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KomodoWagon posted:This is 100% the case, always. People don't improve. speak for yourself cumdrop
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# ? Jul 5, 2017 10:51 |
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# ? May 10, 2024 02:23 |
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I used to kick friend of the family children in the face and wanted nothing more than to hang them from a tree!!!!1 but then i read a blog on love and understanding and now i'm a good person (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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# ? Jul 5, 2017 12:42 |
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quote:My main issue right now, though, is that I'm starting to feel a pang of guilt in the back of my head for my actions that resulted in my dad, a man who raised me from age 5, being in custody, and possibly having his life ruined because of a stupid thing that he did. And at his age, it's going to be a lot harder for him to recover because he's mostly relied on my mother or I to help him with stuff like job hunting, bills, and the like. So you're feeling guilty because an abusive deadbeat rear end in a top hat is losing access to his victims? gently caress that
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# ? Jul 5, 2017 12:56 |
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therattle posted:I do too! They sometimes track down people in famous pictures, like the black kids sitting at a segregated lunch counter. That's interesting, but I'd also like to hear about the racist whose face is contorted by hate, screaming at them. Did they ever change? Realise they were wrong? Carry on being awful people? Kind of?
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# ? Jul 5, 2017 18:09 |
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Cool, thanks.
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# ? Jul 5, 2017 19:49 |
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quote:Long, rambling confession ahead. Sorry in advance, processing a lot. I enjoyed reading this, although this may be because I just watched the first Treehouse Of Horror (S02E03) quote:Ever since my therapist and I started working on tackling my horrible trauma history I have had the worst nightmares. I don't want to tell my therapist because I want to tackle everything and get better but I am starting to get maybe 4 hours of sleep a night. I have a reoccuring nightmare where the step-dad who cut my eyelashes off also cuts off my nose and gouges my eyes out before lice and bedbugs explode from skull. The same step dad also put a lit ciggarette out on my left hand and I have a pretty noticable scar, which I desperately wish could be be removed. I have few people I can talk to about this because I've spent so long avoiding talking about my past. My serious boyfrienss have never really met my bio-parents (I've been with my current one for almost 3 years and he still hasn't met my actual bio-dad), my long term friends barely know anything and while I'm ok keeping it that my therapist is saying it's not healthy. I don't know how to be comfortable with being vulnerable and being vulnerable terrifies me. You should probably tell your therapist about the dreams; I I doubt their reaction will be to say you should stop working on the trauma history and it seems pretty relevant
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 02:13 |
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Isn't there a sandblasting treatment for scars now?
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 02:20 |
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quote:First off, gently caress YOU DONALD TRUMP. This avatar paid for by the silent majority.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 13:17 |
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quote:I'm known among my friends as the guy who loves music and always goes to shows. Man. Friggin' bureaucracy. Could you at least see which therapists would or would not be covered under the plan? If you can do that much, it might be worth paying for a session or two out-of-pocket if you can afford it so you can stay ahead of this stuff until the insurance info comes through. Keep writing them emails about that, btw; don't let them forget it. quote:Hello confessions thread. I've been dying to tell someone this story for more than a decade. There's a decent chance of that, yes, but you can't really blame an 11-year-old kid who thinks he's stumbled into a good thing for not wanting to dry up the gravy train. There's no use feeling guilty about anything. If you're really 100% completely fine with it, just be thankful for that and let that be the end of it.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 15:14 |
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can't you just go to a few furrycons and mingle with the assorted sadbrains there? Maybe it'll make you happy
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 15:44 |
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I also did sex poo poo around that age with a girl a few years older. It owned, no issue. Is this actually a taboo thing?
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 17:04 |
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I think I was about 12 or 13 when heavy petting and mouth stuff started up, so it's not that far off normal sexual experimentation. 17 and 11 is a big difference in maturity and the fact that she was in a position of "authority" is what makes it a little creepy to me, but if you're fine with it then who cares? Nice.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 17:12 |
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soy posted:I also did sex poo poo around that age with a girl a few years older. It owned, no issue. Is this actually a taboo thing? I imagine that for some kids there'd be a difference between a 17-year-old letting him feel her up and a 40-year-old touching his no-no zone but considering what's at stake the only sane place to put a hard-and-fast line on what is ok here is "nothing at all"
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 17:12 |
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loquacius posted:I imagine that for some kids there'd be a difference between a 17-year-old letting him feel her up and a 40-year-old touching his no-no zone but considering what's at stake the only sane place to put a hard-and-fast line on what is ok here is "nothing at all" Ya hell I didn't want anything to do with a girl over 30 until my mid 20s
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 17:17 |
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Yeah, even as a straight A student, when I was 12 I literally thought about boobs 99% of the day. Lucky bastard.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 17:18 |
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soy posted:Ya hell I didn't want anything to do with a girl over 30 until my mid 20s lawl, yeah. I remember a time when a chic pushing a baby stroller was instantly too old, haha.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 17:20 |
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tesilential posted:lawl, yeah. I remember a time when a chic pushing a baby stroller was instantly too old, haha. To this day I still don't want anything to do with women with kids. Not because they're too old, but because baby baggage is just too much to deal with and I'm way too selfish to consider being inconvenienced by a kid that's not blood related to me.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 17:31 |
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don't you normally kill the offspring that's not yours, I'm not up on the newest dating trends
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 17:45 |
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Police Automaton posted:don't you normally kill the offspring that's not yours, I'm not up on the newest dating trends We're getting primal up in this bitch. Law of the jungle son!
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 17:54 |
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Throw in a few beers and friends and it makes for a good barbecue.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 18:11 |
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Hmmm, not quite what I was expecting when doing a GIS for "American Dad Stan elephant seal gif" but I feel it's worth posting anyways:
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 18:12 |
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I remember this joke from Will and Grace (yeah ) where Megan Mullaly's character has to hang out with some 13 year old kid. He keeps saying stuff like "I just wanna play Xbox" or asking her if she has one. At the end of the episode, she becomes friends with the kid (or at least fond of him) and she says he finally got to play with her xbox. Someone gets the kid an xbox, and sge sees it in the packaging and says "oh, that's called an Xbox, too?" As a horny teenager who found (and still finds) that woman intensely attractive, I liked that joke, but yeah, I can't say it wasn't joking about pedophilia and possibly rape.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 18:13 |
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Babysitter goon your dad paid the sitter extra to "educate" you and also to blow him.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 18:27 |
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Police Automaton posted:don't you normally kill the offspring that's not yours, I'm not up on the newest dating trends Only if you can eat them too.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 19:26 |
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Rupert Buttermilk posted:I remember this joke from Will and Grace (yeah ) where Megan Mullaly's character has to hang out with some 13 year old kid. He keeps saying stuff like "I just wanna play Xbox" or asking her if she has one. Oh no I laughed at a sitcom joke, I need counseling
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 19:46 |
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Rupert Buttermilk posted:I remember this joke from Will and Grace (yeah ) where Megan Mullaly's character has to hang out with some 13 year old kid. He keeps saying stuff like "I just wanna play Xbox" or asking her if she has one. Karen Walker was the only thing funny about that show. Now Megan Mullaly does the voice of Aunt Gail on Bob's Burgers.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 21:05 |
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"I don't understand having a crush on Megan Mullally," said a guy who had a huge crush on Helena Bonham-Carter as a teenquote:My girl friend gas lights me, or at least some form of it I believe. Honestly if you've got the data, and it backs you up, use it bro. Take notes on this stuff. She might not be doing this consciously; she might just retroactively be choosing whatever version of reality currently suits her and projecting any discrepancies onto you. But either way being able to prove that she's not right 100% of the time should cause her to back off a little bit. She's formed her internal narrative, and either you need to change it or break it off. quote:I'll preface this with the fact that I'm older than the average poster here by a decent margin, and live in a town that would probably be categorized as "somewhat rednecky" in West Texas. Hard to imagine, I know, but bear with me. I literally cannot think of a reason he would bring this up apart from that he wanted to do it, yeah
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 21:13 |
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Fake memory girlfriend goon, both my mom and my sister do this all the time too. And they even play off each other where they have these totally different memories of events or conversations than what me, my dad, and my brother-in-law remember. You have to call her out on it. If you let it go the problem is only going to get worse. It's been a pain in the rear end for the three of us to start telling them they're wrong over and over again after years of letting it go because we didn't think there was any harm in it. It's all fun and games until the "fake" memory is about something important and it becomes a huge tear in the family with them having an "us or them" mentality over something that every other person that was there remembers the same way.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 21:51 |
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Panty friend goon, that guy just wants to find out if you swing that way. If you take him up on the offer, he might set things up for you to get your rear end kicked instead of suck dicked.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 21:56 |
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gently caress Dan.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 22:02 |
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Solice Kirsk posted:gently caress Dan. All night if need be.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 22:08 |
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And it need be.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 22:08 |
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Remember, if you suck Dan's cock you probably won't get much of a load due to his narrow urethra
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 22:17 |
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School Nickname posted:Babysitter goon your dad paid the sitter extra to "educate" you and also to blow him. whaaaaat come onnnnn
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 22:17 |
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So why is Dan there? Even in Texas there are gay bars. He might have to drive a hundred miles to the nearest city, but still.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 22:34 |
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Gynovore posted:So why is Dan there? He's there to chew bubblegum and suck dicks. And he's all out of bubblegum.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 23:02 |
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Solice Kirsk posted:Fake memory girlfriend goon, both my mom and my sister do this all the time too. And they even play off each other where they have these totally different memories of events or conversations than what me, my dad, and my brother-in-law remember. You have to call her out on it. If you let it go the problem is only going to get worse. It's been a pain in the rear end for the three of us to start telling them they're wrong over and over again after years of letting it go because we didn't think there was any harm in it. It's all fun and games until the "fake" memory is about something important and it becomes a huge tear in the family with them having an "us or them" mentality over something that every other person that was there remembers the same way. Yeah. You absolutely need to document her and call her out on this - and don't be a confrontational dick about it, however tempting it may be - because what's happening is her brain is getting used to rewiring past events. Every single person on Earth does this constantly as some kinda memory upkeep thing but if it becomes a habit your brain gets really lazy and your memory goes out the window (because why bother ACTUALLY remembering things, when you know they occurred how you decided they occurred hours later?)
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 23:42 |
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some people do this outright deliberately as well.
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# ? Jul 6, 2017 23:43 |
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Memory goon, at first I thought that was going in the direction of your girlfriend was saying you don't remember stuff and you only hear half of what she says; I get that with my wife, and I'll admit, sometimes, I do forget conversations we had or plain don't hear what she said. Then I read a little more and she seems to be loving with you, hardcore, and I'm not sure why. It seems kind of malicious, but I can't imagine what her end goal is here. Maybe you could try recording a few conversations and see how they match up. If you get hard proof like that and confront her, then you know she is messing with your head.
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or at least go look up gaslighting on the google and go have a good honest sit down with yourself
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