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That should be easy, medical school is pocket change so he should have no problem re-imbursing her for the expense
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Though he hasn't considered the third path, there's really no laws regarding infidelity in america anymore so he could simply cheat as moral arguments concerning ethics outside of strict legality are basically pointless.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:09 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:Younger sister, [16/f], is dating a significantly older man [27/m]. What should I do? Thoughts? Kill the man, kill your family.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:11 |
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Jokes aside, that really is a tough situation. On the one hand, it's hosed up to leave someone who helped you through so much after 21 years of being together; on the other, if he's just not happy and his kids are mature enough for it not to effect their development, it's hard to advocate him staying somewhere he just isn't happy. That age gap is a little weird, too; he was 21 to her 35 when they got together.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:14 |
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If you get caught sucking off someone else while crashing at a friends place is it better if you say "heh buddeh down worry i gah you neff?"
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:14 |
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cumshitter posted:If you get caught sucking off someone else while crashing at a friends place is it better if you say "heh buddeh down worry i gah you neff?" Yes. The only reason people dislike public sex is because they know you didn't bring enough sex for everyone.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:16 |
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cumshitter posted:If you get caught sucking off someone else while crashing at a friends place is it better if you say "heh buddeh down worry i gah you neff?" If you imagine they were cupcakes, then yes, obviously. ( just kidding, cupcakes go in the trash )
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:19 |
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Admiral Ray posted:Yes. The only reason people dislike public sex is because they know you didn't bring enough sex for everyone. That's probably the real reason that 365 days of loving dude's friends were pissed at him.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:31 |
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David Heinrich posted:Jokes aside, that really is a tough situation. On the one hand, it's hosed up to leave someone who helped you through so much after 21 years of being together; on the other, if he's just not happy and his kids are mature enough for it not to effect their development, it's hard to advocate him staying somewhere he just isn't happy. That age gap is a little weird, too; he was 21 to her 35 when they got together. Yeah I mean if we're being serious then an amicable divorce where he doesn't fight alimony and such after they've already raised their kids is like the absolute best case scenario you could ask for an older couple drifting apart, it's a bit sad but completely understandable and not really wrong. Contextually the genders in this case just sorta make it funny cause dude basically needed a bangmom while he got on his feet and is moving on now that he doesn't need her anymore. comedy result is within a year he gets hitched with a late 20's/early 30's gal and his motives become significantly more obvious.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:32 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:lol ok whatevs, let's move on: She could be the kind of person that cries over everything, but yeah this dudes a deuche.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:35 |
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I (17/F) blocked a guy from my school (16/M) on Facebook for personal reasons and now he's upset about it.Non-Romantic 3 points 19 comments submitted 5 hours ago by theflowerchild16 to r/relationships So, I really do not know how to explain my situation. I guess I'll start by saying that this kid is autistic and v i o l e n t. He gets uncontrollably angry, is constantly making suicide threats, it's just...crazy. I've known the kid since I started high school band at my school (When I started you were brought in in the 7th grade to to get used to the swing of things and plus I go to a really small school.) I'm a senior now. Anyways, he's always had a temper that he can't really control. I understand that some children on the higher end of the autism spectrum sometimes have anger issues. Some are worse than others. My sister is autistic, but shes on the low end, so I guess you can say I haven't really had my fair share of high ended autistic kids. Maybe this is why I can't handle the kid and why he gives me severe anxiety every time I'm around him (he's a ticking time bomb. If you say the wrong thing, get on to him in the slightest, he'll blow up and won't stop. That kind of thing.) and why I try to avoid him at all costs. It's kind of hard to do that though, I'm his section leader in band... ANYWAYS, I'm sorry, I love to ramble. My problem is, is that I have a lot of family on my Facebook. I live in the South. You can probably imagine that my grandparents and relatives don't want to see cuss words or inappropriate things shared on my timeline. I try my best to check everything before I share it (usernames on the tumblr posts, headlines, titles, facebook page names, etc.) so that I don't stir up trouble with my family. I'm also gonna start looking for a job soon so I'm really making sure that I don't have anything with inappropriate content/words on it. Well, this kid also has a Facebook (like most people do nowadays, lol) and he's very vulgar at times and can get in angry tangents in his posts and also, on other peoples posts! Mine included! So, I shared something I found pretty interesting (The dates of all of the hurricanes we've had. They're all around the same date!) and this kid commented "What the sht is going on." I explained to him that I can't have cursing on my page and that I was going to delete his comment. I did. A few minutes after deleting the comment, I receive a text message from him. It reads, "Oh, so you're turning your page into a Christian server so there's no swearing. K cool it's whatever *insert a laughing emoji" I replied back "No, I'm doing this because I have family members on Facebook that will get on to ME for something somebody said or did. Sorry if you don't like it. Maybe you should stay off of my page then." After I sent the message, I immediately blocked him from Facebook and messenger so he couldn't send me messages. He then goes on to make a public status to my mother asking her to talk to me and say that he's sorry. Let me tell you something, this is not the first time I've had to block/delete this kid from my social media. He's had several accounts deleted because of his vulgarity. He makes public posts about other people at our school, using full names and saying that basically they're gonna regret ever messing with him. One of my friend sees and send me a screenshot of the post. I explain to her the situation and she says she would have done the same (block him.) I come back to school today and he's all red faced (from crying I take..?) and he's pretty snappy with everybody. He tries to say he's sorry and I just cut him off and say that basically no matter what he says is gonna gain him a spot back on my Facebook. I told him I didn't like what he posted on Facebook anyways (because of his anger and relentless cussing.) He said because he feels bad about what he did, he deleted his Facebook. I immediately got a headache. I told him that he shouldn't have done that, that just because I wasn't gonna be on his Facebook that it didn't mean he had to delete it. He then proceeded to talk down about himself, calling himself names. I told him he shouldn't be doing that because he isn't any of the things he's calling himself. I don't know how to feel about this. The kid deleted his Facebook because I blocked him. I just.. I don't know. Am I an a**hole? I talked to my friends and my boyfriend about it and they all said that they would have done the same thing too and that they don't blame me. I just want ya'll's personal opinion. Was I wrong for blocking him? Am I a buttwipe? Or would you do the same thing? tl;dr: I blocked an autistic kid with anger issues on my Facebook for swearing on my Facebook post (parents and family don't want vulgar language on my Facebook of any kind) and now he's really upset about it. This isn't the first time I've had to block/delete him off of social media. Am I an a**hole for doing it?
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:36 |
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ArbitraryC posted:Yeah I mean if we're being serious then an amicable divorce where he doesn't fight alimony and such after they've already raised their kids is like the absolute best case scenario you could ask for an older couple drifting apart, it's a bit sad but completely understandable and not really wrong. I mean, that'd be more standard and it'd be a lot easier to dislike the guy for being a sitcom-esque jerk, but it just doesn't really seem like that. It's not like the dude got through med school and immediately left her for a 20 year old, they've been together a full 21 years. I think the length of time they've been together is what makes it seem less "I'm out idiot" to me.
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Me [15 M] with my good friend [15 M], I have stopped playing video games with my friend because he's an rear end in a top hat, is this ok/am I justified? (recent developments)Non-Romantic 2 points 5 comments submitted 22 days ago by YuviManBro to r/relationships Alright, this is the first time I'm posting to a long post like this but here I go! So some context first: This person, let's call him W, is a very nice good friend of mine IRL and we've spent probably over 1000 hours playing video games together since we became friends almost 5 years ago, but especially in 2015 after we transitioned from playing Minecraft to playing CS:GO. We are in multiple discord servers together. I get excited about my good and sometimes my bad games in cs and want to talk about them with people so I post stuff about them in discord but people have recently been kinda hostile to my couple messages a day so I asked the admin to make a channel so I and whoever else cares can talk about games they have played recently, instead of having it happen in the general channel, so people who don't care can mute it. This is where W comes in, calling me among other things autistic and selfish, and mocking my request saying that I just want to brag about my games in an echo chamber. I am admittedly the highest rank in our friend group, as W hasn't been able to play as much recently and I ranked up twice (we used to be the same rank). I blocked him after a short argument and told him that I am doing that. I was in CS after a game had ended later that day and he invited me to play a game (through steam). I declined and said that I don't want to play with you. He called me petty and then I said that's not petty and gave a couple lines trying to defend my position (aka you are being an rear end in a top hat and I don't want to play with you but worded nicer) This is where it gets a little more intense, he puts a transcript of our steam messages on discord but leaves out my explanation and implies in between messages that im trying to punish him out of spite or something and that kinda pisses me off as I was being super civil and didn't want to be misunderstood by other members on the discord so I call him out on that for strawmanning and a third person, G comes in agreeing heavily with me. Now G has almost 100% stopped playing with our friend group as he doesn't like how tryhard we can get (opposite of me), and says that W is the reason he stopped playing as well and that he can be a big rear end in a top hat, strawmans a lot, etc. At this point I go to sleep and when i wake up in the morning I see they have argued on for a bit, but thats neither here nor there. Today I wrote a large message to W saying this, after he called me a bitch I'm not being a bitch, I've just realised I don't enjoy constant insults for trying to do something good even if it was stupid... Also, I enjoy playing with you when were doing good but ur a P poo poo teammate when we're losing sometimes. Honesty idgaf about the game it's just you are always insulting people for no reason and I just don't like it so I thought to myself "why do I even play with him" And the answer I told myself was because we are friends but then I thought why would my friend be so antagoNistic to me Online But ok in real life... And that leads back to why I'm ok hanging out irl but I don't want to play w/ u in game/online Hope that clears it up You don't have to like it but I just don't want to play with you given how toxic you can be to me and others After this we argued a bunch more and he said that hes never an rear end in a top hat in game, and i responded with Of course you'd say you aren't toxic, maybe because you don't realize when you are sometimes. Basically offense is taken not given so sometimes you might be joking but I take offense And if that's the case then why would I force you to change When I can just remove myself From the equation Do you get what I mean? He said that he was just trying to help or something along those lines and I kinda got mad at him, as the only time he ever sent a message even remotely helpful on the discord situation was an hour after I blocked him, so ofcourse I wouldnt know what he said. In the end after some more arguing I wrote this as a final conversation ender You wanna talk about the game then? lets loving talk about the game. You tk and team damage and block me when im trying to get picks andy does that last one too and I blew up at him a couple years back and he stopped playing with me for partially that reason I dont enjoy losing and tbh losing when playing with you is even more devastating because I know that we COULD have won because you're good but we didnt because u were fuckign around We dont lose all that often but after a while even winning isnt fun with you because im always dying and getting gently caress tk'ed and as i said before I used to think its okay because we win but I have now decided to stop because its NOT FUN and I play CS to have fun and tbh i dont know why you are like this online but I wish you were as nice(ish) online as u were in person because your not a bad person u just become a massive rear end in a top hat online and always attack me for random poo poo on discord- and thats OK i guess sometimes but not all the loving time I was even talking to C(another friend) and I asked him "am i being bad to W for not playing with him" and he agreed you could calm down and not be such an rear end in a top hat and tbh other people might be fine with it but idk im just starting to give less fucks or something but I dont want to play with you if youre going to be like that with me Am I wrong for not playing with him/being petty? I just dont enjoy being yelled at online and ive decided to try and remove myself from people I find toxic but should I instead try and mend the situation? What should i do? Some of my friends say that I should just calm down and deal with toxicity as its part of the game/who he is but I just dont want to deal with that. tldr : Friend is an rear end in a top hat, should I not play with him even if it could affect our friendcircle and mess up relations with him who is ok in person?
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Me [30F] with my wife[30F], I think she is addicted to the internet and is about to lose her job over itPersonal issues 605 points 88 comments submitted 1 month ago by fungusamonguses to r/relationships Yesterday was a final straw for my wife's internet usage and when I tried to make it a discussion, she became hysterical and wouldn't speak to me. She told me that she's received her final warning for 'excessive internet usage' at work. I said to her "final warning? how many have there been?" Two or three times in the past year. She usually spends her time on facebook, tumblr, amazon, forums, twitter, etc. Things I can definitely understand an employer not wanting to pay her for. "They don't give me enough work to do, and I told them that". Great. She is late to her job every morning, no matter what her start time is. When she had a start time of 8am, she'd show up at 8:20. Her boss ended up changing her start time to just be at 8:15 am for her (very nice of him) but then she was just coming in at 8:30 or 8:45. Last month they changed her start time to 9am. I leave the house for work at 7 usually, so I assumed she was easily making it in by 9. Last week I was ill and worked remotely and saw that no-- she wasn't even leaving the house until her shift was about to begin. No matter what her start time is at her job, she's late. Why is she late, you ask? Well, it's only a 20m drive so distance and traffic isn't the reason. Every morning, as soon as she blinks herself awake, she reaches to the nightstand for her cellphone. Facebook is usually the first thing she goes to. I'll say to her 'hey put the phone down and get ready' and she'll say "this is my routine, this is my routine, i have to do it". The problem is she'll lay in bed on her phone/Facebook for an hour or more every morning. By the time she puts the phone away, she's supposed to start her shift in 20 minutes and she hasn't even gotten out of bed or showered yet. The addiction is now affecting our relationship. Can't even talk to her hardly anymore. She comes home from work, out comes the phone. I'll ask her a question 2, 3, 4, 5, times, and she never responds. It's like she's on another planet. If we try to watch a show? She's on her phone the whole time too, playing games or reading posts. I've begun to feel like an echo in my own home, almost like I live alone. I can't even remember the last time she wasn't staring at her screen and it's been getting so much worse. Other than the phone usage, our relationship is good. We love each other dearly, care about each other immensely, and typically almost never argue. Now all of our arguments stem from me asking her to put the phone/internet down. I've suggested she sees a therapist (many times) for her depression. She always agrees but never follows through. Last night I suggested "Why don't we deem 8pm-9pm for Social Media Time" and leave our phones away the rest of the evening. She was immediately incensed and snapped, "That's NOT going to help my depression." Her instant defensiveness is an obvious red flag that this is an addiction issue. Any time I try to talk to her about this, she breaks down into hysterics or gets extremely mean towards me. I've tried multiple approaches, ranging from "I'm concerned for you" to "I'm worried about me" to "How can we realistically plan to raise a child if you can't even get to work on time like the rest of the world?" I don't want to resent her but I'm starting to. Also to make note, she does fall on the autistic spectrum, which she employs often when I confront her ("I'm an aspie, i need my routine and can't possibly change it" or "I'm an aspie, I'm always late and that's never changing"). I'm trying to be understanding of mental limitations but these seem like problems that some simple time management could resolve. What do I do? I feel like a stranger in my own home with my own wife, I'm terrified she will lose her job and she doesn't seem to care about keeping it, and I can't support us both on my income. Am I being insensitive like she claims? I don't want to be a bad wife, but I'm genuinely afraid this addiction is going to ruin her life and mine with it. tl;dr: Wife is addicted to the internet and it's affecting her job and our relationship. I've suggested time management and therapy to help but am met with anger and derision, not sure what to do anymore.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:42 |
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In order: 1) The internet was a mistake 2) The most teenage thing I've ever seen 3) See 1.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:44 |
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David Heinrich posted:I mean, that'd be more standard and it'd be a lot easier to dislike the guy for being a sitcom-esque jerk, but it just doesn't really seem like that. It's not like the dude got through med school and immediately left her for a 20 year old, they've been together a full 21 years. I think the length of time they've been together is what makes it seem less "I'm out idiot" to me. I doubt he himself thinks that I just imagine that's sorta the underlying current. He's still young enough to start a second family if he feels like it and without any other motive than some nebulous "there's just no spark anymore" he probably just kind of wants to spread his wings as a well off and still somewhat young doctor in a way that he can't in his comfortable 21 year long relationship. I don't think he's nefariously scheming or anything I just suspect that his desire for "something else" is going to unsurprisingly coincide with a substantially younger partner when all is said and done.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:46 |
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Weaponizing your mental disorder to win arguments should be banned by the Geneva Convention. Also he should ban her from their marriage. My [28 F] boyfriend of six years [28 M] apparently sent a bunch of money to a dominatrix, and I don't know how to bring it up quote:We have been together for six years, and fairly early on in the relationship, he cheated on me. I walked in on them (I had keys to his apartment). Eventually, I took him back, but I guess I always had some trust issues in the back of my mind. dudeness fucked around with this message at 05:19 on Sep 1, 2017 |
# ? Sep 1, 2017 04:49 |
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A few pages late, but one thing television always seems to be right about: NEVER date a magician. Unless she's literally Zatanna, in Paul Dini's case. And jesus harvey christ, am I glad I stopped using Facebook, it seems to bring nothing but ridiculous passive-aggressive trouble.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 05:53 |
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Pick posted:Me [30F] with my wife[30F], I think she is addicted to the internet and is about to lose her job over itPersonal issues quote:Other than the phone usage, our relationship is good. Why the gently caress are there so many goddamn morons that say poo poo like "Other than this catastrophic issue that has displaced our relationship, our relationship is good." Mother fucker you don't have a relationship anymore you have a series of problems that you sometimes gently caress.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 05:58 |
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Admiral Ray posted:Why the gently caress are there so many goddamn morons that say poo poo like "Other than this catastrophic issue that has displaced our relationship, our relationship is good." Mother fucker you don't have a relationship anymore you have a series of problems that you sometimes gently caress. New motherfucking thread title.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 05:59 |
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David Heinrich posted:Jokes aside, that really is a tough situation. On the one hand, it's hosed up to leave someone who helped you through so much after 21 years of being together; on the other, if he's just not happy and his kids are mature enough for it not to effect their development, it's hard to advocate him staying somewhere he just isn't happy. That age gap is a little weird, too; he was 21 to her 35 when they got together. it sounds like he's just bored and imagining his middle-aged life will somehow become wildly more free and exciting when he's alone instead of splitting costs and sharing it with another person (it won't) there's nothing in particular he wants to do, nothing in particular about married life or his wife he purports to still love that he has a problem with, maybe he's just being super coy about it but in the absence of anything even approaching a tangible grievance just go get a combover and buy an expensive Italian car that never leaves your garage like every other 40-year-old in your situation dude A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 06:13 on Sep 1, 2017 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:New motherfucking thread title.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 06:10 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:it sounds like he's just bored and imagining his middle-aged life will somehow become wildly more free and exciting when he's alone instead of splitting costs and sharing it with another person (it won't) I would bet a whole ton of cash that he'll just end up loving various younger strange for some odd years before he realizes it has it's own bag of drama and issues and he'll regret ditching a 20+ year relationship where the biggest flaw he could point to was that it became a bit boring. Like he might not be able to be honest with himself about his intentions but basically the only thing he can do as a single dude that he couldn't do in his longstanding healthy relationship is "date other people".
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 06:14 |
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that is the specific regard in which his life won't become wildly more free and exciting yes
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 06:23 |
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Admiral Ray posted:Why the gently caress are there so many goddamn morons that say poo poo like "Other than this catastrophic issue that has displaced our relationship, our relationship is good." Mother fucker you don't have a relationship anymore you have a series of problems that you sometimes gently caress.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 06:24 |
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Also, I think the problem in his marriage 'she's not as attractive now as she was at 35, and I married her at 21 so I'm missed out on a bunch if stuff I'm sure'. And then like e rey guy who broke up with a girl to get more girl he'll have nothing while she hooks up with some other younger dude with a milf fetish.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 06:32 |
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Outrail posted:Also, I think the problem in his marriage 'she's not as attractive now as she was at 35, and I married her at 21 so I'm missed out on a bunch if stuff I'm sure'. And then like e rey guy who broke up with a girl to get more girl he'll have nothing while she hooks up with some other younger dude with a milf fetish. this is a pretty common thing of middle-aged doctor and lawyer types and what will happen is he will get a decades-long sequence of perky 25-year-old ski instructors named Taylor with daddy issues who can't manage half an hour of conversation before you just want to claw your eardrums out. and, after the first one, a severe alcohol dependency unlike flabby nerds who think becoming swingers will make them sex gods, rich old guys have no trouble getting hot young tail, it's just from people who are too obnoxious to have any friends their own age A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 06:42 on Sep 1, 2017 |
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Pick posted:I never used that word I just said that people will never stop falling in love with her and she will destroy them all. Joke's on her. She'll have to build me up before she can tear me down, so ultimately I still come out ahead.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 09:54 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:New motherfucking thread title.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 14:19 |
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We have two kids [4,8] we can no longer bring to their grandparents [late 70s] house because SIL [35F] hates children. Looking for friendly solutionquote:Would like some advice on making some kind of compromise between my husband and I and his sister. quote:I don't know. We live across the country from them, but my husband will go visit them during the holidays this year if the "ban" still stands for our children. He will get a much better sense of how their lives have been since she's moved in. People are poo poo.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 14:20 |
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Admiral Ray posted:Why the gently caress are there so many goddamn morons that say poo poo like "Other than this catastrophic issue that has displaced our relationship, our relationship is good." Mother fucker you don't have a relationship anymore you have a series of problems that you sometimes gently caress.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 14:21 |
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People who do not like animals, and people who do not like kids, are almost always complete loving assholes.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 14:23 |
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Me [30 M] with my girlfriend [32 F] of about 15 years, she no longer wants to have sex due to concerns about pregnancy but does not (herself) want to use birth controlquote:tl;dr version: This guy posted a whole novel, but the tl;dr is all you really need. Also, the girlfriend found the post and made him edit in that she considered the argument where she "fell out of love" verbal abuse.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 14:34 |
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holy poo poo no way, an update from the other side of the "top/bottom" gay son dad drama My [27 M] fiance [33 M]'s dad [65] is treating me like a daughter-in-law-to-be. quote:I have been with my BF/fiance for nearly 4 years and our relationship is wonderful. My BF was originally very close with his dad but after he came out to his parents his dad alienated him and my BF felt sad and disappointed.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 14:40 |
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:holy poo poo no way, an update from the other side of the "top/bottom" gay son dad drama Yeah it's really uncomfortable to be treated like a woman. 'Cause that's what it's like. Feel free to sympathize with 51% of the world's population any time, gents.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 14:43 |
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My gf [25F] of 4 yrs will break up with me [27M] if I don't suck up thousands $$ to buy her a ringquote:I love Cara and want to spend my life with her. She's usually reasonable, funny, very charming. What is the collectible item, taking all bets
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 14:46 |
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Buzkashi posted:My gf [25F] of 4 yrs will break up with me [27M] if I don't suck up thousands $$ to buy her a ring There is a 0% chance this is a thing that will appreciate in value. Also, $2K for a ring is not a lot, if he can purchase a special edition Nintendo Switch with golden Marios on it, he can buy a ring.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 14:48 |
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Pick posted:People who do not like animals, and people who do not like kids, are almost always complete loving assholes. I like animals and don't like being around kids. People generally think I'm okay but kind of an rear end in a top hat. Theory checks out.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 14:50 |
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Buzkashi posted:My gf [25F] of 4 yrs will break up with me [27M] if I don't suck up thousands $$ to buy her a ring
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Buzkashi posted:What is the collectible item, taking all bets Going to guess Star Wars collectible. I think they announced a bunch of them the other day.
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# ? Sep 1, 2017 14:53 |