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I hope I can find a partner who wants to do invigorating stimulating things so we can self-actualize together rather than the mental black hole that is the television.
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LethalGeek posted:I think a lot of people don't understand how normal it is for a lot of in-loving in a social circle or that people can gently caress and then act normal after cause they can keep sex adjacent to their relationships but not make it the defining factor. Blame religion, disney, or plain stupidity. Some people have sex and suddenly the terms of things have to change because it was sex and it has to, duh. Eh I'm still on good terms with p much all my exes and chat occasionally/hang out when I'm in town but I'd still think itd be weird to be "best friends" with an ex. Best friends provide emotional support and advice in times where you're having difficulty in your current relationships or whatever. I don't think it'd be reasonable or healthy to rush to your ex for support whenever there were problems in paradise.
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boner confessor posted:i dont like star wars or football but lol that asserting your partner's media preferences are childish and they should appreciate your media preferences like a grown up
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I'm not sure why he wasn't just like "hey you're gonna be watching football tonight, right? I heard the new Star Wars trailer is gonna be on during a break!"
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Im not on speaking terms with any of my exes but dead men tell no tales.
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Propaganda Hour posted:My girlfriend [22/F] is threatening to break up with me [22/M] over Star Wars. When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, and I thought as a child. When I became a man, I put away the prequel movies and the Extended Universe.
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# ? Oct 10, 2017 21:37 |
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I'm just looking for someone who enjoys the same flavor of passive, lowest-common-denominator entertainment I do which is laughing at redditors' miserable lives
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Barudak posted:Im not on speaking terms with any of my exes but dead men tell no tales. This is why the cats hate you, Barudak. They smell your evil.
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my boyfriend would be a better communicator if his head weren't full of lightblades and weeoks
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Marketing New Brain posted:When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, and I thought as a child. When I became a man, I put away the prequel movies and the Extended Universe. I sold/gave away my giant collection of EU books when I was a lot younger now there's 2-3 of them in the used book annex at the local Barnes & Noble every time I go in, and I'm buying them up again. I'm 99% never going to read them again but gently caress, I can't turn down $2 hardcover versions of Crystal Star and Courtship of Princess Leia those books were loving hilarious e: I refuse to pay even $0.99 for anything from the New Jedi Order onwards though, that stuff is tier-1 garbage and not even funny garbage like Crystal Star was
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I hope I can find a partner who wants to do invigorating stimulating things so we can self-actualize together rather than the mental black hole that is the television. So, what like Netflix or is that type of programming on Hulu?
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therobit posted:Lol and WTF is with the restriction that the dog be black. I get there could be some reason for a male dog (though I am not sure what that would be) under 30 pounds I get, but why specify the color? The restriction makes it so she could have a: Scottish terrier, Cairn Terrier, Schipperke, Affenpinscher, or get lucky with something like a mini poodle's coloring or a mutt dog. It's like telling a kid they can go to disney if they cure cancer, you never expect them to do it.
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I can't help but feel that your list of breeds under 30 lbs that come in black is woefully incomplete.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I can't help but feel that your list of breeds under 30 lbs that come in black is woefully incomplete. lol yup, not that I agree with the original reddit bullshit, but I agree with you Jeffrey v--- lol I thought the sausage/hotdog + bun was actually the dogs mouth for a moment.
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Burger Pugs are fiercely loyal....and hungry.
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Burger Pug is simultaneously tragic and triumphant; the ultimate representation of the duality of being
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Ok this one's long as hell so I'm going to link it but here are the highlights. Me [30s M] with my friend [30s F] duration, aren't friends anymore due to a miscommunication and I need help fixing this. tl;dr: Lost a friend do to a misunderstanding and need help moving on/ becoming friends again! quote:I am married, started a new job earlier this year and met a fantastic woman who I became good friends with. My son was born and since then my heart has felt "different". After months of research, I have realised that I am polyamorous, as I love my wife and fell for this female colleague (nothing every happened). As I needed to know if the feelings could be returned, and I would need to keep my distance, I asked her, to which she said she wouldn't ever see anyone in a romantic way whilst she is in a (long distance/term) relationship and whilst I am married. Eventually I got an email from her, saying the following: posted:*First of all, I would like to apologise for the cold shoulder that you’ve received from me in the past two weeks. In all honesty, no, I am not okay. And no, we are not okay. Honestly, when you asked me that question before I went on holiday, you offended me. his reply posted:The email didn’t find me well. Not at all. I have been devastated all weekend because of this. To have caused you such hurt, and for little you think of me. then the true descent into madness begins posted:That was on the Monday. On the Wednesday, I got an email from my boss wanting to discuss my probation, to which I asked if we could get it over with. They didn't offer me the job due to some silly errors I kept making. It was one hell of a week for me emotionally. quote:My wife has been very supportive and understanding, but I know it must hurt her for me to have these feelings for another woman (she is monogamous), quote:All because of some stupid part of me that falls in love to easily and want to be honest for once, rather than burying the pain. I even started self-harming on those weeks when she was in a bad mood, as I was worried about her (perhaps my subconscious knew...). quote:I just want to cry out all these feelings of pain and let her go, but there are reminders of her everywhere. She loved squirrels, so everytime I see one in the park, I am reminded of how she fed them. Everytime I see a woman with darker skin and black hair, I think it is her. As we listened to the radio at work, many of the popular songs at the moment remind me of those times. quote:As she has blocked me (and said she wants space) is there ever a chance of me getting my book back? Or even a friendship? Or is this the end? If the later, how can I get over this a quickly as possible? I need to sleep without dreaming of her being angry at me. Thank you small ghost fucked around with this message at 22:26 on Oct 10, 2017 |
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Keep going I'm so close show up at her house and pull a Say Anything while she calls the cops please don't stop
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Werong Bustope posted:Ok this one's long as hell so I'm going to link it but here are the highlights. You should not be in your 30s and sounding like a love sick and ignorant 15yo teenager AND loving MARRIED WHO MARRIED THIS IDIOT
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Werong Bustope posted:Ok this one's long as hell so I'm going to link it but here are the highlights. I want to know more about the ostensibly "supportive" wife because holy shiiiiiiit.
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Werong Bustope posted:Ok this one's long as hell so I'm going to link it but here are the highlights. oh boy
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I knew without reading exactly what the "miscommunication" would be but it still managed to surpass all expectations
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The plot thickens: the real OP turns up in comments to ask why he's been reposted. Following his profile reveals his original post in r/breakups, and his response to someone telling him to get therapy: AnonJohn112 posted:I understand how she took it, and hate myself for causing that pain to her.
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# ? Oct 10, 2017 22:53 |
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I'm in bed with a killer migraine, and reading Pete's story made me feel a bit better. And then I read this loving thing and my migraine has opened its relationship and had several bastard migraine children in my head. Thanks, thread.
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Bubblyblubber posted:I'm in bed with a killer migraine, and reading Pete's story made me feel a bit better. I 100% don't care about whatever RL poo poo you are blogging about dude, try posting or commenting on reddit relationship posts [edit]Lets post about reading stuff so bad it makes your tummy grumble lmao
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I (25F) thought I was living a perfect life with my boyfriend (27M) of 5+ years. Turns out he committed a felony 1.5yrs ago, and just got caught.quote:So, I met my boyfriend about 5.5 years ago, in Spring 2012, at a party. The moment we met it was an instant connection, and we’ve been practically inseparable ever since. The part that caught my eye about this story is that the way it's explained the genius in the story didn't start stealing until she needed to borrow money, an amazing twist to the whole thing imo. Like it actually hadn't occurred to him he could steal, he tried it, and he's like "oh hey this is loving great!"
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I enjoy the dichotomy between the horrible stories that people low key and the super minor stuff that people embelish My [25M] roommate [26M] constantly talks poo poo about my favorite composer Mozart quote:So my roommate is a baroque elitist, he claims that Bach and Händel are the greatest composers to have ever lived, and calls everything that came later (classical, romantic, etc.) trash. "GOD DAMMIT RYAN SHUT THE gently caress UP ABOUT BACH" A real conversation about to happen somewhere
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That one got posted yesterday but it's just so amazing. Someone pointed out that the historical facts don't match up so it likely is a troll, but my heart wants what it wants
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Werong Bustope posted:Ok this one's long as hell so I'm going to link it but here are the highlights. Absolutely incredible. I'm really glad the comments are raking him over the coals, but his responses of "ugh, you just don't understand Poly!" are typical.
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fruit on the bottom posted:That one got posted yesterday but it's just so amazing. Someone pointed out that the historical facts don't match up so it likely is a troll, but my heart wants what it wants I tried going back a day I didn't see it, sorry for the repeat I too find it plausible given how smug people can be about liking the right thing!
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Ham Sandwiches posted:I tried going back a day I didn't see it, sorry for the repeat It'll happen. Besides, it's just as good the second time
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Photoshop
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How should I [23F] handle telling my family leeches [20-55] that I'm cancelling Netflix?quote:I'm sure that this is the definition of "first world problems", especially on this sub, but I am trying to figure out the best way to handle cancelling my Netflix account and depriving up to 10 members of my immediate and extended family of Netflix access.
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Avenging_Mikon posted:This is a little bit back, but they'd agreed to the dog in exchange for him getting the BB gun. After he got the gun he said no dog. nah i get that but it could be possible he didn't know if the dog was actually going to be OK in their home before getting the gun I'm just saying maybe there's a reason for the sudden about face? it's certainly no loving excuse to treat her that way though
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Just have them put the card on on file so the account remains but they get billed
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Haifisch posted:How should I [23F] handle telling my family leeches [20-55] that I'm cancelling Netflix? The whole time I was reading that I was second guessing whether I correctly recall that Netflix is like a $15/mo purchase "Those loving leeches getting in on my sweet sweet $15/month poo poo will have to go elsewhere!!" seems like an odd tirade given the sum
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Ham Sandwiches posted:I (25F) thought I was living a perfect life with my boyfriend (27M) of 5+ years. Turns out he committed a felony 1.5yrs ago, and just got caught. I feel so bad for this lady because it sounds like they had a really great thing going but this dude is now going to be unemployable, especially so if this actually ends up involving the legal system, and it almost certainly will. I've seen businesses go after their employees over $200. There's no loving way they're going to let this guy get away with whatever it is he stole. The only option for her if she wants to have a good life is to get out of this loving relationship. It's great they had an abortion together because now it means she won't have to raise a kid in a household with her felon husband that she resents because she has to do all the working now that her husband literally cannot get a loving job anywhere Stealing from your employer and getting caught is basically the worst thing you can do for your career. You will never be able to be employed anywhere where you're anywhere near money or anything valuable and that's basically every job. Congratulations, you have completely ruined your life at age 27.
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I'm a [23F] living with my {28M] boyfriend and he is killing my sleep.quote:tl;dr: Boyfriend is waking me up with his alarms every morning. Despite the OP loving up the very important reddit rules and putting the tl;dr up front spoiling the story like game of thrones , I was wondering whether this would turn out to be a "sink on razor" style post or a "the dude is an idiot" post and I think you can guess which one I'm leaning towards Ham Sandwiches fucked around with this message at 23:32 on Oct 10, 2017 |
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Mirthless posted:nah i get that but it could be possible he didn't know if the dog was actually going to be OK in their home before getting the gun I'm phone posting and read this without looking at the poster and went "is this mirthless? this is mirthless" and lo and behold
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