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Beachcomber posted:As recently as 30 years ago, anyone who wasn't a complete fuckup could get a job and be reasonably sure that they'd be able to keep it until they retired or they died. They were wrong, of course, but that's the way the culture still thinks and there's no way of knowing when that will change. You also had to be a straight white male.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:relevant to this thread's interests: True Story: Our Dogs Were on Prozac. Here’s What Happened. So-called friends like that will only make fun of you for having gotten genital herpes my hooker. There's no point, just over that friendship
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P-Mack posted:You also had to be a straight white male. You're right. I often forget that I grew up in a very sheltered, rural monoculture where other kinds of people only existed on TV.
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Me [28 M] with my GF [27 F] of 2 years, how do I handle the nothing fights?quote:Reddit, my girlfriend and I usually get along very well, and we have a good relationship. I really don't want to break up with her, just to be clear up front. I'm just looking for advice dealing with a recurring problem. Comments get to the meat of the issue: quote:Does she pay attention to the little things for you? If so, it's time to start paying attention to the little things she likes. This will save you a lot of hassle. People in relationships bicker and argue about the dumbest crap, just make sure you communicate and you can eventually laugh at yourselves for getting bent out of shape for no reason. Communicate. Listen. Be kind to each other. Life is good. AND WHY THE gently caress ARE YOU BOTH PUTTING WATER ON YOUR CORN FLAKES? quote:Two things. quote:Do you seriously moisten your cereal with water...?
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chitoryu12 posted:Me [28 M] with my GF [27 F] of 2 years, how do I handle the nothing fights? I feel like the sort of person who puts bottled water on their cornflakes is the sort of person who escalates petty fights out of nothing because they're bored.
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Beachcomber posted:As recently as 30 years ago, anyone who wasn't a complete fuckup could get a job and be reasonably sure that they'd be able to keep it until they retired or they died. They were wrong, of course, but that's the way the culture still thinks and there's no way of knowing when that will change.
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Look, Im going to be frank, I think we as a community have to chip in and help them in their relationship because they genuinely are never going to find another person to share their water cereal life with.
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The OP responded:quote:1. Well I said 'oh I didn't know you wanted evian in yours' and she says 'I always use evian' 'well I didn't know' 'but you should know' 'You should of told me' 'Even if I had would of you of', ect. I'm not looking for ways to WIN an argument I just want to not have them.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:The norm of keeping the same job for 30 years sounds pretty toxic to me personally despite this frequent lamentation. It sure seems to me like such a society would harshly judge folks who do leave their jobs to look for greener pastures - anyone who happens to get a bad manager or a hostile workplace is now looked at even more skeptically when they are applying for a new job at the age of 45 or whatever. At least in a culture that perpetuates short-term transactional employment won't look askance at those who leave for a good reason. employers do look askance at people who leave for good reason, though, and I'm pretty sure the whole "if you have a gap in your employment record you may as well have a rape conviction" thing is a new development. there was simply a lot more demand and employers couldn't afford to be as incredibly picky as they can be now. Outrail posted:I feel like the sort of person who puts bottled water on their cornflakes is the sort of person who escalates petty fights out of nothing because they're bored. their lives are alien to me and sort of repugnant
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chitoryu12 posted:The OP responded: Yeah, she sounds like a bored pedantic twat looking for drama. He needs to call her out on it, and if she doesn't stop leave her. It'll never end. Or he's an oblivious twat, and she needs to call him out on it, and if he doesn't stop leave him. It'll never end.
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# ? Sep 15, 2017 17:04 |
What is the nicest way to tell my (F24) boyfriend (M24) that he is gross and needs to clean himself like a normal functioning adult?quote:Dating 4 months. I am the kind of person who cannot let dirty dishes rest in the sink for longer than an hour, flosses every single day, and is constantly scrubbing her bathroom. My boyfriend, not so much. I noticed pretty early on that organization/cleanliness wasn't as high a priority for him as it is for me, but at the time I only noticed things like clutter on his floor and unfolded clothes, so I figured it was a normal level of bachelor slob and that I could live with it. (I mean, I can get pretty messy too when I'm especially busy in lab and other things just take higher priority.) However, as we have grown more and more comfortable around each other, he has really begun to relax and reveal the true extent of his bachelor-frog-ness: Dunk this motherfucker in bleach before he wipes pee on your shower curtains again.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:The norm of keeping the same job for 30 years sounds pretty toxic to me personally despite this frequent lamentation. It sure seems to me like such a society would harshly judge folks who do leave their jobs to look for greener pastures - anyone who happens to get a bad manager or a hostile workplace is now looked at even more skeptically when they are applying for a new job at the age of 45 or whatever. At least in a culture that perpetuates short-term transactional employment won't look askance at those who leave for a good reason. Yeah I mean how much would it suck to have the security to be able to make long term plans in a given geographic area and not have the flexibility to bounce all over the place in the far superior gig economy?
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:relevant to this thread's interests: True Story: Our Dogs Were on Prozac. Here’s What Happened. I'm just going to never click the link so that I can pretend the quote is somehow the direct result of giving dogs Prozac
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Yea what kind of a poo poo-sculpted moron wants anything else than what I do?
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Panfilo posted:Yeah I mean how much would it suck to have the security to be able to make long term plans in a given geographic area and not have the flexibility to bounce all over the place in the far superior gig economy? Who the gently caress doesn't want entry level pay for their entire life
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:relevant to this thread's interests: True Story: Our Dogs Were on Prozac. Here’s What Happened. In some circles having an active genital herpes infection is a sign of great wealth.
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Panfilo posted:Yeah I mean how much would it suck to have the security to be able to make long term plans in a given geographic area and not have the flexibility to bounce all over the place in the far superior gig economy? Yes obviously if you wanna live in the middle of nowhere where there are three employers for everyone, it pays for them to show some loyalty, but I'd rather neither me nor my employer pretend to be loyal to one another than the one-sided 30-year nonsense of yesteryear. Jeffrey of YOSPOS fucked around with this message at 17:24 on Sep 15, 2017 |
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That water cereal post has to be a troll. How else could not one but two people use water instead of milk?? And bottled water too? Get real. Where the gently caress would you even get the idea to do that?Admiral Ray posted:In some circles having an active genital herpes infection is a sign of great wealth. Lmao
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LeafHouse posted:That water cereal post has to be a troll. How else could not one but two people use water instead of milk?? And bottled water too? Get real. Where the gently caress would you even get the idea to do that? that was my thought, it's too hosed up to believe
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Koyaanisgoatse posted:that was my thought, it's too hosed up to believe Given how deftly they dodge answering the cereal question head on, assuredly yes. That or crippling aquatism.
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My interpretation is that he brought her a glass of water with her cereal. Dude doesn't exactly communicate well. The thought of soggy corn flakes makes me want to barf.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:My (19M) friends bought a prostitute and had her gently caress me when I was almost passed out from alcohol on my birthday. I really regretted the experience but never brought it up to my friends how much I did. I just found out I have an STI and am furious with them now. How do I bring this up? Stories like this are kind of interesting because it basically describes how this dude got raped but since he uses so much active language it makes it sound like he was into it despite saying things like "I feel like my autonomy was violated" and "I feel terrible and really angry about it". Like if he said "They bought a hooker and she came in and hosed me while I was incoherently drunk and I got the herps from it" then man that sure is an open and shut case.
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# ? Sep 15, 2017 17:36 |
dude needs to delete that post and sue the poo poo out of his friends imo
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:My[21 M] girlfriend[21 M/F] of 8 months said that she will sleep with another guy because I had sex before meeting her Lol if you don't stay a devoted chaste monk waiting for your future one true love while praying to
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Who even uses a bowl for their cereal anymore, anyway? Put it in a large glass and drink it like a man * literally a thing I have done when I was too lazy to do the dishes and had no clean bowls left.
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Grab a handful of cereal from the box and then take a swig of milk and you have yourself an avant-garde deconstructed cereal experience.
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Koyaanisgoatse posted:dude needs to delete that post and sue the poo poo out of his friends imo If he sued his friends he'd probably win a bunch of vaping accessories and a coupon redeemable for a free toothless blowjob from the hooker who gave him herpes.
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Straight White Shark posted:Grab a handful of cereal from the box and then take a swig of milk and you have yourself an avant-garde deconstructed cereal experience. I have done this. I'm a visionary. I'm a pioneer. I'm human, and I'm barely able to feed myself!
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Clark Nova posted:My interpretation is that he brought her a glass of water with her cereal. Dude doesn't exactly communicate well. The thought of soggy corn flakes makes me want to barf. This was mine as well. Water...from the TAP?? *throws in stunned boyfriends face*
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Clark Nova posted:If he sued his friends he'd probably win a bunch of vaping accessories and a coupon redeemable for a free toothless blowjob from the hooker who gave him herpes. if i were in his place i probably wouldn't care about winning money damages immediately (what would he do with them, anyway), i'd be more delighted at the prospect of my friends getting their credit scores hosed and having their wages garnished for years
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chitoryu12 posted:What is the nicest way to tell my (F24) boyfriend (M24) that he is gross and needs to clean himself like a normal functioning adult? Don't gently caress people like this wtf!!!!!!
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Clark Nova posted:My interpretation is that he brought her a glass of water with her cereal. Dude doesn't exactly communicate well. The thought of soggy corn flakes makes me want to barf. He was asked about why he put lukewarm water in his cereal and he defended it with "It was cold water." Not "I don't put water in my cereal." He took umbrage at the idea that he would use lukewarm water for his cereal.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:relevant to this thread's interests: True Story: Our Dogs Were on Prozac. Here’s What Happened. Waaaaa, I drank too much. Waaaaa, I did coke. Waaaaaa I hosed a prostitute. Completely predictable results happened as a result of my behaviour. It's not faaaaair! Get over it, you loving baby, and take responsibilty for your actions. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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^^^^quote:Me [24F] with my SO [24M]. He saw a stain on my pants and questioned if it was .. bodily fluids.
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chitoryu12 posted:What is the nicest way to tell my (F24) boyfriend (M24) that he is gross and needs to clean himself like a normal functioning adult? quote:The thing is, as foul as all this makes him sound, he doesn't come off as obviously foul when you meet him. I don't believe you. Just admit your childhood crush was the garbage pile in Fraggle Rock and move on.
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tactlessbastard posted:Waaaaa, I drank too much. Waaaaa, I did coke. Waaaaaa I hosed a prostitute. Completely predictable results happened as a result of my behaviour. It's not faaaaair! It can be rape even if it happens to man, you know
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tactlessbastard posted:Waaaaa, I drank too much. Waaaaa, I did coke. Waaaaaa I hosed a prostitute. Completely predictable results happened as a result of my behaviour. It's not faaaaair! Yeah! If you do drugs you should expect that a prostitute will rape and disease you.
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Koyaanisgoatse posted:Me [24F] with my SO [24M]. He saw a stain on my pants and questioned if it was .. bodily fluids.
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LeafHouse posted:Yeah! If you do drugs you should expect that a prostitute will rape and disease you. Piell posted:It can be rape even if it happens to man, you know He wasn't raped, and if you are going to call that rape, it wasn't the prostitute that raped him, it was his friends. Rape.
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Don't date Kenneth Starr
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