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what does it mean when she says let's go play mario kart in my dorm? (self.dating_advice)quote:is it some kind of code word or does she really want to play mario kart?
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maskenfreiheit posted:what does it mean when she says let's go play mario kart in my dorm? (self.dating_advice) Mario Kart & chill.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Mario Kart & chill. MARIO DOESN'T MEAN MARIO JERRY
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Mario Kart & chill. Mario Kart & rage.
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Mario Kart is a gateway to hatesex.
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maskenfreiheit posted:I [28M] am attracted to my gf [22F] of 3 months' mind, but not her bodyRelationships Oh well la de dah look at fancyass over here who thinks he gets a woman who meets exactly every single one of his preferences. What are you, the King of Prussia?
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# ? Sep 3, 2017 21:49 |
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David Heinrich posted:Mario Kart is a gateway to hatesex. Only if you care about winning.
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(27/M) Having a meetup with a long time online friend (25/M) I saw he has a TON of candid pictures of me on his phoneNon-Romantic (self.relationships) quote:Yo Reddit!! So Im kinda of really creeped out right now and dunno what I should do. Posting cause I feel weird talking to any of my friends about this because it's someone I've just met in person (were friends online). My real life friends don't really have online friendships and don't see the point, and my other Internet friends know him online too. Anyway I met this guy gaming a couple years ago. We were on the same team (still are) some of our other online friends are also on that team, but me and him especially got along because we have the same sense of humor. That led to talking more and adding eachother on other places. We eventually became pretty good friends and have chatted a few times a week over the past year or so.
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maskenfreiheit posted:(27/M) Having a meetup with a long time online friend (25/M) I saw he has a TON of candid pictures of me on his phoneNon-Romantic Ah, I love pre-murder mysteries.
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Pick posted:Oh well la de dah look at fancyass over here who thinks he gets a woman who meets exactly every single one of his preferences. What are you, the King of Prussia? even the Duke of Braunschweig doesn't get to have that kind of pickiness.
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# ? Sep 3, 2017 21:57 |
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Jason Sextro posted:even the Duke of Braunschweig doesn't get to have that kind of pickiness. TBH men of that period seemed to have way more reasonable standards. gently caress. If you ever look at the art of famously beautiful princesses, even discounting that they were painted to be flattering, sometimes you're like "oh they look like normal people". Woooow, crazy!
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maskenfreiheit posted:what does it mean when she says let's go play mario kart in my dorm? (self.dating_advice) In college, me and my best friend's brother would go play Diablo 2 in my dorm room after classes were done and and we had socialized out in the commons for a couple of hours. One girl was convinced we were loving like horny rabbits for months, and that we were talking in code to keep it on the downlow. Her gaydar was broken, though. She had a crush on the swishiest femboi I've ever known and she was convinced that the guy was straight. It turned out that they were cousins and everyone had a good laugh. That's my hot, gay, dorm-sex story.
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I [mid20s/F] am falling for a guy [late30's/M] who I feel like has some red flags. Need advice on whether I'm just being judgmental or that I need to back off away from this onequote:It's been a very long time since I've been so attracted to someone like him. He's educated, witty, easygoing, works out, has a stable job, seems gets along with everyone from kids to elders, and he seems to be a big family guy, and... we have a lot of sexual chemistry.
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Haifisch posted:I [mid20s/F] am falling for a guy [late30's/M] who I feel like has some red flags. Need advice on whether I'm just being judgmental or that I need to back off away from this one No red flags here, this sleazy dude going to frat parties is just a catch! Those feelings of unease you are getting are just feelings of self-doubt and sabotage! Hook this one before he escapes because there's absolutely no other guys out there that will use you and then dump you!
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Admiral Ray posted:No red flags here, this sleazy dude going to frat parties is just a catch! Those feelings of unease you are getting are just feelings of self-doubt and sabotage! Hook this one before he escapes because there's absolutely no other guys out there that will use you and then dump you! And poker is a game of skill - no one loses, except the house
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Hi there, please help. My partner, recently told me that she's going on a short holiday to stay with a male friend in another country.quote:I am a bit paranoid about relationships, I do have some insecurities, but I am very uncomfortable about this. My first problem is that she didn't discuss it with me first, she just told me that she was going. Now obviously I can't control where she goes and who she sees, but I would have liked the chance to talk about it with her first. Second - I'm just so worried that my suspicions will be confirmed. She's never been unfaithful but I have been cheated on in a past relationship which is why I'm freaking out a bit.
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maskenfreiheit posted:Hi there, please help. My partner, recently told me that she's going on a short holiday to stay with a male friend in another country. Somebody needs to be introduced to the story of Pete.
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Haifisch posted:I [mid20s/F] am falling for a guy [late30's/M] who I feel like has some red flags. Need advice on whether I'm just being judgmental or that I need to back off away from this one A real five card stud if I ever heard one
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maskenfreiheit posted:Hi there, please help. My partner, recently told me that she's going on a short holiday to stay with a male friend in another country. Absurd Alhazred posted:Somebody needs to be introduced to the story of Pete. Also, if it's relevant, we have not had sex in months. She's not interested, I don't have a huge libido but I've told her it's important for my self esteem. This guy is no Pete.
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ZearothK posted:Also, if it's relevant, we have not had sex in months. She's not interested, I don't have a huge libido but I've told her it's important for my self esteem.
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Pick posted:TBH men of that period seemed to have way more reasonable standards. gently caress. Yeah well you try picking out the hottest of your cousins
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I [25M] had a blowout with my best friend [25M] last night after he confessed that he was in love with me. I'm straight except for stuff I've done with him and he's gay.quote:When we were 16 we got stoned and I let him give me a blowjob. The next day he came out to me and I told him that it didn't change things between us but despite the blowjob I wasn't into guys. A few weeks later we got stoned again and I let him blow me again. It became kind of a regular thing except when I've had girlfriends mostly. i'm totally not gay and had no idea my best friend was into me over ten years despite numerous blowjobs and full-on-loving
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I [14M] am now living with my aunt [38F] and I've apparently ruined [17M] chances of getting a car because I walked to school last week.quote:The past 6 months or so have not been easy for my sisters and I. Thankfully they're older than me so they don't have to deal with worrying about where they're going to go. I am the youngest in my family and no body listening to you is difficult. Everyone was talking over me and I felt like my voice was barely heard throughout this whole thing. I was displaced due to a situation surrounding my parents My sisters are all 1-2 years out of college and not fit to support a teenager. My Aunt is Lawyer, and everyone decided it would be best if I lived with her. LOL at needing "good cardio" to walk 30 minutes each way to school.
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I am starting to believe all those blowjob stories were written one-handed.Absurd Alhazred posted:I [14M] am now living with my aunt [38F] and I've apparently ruined [17M] chances of getting a car because I walked to school last week. The good side is that if the goon ever gets really mad at the 14 years old kid he's going to have his rear end handed to him. A half hour walk is like two kilometers for an average person walking at average speed, my 75 years old grandma does them, and is perfectly comfortable unless you got a lot of sun, rain or snow dropping on your head.
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ZearothK posted:I am starting to believe all those blowjob stories were written one-handed. I mean, on the one hand it is Massachusetts, so maybe it's not as comfy in winter. On the other hand, there's snow shoes and jackets, and the 17-year-old is getting rides anyway.
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corn on the cop posted:I [25M] had a blowout with my best friend [25M] last night after he confessed that he was in love with me. I'm straight except for stuff I've done with him and he's gay. i mean he was pretty clear it's just a brojob, and his friend physically assaulted him when he declined more sex after he realized his bro wasn't respecting the "friends with benefits" nature of the relationship... sounds like his "friend" is unstable and abusive
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Dating as a escort... torn between money and him F(20) M(27)quote:Just recently started seeing this guy (we'll call him A) late May this year. We clicked and things are getting exclusive/semi serious. Right off the bat, even before we met up I was very up front with him about my job. He didn't seem to care but as things progressed, he seemed to develop an issue with it. So naturally, I quit the agency and stuck to this one guy who I met through escorting. We'll call him SD. A night with SD consists of going out, clubbing, drinking, and going back to his place and staying overnight. Sex is normally required. For all that I would get a little over a grand. I've known SD for a little over 6 months now. He's promised me a few things like leasing me a car, renting me an apartment downtown, paying my tuition, taking me to Vegas for my birthday etc...things that I really really want and would be impossible to get working a reg job. SD has suspected me of seeing somebody else and has also developed an issue with it. He is constantly jealous, making a huge fuss over late replies on text, always arguing when we're together, asking to see my phone, go through my texts. It's gone to the point where I absolutely despise him. I'm just continuing our 'relationship' for the benefits.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Mario Kart & chill. Literally how I started my latest relationship. Go for it, kid. Nothing gets chicks hotter than Rainbow Road.
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I (21F) Am Upset At My Fiance (43M) For What He did While My Friend (22F) was in the Room ?quote:She's a friend of mine too who's got a mental age of a child (autistic). Well they share an area sort of like a living room. One on one couch one on another. He said he muted the volume and didn't jack off in the room cause it was crossing a line.... Should I be upset he watched porn in the same room as her although she was asleep? He said he stayed on his couch which I believe and kept the phone facing him. Said he won't do it again Edit: LOL, this is just the tip of the shitberg: quote:Yes, this would bother me and I would say something. OP posted:Ok, I am asking for an opinion on THIS situation. I DO NOT care that anyone doesn't like that he was in jail. You don't know that situation, unlike me. So DO NOT add other things into this ONE question, that aren't related to what is being asked. quote:You cannot come to a sub for advice and dictate the advice you are given. OP posted:Yes, I can cause it's my post. If you do not know a situation, such as him going to jail, and why he did; you have no room to say anything about it. There ARE people who've gone to jail over stupid poo poo they did not even do. quote:You don't own anything here, this is a public forum. OP posted:and i can get irritated because people are half rear end reading and including irrelevant comments into a topic where they are not relevant. and it's my post. i own this post. i have the power to edit and delet this post. correct? thought so. Said cussing being: quote:He is dating a girl half his age, so that was already a red flag that he's a creep. Watching porn in public confirms it. OP posted:jesus titty loving Christ. first off, we are LEGAL. ADULTS. I AM NOT ASKING WHAT YOU THINK OF OUR AGE DIFFERENCE. BECAUSE WE ARE LEGAL ADULTS. GOT THAT? second, it is a SHARED ROOM, a ROOM, not the mall, not a school, not a park, a ROOM. there is huge difference. Absurd Alhazred fucked around with this message at 02:27 on Sep 4, 2017 |
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corn on the cop posted:I [25M] had a blowout with my best friend [25M] last night after he confessed that he was in love with me. I'm straight except for stuff I've done with him and he's gay. Blowout, heh. Anyway buddy I'm not sure why you've been letting your best friend suck your dick for 10 years and then getting awkward when he talks about it unless there are some weird suppressed emotions you've got kicking around.
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How to deal with a GF who dislikes sports? submitted 5 years ago * by sportsthrow I am 27, she is 29. We have been dating for 2+ years now. Everything has gone (mostly) excellent so far - we're talking about marriage, planning our future, sex is great, etc. - but something that has always been a source of strain in our relationship is sports. I am a pretty big sports fan. When I was single I watched multiple college football games every Saturday (plus random CFB games on other days), multiple NFL games on Sunday, the Thursday & Monday night NFL games, pretty much every single MLB game for the team I rooted for, and a large # of other MLB games. A large percentage of my friends are/were the same. When getting into this relationship, I realized that this probably wasn't going to continue and I have cut down my viewing to only watching the CFB team I root for, the NFL team I root for, and 2-3 games/week of the MLB team I root for. The problem is that my GF still thinks that this is still an absolutely ludicrous amount of sports to watch and she HATES that during football season I don't want to do anything between noon and 3pm on Saturdays and Sundays except watch my teams. I, on the other hand, feel like I have already made a huge sacrifice for her by giving up watching all those others games and get really frustrated that she keeps wanting to cut out more and more. I think that a large part of the tension stems form the fact that she is from an area of the country where sports (especially college sports) aren't that big of a deal and she never grew up watching them, so she thinks that I am a sports psycho because I want to watch my CFB and NFL team each week (baseball is less of a problem because she finds it less boring to watch, but it would still be a huge problem if I tried to watch every single game). I have tried to explain that it is actually fairly normal for people to watch their CFB and NFL teams each weekend, but she doesn't buy it. But the latest issue involved baseball. A few weeks ago I chose to stay at home and watch a baseball game where my favorite pitcher for my favorite team was in the process of throwing a no-hitter instead of going to an impromptu dinner with her and her friend. I tried to explain the historical significance of the event, how cool it would be to me to see the whole thing, how I wasn't even hungry because we had been to a happy hour just previously where we had eaten at, etc. None of this appeased her. She said it was "crazy" to choose to watch a game on TV instead of going to dinner with a friend and said (paraphrasing) "how am I supposed to explain to her that you're not here because you're watching a stupid baseball game?" I don't yell and scream at the TV. I don't own even a single jersey. I don't have posters or anything on the walls from the teams I like. I don't own a single piece of merchandise except one t-shirt. I just like to watch the games because I genuinely enjoy them. She has said that choosing to watch a game instead of doing something with her makes her feel like the game is more important to me than her... but the way I see it, sports is something that is very important to me, and although it will never be more important to me than she is, I feel that she should not try and force me to give up a hobby that I really enjoy. I haven't made her give up any of her hobbies. I tried in the past giving her the team schedule ahead of time so she is aware in advance of when games are so we can plan activities/other stuff around them, instead of her not knowing until the day of that I don't want do something today at 3 because my team is playing then. That helped a little bit, but didn't really come close to solving the issue. Sorry for the long post - I didn't want to leave any details out. Can I get some help /r/relationships? Do any couples have some tips and tricks for dealing with this issue? Has anyone experienced this before and have some insight? Thanks folks. tl;dr GF doesn't like how much time I like watching sports. I think it is reasonable.
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Should I[22F] take over credit payments for a gift given to me by my ex[23M] while we were still together? 4 points 6 comments submitted 4 years ago by TheBarBarBinks to r/relationships I was with Josh (my now ex) for 3 years and 3 months. For Valentine's about a year before we broke up, he bought me a Canon T3i camera (plus accessories and an extra lens) using payment credit at a local electronics store. He knew I wanted one, and surprised me with it over dinner that night. During our relationship, he made the payments on it from our joint account on his own and went to the store physically to make them. (About $70 per month, and I think a 24 month contract.) We broke up in December and it was pretty ugly. Long story short, I ended up pregnant with his child while he committed felonies that got us evicted from our house, disappeared for days on end, and cheated on me for months (before and during my pregnancy) with a younger female that he is now in a relationship with. He has used his same credit now to buy her diamond necklaces and other gifts which he also makes monthly payments on. My dilemma is he now wants me to take over payments on the camera (claims he can't afford them) that he bought for me and I suppose I am at a moral crossroads with this. I know I can't exactly trust my own feelings because due to him being mentally abusive during the relationship, I am still somewhat submissive to him and I know that. On one hand I feel bad because I have possession of and frequently use an item he is still making payments on, and this makes me feel somewhat guilty. On the other, he gave it to me as a gift while we were still together, and if he did not want to make the commitment to the payments whether or not we stayed together, he should not have signed the contract. I also know that if he were to end his current relationship, he would not ask this girl to take over payments on the diamonds he has bought her (he has said as much to me)... so why is he asking me to take over payments on the camera? (This may be irrelevant, but...) How does he expect to afford child support once our son is here if he claims he can not afford the camera payments? He has also contributed a total of $30 as far as buying baby merchandise... whereas I have spent several hundred and I am 30 weeks pregnant now. He claims he can not afford these things, yet he is making payments on things for this new girl and buying a new car (he has a working truck and two working motorcycles) while contributing nothing towards his child... But despite all of this, I still feel a pang of guilt for feeling like I shouldn't take over the payments. So, what do you think, Reddit? TL;DR: My ex-boyfriend of 3 years wants me to take over payments of a camera he bought me while we were still together following a nasty break up. Wat do?
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Pick posted:A few weeks ago I chose to stay at home and watch a baseball game where my favorite pitcher for my favorite team was in the process of throwing a no-hitter instead of going to an impromptu dinner with her and her friend. i wonder which game/pitcher this was
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Pick posted:I'm Going To Take Over Credit Payments for Josh!
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Pick posted:(baseball is less of a problem because she finds it less boring to watch, but it would still be a huge problem if I tried to watch every single game). This is the biggest red flag she could have waved what the gently caress are you doing? . Also yes you watch too much loving TV. The fact that football comes on in the middle of the day on the weekends means those weekends necessarily suck because you won't be able to go do anything without whining about it.
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# ? Sep 4, 2017 02:37 |
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Admiral Ray posted:Blowout, heh. if a man had a FWB relationship with a woman for 10 years then assaulted her when he tried to make it more and she turned him down, would we be lolling? 🤔
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My boyfriend[25M] insulted me[25F] horribly during a fight, I don't know what to do nextDating 667 points 281 comments submitted 1 year ago by heartbrokenthrway to r/relationships James and I met in college sophomore year and became fast friends, but only started dating exclusively after we graduated, four years ago. Until now, James has been the light of my life- he's so energetic and sincere, and always tries to make me laugh and takes such good care of me. I'm very introverted and lost all of my friends shortly after undergrad graduation as they moved away, so James made sure to help me step out of my shell and become more forthright- it didn't really work, but I appreciated the thought, and I made a few friends. We never really seriously fought about anything; we've had little spats a few times, but those we over within minutes. When we first started dating, he introduced me to his family as soon as I was comfortable with it, and they accepted me and then some. His mother is always giving me sweaters, or cooking meals for us, or doing something else ridiculously nice. We moved in together a year and a half ago, after he completed law school and I was done with my Master's. We're both gainfully employed and make good money(he is a lawyer, I am a chemist), so we don't have any financial issues. We have been discussing getting married soon and having children within the next 5-7 years, something we were both very excited about. I thought everything was perfect. This past Friday, James seemed tense. We usually go out on Fridays, so I asked him what was wrong and if he wanted to stay in tonight. He made a 'hmm' noise that I interpreted as affirmative. I wanted to give him space, so I went into our room to draw in my sketchbook and listen to music. After about two hours, I went back to check on him and see if he needed anything, and to find out what was bugging him. He looked visibly more agitated than before, and had a beer in hand and a few empty bottles to his side. When I went to ask him what was wrong he looked at me for a second, then launched into a tirade. He said that he was tired of seeing how pathetic I was, how it was a Friday night and I was in my pj's wasting time like a child, how I was too incompetent and weird to make even a single friend without help. He said he felt like he was wasting his life spending it with me, how he wanted more excitement and fun and deserved more out of life. He said that dating me was a mistake, but he knew that I was 'safe' since no one else would want such a weird girl(he is my first boyfriend), and how I am a "pity gently caress [he] got attached to". I was completely devastated, I couldn't even defend myself, or say anything at all. After he was done he looked away from me, obviously not going to apologize. I gathered my essentials and left our apartment as quickly as possible, and went to a hotel near my workplace. I'd never felt so awful in my entire life. That day I could do was cry, try to calm down, fail, cry some more, and sleep. The next day I woke up just past noon to see that I had over 20 missed calls and dozens of texts from James. He said that on Friday, one of the HR guys let it slip that he would be let go soon, which is why he was so on edge in the first place. Law work is hard to find where we are, so he was lucky to get the job in the first place, especially right out of school. He was drowning his sorrows in beer and making himself more and more angry and scared, and he finally couldn't handle it by the time I came by to see him. He said that he didn't mean a word of it, that I'm not weird or incompetent or anything like that, that he didn't even really know what he was saying. How he got blind drunk after I left and woke up in a panic after realizing what he had done. He apologized over and over again in his texts, and while reading them he called my phone again. I picked up and he apologized to me more, saying how he loves me so much and is disgusted with himself for saying what he said. He sounded genuine and I could hear the tears in his voice, but I didn't want to see him yet. He said he'd stay with his parents so I could come back to the apartment. I'm back home and I have time to think about everything, but I don't know what to do, not at all. I love James more than anything, but what he said was so vicious and touched upon all of insecurities. I do think he's genuinely remorseful, but I'm unsure if I should give him a second chance. I want to, but that is my heart talking, not my head. I need to be logical about this.
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maskenfreiheit posted:if a man had a FWB relationship with a woman for 10 years then assaulted her when he tried to make it more and she turned him down, would we be lolling? 🤔 I dunno which part you're talkin' about here 'cause I didn't see him say anything about being sexually assaulted in this story.
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Me [26F] and my husband of 4 years [34M] disappointed in him after having a baby. I can't take care of both of them.Relationships 428 points 108 comments submitted 1 year ago by Balings to r/relationships I will try to make this as simple as possible. But there is a lot of stuff. My husband and I have been married for 4 years this month. It has been great. Now we also have a 5 month old baby. Who ofc is the most adorable baby ever. But, I feel disappointed in my husband. He had no clue what it would be like to have a baby. Sure you can't really know what it will be like, but most people know, that babies cry. Sometimes he will ask me "when will this baby be normal", which infuriates me, because he is normal. It's normal for them to cry, and resist sleep, or wake up in the middle of the night. While I was pregnant I would tell him to do some reading, so he could be a little bit prepared. I even sent him links so he didn't have to do the search himself. But it's like whatever he reads or whatever I tell him goes in one ear and out the other. I am getting sick of it. He loves our son more than anything, so there is nothing there. He is so good at playing with him, for like 10 minutes. Then he gets bored or doesn't know what to with him. He either just lets him watch tv, while he sit with his phone or on the computer. I take care of the baby all day. He only has to take him while I make dinner. I get mad when he does it, but I am so tired of repeating myself. I mean is it that hard to play with him? He can be pretty negative sometimes. He is already depressed and wondering how he will handle it when I go back to work. I have a year of maternity leave. So that's still 7 months from now. I try to explain to him that there is a huge difference between a 5 month old and a 1 year old. And at that age he will be in daycare. He is the one who will be picking him up and making him dinner, since I have a long drive to and from work. But he insist on taking the sorrows in advance. Besides all the baby stuff, my husband is overweight and a smoker. From the beginning of our relationship he said he would quit smoking. But he keeps failing. He wants to lose weight, but has no clue how to eat healthy. If it was up to him he would live off white bread, butter and eggs. A couple of weeks ago we had a bit of a scare. He collapsed after waking up in the morning. I had to call for an ambulance with a crying baby on my arm, which was horrible. They tested his heart and his brain, nothing wrong with him, he most likely just stood up too fast after only getting few hours of sleep. But after that he swore that he would change and take better care of himself. After all he has a son now who needs him to stick around for a long time. Plus I need him too. I have tried to help him eat healthy in the past, since he has no idea what to eat. When I recommend something he looks at me like I'm a freak and with a comment "who eats that?" Or "I'm not a rabbit". When I serve him vegetables with dinner he barely eats it. Doesn't matter what kind. He says he treats it like medicine. I dont have the time or the energy to take care of him. I have the baby all day, plus I'm the only one that cooks and cleans. I have told him to figure out himself what to eat. I mean there is Google and Reddit. What more do you need. On top of all this I think he is stressed. He works from home on the computer. His job requires he takes a lot of breaks since it's a lot of clicking. But even if he has 4 hours of work it takes him all day. He is barely finished when i go to bed. Then he stays up all night to finish and as he says " I have poo poo to do". He always has stuff to do. When he is finally done he needs a break, so he plays Fifa. Then he ends up going to bed around 5 in the morning. Which results in him sleeping all day. And he can't break the cycle. I don't know how to help him anymore. I feel like he just needs to step up and make some changes. I know it's hard, but people do it all the time. Some of it I don't want to say to him because I don't want to hurt his feelings. He is under enough pressure. He doesn't need a nagging wife on top of it. But I also fear that he will never change. We have been in a relationship for 6 years. And nothing has changed yet. Do you guys have any suggestions?
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Pick posted:My boyfriend[25M] insulted me[25F] horribly during a fight, I don't know what to do nextDating Stop talking to this piece of poo poo. Leave him. If this is all it takes for his suppressed thoughts about you to come out then when he's actually stressed out who the gently caress knows what will happen? quote:He said that he didn't mean a word of it, that I'm not weird or incompetent or anything like that, that he didn't even really know what he was saying.
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