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My [33F] sister [27F] is a height snob. I don't know how to talk to her about it (self.relationship_advice)quote:She's one of those women who will only date men who are over 6'. She is 3'6". That's not a typo, she's a little person, a dwarf. A guy who is 5'6" recently messaged her on a dating site said he wasn't comfortable dating someone her height. She said to me that he has no room to say that.
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Oct 30, 2017 02:02
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maskenfreiheit posted:My [33F] sister [27F] is a height snob. I don't know how to talk to her about it (self.relationship_advice) what the gently caress
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Oct 30, 2017 02:03
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maskenfreiheit posted:My [33F] sister [27F] is a height snob. I don't know how to talk to her about it (self.relationship_advice) Keep quiet, OP.
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Oct 30, 2017 02:04
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lol this is what a 6 foot man looks like next to a 3' 6" woman: like, how would that even work
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Oct 30, 2017 02:05
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Hellsau posted:lol this is what a 6 foot man looks like next to a 3' 6" woman: I've known at least a pair or two like that. I guess they must have made it work somehow. I did not inquire.
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Oct 30, 2017 02:06
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Also, if the genders were reversed and this guy was jerking off in the tent with a woman, would the thread be full of people mocking her for "not realizing" he's into her? yes, a guy masturbating unsolicitedly in the same room as a girl is the same as vice versa you probably believe in reverse racism too
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Oct 30, 2017 02:07
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maskenfreiheit posted:My [33F] sister [27F] is a height snob. I don't know how to talk to her about it (self.relationship_advice) lol As a dude over the mythical height limit I always treated people having it in their profile the same way I'd imagine girls would see "only message me if you're DD". It's okay to have preferences but just putting it out there like that always came across as gross to me. Like it speaks to some p large personality flaws.
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Oct 30, 2017 02:08
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Heliogabalos posted:yes, a guy masturbating unsolicitedly in the same room as a girl is the same as vice versa No, there's just racism, just like there's just sexual harassment and assault. Nothing "reverse" about it.
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Oct 30, 2017 02:09
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Heliogabalos posted:yes, a guy masturbating unsolicitedly in the same room as a girl is the same as vice versa it would be p gross if the story didn't revolve around the narrator being attracted to them. With no context it's gross but with context it's just funny. Obviously the hypothetical lady in the story didn't know the same thing the readers do so it's still p questionable, but the humor really centers around it all taken together. No reason to get in a "b-b-b-but what about" debate instead of just enjoying the comedy as is.
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Oct 30, 2017 02:10
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Hellsau posted:lol this is what a 6 foot man looks like next to a 3' 6" woman: Yeah I don't see any reason at all why a guy would go for that. Your sister really likes sucking dick, OP. Better to not press for details on this one.
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Oct 30, 2017 02:10
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My Fellow Teachers Upset I don't Do Any Unpaid Work[new]quote:I [23F] am having some issues with [three] fellow teachers of mine, ages [24 to 45F]. I was hoping you guys would have some perspective on what to do. quote:What stuff do they want you to do that you wouldn't be getting paid for?
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Oct 30, 2017 02:13
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She's correct. She ain't paid enough for that.
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Oct 30, 2017 02:15
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Pick posted:She's correct. She ain't paid enough for that. I agree... with Pick... 
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Oct 30, 2017 02:17
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Sometimes I think teachers forget it is a job and not a spiritual calling.
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Oct 30, 2017 02:25
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Virigoth posted:Sometimes I think teachers forget it is a job and not a spiritual calling. Then they'd really have to wonder why they're doing this poo poo for how they're paid and treated.
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Oct 30, 2017 02:28
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Virigoth posted:Sometimes I think teachers forget it is a job and not a spiritual calling.
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Oct 30, 2017 02:33
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My Linux Rig posted:No there isn’t American cops? Because i don't want to die?
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Oct 30, 2017 02:48
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The teacher is absolutely correct and the culture that their peers have bought into is a major problem with that profession and American labor in general.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:06
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maskenfreiheit posted:My Fellow Teachers Upset I don't Do Any Unpaid Work[new] They're mad at her because they have no money saved. THAT SAID: Schools should pay teachers more, especially to do stuff like tutor students, etc.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:12
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american teachers are dumb as rocks and paid exactly as much as someone with their level of collective iq deserve news flash: countries that pay their teachers better wages also have higher standards (i may be biased because students from the school of education used to loudly piss and gently caress in the alley behind my apartment in grad school)
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Oct 30, 2017 03:14
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My mom is 4’11” and my dad 6’1” and they still, in their mid-60s, get jokes about loving with the size difference alllllll the time. I can’t imagine what would happen with a tall dude and a full on little person.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:27
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ArbitraryC posted:it would be p gross if the story didn't revolve around the narrator being attracted to them. With no context it's gross but with context it's just funny. Obviously the hypothetical lady in the story didn't know the same thing the readers do so it's still p questionable, but the humor really centers around it all taken together. No reason to get in a "b-b-b-but what about" debate instead of just enjoying the comedy as is. it's a weird come-on, to be clear I am saying a male doing this to a female is abusive/aggressive and intimidating, and police would probably come if called. The reverse isn't threatening unless she were asked to stop and wouldn't. It's a bit bizarre, but if she's even mildly attractive no sensible unattached or even attached male in his right mind wouldn't at least say, "having fun?" or something to figure out if it's an invitation. For someone to imply that it's just as threatening for a woman to do this to a male...that's utterly unaware of thousands of years of patriarchy and rape culture. I say this as a male who once woke up to a woman freely and non-consensually bouncing on my cock once, after buying me drinks all night, and I'd made it clear I wasn't attracted to her in that way.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:29
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I'm 6'7 and my ex was 5 even. Not a little person but a big disparity that people for some reason felt it was totally appropriate to joke about in any setting. The answer is that normal loving works just fine and you can do a lot of fun positions too.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:29
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Bamabalacha posted:My mom is 4’11” and my dad 6’1” and they still, in their mid-60s, get jokes about loving with the size difference alllllll the time. I can’t imagine what would happen with a tall dude and a full on little person.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:31
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Heliogabalos posted:it's a weird come-on, to be clear I am saying a male doing this to a female is abusive/aggressive and intimidating, and police would probably come if called. The reverse isn't threatening unless she were asked to stop and wouldn't. It's a bit bizarre, but if she's even mildly attractive no sensible unattached or even attached male in his right mind wouldn't at least say, "having fun?" or something to figure out if it's an invitation. For someone to imply that it's just as threatening for a woman to do this to a male...that's utterly unaware of thousands of years of patriarchy and rape culture. I don't think you speak for every male when you say you're fine with being sexually harassed and assaulted by women. You sure as hell aren't speaking for me. I'm sorry that you feel that you need to atone for thousands of years of patriarchy and rape culture in this way, but that's your prerogative.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:34
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Heliogabalos posted:it's a weird come-on, to be clear I am saying a male doing this to a female is abusive/aggressive and intimidating, and police would probably come if called. The reverse isn't threatening unless she were asked to stop and wouldn't. It's a bit bizarre, but if she's even mildly attractive no sensible unattached or even attached male in his right mind wouldn't at least say, "having fun?" or something to figure out if it's an invitation. For someone to imply that it's just as threatening for a woman to do this to a male...that's utterly unaware of thousands of years of patriarchy and rape culture. Are you trying to tell us that you were no-joke raped but it's ok because a woman did it?
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Oct 30, 2017 03:35
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Bamabalacha posted:My mom is 4’11” and my dad 6’1” and they still, in their mid-60s, get jokes about loving with the size difference alllllll the time. I can’t imagine what would happen with a tall dude and a full on little person. It's really weird and messed up to joke about that openly. The answer by the way is it works fine.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:38
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I don't think you speak for every male when you say you're fine with being sexually harassed and assaulted by women. You sure as hell aren't speaking for me. I'm sorry that you feel that you need to atone for thousands of years of patriarchy and rape culture in this way, but that's your prerogative. easy, you're reading way too much into what I'm saying and you sound really MRA. I'm not atoning, I just didn't and don't really care. Maybe she was acting out against a prior rape. I forgive her, and I ended the friendship. Anyway, sexism is one way, just like racism. Just like racism was invented by white people, sexism was invented by men, so women "doing the same thing" aren't actually doing that. A group of women wolf whistling a man - as if that ever happens - is not the same, because history, and thousands of years of socio-culturally normatized predatory male to female violent behaviour? Just loving LOL at men who live in a moral vacuum and think that the world and precedence began the day they were born
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Oct 30, 2017 03:40
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Heliogabalos posted:easy, you're reading way too much into what I'm saying and you sound really MRA. Look through his post history; he's an MRA. Don't sweat it.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:41
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Heliogabalos posted:it's a weird come-on, to be clear I am saying a male doing this to a female is abusive/aggressive and intimidating, and police would probably come if called. The reverse isn't threatening unless she were asked to stop and wouldn't. It's a bit bizarre, but if she's even mildly attractive no sensible unattached or even attached male in his right mind wouldn't at least say, "having fun?" or something to figure out if it's an invitation. For someone to imply that it's just as threatening for a woman to do this to a male...that's utterly unaware of thousands of years of patriarchy and rape culture. I'm really sorry that happened to you. I want to be sure I understand you. You are saying that even with your experience and the weight of historical patriarchy, you still wouldn't find a woman masturbating towards a non-consenting man as intimidating as a man masturbating towards a non-consenting woman. Please correct if I'm mistaken.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:42
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Heliogabalos posted:easy, you're reading way too much into what I'm saying and you sound really MRA. I'm not atoning, I just didn't and don't really care. Maybe she was acting out against a prior rape. I forgive her, and I ended the friendship. Anyway, sexism is one way, just like racism. Just like racism was invented by white people, sexism was invented by men, so women "doing the same thing" aren't actually doing that. A group of women wolf whistling a man - as if that ever happens - is not the same, because history, and thousands of years of socio-culturally normatized predatory male to female violent behaviour? Fine, you're a magical male who doesn't care about being sexually assaulted. Any man who's ever been a victim of sexual assault is an rear end in a top hat MRA. I get it. gently caress off. Pick posted:Look through his post history; he's an MRA. Don't sweat it. Seriously?! gently caress you, you stalkery piece of poo poo.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:44
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Bamabalacha posted:My mom is 4’11” and my dad 6’1” and they still, in their mid-60s, get jokes about loving with the size difference alllllll the time. I can’t imagine what would happen with a tall dude and a full on little person.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:44
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Looking through someone's post history isn't stalking.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:45
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Then they'd really have to wonder why they're doing this poo poo for how they're paid and treated. My parents were both teachers. I asked them why they decided to pursue that field when I was younger. Mother: I wanted to be a teacher ever since I was a child. Father: My dad told me I should go into it; I'd get weekends and summers off. Of course, everyone always asked 'are you going to be a teacher like your mom and dad when you grow up?' The answer was always a resounding 'oh God no'. But they entered the field when the health insurance plan was Goddamn Cadillac, and they had a good pension system in place. I hear it's even rougher for teachers entering more recently (wage freezes, shittier benefits, expecting them to do unpaid 'after hours'/weekend work).
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Among other things, don't loving let your brain fall out in the rush to defend false notions. Your average man can wipe the floor with all but the strongest women, and that sucks, but it's a god damned fact. A man is, in and of himself, a threat in a way a woman just isn't. We're not as strong as men, full stop.
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Pick posted:Among other things, don't loving let your brain fall out in the rush to defend false notions. Your average man can wipe the floor with all but the strongest women, and that sucks, but it's a god damned fact. A man is, in and of himself, a threat in a way a woman just isn't. We're not as strong as men, full stop. gently caress you.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:47
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Absurd Alhazred posted:gently caress you. What, you...actually think that's not true? The stats don't lie, only MRAs lie about the stats that men have a disproportionate ability and inclination to exact sexual violence against the other sex.
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Oct 30, 2017 03:48
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WrenP-Complete posted:I'm really sorry that happened to you. Thanks, honestly I just feel bad for her. yes, I would not, because men are socially conditioned to not consider consent (regardless of self or other), and men are also conditioned to be aggressive, assumptive and even violent in regards to sex. That's aside from the relatively normalized physiological differences. A woman doing this to a man is working in a fairly safe context of assumptions and implications, any male who's not okay with this can just leave the room. I mean, there are so many variables. Would a woman feel safe leaving a situation like this, if the guy were big and strong and nearby? Anyway, it's kind of a dull tangent and I don't want to derail, so if it causes any more vitriol, I'll leave it alone.
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Pick posted:What, you...actually think that's not true? Where did I lie about stats you piece of poo poo? You loving disgusting pile of posting manure? gently caress you. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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