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My boyfriend got a lapdance while I was on vacation and I don't know what to do.quote:is my first time on reddit so please excuse any faux pas i may commit. Every loving comment is calling him a cheater and saying she's right. I feel like I'm taking crazy pills because while he should have cleared it beforehand her reaction seems insanely disproportionate to what happened, especially since he just told her immediately as soon as she asked.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:00 |
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When you make everything a dumpable offensive your love life ends up sounding like a Taylor Swift album. He should have just gone all the way and hosed that stripper, since his GF rounds everything up to cheating anyways. maskenfreiheit fucked around with this message at 16:10 on Jun 23, 2017 |
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Tender Bender posted:My boyfriend got a lapdance while I was on vacation and I don't know what to do. Together 8 years and 24 says just break up, regardless of the meltdown over an approved strip club visit. Ive had to go to strip clubs for work and my spouses policy was "Im only going to be mad at you if you pay for it" which I feel seems fair.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:10 |
honestly you should just go to a strip club with your SO in the dating phase so you can both mine for some flags.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:11 |
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Submarine Sandpaper posted:honestly you should just go to a strip club with your SO in the dating phase so you can both mine for some flags. That one? The one whose movements are like Elaine while she dances to Lady Blackbird Mambazo? Yeah, Ive seen enough, heres 40 bucks for the cab ride home.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:13 |
Barudak posted:That one? The one whose movements are like Elaine while she dances to Lady Blackbird Mambazo? Yeah, Ive seen enough, heres 40 bucks for the cab ride home. if you're not getting food you're missing out, huge red flag there.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:16 |
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Paying someone to fake stimulate you sexually is kind of pathetic. Line drawn.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:19 |
blarzgh posted:Paying someone to fake stimulate you sexually is kind of pathetic. well if you get stimulated you get stimulated. no baring on the story though
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:21 |
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Submarine Sandpaper posted:honestly you should just go to a strip club with your SO in the dating phase so you can both mine for some flags. but i've never been to a strip club and kinda want to keep that going
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:31 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:Maybe he didn't know how expensive the wine was? That could get the cost up quickly w/o realizing. Anyone with genuinely expensive wine who said "help yourselves" to house-guests would add "...except for these bottles, which I shall be presenting to the pope later this month." OP either conveniently forgot that part, or it actually is the hosts fault, or none of the wine was very expensive, and he just averaged over two bottles a day.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:36 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:but i've never been to a strip club and kinda want to keep that going If you live in Miami and havent gone to Tootsies you are unironically missing out on the absolute best price to quality wings in the city. The downside is Tootsies is the Costco of strip clubs with everything that entails.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:40 |
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quote:Me [27 F] with my husband [30 M] 5 years, his friends apologize when they hear we're having a girl. I've got three daughters and loads of people have suggested that I shouldn't let it get me down, that'll get a son eventually
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:46 |
maskenfreiheit posted:but i've never been to a strip club and kinda want to keep that going
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:55 |
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Barudak posted:If you live in Miami and havent gone to Tootsies you are unironically missing out on the absolute best price to quality wings in the city. You have to have a membership card? They pay all their workers a living wage? You can only buy lap dances in packs of 10?
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 16:57 |
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Yea it sucks to be multiple years into a relationship and be given a choice by someone you thought was your sane life partner, to either bail on your friend's bachelor party or spend the rest of your life paying for it. I mean strip clubs are a great way to waste a lot of money while also feeling like a loser, but they're also harmless as gently caress.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 17:00 |
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Doc Hawkins posted:You have to have a membership card? They pay all their workers a living wage? You can only buy lap dances in packs of 10? They have a membership program, the food is cheap and good to lure you in, and their are three main stages on the first floor where the first is so large that there are three positions on it for women to dance so they rotate from the starter pole, middle pole, then exit pole and the company boasts about having more than a hundred girls working on weekends and offers bundle lap dances with multiple girls. I assume it works on the same model as most strip clubs where girls pay to dance there and the only money they make is the tips.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 17:01 |
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Submarine Sandpaper posted:Eventually you'll be rung into one in a social setting, like my neighbor is turning 30 and celebrations will end at one. It's best to not end up like the OP's BF. I'm not saying go alone, but go with your GF/BF this doesn't happen if you don't hang out with losers or teenagers so... problem solved
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 17:08 |
A Wizard of Goatse posted:this doesn't happen if you
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 17:13 |
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Submarine Sandpaper posted:Eventually you'll be rung into one in a social setting, like my neighbor is turning 30 and celebrations will end at one. It's best to not end up like the OP's BF. I'm not saying go alone, but go with your GF/BF It's really easy to say, " nah, that's not my scene", and no one will press you on it, because they know your reason for not going is because it's sad and pathetic, but if you have to say it out loud, it breaks the fourth wall on their emperor's new clothes mentality, etc.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 17:53 |
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Doc Hawkins posted:Anyone with genuinely expensive wine who said "help yourselves" to house-guests would add "...except for these bottles, which I shall be presenting to the pope later this month." I mean, I certainly agree with what you're saying, but there's "helping yourself" and then there's "going apeshit on everything in sight." Somehow, I suspect the OP trended more to the latter.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 18:00 |
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I feel like in 2017 casually inviting your boys to come pay money with you to see blatantly disinterested tits is about on par with casually inviting them to gimpsuit up and get flogged by the Mistress with you
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 18:04 |
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Tender Bender posted:Yea it sucks to be multiple years into a relationship and be given a choice by someone you thought was your sane life partner, to either bail on your friend's bachelor party or spend the rest of your life paying for it. poo poo, you'd be more likely to get laid out at a bar with your buddies than at a strip club, if you were looking to cheat.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 18:05 |
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this is awesome, just phenomenal hahahaha fuckin lmao Boyfriend[23M] asks my permission before he touches me[22F] quote:Hey guys!
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 18:33 |
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:this is awesome, just phenomenal hahahaha fuckin lmao Straight up this sketch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0aUbGGFySdU
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 18:39 |
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Let's continue the theme of disproportionate responses to dumb SO's! I (26F) found out my husband (28M) of less than one week said he was only with me because I'm a "fire crotch" at the reception. I'm not only humiliated, I feel like it reduced me into a physical characteristic. quote:Background: I've been with "John" for 5 years. We've certainly had our ups and downs but generally more ups and I am ridiculously and hopelessly in love with him. We've been through a lot of change and distance in our relationship since we both took on the role of professional students. I'm proud of what I've accomplished and Ill be giving my dissertation in October and already have a job lined up at the same university where i'm getting my phd...something that indicates my department really respects my work because it's almost unheard of. I'm very proud of this. Well that was rude of him but surely the comments will tell her to take a deep breath - quote:Trashing you at your wedding is pretty awful. Being drunk is no excuse. I'd never be able to look at the same way if I were you. Go talk to a divorce lawyer. quote:Holy poo poo. I don't even know what to say. Couples counseling, AA, Al-Anon for you, or maybe...just an annullment. He said this AT YOUR WEDDING. quote:Think hard on this, because depending on your location, it may not be too late to get an annulment Oh Reddit, never change Tender Bender fucked around with this message at 19:00 on Jun 23, 2017 |
# ? Jun 23, 2017 18:47 |
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quote:I would prefer it if he wants to do something, just to do it. Do you want rapists? Because that's how you get rapists.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 18:48 |
blarzgh posted:It's really easy to say, " nah, that's not my scene", and no one will press you on it, because they know your reason for not going is because it's sad and pathetic, but if you have to say it out loud, it breaks the fourth wall on their emperor's new clothes mentality, etc.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 18:49 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:I feel like in 2017 casually inviting your boys to come pay money with you to see blatantly disinterested tits is about on par with casually inviting them to gimpsuit up and get flogged by the Mistress with you So just a normal night out?
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 18:50 |
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I dunno, if her vagina truly shoots plumes of flame Id probably stick with her too.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 18:54 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:When you make everything a dumpable offensive your love life ends up sounding like a Taylor Swift album. It's not cheating if she doesn't swallow.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 18:56 |
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It's not cheating if you nut in the butt
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 19:28 |
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ranbo das posted:It's not cheating if you nut in the butt
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 19:30 |
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It's totally not cheating.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 19:45 |
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Tender Bender posted:Let's continue the theme of disproportionate responses to dumb SO's! Uh, that was an extremely lovely thing to say, and they've been married less than a month. Why the hell shouldn't she get out now before he decides to start running her down to her face?
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 19:52 |
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Avenging_Mikon posted:Uh, that was an extremely lovely thing to say, and they've been married less than a month. Why the hell shouldn't she get out now before he decides to start running her down to her face? I mean it was a lovely thing to say but it's also a Rodney Dangerfield "My wife!" joke and not a confession of his hatred for her.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 19:54 |
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Internet denizens are a little sensitive to ball breaking
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 19:55 |
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Gorilla Salad posted:I mean, I certainly agree with what you're saying, but there's "helping yourself" and then there's "going apeshit on everything in sight." Yeah, I guess I wasn't explicit: in my view two bottles a day, of someone else's wine, for two weeks straight, definitely qualifies as "going apeshit."
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 19:59 |
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*watches Hank Hill clip a plastic ball and chain on Boomhauer during the bachelor party episode* this is abuse
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 20:06 |
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haha no you don't get it guys I'm a wild fun guy to be around I'm just shocked my girlfriend dances and tells jokes like a vapid bimbo, I'm a party animal I [29M] visited my girlfriend [27F] at work where I witnessed her behave like a completely different person. I feel like I don't really know her at all. quote:For some background: I met my girlfriend about 3 years ago through mutual friends. We quickly hit it off as friends and started dating a year later, and have been together happily ever since. My girlfriend is a little different than the type of girl I always envisioned myself. Typically I was always attracted to goofy, joke-sy type girls. My girlfriend isn't really like that. She's smart, she's kind, polite, thoughtful, beautiful...but "goofy" isn't exactly a word I would use to describe her. I love her all the same, believe me. I used to wish she would joke around with me more, but over the years I've come to accept that it's just not who she is and I love her for who she is.
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# ? Jun 23, 2017 20:17 |
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I mean it's pretty earth shattering to find out you're a boring sad sack who actively drags down your SO every time you're together
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