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Danaru posted:Generally most seasons of anime are 12/13 episodes unless it's a major production like DBZ or something (I know, trap sprung Hahahaha, no problem. My anime heyday was back before Streaming was a major thing, and the only one I've watched in the last 5 years or so was a major production, so I guess that's where my frame of reference is. I guess I'd vaguely heard the market had changed, and forgotten about it.
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Whorelord posted:anime until death
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Oct 15, 2017 02:54
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Hate the anime, not the animes.
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Uhmmm it's actually pronounced animeé My [28F] sister [25F] didn’t invite me to her wedding. But she wants my daughter [4F] to be a flower girl. quote:u/floralnightmare
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Bubblyblubber posted:Uhmmm it's actually pronounced animeé Hire a replacement daughter, have her go in your daughters stead. When asked, say that thanks to all the money you inherited, its now unfortunately beneath your families station to attend such events in person.
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Whorelord posted:death to anime You and I both know that your avatar comes from the American cartoon Adventure Time.
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Bubblyblubber posted:My husband thinks this entire thing is bizarre The only smart person in this entire operation.
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My [23 F] relationship with my boyfriend [30 M] is in jeopardy over me not wanting to send nudes. Yes, really. I can't believe we are at a breaking point over something like this, yet here we are. I've been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year. Relatively early on, he asked me for nudes. My answer: I don't send nudes. He was fine with it, moved on. Since then, he has asked intermittently in varying ways and has always gotten the same answer, because I DON'T SEND NUDES. I don't know what he expects to change. If you insinuate sexily that you want nudes, you aren't getting nudes. If you outright ask for nudes, you aren't getting nudes. If you tell me I'm so hot and you just want to see my cute body, you aren't getting nudes. Last night we had a fight about this where he said he doesn't understand what my hangup is. I told him the truth: that you never know what can happen to pictures on the Internet, and that I don't know what can happen to them. He proceeded to go on a rant and rave about how I clearly don't trust him, and all he wants is a nude, he's never had a girlfriend where this was such a big problem. I don't understand his reaction, and while he's a fantastic boyfriend in every other respect, I DON'T SEND NUDES. Period. End of story. Phones get lost, friends accidentally see something when looking at phones, breakups happen and people get mad, SO MANY THINGS COULD HAPPEN and I can't believe we are really on the brink of a breakup over nudes. Anyone been there on either side? Can anyone tell me if we can bridge this? tl;dr: I don't send nudes. Boyfriend wants them, apparently badly enough that he takes it as a personal affront to the level of trust I have in him that I won't send them. What do?
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Oct 15, 2017 07:05
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I don't fully understand. Like, will she send nudes or?
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lemon-lyme disease posted:I don't fully understand. Like, will she send nudes or? Just ask her a few times I bet she gives in. Persistence pays.
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Oct 15, 2017 07:11
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I mean it sorta does boil down to her not trusting him. Like you could hem and haw about how divorces happen and court battles can get so ugly so the logical thing to do is get a prenup but that's just sorta tacitly acknowledging you could see them being an awful vindictive person given the chance. I totally agree with her and think its super risky to give anyone compromising pictures, but he is sorta right that ultimately she just feels she can't trust him with them.
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Oct 15, 2017 07:12
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Palpek posted:My [23 F] relationship with my boyfriend [30 M] is in jeopardy over me not wanting to send nudes. Yes, really. Never send nudes you aren't comfortable having posted up on reddit. Never trust anyone with them.
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ArbitraryC posted:I mean it sorta does boil down to her not trusting him. Like you could hem and haw about how divorces happen and court battles can get so ugly so the logical thing to do is get a prenup but that's just sorta tacitly acknowledging you could see them being an awful vindictive person given the chance. No it doesn't it means that he refuses to accept the stated answer and that he is framing it as a trust issue when she was clear from the start that she doesn't want to send any. And is clear in her post. Trust is about being able to count on the other person in the relationship, not like "Hey I need to prove I trust this person by leaving them a permanent recording of something that I may feel differently about later, and they may feel differently about too." That's just stupid. Did that Miami coach snorting blow 'trust' that lady he sent it to? He sure did, and when things changed down the road it ended up causing him a mess of problems. it's not about trust, it's about people having the right to choose what portrayals of them will be out on the loving internet in the TYOOL 2017 where that poo poo is forever
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I send dick pics after the first date
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You'd have to be an idiot to see that as a trust issue. As she herself stated phones get lost, "friends" peak through photos on your phone, phones get hacked, poo poo happens - it's ok not being comfortable with having permament records of your nudes no matter how much you love the person supposed to be keeping them. It's also pretty much a sexual behavior that she clearly isn't comfortable with. It's nothing personal and the guy trying to manipulate her with guilt to break her boundaries is an rear end.
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Ride The Gravitron posted:I send dick pics after the first date "Date"?
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My (19F) boyfriend (21M) has been lying about where he is at night. I thought he was cheating or partying but it turns out he has been playing Lord of the Rings the video game.quote:We have been dating for six months, LDR for two months. I have been suspicious of his nightly activities for the past week, and last night caught him in a lie; he said he was working late on the phone, and then I heard his dogs in the background and knew he was making it up and that he was at home. I got really upset with him, almost dumped him. Oh god  , I'm so sorry you had to find out this way.
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Oct 15, 2017 08:33
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Guys, my boyfriend is a.........nerd
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ArbitraryC posted:I mean it sorta does boil down to her not trusting him. Like you could hem and haw about how divorces happen and court battles can get so ugly so the logical thing to do is get a prenup but that's just sorta tacitly acknowledging you could see them being an awful vindictive person given the chance. Someone asking for nudes early into the relationship is a big red flag which justifies lack of trust. He's just confirming his untrustworthiness by asking for them again and again.
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Oct 15, 2017 08:40
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Hey, at least it's Orb Stabber 2017 and not Lord of the Rings Online. That'd be a much bigger red flag, as opposed to a blood-stained red banner.
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Palpek posted:My (19F) boyfriend (21M) has been lying about where he is at night. I thought he was cheating or partying but it turns out he has been playing Lord of the Rings the video game. This is the most adorable red flag I've seen. Dump this loving nerd and get with a real Chad.
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Palpek posted:My (19F) boyfriend (21M) has been lying about where he is at night. I thought he was cheating or partying but it turns out he has been playing Lord of the Rings the video game.
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It’s a good game
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Palpek posted:My [23 F] relationship with my boyfriend [30 M] is in jeopardy over me not wanting to send nudes. Yes, really. She should go old school and give him some polaroids he can keep in a shoebox in his underwear drawer.
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fruit on the bottom posted:It’s a good game He's dating an orc now and doesn't want to tell her
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mind the walrus posted:Orcs don't count as cheating. Please tell me more..
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I [19F] drove 3 hours to have my boyfriend [29M] completely gently caress me overquote:I had a court date 3 hours away from where I live currently. It was a trespassing charge from 3 months ago for being in the park after hours. The thing is I haven’t told my parents about it and they live 45 minutes away from said court house. I didn’t do this because they are quite strict and I knew they’d be very disappointed in me and I’ve actually have panic attacks about this whole situation of them finding out. If you don’t have strict parents you won’t understand.
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Danaru posted:I [19F] drove 3 hours to have my boyfriend [29M] completely gently caress me over Never see him again, he is a loving dick. Easy solution for this one.
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She's 19 and still racking up trespassing charges for being in a park after dusk, seeing a 29 year-old who lives 3 hours away and acts like a high school sophomore when it comes to the quantity:quality ratio of how often they speak (every day? not enough). Poor thing is like a dumb puppy. We should all be grateful she found her way home in the dark and give her a saucerpan of pure, unsalted beef broth and a nice secondhand blanket she can lay on til the morning.
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Palpek posted:My [23 F] relationship with my boyfriend [30 M] is in jeopardy over me not wanting to send nudes. Yes, really. Speaking of Nudes... My [21f] boyfriend's [24m] friend [23f] has a nude painting of my boyfriend, her and some of their other mixed gender [20s m/f] friends hanging in her living room quote:Some background: my boyfriend 'Jay' is friends with a group of quite artsy, creative types, one of whom, 'Anna' has a degree in fine art and is a really good painter. She invited the everyone round for dinner the other night (this is the first time I've been to her house) and in her living room, she's got a large painting of what (despite being abstract in style) is clearly her, Jay, Jay's best friend 'Danny' and three of their other female friends lounging around completely naked. I was honestly so shocked that I had to ask about the history behind it. Apparently they'd all gone on holiday several years ago and decided to go skinny dipping and after they got out, Anna took a photo and ended up painting it when she got home. While I'll admit that it is a very well done painting it is undeniably... Sensual. In it, Jay is lying on his front, talking to a girl called Holly who has everything on display and was in a casual relationship with jay at the time (she wasn't at the dinner as she's now moved away from the area and is in a committed relationship, and whenever she's in town Jay never meets up with her alone). The other girls in the painting were also in the room and knew about it and had no problem with it. I don't know Reddit, am I overreacting to this? I just find it weird that my boyfriend's friend has a picture of him and a bunch of other people nude hanging up in her front room (and that they've all seen him naked and vice versa?) I asked Jay about what he thinks and he just laughed it off, saying that he hopes that anyone who comes in to Anna's house "admires his perfectly painted arse", though he did offer to ask Anna to take it down next time we go around if it made me uncomfortable. It does but I don't know whether its because I just have hang ups around nudity and Jay and his friends are just more 'liberated' about it than I am, and im also not sure I have the right to tell someone what she can and can't do with her property in her own home.
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 girl I'm sorry you had to find out this way but art students bang each other like it's the loving apocalypse. Your boyfriend almost certainly hosed Anna, every lady in that painting, and very likely the guys in the same session and thinks nothing of it. There's nothing wrong with you for not being ok with that, but if you want to continue to be with your boyfriend you're going to have to wrap your head around that reality and develop your trust muscles like there's a decathlon in six months. I know from experience.
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quote:my boyfriend 'Jay' is friends with a group of quite artsy, creative types It's safe to assume each of them has slept with all of the others, whether it's one after the other or all in a big naked pile of art students. OP will probably become part of the pile once they get her to try whatever mind altering substances or activities they're into.
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People (Americans) are super mental about nudity its really sad.
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No matter what she says, it's pretty drat obvious she's upset because it means her boyfriend is a lot more libertine than she imagined and it's making her sexually insecure because she has never been as open. I'm not a prude and have no problem with nudity, but I still had whiplash when I realized just how wild my then-girlfriend had gotten before she met me. It's simple enough to get over, but it is a shock when you aren't expecting it.
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fruit on the bottom posted:/r/relationships: I feel that I have been very clear about my passion for anime 
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pidan posted:It's safe to assume each of them has slept with all of the others, whether it's one after the other or all in a big naked pile of art students. I like how it doesn't seem that her boyfriend is a 'creative' so it's funny to me that this dude who was destined to be a solicitor or accountant or whatever became friends with a bunch of libertines for easy fucks/drugs.
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Inescapable Duck posted:Hey, at least it's Orb Stabber 2017 and not Lord of the Rings Online. That'd be a much bigger red flag, as opposed to a blood-stained red banner. They made an Orc Stabber 2017?! I really enjoyed the first Orc Stabber. Also, no nudes OP needs to dump that jackass and stay strong.
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