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Pac-Manioc Root posted:You do not need the recipient's SSN to purchase a gift savings bond. I learned something today!
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blarzgh posted:but WHY is it bad? If you don't trust your partner you should probably just break up. Like if you feel legit suspicious of something feel free to snoop so you can feel vindicated when you sever but if you find nothing you should probably break up anyways. I'd dump someone for going through my phone/emails/etc and I've never done anything unfaithful.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:12
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Haifisch posted:My (26F) dad (48M) asked for my newborn's SSN, told me it was none of my business quote:And then be blew up and said it was none of my business, none of my SO's business, that it was between him and Baby.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:12
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Boss Baby is strong, and real, and my friend.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:14
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ArbitraryC posted:If you don't trust your partner you should probably just break up. Like if you feel legit suspicious of something feel free to snoop so you can feel vindicated when you sever but if you find nothing you should probably break up anyways. It's this. Reddit has taken it to mean that snooping is always wrong, when the more accurate version would probably be something more like snooping is always the death of the relationship or something. If you're snooping on your SO then something has eroded that basic trust. Could be justified, could be paranoia. The thing is it doesn't really matter because regardless of how you got there, you're in a place where you don't trust your partner and that's basically the end of the line.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:16
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My sister [19F] is avoiding me [18M] and being really mean to me, apparently because of a dream she had. Weird don't know what to do.quote:My sister and I normally have a great relationship, we get along great. Last night we ordered a pizza and watched a movie, played some video games, had lots of fun and went to bed late. The other night I had a dream where Jason Vorhees was chasing me through a claustrophic empty city, but he was slow as gently caress and I could outwalk him with no effort, so mostly I just threw furniture at him for fun because he's an rear end in a top hat. Well that's my story.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:18
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Intruder posted:My sister [22F] is no longer on speaking terms with me [26M] because I refused to renew a lease with her because of the new guy [37M] she's dating. Its like her sister got sent back to the minors.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:19
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Danaru posted:My sister [19F] is avoiding me [18M] and being really mean to me, apparently because of a dream she had. Weird don't know what to do. He should kiss her to break the tension.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:22
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it's common knowledge that we are all like 25% culpable for what we do in other people's dreams
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Jul 17, 2017 22:25
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I once woke up to getting punched in the face because my then-girlfriend dreamed that I slept with my ex. She claimed at the time that she did it in her sleep but the course that relationship took made me wonder.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:26
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blarzgh posted:Look, if thats what it takes for him to get his fat rear end off the couch and finish the books, let her take a shot. He needs the diarrhea descriptions exact.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:27
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chitoryu12 posted:He needs the diarrhea descriptions exact. ah, so doing research, then
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Jul 17, 2017 22:29
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ArbitraryC posted:If you don't trust your partner you should probably just break up. Like if you feel legit suspicious of something feel free to snoop so you can feel vindicated when you sever but if you find nothing you should probably break up anyways. I totally agree that if someone is going through your phone it either means something bad is going down in their head, or something bad is going down in your world and they suspect it, but I guess I never understood why that translated to them doing something "wrong." fruit on the bottom posted:It's this. Yeah, I wonder why its been mistranslated to the former when its clearly just a symptom of the latter.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:36
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hawowanlawow posted:it's common knowledge that we are all like 25% culpable for what we do in other people's dreams a friend of mine regularly gets mad at people for things they do in her dreams. I'm never sure if she's serious or not
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Jul 17, 2017 22:44
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blarzgh posted:I totally agree that if someone is going through your phone it either means something bad is going down in their head, or something bad is going down in your world and they suspect it, but I guess I never understood why that translated to them doing something "wrong." I mean it is sorta wrong to do but it's understandable if you're really suspicious of something. I think reddit's stance in the threads I've seen when it comes up is more that you shouldn't expect/want consistent access to people's private correspondence, like the thread about the pictures being taken you have to scroll down really far to see anyone even talking about snooping and in this case they were in favor or what the OP did. It's kind of overblown and exaggerated itt. People who want access to your social media/emails/phone are controlling/abusive and that's more the feel of people's comments on it I get which is why for the most part the OP usually clarifies that they did it just this once because they had a really strong (and legitimate sounding) suspicion.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:49
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I'm Using An Ultrasonic Anti Barking Device Against My Neighbors Dogs. My Neighbor Is Mad About It.quote:I bought an Anti Bark Device from http://antibarkingdevice.com to shut my neighbors dog up. A mutual friend told him and he wants me to shut it off. His dogs bark and he does not care. I have to work all night and sleep during the day while he is gone. The device works when I use it so I dont want to stop. He says it is bad for his dog. This has been going on for two weeks and he says that he is going to sue me? Can he do that? I am in TEXAS. "My neighbour's dog keeps barking during the day. I could contact some kind of authority, or I could just obliterate the dog's hearing with a device that sounds to them "like an airliner coming in for a landing" for eight hours a day."
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Jul 17, 2017 22:51
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Danaru posted:I'm Using An Ultrasonic Anti Barking Device Against My Neighbors Dogs. My Neighbor Is Mad About It. I mean that's p lovely but it's also hard to get your neighbors to take care of their dogs so it's just sort of a garbage situation all around. The people next door to my gf just let their dog into their backyard at like 7 in the morning and he immediately starts barking nonstop for literal hours. One time we couldn't go back to bed, so we just woke up, went for a walk, ran some errands, eventually came back at like 1 in the afternoon and the dog was still just sitting out there barking. I dunno why some people get dogs if they seem to hate them so much.
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Jul 17, 2017 22:59
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Danaru posted:I'm Using An Ultrasonic Anti Barking Device Against My Neighbors Dogs. My Neighbor Is Mad About It.  Dogs bark. You should expect, if you live in a neighborhood, to hear the typical sounds of a neighborhood. Barking in the middle of the night or super early, I understand that's an issue. I've worked midnight shifts at the ER myself and I have been in that situation. But this is like complaining because your neighbor is mowing the lawn at 1pm on a Saturday afternoon. And this is so above the line of what is appropriate - its just a step below walking over and hitting the neighbor's dog when it barks. Just get a loving white noise generator to make the sleeping environment better for you without hurting the animals around you. Jesus.
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Jul 17, 2017 23:04
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Kill both of them, set the dog free to live as the noble wolf within
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My family has dogs for basically my entire life, multiple big ones, and they've never had issues with excessive barking. It's just really lazy training + throwing your dog in your backyard and forgetting about them all day.
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Jul 17, 2017 23:07
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There's a difference between normal "barking at a squirrel sometimes" and nonstop barking at all times because the dog has a lovely owner that leaves it outside all day. One is considerably more of a problem than the other
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Jul 17, 2017 23:14
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TheKennedys posted:There's a difference between normal "barking at a squirrel sometimes" and nonstop barking at all times because the dog has a lovely owner that leaves it outside all day. One is considerably more of a problem than the other Although if there's no quantifiable abuse involved, there's basically no way to make it stop short of the dogs dying or either party involved moving away, so  .
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Jul 17, 2017 23:16
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TheKennedys posted:There's a difference between normal "barking at a squirrel sometimes" and nonstop barking at all times because the dog has a lovely owner that leaves it outside all day. One is considerably more of a problem than the other True. But if he's a sleep-deprived passive-aggressive douchebag neighbor that thinking damaging the dog's hearing is perfectly acceptable, he might also be 'rounding up' the amount of barking that is going on. An easier solution would be to not be a dick to your neighbor, give them one of those Kong toys you fill with peanut butter, and see if stimulation will keep the barking down. Or, you know, get a $20 white noise machine that will mask ALL disruptive noise.
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Jul 17, 2017 23:25
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How soon this thread forgets the solution is to get on a microphone and call out the Dog and let it know that, unless its all bark, youre ready for it with two fists like concrete ready to pulverize it in a no holds match this sunday on pay per view.
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Jul 17, 2017 23:29
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blarzgh posted:I totally agree that if someone is going through your phone it either means something bad is going down in their head, or something bad is going down in your world and they suspect it, but I guess I never understood why that translated to them doing something "wrong." they're reacting to a bunch of nutso stories written by people who were all up in their partners' poo poo like it's 1984 and coming crying to Reddit when having invaded every inch of their SO's personal space they'd finally succeeded at digging up something objectionable; and the Reddit collective is a bunch of bored assholes like us trying to spin every tedious sob story into a Telemundo original with abuse and cheating and amnesiac siblings. Since it comes out to the same thing (it's not abusive in the sense that smashing all their poo poo would be, but you should respect peoples' space, and all snooping really accomplishes is determining which of your faults it is for the relationship turning toxic), who cares A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 23:35 on Jul 17, 2017 |
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I get that working nights loving blows, I worked early morning shift at one job and late night at another at different points during college, but in my totally anecdotal observation a huge amount of them are total assholes about it. One of my friend's has had the cops called on him for his kids outside playing, in the middle of the day, in summer. The cops told the neighbor they couldn't do anything because they weren't breaking any laws (his kids aren't any louder than any others for that matter), but how much of a loving scrooge do you have to be to make that call in the first place? Buy some ear plugs and put Enya on repeat or something, loving hell.
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Jul 17, 2017 23:33
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Barudak posted:How soon this thread forgets the solution is to get on a microphone and call out the Dog and let it know that, unless its all bark, youre ready for it with two fists like concrete ready to pulverize it in a no holds match this sunday on pay per view. My god we've been training for this story for months and we dropped the ball.
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Dog comes across the fence wearing a tiny dog mask and underwear, barking furiously "why wait for Sunday?" As your neighbors go wild.
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ArbitraryC posted:My family has dogs for basically my entire life, multiple big ones, and they've never had issues with excessive barking. It's just really lazy training + throwing your dog in your backyard and forgetting about them all day. It's this, "dogs bark" folks have clearly either never done time in the suburbs where people just neglect their golden retrievers and poo poo until they're neurotic eternally-yelping hellbeasts, or they are those people
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Jul 17, 2017 23:36
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I think I posted about this in another thread, sorry if this is a repeat. But I had a friend in undergrad whose neighbor would continually send the dog into his yard to poo poo. When he mentioned it, the neighbor said "you can't prove it's my dog". He also was big into atkins, because hey, 2000s. So he saved up bacon grease for a few weeks and then went out one night and poured it on all the poops in the yard. The next day the dog just goes crazy, bounding around, eating up shits like some kind of scat obsessed pac man while the owner is like NOO WHAT ARE YOU DOING STOP IT STOP IT BAD DOG and the dog's just lolling and eating all the poo poo. apparently this didn't actually make the dog sick, but just really freaked out the owner?
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13Pandora13 posted:I get that working nights loving blows, I worked early morning shift at one job and late night at another at different points during college, but in my totally anecdotal observation a huge amount of them are total assholes about it. One of my friend's has had the cops called on him for his kids outside playing, in the middle of the day, in summer. The cops told the neighbor they couldn't do anything because they weren't breaking any laws (his kids aren't any louder than any others for that matter), but how much of a loving scrooge do you have to be to make that call in the first place?
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The two of you are locked in horrible struggle, until, from the very top of the fencepost you and the dog fall grappled together through the hispanic neighbors patio table. Out of breath for a moment the neighborhood watch begin to pull you apart. You yell at the Dog "Ill see you Sunday" as he howls back "I'll see you in hell!"
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"One shall stand" "Arrr, Ruff Ruff Bark!"
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This man/kid keeps flying a drone over my house with eggs attached to it that gets released on my property, I have a specific question regarding something I want to do and need to know the legal aspect to it.quote:JUST TO BE CLEAR. I AM NOT ASKING HOW TO BREAK THE LAW. I AM ASKING WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I TAKE DOWN HIS DRONE THAT'S ALL. THANKS A BUCNH.
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I'm pretty sure that the kid has not in fact made some kind of egg bombing system for his drone and is not running daily sorties dropping eggs on this guy's lawn for gently caress's sake
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Haifisch posted:This man/kid keeps flying a drone over my house with eggs attached to it that gets released on my property, I have a specific question regarding something I want to do and need to know the legal aspect to it. This has an update! quote:I would like to thank you guys for the help and all the creative ideas you have proposed in the original thread. Sorry for not updating you right away as I was really impacted by the death of a very close person in my family.
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I don't know, 11 year-olds have a lot of free time and if he doesn't start his YouTube drone pranks channel now then he'll never get that sweet internet money.
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NSFW, Me [F25] confused about best 'friend' [M27] Long story short, We have been close friends for 4 years. We talk daily and have always had an platonic friendship. Never anything sexual. I have never viewed him as anything else either other than a best friend. Well this weekend I stayed over at his place and we always sleep together on his bed because its a small little rental he lives in, basically one room and a bathroom. We literally just sleep next to each other and it has never been odd. Well this time I woke up in the middle of the night him breathing against my neck and clearly jacking off beside me while touching my upper thigh. I froze because I didnt know how to react. So I pretended to sleep and allowed him to finish. It was so awkward for me. Now it has been weird because I feel kind of silly being normal again around him when he did what he did. He hasnt said a word about it though. I dont know how to approach the issue. tl;dr: Best friend jacked off beside me thinking I was sleeping, but I wasnt. Now I feel weird and dont know if I should ask about it.
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the bitcoin of weed posted:a friend of mine regularly gets mad at people for things they do in her dreams. I'm never sure if she's serious or not Does it go both ways? Like, if you plowed her real good in a dream would she treat you nicer?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:NSFW, Me [F25] confused about best 'friend' [M27] Bring your crystals next time, obviously.
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