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maskenfreiheit posted:frankly i think a large source of ennui among redditors is having higher standards for their partner than themselves. every relationship will have issues. the inability to go "well, he forgot my birthday but he has a great job, genuinely loves me, is supportive of my career, and eats rear end... but after harping at him for four hours about forgetting a date, he raised his voice. very abusive. SEVERED!" Obviously didn't eat enough rear end.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 04:41 |
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Outrail posted:Obviously didn't eat enough rear end. loving prudes
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 04:44 |
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maybe he just is a ugly crier and is aware
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 04:52 |
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Anyway I think it's messed up he thinks tearing up at the birth of his child is shameful but also I think he kinda gets to decide if the photo gets displayed, as the subject of the photo. People can dislike a photo of themselves for all sorts of dumb reasons.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 04:56 |
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He should at least let her put it in their photo album, I mean come on.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 05:03 |
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You earn double bonus man miles if you cry at your dogs death but held it together for your parents/spouse/children/other immediate family members funeral. Modus Pwnens posted:He should at least let her put it in their photo album, I mean come on. ...nah?
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 05:08 |
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Modus Pwnens posted:He should at least let her put it in their photo album, I mean come on. He needs to get over this hang up but she needs to not put the photo in the album until he does.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 05:24 |
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As a man you're upposed to crack open a bullet and cauterize your tear ducts with the gun powder it if you feel a cry coming on.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 05:34 |
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cumshitter posted:As a man you're upposed to crack open a bullet and cauterize your tear ducts with the gun powder it if you feel a cry coming on. Just lol if you didn't do this in the 5th grade
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 05:34 |
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I guess you can also cry if you're a barbarian king and you realize that all have been subjugated before you and there are no lands or peoples left to conquer. I'd still call you a pussy, but some guys are cool with it.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 05:36 |
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its nice to hear about your dad tearing up as he held you as a baby, its not nice to be shown a picture of uggo dad shriveling up in a wet death-face
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 05:42 |
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cumshitter posted:I guess you can also cry if you're a barbarian king and you realize that all have been subjugated before you and there are no lands or peoples left to conquer. I'd still call you a pussy, but some guys are cool with it. I think it's ok to weep for your father, cut down in his prime, stabbed in the back by your treasonous uncle.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 05:44 |
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WampaLord posted:Boy the mental leap of logic to put the blame on the wife here is something else. It HAS to be the women's fault when she has FEELINGS about something I don't care about!!!!!!! *perennially single????*
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:16 |
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Look, I know I'm a little late, but cucked by ants made me laugh really unreasonably hard. If I can't have that as a username, I'm at least reserving it for the title of an EP by my completely imaginary band, The Cotton Casualties.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:19 |
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poor freckles, learned his wife had an affair with ants and died
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:23 |
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Pick posted:It HAS to be the women's fault when she has FEELINGS about something I don't care about!!!!!!! Healthily expressed feelings don't fend off sabretooth tigers. But unpredictable aggression and violence borne of unhealthy repression? You bet your prehistoric rear end.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:24 |
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Pick posted:poor freckles, learned his wife had an affair with ants and died Aaaand now we have some lyrics started. Actually maybe just somebody should be saying it and laughing before the track really starts. My fake band is serious.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:27 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:Healthily expressed feelings don't fend off sabretooth tigers. But unpredictable aggression and violence borne of unhealthy repression? You bet your prehistoric rear end. Geez except not really because we're just apes with no claws, we gotta be friends to get poo poo done.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:28 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:Healthily expressed feelings don't fend off sabretooth tigers. But unpredictable aggression and violence borne of unhealthy repression? You bet your prehistoric rear end.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:29 |
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i hate grimdark poo poo
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:30 |
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Pick posted:Geez except not really because we're just apes with no claws, we gotta be friends to get poo poo done. Are there apes that are basically goons and fail to form attachments with their pack like normal, or is that an entirely man made problem?
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:30 |
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WampaLord posted:Are there apes that are basically goons and fail to form attachments with their pack like normal, or is that an entirely man made problem? Actually yes, and the oft-mentioned Harry Harlowe investigated this in the lab; similar situations were observed by Goodall and her proteges in Gombe.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:31 |
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I never accepted the retcon of Dinosaurs as canon.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:31 |
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Fred and Wilma didn't even sleep in the same bed so let's not go looking at them for relationship advice.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 06:47 |
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drat.... My [27M] "wife" [28F] cheated on me on our wedding day with one of her bridesmaids [27F] quote:u/[deleted]
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 08:02 |
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Milotic posted:drat.... Lol loving and get an annulment you moron. Either that or open the relationship with the stipulation that you have to gently caress dudes and she has to gently caress chicks.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 08:05 |
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dudeness posted:Fred and Wilma didn't even sleep in the same bed so let's not go looking at them for relationship advice. Then where did Pebbles come from?
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 08:06 |
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Milotic posted:drat.... There is only one thing to do. Demand a poly relationship with the ultimatum of being able to bang them both. Ride this out until it inevitably collapses into a rage fuled dumpster fire.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 08:07 |
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Errant Gin Monks posted:There is only one thing to do. Demand a poly relationship with the ultimatum of being able to bang them both. Ride this out until it inevitably collapses into a rage fuled dumpster fire. This is the way to play. You hosed up when you married crazy, get all the payback sex you can. Then choose your moment and bail just as things get weird. Go pro and get out with a win or ride it down in flames. Either way, you get some stories out of it.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 08:19 |
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Leave her at the altar with instructions to marry the bridesmaid.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 08:47 |
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My [32M] Wife [27F] is boring!quote:Not so much boring per say, but nobody listens to her when she speaks.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 09:23 |
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Milotic posted:drat.... I once played at a friend's wedding and looked down mid-song to see the Bride making out with the Best (wo)Man. Apparently it was a regular occurrence and nobody seemed to care, but of all the moments to pick...
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 09:37 |
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Danaru posted:My [32M] Wife [27F] is boring! Voice coaching and speech therapy are things that exist, my aunt is one, so there's hope. At least we have a guy who does say he wants to help his wife grow as a person and be able to assert herself.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 09:53 |
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cumshitter posted:I guess you can also cry if you're a barbarian king and you realize that all have been subjugated before you and there are no lands or peoples left to conquer. I'd still call you a pussy, but some guys are cool with it. Alexander the Great was very definitely not one of the barbaroi hth
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 10:29 |
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I (34F) resent and blame my husband for causing an accident that left me paralyzed... not sure what to doquote:Throwaway because my husband knows about my reddit account. Holy crap. And of course, a bunch of comments I skimmed are saying 'blame yourself, not your husband.'
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 12:00 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:I (34F) resent and blame my husband for causing an accident that left me paralyzed... not sure what to do A lot of things don't line up in that story. Mostly, I think she is devastated by being paralyzed and is romanticizing what they had before. If the "before" was true the after wouldn't be as it is at 34. The good news is she should eventually be much happier as she comes to accept reality.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 12:25 |
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I'm going to hazard a guess and say the guy who's wracked with guilt probably took the tyre off two days ago, and it wasn't the last time the tyre was changed however many months/a year ago, duh. Edit: Counseling, marriage or personal, seems to be the right thing here.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 12:40 |
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She resents that she can no longer enjoy her idyllic DINK life yet doesn't realize that it was that previous life that allowed her to recover and for her husband to be able to provide emotional support. Though based on the fact that she mentioned they had a car get repoed and are near foreclosure, I also wonder if perhaps they weren't nearly as well off as she thought; better to sell than to have something taken away.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 13:04 |
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DINK? Democrats In North Korea? EDIT: Dual income, no kids. Right.
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# ? Aug 22, 2017 13:16 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:If you stub your toe and cry then that's weakness but crying at the birth of your child? I don't think that violates his masculinity. men don't cry. men don't cry. Men don't cry. MEN don't cry. MEN DON'T CRY. MEN, DON'T CRY! DON'T CRY, MEN! IF MEN START CRYING THEN. . . . THEN. . . . ABLOOBLOOBLOO
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