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Slugworth posted:Am I understanding this correctly? A person shouldn't spend 600 on a beloved pet because that money could be better spent on... other animals? On a global scale it is kind of strange that if your kid gets cancer, huge amounts of resources will be poured into saving them when you can save a child in another country's life, right now, for like, ~3.5k. Like if I were masterminding my own do-over of the world's resources I'd probably think of some way to address that.
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No guarantees that kid you save won't get cancer and die as soon as your money gets him out of the gutter so why bother with any of it?
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Oct 6, 2017 07:48
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Grem posted:No guarantees that kid you save won't get cancer and die as soon as your money gets him out of the gutter so why bother with any of it? I guarantee that will happen to anyone you save.
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Oct 6, 2017 07:50
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"My [current, totally not ex-]girlfried..."quote:Immediately, she starts telling me that she can't believe I would ever say something like that, and told me to get out, that she was done with the relationship
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Oct 6, 2017 10:27
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All the bolded parts missed this:quote:for about 3 years now. We've had some pretty bad rough spots recently, right after doing good for a while. That seems to be the pattern with us. Textbook toxic, emotionally abusive relationship. Fighting, screaming at each other, not talking, and then "doing good for a while" until the next big blowup. These people hate each other and have no idea how to resolve conflicts like adults, and probably one or both of them has some mental health issue they've never dealt with. They're both better off without one another. Source: was in one of these relationships in my early 20s. Untreated depression is a fucker.
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Oct 6, 2017 11:00
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It you hate yourself enough, you'll go through anything to avoid being alone
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Oct 6, 2017 11:08
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Sentient Data posted:It you hate yourself enough, you'll go through anything to avoid being alone This. It's important to learn to love yourself, even if it sounds cheesy sometimes. You are alone most of the time.
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Oct 6, 2017 12:20
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Bertrand Hustle posted:All the bolded parts missed this: He mentioned she had BPD, so yeah. She needs a loving, caring relationship with a good therapist (and even that likely won't do a whole lot of good), not with him.
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Oct 6, 2017 13:27
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Trauma Dog 3000 posted:nah, farmers are waaay warmer than this. They do what they have to, but they care for their animals. farmers cull barn cats on the regular because they get out of control.
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Oct 6, 2017 14:09
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Submarine Sandpaper posted:farmers cull barn cats on the regular because they get out of control. Some do. Domestic rural cats are another story entirely. Especially since mice and rats are something you genuinely have to worry about.
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Oct 6, 2017 14:11
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Inescapable Duck posted:Some do. Domestic rural cats are another story entirely. Especially since mice and rats are something you genuinely have to worry about. well sure, you don't kill them all and you generally leave the more domestic ones that don't kill your own livestock.
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Oct 6, 2017 14:14
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quote:My [28F] husband [30M] "came out" as autistic a month ago. Now our 2 year old son has been diagnosed. I'm upset. :o audiophileai fucked around with this message at 14:28 on Oct 6, 2017 |
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Oct 6, 2017 14:23
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Oct 6, 2017 14:30
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Time for them to watch Atypical on netflix
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Oct 6, 2017 14:44
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Oct 6, 2017 14:49
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My[26F] boyfriend[39M] of 7yrs said something really upsetting when I tried talking to him about different birth control methods due to health concerns. Not sure what to say to him.quote:TL;DR at the bottom. Throwaway account because he uses Reddit as well.
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Oct 6, 2017 14:53
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Pick posted:Kill him before he kills you!! I knew you were gonna prove the guy right for not wanting to be open about it but jeez Unless said murder method involves locking her in her favourite computer
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[quote="„Danaru“" post="„477112181“"] My[26F] boyfriend[39M] of 7yrs said something really upsetting when I tried talking to him about different birth control methods due to health concerns. Not sure what to say to him. [/quote] She should leave him the gently caress alone. He will never accept having children, so just spare yourself some trouble, girl...
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Oct 6, 2017 15:19
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How do you date someone for 5 years and marry them and not know they might be autistic? Or is the thing to that story that the husband is lying?
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Danaru posted:My[26F] boyfriend[39M] of 7yrs said something really upsetting when I tried talking to him about different birth control methods due to health concerns. Not sure what to say to him. Holy poo poo they're in the military too? They must be in different commands but lol, I got poo poo for my ex wife being one rank below me, I can't imagine how much poo poo that dude gets.
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[quote="„Demon Of The Fall“" post="„477112836“"] How do you date someone for 5 years and marry them and not know they might be autistic? Or is the thing to that story that the husband is lying? [/quote] I don't think that he lied. She stated that she noticed his "temper issues" over the years and he probably noticed them too, thats probably why he started doing some research
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Oct 6, 2017 15:30
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My[24m] gf[19f] of 7 months has BPD. Today she assaulted me, almost through my dog out a window, and is now talking to her ex who she cheated on me with during a previous 'episode'. I'm numb and tired. I love this one. I dated a girl who ended up having BPD (she kept it under wraps pretty well until I was good and hooked), and it sounds a lot like my experience. Down to it being really hard to leave. I also love the comments where people are like "not all people with BPD are terrifying hellmonsters, most of us are fine!" Even if that were true (it's not), most of the chambers in a revolver can be unloaded, but I'm not gonna start playing Russian Roulette.
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I [30s/F] lost a friend [30s/F] a few days ago. My husband [30sM] tried to turn comforting me into sex and it really upset mequote:I lost a friend a few days ago. I was not super close to the person who died, but it is still really affecting me. I've been crying a lot. Today was no exception. I was clearly feeling down when I headed upstairs to take a shower. When I got out of the shower, my husband came in the bathroom, stood behind me, and started giving me little kisses on my back/head/shoulders I think to comfort me. Problem is, I was naked still and after about 30 seconds of this he was clearly turned on. I kind of slid out and away from him because I was nowhere near in the mood for that, and he sort of made a sigh in a "of course you're not interested, you never are" way. Nice.
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Danaru posted:My[26F] boyfriend[39M] of 7yrs said something really upsetting when I tried talking to him about different birth control methods due to health concerns. Not sure what to say to him. What the gently caress does "I'll be your birth control. Why don't you just look at me and never want to have kids?" even mean? Like is it supposed to be that he's all she should need? Or like maybe he's so hosed up she wouldn't want kids with him? Either way, any guy that objects to a girl wanting to change birth control methods is a shitbird and deserves to not get laid ever again...and that's before you even get to the part about whether or not he wants kids in the future.
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Oct 6, 2017 15:41
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Adam Vegas posted:This guy is obviously a complete piece of poo poo for trying to initiate sex while she's grieving over a dead friend; that's just messed up. There are so many Reddit posts about this every day and I still have no idea. If they were the same initially but changed for whatever reason (medical problems, depression, etc) that's one thing, but so many of these are "we never had the same sex drive and still got married, what do?"
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Oct 6, 2017 15:46
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Ugly In The Morning posted:I love this one. I dated a girl who ended up having BPD (she kept it under wraps pretty well until I was good and hooked), and it sounds a lot like my experience. Down to it being really hard to leave. BPD is one of those lovely, lovely things where I'm well aware that those with it can't help themselves, but I absolutely agree I'm never loving dating another person like that in my life. The worst part is that the happy, enthusiastic, loving person is effectively just as much of a falsehood as the hellmonster.
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Ouhei posted:What the gently caress does "I'll be your birth control. Why don't you just look at me and never want to have kids?" even mean? Like is it supposed to be that he's all she should need? Or like maybe he's so hosed up she wouldn't want kids with him? He's in the military; it's the latter. e: tbf he started a relationship with a teenager in his 30s, so we can't call his burgeoning self-loathing entirely uncalled-for Doc Hawkins fucked around with this message at 16:03 on Oct 6, 2017 |
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Oct 6, 2017 16:00
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Let's play guess the show!quote:Dear Prudence,
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Adam Vegas posted:This guy is obviously a complete piece of poo poo for trying to initiate sex while she's grieving over a dead friend; that's just messed up. Because people are told if you think sex is important enough to break up over it, you're a shallow piece of poo poo. However, sex is also so important that if your partner even thinks about loving someone else, you should break up. Otherwise you're a doormat.
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Oct 6, 2017 16:06
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I hope it's like, charles dance or something.
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Oct 6, 2017 16:07
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It's always Supernatural
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I hope it's like, charles dance or something. Benedict Cumberbatch
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Ride The Gravitron posted:Benedict Cumberbatch oh that's... disappointingly obvious now that you say it
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Oct 6, 2017 16:10
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La Brea Carpet posted:Let's play guess the show! Sherlock?
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Oct 6, 2017 16:10
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Realtak its probably like Benedict Cumberbatch or one of the guys from Supernatural. Dream scenario its like Rob Schnieder
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Oct 6, 2017 16:11
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Charles Get-Out posted:BPD is one of those lovely, lovely things where I'm well aware that those with it can't help themselves, but I absolutely agree I'm never loving dating another person like that in my life. The worst part is how they'll use the fact it's not their fault and they can't help it as a weapon if they think you're going to leave (and they usually think you're going to leave)
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Oct 6, 2017 16:24
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How old is the post? Because I'm hoping it's Andy Griffith.
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Oct 6, 2017 16:25
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Barudak posted:Realtak its probably like Benedict Cumberbatch or one of the guys from Supernatural. my girlfriend watches biodome every day
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If it's Sherlock it could actually be Martin Freeman. Apparently he can get pretty abrasive in real life.
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