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DandyLion
Jun 24, 2010
disrespectul Deciever

fruit on the bottom posted:

They’re a loving partner who wants to get off on pleasing their SO, but knows deep down that they aren’t capable of it.

While the rest of us can adequately delude ourselves into thinking we are capable of it.

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vortmax
Sep 24, 2008

In meteorology, vorticity often refers to a measurement of the spin of horizontally flowing air about a vertical axis.

loquacius posted:

I don't know if this is necessarily true, but you sure don't hear of gay dudes or lesbians cucking each other AFAIK

I think it's an example of people having weird reactions to changing gender politics

Oh no, it happens in the gay community too. Still don't get it.

half coke half diet
Feb 3, 2006
I fight for all those men who have their nuts in a vice grip
I believe the cuckolding is based off of the standard male female relationship where the man is the "alpha" and he gets his way everywhere else. He is able to get off on his wife having the power to deny him something he should be in control of.

Basically, folks like to watch other folks gently caress and its a much a much more complex fetish than straight voyuerism

RCarr
Dec 24, 2007

loquacius posted:

that's the most loving depressing thing I've ever heard

This. It's one of the saddest things I could imagine.

HerStuddMuffin
Aug 10, 2014

YOSPOS
I thought it was just a humiliation fetish on the cuckold’s part. So, basically a subset of domination/submission. :shrug:

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

In case anyone was curious or nostalgic I found the post where an anon talked about this

half coke half diet posted:

I believe the cuckolding is based off of the standard male female relationship where the man is the "alpha" and he gets his way everywhere else. He is able to get off on his wife having the power to deny him something he should be in control of.

HerStuddMuffin posted:

I thought it was just a humiliation fetish on the cuckold’s part. So, basically a subset of domination/submission. :shrug:

You'd think this would be quite well covered by the whole dominatrix thing though, and that one allows you to actually get off

got any sevens
Feb 9, 2013

by Cyrano4747

Solice Kirsk posted:

Hunt down convicted pedophiles and beat them to death with wiffle ball bats. That's the kind of serial killing this country needs.

Thats a little harsh. Have you seen Seven Psychopaths, btw?

facebook jihad
Dec 18, 2007

by R. Guyovich

vortmax posted:

Oh no, it happens in the gay community too. Still don't get it.

Yeah I knew a gay married couple who would routinely find guys to have their partner screw while they watched. It happens.

spinderella
Jul 15, 2017

by FactsAreUseless
Sexual fantasies can be REALLY weird without it meaning the person is sick in the head. Like if incest guy has a decent sexual and otherwise relationship with his girlfriend and uses incest stuff every time he masturbates its not that big of a deal. Reading about it and not jerking off, well he's mentally jerking off.

I put the cuckholding stuff under sub stuff, my pet theory is those people have such low self esteem that it takes this scenario to make them feel congruent with their world.

A lot of the time it's a giant mystery what turns us on, and it doesn't mean you want to do it in real life.

Been lurking, my 2 cents

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

Spinster posted:

I put the cuckholding stuff under sub stuff, my pet theory is those people have such low self esteem that it takes this scenario to make them feel congruent with their world.

I mean

the problem is our mental-health stigma and thinking of it in terms like "sick in the head" to begin with. If the phrase "those people have such low self-esteem that" followed by anything at all can apply to you, it can be safely inferred that you are not a happy person and you need to be helped, not enabled in whatever your coping strategy is :shrug:

I'm not judging submissives as a whole btw, most people with a kink like that are able to use it as a "flavor" for the sex they have within the context of their loving committed relationships, which is harmless fun. If you're encouraging your significant other to seek other partners and exclude you from intimacy altogether, and the only valid explanation is that your self-esteem is so low you think you don't deserve to experience intimacy, you could probably benefit from talking to a professional about that for a little while.

blarzgh
Apr 14, 2009

SNITCHIN' RANDY
Grimey Drawer

loquacius posted:

I mean

the problem is our mental-health stigma and thinking of it in terms like "sick in the head" to begin with. If the phrase "those people have such low self-esteem that" followed by anything at all can apply to you, it can be safely inferred that you are not a happy person and you need to be helped, not enabled in whatever your coping strategy is :shrug:

I'm no scientist, but if your mental associations of sex have overridden your biological imperative to the degree that your one true desire is to watch someone else pass on their genetic material in lieu of your own, then maaaayyybbeee there's some issues there you can work on?

DandyLion
Jun 24, 2010
disrespectul Deciever

blarzgh posted:

I'm no scientist, but if your mental associations of sex have overridden your biological imperative to the degree that your one true desire is to watch someone else pass on their genetic material in lieu of your own, then maaaayyybbeee there's some issues there you can work on?

Or maybe they've just transcended the futility of biological imperatives, coming to terms with the meaninglessness of existence, and the ultimate realization that there is no sum of actions that will have any impact whatsoever in the grand scope of the universe.

But you're probably right.

Crab Dad
Dec 28, 2002

behold i have tempered and refined thee, but not as silver; as CRAB


Spinster posted:


A lot of the time it's a giant mystery what turns us on, and it doesn't mean you want to do it in real life.


Confession. Boobs turn me on. Preferably human female.

RFC2324
Jun 7, 2012

http 418

LingcodKilla posted:

Confession. Boobs turn me on. Preferably human female.

asses are better tho

maskenfreiheit
Dec 30, 2004

RFC2324 posted:

asses are better tho

legs are good

Super Waffle
Sep 25, 2007

I'm a hermaphrodite and my parents (40K nerds) named me Slaanesh, THANKS MOM

LingcodKilla posted:

Confession. Boobs turn me on. Preferably human female.

Its ok brother/sister, you are not alone in this world. We should form a support group.

got any sevens
Feb 9, 2013

by Cyrano4747

LingcodKilla posted:

Confession. Boobs turn me on. Preferably human female.

Easy there weinstein

RFC2324
Jun 7, 2012

http 418

maskenfreiheit posted:

legs are good

good rear end is a prerequisite for good legs

maskenfreiheit
Dec 30, 2004

RFC2324 posted:

good rear end is a prerequisite for good legs

too often "good" asses are large and obscure the legs, which are the best part

blarzgh
Apr 14, 2009

SNITCHIN' RANDY
Grimey Drawer

DandyLion posted:

Or maybe they've just transcended the futility of biological imperatives, coming to terms with the meaninglessness of existence, and the ultimate realization that there is no sum of actions that will have any impact whatsoever in the grand scope of the universe.

But you're probably right.

As a being of pure spiritual energy, my aether wants to watch you rail my wife.

RFC2324
Jun 7, 2012

http 418

maskenfreiheit posted:

too often "good" asses are large and obscure the legs, which are the best part

i'm gonna go out on a limb here as say that large asses are not necessarily good, and are frequently quite overrated.

a good rear end is perky, which rules out many of those "good" asses which you refer to

maskenfreiheit
Dec 30, 2004

RFC2324 posted:

i'm gonna go out on a limb here as say that large asses are not necessarily good, and are frequently quite overrated.

a good rear end is perky, which rules out many of those "good" asses which you refer to

the real issue is people confusing a "nice rear end" with a "thicc rear end"

if you like that, more power to you but they're very different!

Harry Potter on Ice
Nov 4, 2006


IF IM NOT BITCHING ABOUT HOW SHITTY MY LIFE IS, REPORT ME FOR MY ACCOUNT HAS BEEN HIJACKED

RFC2324 posted:

i'm gonna go out on a limb here as say that large asses are not necessarily good, and are frequently quite overrated.

a good rear end is perky, which rules out many of those "good" asses which you refer to

Wrong

RFC2324
Jun 7, 2012

http 418

maskenfreiheit posted:

the real issue is people confusing a "nice rear end" with a "thicc rear end"

if you like that, more power to you but they're very different!

its kind like i've always heard about boobs... more than a handful is a waste

Nooner
Mar 26, 2011

AN A+ OPSTER (:
*sees word "boob"*

*whips out his hog and starts furiously jackin' it*

HELL YEAH

*sees word "rear end"*

*explodes*

Sorryformybadjokes
Apr 21, 2004

I identify as a simian who pronounces the 'silent' letters in words.
Fallen Rib
You are either born with perfect breasts (like me) or you aren't = gods gift

to get a giant rear end you just have to eat more chicken nuggets than you poo poo out = not as valuable because anyone can attain it

hth

8 Ball
Nov 27, 2010

My hands are all messed up so you better post, brother.
Serial killer fan come join us

Solice Kirsk
Jun 1, 2004

.
The correct order is legs>boobs>butt. Though they are all important and on certain women can become more meaningful.

Starting at the knee and licking and nibbling the inside of the thigh on your way down is one of the best parts of foreplay though, and a good set of legs makes it even more enjoyable.

Crab Dad
Dec 28, 2002

behold i have tempered and refined thee, but not as silver; as CRAB


BloodRed posted:

You are either born with perfect breasts (like me) or you aren't = gods gift

to get a giant rear end you just have to eat more chicken nuggets than you poo poo out = not as valuable because anyone can attain it

hth

Hi.

Fartbox
Apr 27, 2017
What's happening? Dri fu an only two? what is this?
Is this an avatar? I don't know rm dunk

Butt is so much more important than tits

Would you rather have a woman with a Hank Hill butt but big boobs or a woman with a perfect rear end but small boobs?

Solice Kirsk
Jun 1, 2004

.
Which one is funnier?

Sagebrush
Feb 26, 2012

GOTTA STAY FAI posted:

Surely you meant

Mushroom In, Soup Out

little known fact: this is the full name of the japanese soup M.I.S.O.


Fartbox posted:

Butt is so much more important than tits

Would you rather have a woman with a Hank Hill butt but big boobs or a woman with a perfect rear end but small boobs?

definitely the latter. you see a lot of middle aged women with the former body shape in the midwest and they all cut a profile like buzz lightyear

soy
Jul 7, 2003

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Fwiw I poopsocked through mindhunter in one day. Show owns, murder owns, hail satan.

MAKE NO BABBYS
Jan 28, 2010

loquacius posted:

I don't know if this is necessarily true, but you sure don't hear of gay dudes or lesbians cucking each other AFAIK

I think it's an example of people having weird reactions to changing gender politics

Those are 100% things that happen. Cuck fetish is humiliation fetish, dummy.

Tiberius Thyben
Feb 7, 2013

Gone Phishing


I find the sexiest part of a woman is the penis.

Altared State
Jan 14, 2006

I think I was born to burn

Tiberius Thyben posted:

I find the sexiest part of a woman is the penis.

Nothing wrong with that

Ghost Leviathan
Mar 2, 2017

Exploration is ill-advised.
Read most of this page in Zapp Brannigan's voice.

Sally
Jan 9, 2007


Don't post Small Dash!

Nooner posted:

*sees word "boob"*

*whips out his hog and starts furiously jackin' it*

HELL YEAH

*sees word "rear end"*

*explodes*

lol

OutOfPrint
Apr 9, 2009

Fun Shoe
I have a pet hypothesis that the rise in cuckold porn is due to the rise of easily accessible pornography. Men now who have been raised with it since puberty equate "good sexual feelings" with "watching a woman getting railed," so that the concept of sex, in their minds, takes on a purely passive, voyeuristic quality, with their actual participation limited to jerking themselves while watching the show.

I also think a good part of the rise in incest porn is to give otherwise vanilla porn a level of taboo kink to it. It's an easy fantasy to pull off for the actors and doesn't involve any special tools, toys, or costumes. I'm assuming the actors make good money off of it, especially for amateur stuff, considering how prevalent it is.

Trends in porn in the internet age would be a fascinating psychological study. It makes me wish I went to college a few years later than I did...but then I remember how tuition is skyrocketing and yeah gently caress that.

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spinderella
Jul 15, 2017

by FactsAreUseless

OutOfPrint posted:

I have a pet hypothesis that the rise in cuckold porn is due to the rise of easily accessible pornography. Men now who have been raised with it since puberty equate "good sexual feelings" with "watching a woman getting railed," so that the concept of sex, in their minds, takes on a purely passive, voyeuristic quality, with their actual participation limited to jerking themselves while watching the show.

I also think a good part of the rise in incest porn is to give otherwise vanilla porn a level of taboo kink to it. It's an easy fantasy to pull off for the actors and doesn't involve any special tools, toys, or costumes. I'm assuming the actors make good money off of it, especially for amateur stuff, considering how prevalent it is.

Trends in porn in the internet age would be a fascinating psychological study. It makes me wish I went to college a few years later than I did...but then I remember how tuition is skyrocketing and yeah gently caress that.

Fascinating, really. I've always thought that growing up in the last ten years having all this insane gross porn available is going to gently caress up men's brains, coupled with those being more socially isolated consuming it more and BLAMMO generation of weirdos.

Generalizing, but seriously it can't be good.

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