaaahh! Girlfriend [22/f] has gained weight and my [22/m] masturbation is causing issues. Please help! Jesus 80 pounds in a year. He started dating a relatively waifish girl and now he's with a running back. Can't imagine why he's boxing the jesuit.
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olylifter posted:Jesus 80 pounds in a year. He started dating a relatively waifish girl and now he's with a running back. Can't imagine why he's boxing the jesuit. i could be dating taylor swift and i'd still masturbate occasionally they're two very different kinds of sex
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maskenfreiheit posted:i could be dating taylor swift and i'd still masturbate occasionally Yep. It's just a different need. We basically have a don't ask/don't tell kinda situation in my marriage with this. We're both cool with each other doing what we gotta do but it's not something I really want to discuss and I'm not going to snoop to see what kind of porn he's looking at or vice versa. I just don't want to know. It's private time. And it's gonna happen no matter how much sex we're having. In fact, it happens more, the more sex you have, I find, because sex is on your mind more often.
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maskenfreiheit posted:i could be dating taylor swift and i'd still masturbate occasionall Oh now we got bad blood.
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maskenfreiheit posted:i could be dating taylor swift and i'd still masturbate occasionally True that. Sometimes you don't want to wake them up. Sometimes they aren't there. Sometimes you just feel like it and they are busy. Sometimes they gained 80 lbs are disgusting beasts.
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HoAssHo posted:Sometimes you just want to cum and get it over with real quick rather than it being this big production.
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HoAssHo posted:I know we've moved on but I keep thinking about this. When I was 10, there was a 19 year-old single mother who lived in our building who would babysit me when my mom would have to work overnight once a week. I'd have to sleep in a twin bed with her 3 year-old daughter who would constantly try to grope me and get on top of me and try to simulate sex and I'd have to push her away over and over again and we'd barely sleep. It was really loving disturbing. Even at 10 I knew something was wrong but it wasn't until years later that I realized that OMG that kid was super molested. I was a nanny for years, and at one point my boss/employer was a probation officer for sex offenders. When the baby was down for a nap, her mom would need to vent, and I would hear the poo poo they couldn't put on Law and Order or CSI. Like, everyone knows there are levels of criminals, and chomos are at the way bottom. But among sex offenders, there's levels too. If you rape adults, you're at the top. Teenagers, middle. Kids, bottom rung. The super old, the mentally not there, or babies, loving pit. In some of the spouse therapy circles (yes, most of the offenders were married.) there would be many arguments that would devolve into one lady screaming that at least her husband wasn't a babyfucker., I distinctly remember being told how some of the men offenders would describe a baby having her diaper changed, or how a toddler would tumble and land with her legs open, and the men would say how awesome it was because the baby/toddler was totally into it and it was an invitation. You know that feeling you get when you see some insane weird photo online, say, of SpongeBob turning into a cheese sandwich, and you realize someone gets off on this? It's way worse when you're changing a diaper and realize that someone, somewhere, would think this is a sexual invitation.
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Guys, I work for CPS and read this thread to get away from my problems what are you doing Also, alternative take, someone who interprets an 8 year old as a sexual threat and as coming on to their boyfriend may indeed be the one that was super molested because she sees a child as having sexual agency and as manipulative
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Jun 4, 2017 18:27
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Seven Hundred Bee posted:Hi Pick could you maybe limit yourself to ten posts a day about whatever relationship you keep posting about instead of dozens? It's a bummer to see 600 unread posts in this thread and half of them are about you.
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Jun 4, 2017 18:29
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gently caress you I like reading about Picks garbage adventures
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Mocking Bird posted:someone who interprets an 8 year old as a sexual threat and as coming on to their boyfriend may indeed be the one that was super molested because she sees a child as having sexual agency and as manipulative That's how I read it, with horror.
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Jun 4, 2017 18:31
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Fartbox posted:gently caress you
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Cowslips Warren posted:I was a nanny for years, and at one point my boss/employer was a probation officer for sex offenders. When the baby was down for a nap, her mom would need to vent, and I would hear the poo poo they couldn't put on Law and Order or CSI. Like, everyone knows there are levels of criminals, and chomos are at the way bottom. But among sex offenders, there's levels too. I used to get dropped off at a home daycare where one lady would ridicule me for making GBS threads my diaper and insert her finger into my rear end in a top hat while she was changing me. Then the other lady would be real gentle and nurturing and change me on the footmat by the front door (presumably so she could block anyone that might show up and try to enter the house) and would rub my dick and balls for like 5 minutes. I ended up wearing diapers until i was like 4 because i was terrified to take a poo poo in a toilet.
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Molestation is an incredibly serious issue, and really needs to be viewed more seriously. Furthermore, people really need to reevaluate their attitudes when it comes to other people who were involved. It is simply terrible that it is shameful to have been molested considering that person is absolutely, 100% a victim. Furthermore, it is often unfair to immediately blame other people who were around at the time, because often they truly do not see it. And if they know they will be blamed too, they might be hesitant to come forward. Even if they break off the relationship, that doesn't mean that the person couldnt go on to victimize someone else. The blame needs to fall squarely on the victimizer. Now, if the person really did provably know about it, that's another matter. Then you are complicit.
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Jun 4, 2017 18:39
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Eh you can't just absolve people like that as it makes it easier to ignore it.
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The ladies husband was a high ranking military official who worked on classified projects, one of which was developing coaxial cable technology for post-nuclear telecommunications networks.
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I [28M] Can't handle her [25F] on her worst side, do I deserve her at her best? 2 Yearsquote:My GF has ups and downs and is generally much more spontaneous than I am. I am an introvert, like to be inside most of the time, and have plans and routines that I stick to. She likes to go out, and does my routine things more on a whim on whether she feels like it or not (like the gym).
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Jun 4, 2017 18:44
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Beep boop
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maskenfreiheit posted:I [28M] Can't handle her [25F] on her worst side, do I deserve her at her best? 2 Years Well, according to this Facebook meme posted by every girl I went to school with,
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But Rocks Hurt Head posted:Well, according to this Facebook meme posted by every girl I went to school with, oh man, you're really making me regret not having a facebook
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My [F26] sister [F23] keeps posting personal details of our relationship on her public blog/twitter. She doesn’t seem to understand why I don’t like this, and I am at my wits end. [Non-Romantic]quote:Whenever I do something that upsets my sister, her first reaction is to post it on her personal albeit public blog and her twitter. She doesn’t come and talk to me about the issue, or how we can work through it, and instead publicly posts about the issue, often using negative language and insulting me. This is an on-going issue that has been occurring for many years. I have asked her numerous times to please stop posting about me on her blog/twitter, and that if she has an issue with something I am doing with her, to please come talk to me first, but her reaction is always the same: she claims that “nobody cares” that she vents about her family online, and that it’s her “personal blog/twitter” and because of that she can do whatever she wants on it.
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Jun 4, 2017 19:13
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Pick posted:Beep boop Oh come on that lady sounds bipolar.
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Jun 4, 2017 19:16
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VanSandman posted:Oh come on that lady sounds bipolar. Yeah, and it's that thing where people think it's their responsibility to manage their partner's feelings constantly. Like, if they're depressed, you're supposed to
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VanSandman posted:Oh come on that lady sounds bipolar. The guy writes in a super flat way. I felt like that when a bipolar SO's meds stopped working. E- oh, she's at the age where it can start firing up to full swing. Oh dear. GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 19:34 on Jun 4, 2017 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:I [28M] Can't handle her [25F] on her worst side, do I deserve her at her best? 2 Years I was thinking about that quote the other day and it was like yo if I was able to handle that time when a methed out dude was in my living room acting like a frightening meth dude at me, then how mental does a girl have to be before I no longer deserve her at her best? Edit: if I can't handle you at your worst then you should be in loving prison, is what I am trying to say here FuckenPunchOn fucked around with this message at 19:35 on Jun 4, 2017 |
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Seven Hundred Bee posted:Hi Pick could you maybe limit yourself to ten posts a day about whatever relationship you keep posting about instead of dozens? It's a bummer to see 600 unread posts in this thread and half of them are about you. Yes, please be a star contributor like this guy  Pick rocks.
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Jun 4, 2017 19:39
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Blue Train posted:Who could possibly love you more than a stalker tho? Well, I mean, intense, consuming, obsession is kinda like love. It's got to be good for their self-esteem though.* *It's not.
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Verdugo posted:Yes, please be a star contributor like this guy Pick stories are amazing and sometimes she's pretty weird, but she generally also makes a lot of good points.
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Jun 4, 2017 19:54
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Me [39 M] with my BF [35 M] 9 years, we disagree on PewDiePiequote:My BF hates PewDiePie and I love his viz. My BF self proclaims himself as youtube alficionado. PewDiePie is the number one Youtuber. We watch youtube viz together but I am tired of his viz and he doesn't like mine. He always watches food and Asian viz, and I like non conforming viz.
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Stay with him because good loving luck finding anyone else able to tolerate being around you for more than 5 minutes without their eyeballs bleeding off.
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Jun 4, 2017 19:59
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pick is a good poster because every time she posts something hyperbolic about how men are bad, dozens of posters rush to prove her right like this is SA, people defend ironic racism and don't want PC to get in the way of jokes and trolling and hyperbolic humor but somehow, for some v mysterious reason, when pick posts like that about men, a lot of posters get real upset and start talking about how pick is posting bad and divisive stuff and it just fuckin great, just loooool
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Jun 4, 2017 19:59
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if you take away 30 years on them both im gonna believe that post
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Jun 4, 2017 19:59
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Why does she keep saying viz, I hate her.
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CharlestheHammer posted:Why does she keep saying viz, I hate her. I assume she accidentally added 30 years to their ages
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Jun 4, 2017 20:06
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I like Pick.
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I like Pick too but sometimes the Hugh stuff is frustrating in that way that it's frustrating when your friend constantly bitches about her terrible boyfriend but won't ever leave him.
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