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Pick: Jul 19, 2009; Nap Ghost

Im (23f) moving into my BF's (37m) of 1 year house. He has "skulls art" everywhere that I'd like him to tone back (especially the skull candles that melt "blood") but he says they are part of his style and I need to get used to it.Relationships

0 points 47 comments submitted 2 months ago by Tramuhara to r/relationships

hello everyone, part of the reason I love Kenneth is his creativity and individual style. He's a kid at heart and so am I so we get along great. I am having a hard time with roommates so Kenny offered fo let me move in with him, I gladly accepted.

I just asked that he tone back his skull collection. I would seriously bet that he has 10000 skull items in his house. Everything from bed sheets to coffee cups to his tooth brush all have images of skulls. To say his house needs a woman's touch is an understatement (and I'm just the girl to do it my particular style is pretty much Anthropologie). I talked to him about maybe slowly getting rid of the skull stuff and let me slowly redecorate. He said he'd think about it and then said no. I said at least As a good faith thing that he's sharing his space with me, can he at least pack up rhe skull candles that drip red wax (looks like blood) to his video game room. He said no, that the candles (of which he has about 50) make him happy and he can't imagine not seeing them around his house. He seemed to get really emotional about it so I let it drop.

I'm at a loss, any advice here?

tl;dr: Boyfriend won't tone back his extensive skills decorations as I get ready to move in with him.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 03:53

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# ? May 30, 2024 22:36

Haifisch: Nov 13, 2010; Objection! I object! That was... objectionable!; Taco Defender

Also having a parent around who resents you for the crime of existing is really damaging in itself. Obviously none of us can know for sure which would have left his kid better off, but let's not pretend it would have magically been the model picket fence family if he stuck around.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 03:53

Pick: Jul 19, 2009; Nap Ghost

obvious solution: more skulls

# ? Nov 6, 2017 03:54

Meme Poker Party: Sep 1, 2006; by Azathoth

Pick posted:

Im (23f) moving into my BF's (37m) of 1 year house. He has "skulls art" everywhere that I'd like him to tone back (especially the skull candles that melt "blood") but he says they are part of his style and I need to get used to it.Relationship

BF is all about that Warhammer lifestyle.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 03:55

Haifisch: Nov 13, 2010; Objection! I object! That was... objectionable!; Taco Defender

Pick posted:

Im (23f) moving into my BF's (37m) of 1 year house. He has "skulls art" everywhere that I'd like him to tone back (especially the skull candles that melt "blood") but he says they are part of his style and I need to get used to it.Relationships

0 points 47 comments submitted 2 months ago by Tramuhara to r/relationships

hello everyone, part of the reason I love Kenneth is his creativity and individual style. He's a kid at heart and so am I so we get along great. I am having a hard time with roommates so Kenny offered fo let me move in with him, I gladly accepted.

I just asked that he tone back his skull collection. I would seriously bet that he has 10000 skull items in his house. Everything from bed sheets to coffee cups to his tooth brush all have images of skulls. To say his house needs a woman's touch is an understatement (and I'm just the girl to do it my particular style is pretty much Anthropologie). I talked to him about maybe slowly getting rid of the skull stuff and let me slowly redecorate. He said he'd think about it and then said no. I said at least As a good faith thing that he's sharing his space with me, can he at least pack up rhe skull candles that drip red wax (looks like blood) to his video game room. He said no, that the candles (of which he has about 50) make him happy and he can't imagine not seeing them around his house. He seemed to get really emotional about it so I let it drop.

I'm at a loss, any advice here?

tl;dr: Boyfriend won't tone back his extensive skills decorations as I get ready to move in with him.

I can't believe her boyfriend is me at age 13.

(OK, to be fair, I never had 50 skull candles. Mostly skull clothes. Shut up future-me, it's not a phase!!)

# ? Nov 6, 2017 03:55

Meme Poker Party: Sep 1, 2006; by Azathoth

I'm waiting for the twist we he is actually the operator of da share z0ne.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 03:58

snoo: Jul 5, 2007

I was like 'that's cool' but then the age difference :chloe:

# ? Nov 6, 2017 03:59

Ride The Gravitron: May 2, 2008; by FactsAreUseless

Add his skull to the collection

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:00

Pick: Jul 19, 2009; Nap Ghost

Haifisch posted:

I can't believe her boyfriend is me at age 13.

(OK, to be fair, I never had 50 skull candles. Mostly skull clothes. Shut up future-me, it's not a phase!!)

I like the idea that he MUST have skull candles in EVERY room

it's like halloween dril

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:00

Barudak: May 7, 2007

Is he that dark enlightment dude who subtly moves a human skull into the background of all his videos?

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:03

Pick: Jul 19, 2009; Nap Ghost

Barudak posted:

Is he that dark enlightment dude who subtly moves a human skull into the background of all his videos?

haha I was totally thinking of that too but I couldn't remember the source!

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:05

Absurd Alhazred: Mar 27, 2010; by Athanatos

Barudak posted:

Is he that dark enlightment dude who subtly moves a human skull into the background of all his videos?

Davis "Store Brand C&C Kane" Aurini.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:06

Pick: Jul 19, 2009; Nap Ghost

quote:

I(15/F) am stuck in a unhappy relationship.(15/M)Relationships
33 points 49 comments submitted 2 years ago by idontknowanymore___ to r/relationships

Everything was fine at first. Clich� but true. But, as the relationship continued, it became worse and he became more controlling. He's very verbally abusive to me which I foolishly took as him just being a boy. I told him about my past relationship(s) with abuse, and how my aunt used to lock me in cages for days, not feeding me. He compared me to a dog immediately after.

Another example is when I told him about my battle with anorexia and bulimia. He told me I was disgusting for doing so, then later told me I need to work out because of my "muffin top" and "love handles".

Not only that but he tries to force me to touch him. I hug him and kiss him even though I'm not a big fan of PDA and he gets upset if I'm not constantly on him and telling him how much I love him. But yet, he never touches me. He doesn't hug me back. (I know, dramatic sounding.) but I really feel unloved.

The only time he has attempted kissing me was when I was crying because he was "trying to get me to shut up."

I have tried breaking up with him but he wont let me. He's 6'4 and I'm 5'1. When I told him I wanted to end the relationship, he shoved me really hard and just said no. When I told him we should at least talk about it, he smacked me in the temple.

I try to stay away from the term "abusive" but I fear that is what is what this relationship is becoming. I'm not allowed to date and come from a bad household to where if I told my mom what is happening, id be beaten for being a whore and probably not fed.

I'm scared. What do I do when everyone is against me?

I can't tell a counselor or teacher because I don't want my family torn apart, but I also can't handle this relationship.

How do I break up with someone who doesn't respect me enough to accept I'm breaking up with them?

tl;dr I'm in a relationship with someone much bigger than me and I don't want to be hurt but I can't tell anyone. Feeling small and afraid.

girl

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:07

maskenfreiheit: Dec 30, 2004

Chomp8645 posted:

I'm waiting for the twist we he is actually the operator of da share z0ne.

i'm pretty sure i know who operates the share zone

and it's a ginger

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:08

Ride The Gravitron: May 2, 2008; by FactsAreUseless

Pick posted:

girl

I think she's still young enough to avoid being charged as an adult for :murder:

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:14

Grem: Mar 29, 2004; Can't post for 28 days!

DragQueenofAngmar posted:

oh my god

I (M32) met my GF's (F28, together 10 months) best friend (F28) today for the first time. She was an escort I patronized multiple times four years ago. I don't know what to do.

Hahah what website do you think he used? Like what do you think the name of it is I bet it's something funny anyone know what it might be?

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:16

ArbitraryC: Jan 28, 2009; Pick a number, any number; Pillbug

Grem posted:

Hahah what website do you think he used? Like what do you think the name of it is I bet it's something funny anyone know what it might be?

Asking for a friend?

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:17

navier-stoked: Aug 30, 2004

DragQueenofAngmar posted:

oh my god

I (M32) met my GF's (F28, together 10 months) best friend (F28) today for the first time. She was an escort I patronized multiple times four years ago. I don't know what to do.

Dump Jenn for Martha obviously

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:22

Salty Josh: Jul 13, 2016; Sometimes there's so much beauty in the world, I feel like I can't take it, and my heart is just going to cave in.; Nap Ghost

ArbitraryC posted:

In to comments he's even willing to help her pay for therapy, dunno what else the guy can do tbh this is sort of what happens when the decision is made unilaterally by someone who makes bad decisions.

That's what happens when your pullout game ain't on point.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:24

Salty Josh: Jul 13, 2016; Sometimes there's so much beauty in the world, I feel like I can't take it, and my heart is just going to cave in.; Nap Ghost

I(15/F) am stuck in a unhappy relationship.(15/M)Relationships
33 points 49 comments submitted 2 years ago by idontknowanymore___ to r/relationships

That guy sounds like a huge piece of poo poo. The eating disorders is a sign of low self-esteem as it is.

Some people are predators and until you hunt this predator, kill him, and mount him on your wall, he'll keep doing it.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:28

Ghost Leviathan: Mar 2, 2017; Exploration is ill-advised.

I swear I've seen the Skull Man posted in her before. But when someone has an extremely distinctive style, you don't mess with it. You could make a variant like painting the skulls pretty colours Day of the Dead style?

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:28

La Brea Carpet: Nov 22, 2007; I have no mouth and I must post

I didn't choose the skull life, the skull life chose me.

yeah it's a repost

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:32

Peaceful Anarchy: Sep 18, 2005; sXe
I am the math man.

Salty Josh posted:

I(15/F) am stuck in a unhappy relationship.(15/M)Relationships
33 points 49 comments submitted 2 years ago by idontknowanymore___ to r/relationships

That guy sounds like a huge piece of poo poo. The eating disorders is a sign of low self-esteem as it is.

Normally maybe, but here I'd say the eating disorders are a sign of abuse and neglect by her family who uses food as a tool of abuse.

quote:

my aunt used to lock me in cages for days, not feeding me.

I'm not allowed to date and come from a bad household to where if I told my mom what is happening, id be beaten for being a whore and probably not fed.

She should probably get the boyfriend to murder her family and then get him sent to jail to be free of all of them.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:46

Salty Josh: Jul 13, 2016; Sometimes there's so much beauty in the world, I feel like I can't take it, and my heart is just going to cave in.; Nap Ghost

Peaceful Anarchy posted:

Normally maybe, but here I'd say the eating disorders are a sign of abuse and neglect by her family who uses food as a tool of abuse.
She should probably get the boyfriend to murder her family and then get him sent to jail to be free of all of them.

Yeh dude, you're probably right.

I had a cousin who was abused through food. Eventually she started hiding it under her mattress and poo poo. Anything ranging from bags of chips too Tupperware full of chili.

She's now 5'8" and closing in on 400 lbs.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:51

LadyPictureShow: Nov 18, 2005; Success!

Peaceful Anarchy posted:

Normally maybe, but here I'd say the eating disorders are a sign of abuse and neglect by her family who uses food as a tool of abuse.
She should probably get the boyfriend to murder her family and then get him sent to jail to be free of all of them.

Nah, why go to all that trouble? :murder:

her family and frame the 'boyfriend'.

Everybody in this kid's life sounds like a piece of poo poo. And I hate that 'but I don't want to tear my family apart!' She's afraid her mother will starve her if she tells her about this dickhead abusing her.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 04:54

Cowslips Warren: Oct 29, 2005; What use had they for tricks and cunning, living in the enemy's warren and paying his price?; Grimey Drawer

Okay Reddit, prove you can be of use and get this girl outta this loving place, okay?

# ? Nov 6, 2017 05:20

maskenfreiheit: Dec 30, 2004

My (25/m) girlfriend (21/f) gained some weight and my sexual attraction to her diminished. (self.dating)

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My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years and a bit. Over the past 9 months or so, my girlfriend gained a bit of weight and I just stopped finding her as attractive as I used to. I haven't stopped loving her, not one bit! I kept it to myself for a while and tried to work on why I felt this way because the truth is I shouldn't feel this way about the woman I will be spending the rest of my life with no matter what she looks like.

She admits she gained some weight and we went to the gym together a few times before classes started over the summer but she never seemed to put much effort in at the gym. She said she preferred to do home workouts as the gym intimidated her a bit which i thought was fair. It just seemed like she wasn't making much progress. I'd go over to her place and find empty pizza boxes and soda bottles in her room and after a few times, I confronted her about this and she obliged. I honestly think her not trying seemed to contribute to my feelings.

It wasn't long after this that the bedroom problems started and after a few weeks of beating myself up about it, I begrudgingly told her. She obviously already had an idea because it seemed like I was avoiding sex with her. I might have been tbh. Now she thinks maybe I don't love her and it's killing me. As far as she is concerned, my diminished physical attraction to her is something I shouldn't feel because she would never feel that way about me which is true.

She's always had body image issues even when she didn't have any reason to. Am I an arsehole? Has anyone else gone through this? How did you get out of this mindset? Is it shallow and selfish of me to feel this way?

Edit : Her body before the weight gain was a bit like Selini Angelini

# ? Nov 6, 2017 05:32

ArbitraryC: Jan 28, 2009; Pick a number, any number; Pillbug

maskenfreiheit posted:

My (25/m) girlfriend (21/f) gained some weight and my sexual attraction to her diminished. (self.dating)

Reddit seems to think that the lady has gained 15 pounds and shows no interest in not drowning herself in pizza and soda everynight to not be an issue.

No way 15 could turn into 30 could turn into 50 could turn into...

# ? Nov 6, 2017 05:41

Trauma Dog 3000: Aug 30, 2017; by SA Support Robot

The baby which that guys daughter bashed turned out to be autistic, so it's fine

# ? Nov 6, 2017 05:44

Haifisch: Nov 13, 2010; Objection! I object! That was... objectionable!; Taco Defender

My boss [32/F] request we, her employees [22/F] dress "nicer" but we can't afford it

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I'm looking for general advice about this situation I'm in. And I'm not sure if I'm over reacting or if I have a justified reason to be upset.

My current workplace is a small boutique that is very seasonal. We offer upscale/finer home decor, clothing, accessories, custom linens etc. we also have a sister store that does interior designing and offers a more in depth look at our luxury furniture/ home brands. We also carry some lower tier items but our general market is definitely geared towards higher end pricing. Nothing too crazy, but most people we serve are older, well established couples.

At the moment there are only 2 employees (myself and my co worker). Between us, we split responsibilities that literally run the whole operation. Because of this, we've naturally grown much closer to our boss than what traditional workplaces allow. This has personally led to some frustrating/confusing times during my employment and I've separated myself "personally" from my boss, and kept a friendly professionalism towards her instead.

However she came into the store today and asked that we begin dressing "nicer" and to match the high end store and represent the store we work at. She said she does not want to create a dress code policy because it just creates too much "grey area" but really wants us to start look more "put together".

On a typical day we (my co worker and I) will wear dark jeans, nice expensive sandals or flats (think jack rogers, tory burch), and a loose blousy tee shirt. We are also allowed to wear the jewelry and accessories around in the store while we work.

If we wear leggings (usually in winter), it will always be with a tunic or long dress to make it work appropriate. It's important to note we live in a small, coastal town that is VERY CASUAL. Think flip flops and board shirts so it's not like we are walking around down town manhattan in this attire.

I am fairly certain she was hinting at us wearing the brands we sell in the store, because they are the same brands of clothes she wears. However, these brands are very expensive and even with our employee discounts- we simply cannot afford those clothes. We are paid hourly and as a college student with rent and bills. Every extra penny I have goes to savings or bills, not spending it on 100 dollar shirts and 300 dollar dresses.

It's frustrating because we make an hourly wage and we are paid very poorly in comparison to comparable jobs in the area. Just recently, we were both also declined our requests for raises. My co-worker and I are looking for other jobs too, but until then- I need to handle this situation with tact.

I am not sure how to discuss these issues with her because I know she will bring this up again, and I don't want her to think we are going to "rebel" against her wishes. But I also don't want to potentially let it slip we are looking for better jobs. I know for a fact neither of us plan anytime soon on spending any expendable income on "luxury clothes". But she just doesn't pay us well enough for us to afford these clothes. And i'm not sure how I will discuss this with her when she brings it up again.

tl;dr: My co-worker and I work in a small, high end boutique. Boss is cheap and pays us poorly. She just requested we wear nicer/higher end clothing (like the kind we sell) to better fit the appearance of the store. We cannot afford these clothes AT ALL. We are looking for jobs but don't want her to potentially put 2 & 2 together when we tell her we can't afford these things because we are paid so poorly. Not sure how to discuss this with her in the future.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 05:47

ArbitraryC: Jan 28, 2009; Pick a number, any number; Pillbug

Haifisch posted:

My boss [32/F] request we, her employees [22/F] dress "nicer" but we can't afford it

lol capitalism.

i wonder if they can try to spin wearing in store clothes as advertising and get big discounts? I've dated girls that worked in retail clothing and generally even the mall shops will sell their stuff p cheap to employees that are heavily encouraged to wear their brands. Not saying it's an ideal solution but till they find better work maybe that's the best option they have?

e: it's also an old lady so maybe just buying a blazer from ross would do the trick and she isn't actually trying to force them into a company script scam.

ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 05:55 on Nov 6, 2017

# ? Nov 6, 2017 05:51

maskenfreiheit: Dec 30, 2004

ArbitraryC posted:

Reddit seems to think that the lady has gained 15 pounds and shows no interest in not drowning herself in pizza and soda everynight to not be an issue.

No way 15 could turn into 30 could turn into 50 could turn into...

She was on the edge of unattractive.

She went over, and her BF gives her a chance to rectify the situation and she gets indignant? He should dump her. There�s no winning scenario

# ? Nov 6, 2017 05:59

maskenfreiheit: Dec 30, 2004

Haifisch posted:

My boss [32/F] request we, her employees [22/F] dress "nicer" but we can't afford it

Steal clothes from the store to wear

# ? Nov 6, 2017 06:01

Haifisch: Nov 13, 2010; Objection! I object! That was... objectionable!; Taco Defender

My niece (18) wants me to design her wedding with a month and a half notice. I (33) will be on vacation the weekend she picked to get married.

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I am facing a situation and not sure how to handle it. In April of this year my oldest niece Dawn (30) announced that she and her boyfriend would be getting married Sept. 5th of this year. My niece asked me to please handle all centerpieces and any decor for the wedding as well as being her maid of honor. I was thrilled and worked my rear end off for four months. It was really hard work but I pulled it off and my niece was over the moon with how her wedding turned out. Dawn left all of them decor up to me, saying I could what I wanted and thankfully, she and everyone else at the wedding loved it.

At the reception, my youngest niece Lea (18) decided that her oldest sisters wedding was the best time to tell everyone that she and her boyfriend are getting married on Halloween this year. I was busy and had heard her saying something but didn't really think about it again until this afternoon.

Dawn called saying Lea had called her saying she had bought her wedding dress. Lea told Dawn that since Dawn makes cakes, she wants her to do her wedding cake and she loved what I did for Dawns wedding so she wants me to do hers as well. While I'm glad to be the person she wants to decorate her wedding, this brings up a poo poo load of issues.

Issue 1- 3 months ago my Mother (60) and I booked a trip for out of town the weekend Lea has picked for her wedding. Call me selfish but we have really been looking forward to this trip. Our lives have been kinda crazy and the time away is really needed.

Issue 2- I paid for all the crap I needed to make the centerpieces and to decorate for Dawns wedding. I told her it would be my husband's and I's wedding gift to her, I paid for everything so she could have really nice stuff that I knew she couldn't afford on her own and Dawn was over the moon. At that time, I had the money to do it. Two weeks before Dawns wedding, I moved into a new house then got laid off the next day. So my money is tight, I have a family to help support. Lea told Dawn she has zero money for decorations and the cake, meaning she expects Dawn to make the wedding cake, pay for it and me pay for decor and centerpieces. With Dawn and myself JUST paying for Dawns wedding, we are all tapped out. She is also expecting my parents to pay for the food since they just paid for the food at Dawns wedding.

Issue 3- Lea picked Oct. 30th for the day of the wedding. We live in Southern Indiana and weather in the Midwest this time of year can be either rain or even snow. The location of the wedding is at my parents farm, OUTSIDE. There is nowhere to go if it rains or anything, its all 100% outside.

So, I'm not going to lie- Lea is and always has been a huge rear end in a top hat. She thinks just because she says "This is what I want" everyone should hop to. She can be really loving difficult just because. Dawn asked Lea what kind of maid of honor dress she needed to look for and Leas answer was "Whatever." She wants her wedding cake to be Nightmare Before Christmas themed, said her wedding color is navy blue and doesn't have any thoughts about anything else. So she wants everyone to do everything and come up with it all in our own and when dealing with Lea that means that, even though she purposely didn't say what she wanted, what you give her will not be good enough or right and she will throw a fit. It's the reasons I had to stop buying her anything for Christmas and her birthday, nothing was good enough and she'd freak so no more gifts.

So my question Reddit is - how do I go about talking about all of these issues with Lea? I can't do what she wants, none of us can. While I do want to do for her what I did for Dawn I am just not in the place to do again this soon. If I could talk her into moving the wedding to December and having it at her Dad's giant building, I could do what she wants, no one would be in the rain or snow and my Mother and I won't be out of town. How do I tell her this without her turning it into me just trying to tell her what to do?

TL;DR; My nieces wedding plans are just flat out not going to work. How do I break it to her in way that she will actually listen and not think I'm just telling her what to do??

quote:

[�]HatsAndTopcoats 534 points 2 years ago

The wedding is at your parents' farm when your mother won't be there?

[�]tattedupgirl [S] 538 points 2 years ago

Yep. My niece didn't ask anybody anything, she just started telling everyone when she's getting married. I'm telling Lea Tuesday about the trip and everything I put in my post. I want her to actually listen and not think I'm just being a dick or don't care or something.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 06:07

ArbitraryC: Jan 28, 2009; Pick a number, any number; Pillbug

Haifisch posted:

My niece (18) wants me to design her wedding with a month and a half notice. I (33) will be on vacation the weekend she picked to get married.

"My husband says its because I care way to much and if her feelings are hurt then its on her."

proxy pete

# ? Nov 6, 2017 06:22

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To oohs😮 to ahhs😱 to 👏big👏applause👏
With all of my 😡anger I scream🤬 and shout📢
🇺🇸America🦅, I love you 🥰but you're freaking 💦me 😳out; Biscuit Hider

ArbitraryC posted:

lol capitalism.

i wonder if they can try to spin wearing in store clothes as advertising and get big discounts? I've dated girls that worked in retail clothing and generally even the mall shops will sell their stuff p cheap to employees that are heavily encouraged to wear their brands. Not saying it's an ideal solution but till they find better work maybe that's the best option they have?

e: it's also an old lady so maybe just buying a blazer from ross would do the trick and she isn't actually trying to force them into a company script scam.

I would advise trying the Ross lifehack first, then seizing the means of production if that fails.

If it succeeds, let things return to the status quo, then seize the means of production when she is unaware.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 06:47

venus de lmao: Apr 30, 2007; Call me "pixeltits"

maskenfreiheit posted:

She was on the edge of unattractive.

She went over, and her BF gives her a chance to rectify the situation and she gets indignant? He should dump her. There’s no winning scenario

lmao dude is torpedoing his relationship because he values her physical attractiveness more than her emotional well-being and is trying to bully her into losing weight

somebody who is overeating and piling up junk food in their room doesn't have something more going on, no sir, she just likes food

# ? Nov 6, 2017 07:45

ArbitraryC: Jan 28, 2009; Pick a number, any number; Pillbug

Bertrand Hustle posted:

lmao dude is torpedoing his relationship because he values her physical attractiveness more than her emotional well-being and is trying to bully her into losing weight

somebody who is overeating and piling up junk food in their room doesn't have something more going on, no sir, she just likes food

It is realistically a symptom of her mental state but like, 20's isn't a bad age to preemptively screen for that sort of thing either. If you were 25 and your SO were spiraling into addiction I wouldn't really blame you for letting them hit rock bottom on their own.

# ? Nov 6, 2017 07:51

Anony Mouse: Jan 30, 2005; A name means nothing on the battlefield. After a week, no one has a name.; Lipstick Apathy

I [28]M just found out that my girlfriend [27]F had one night stand before she met me and it�s bothering me what should I do?

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i just found out recently that my girlfriend had a one night stand sex with one guy she met in tinder Accidentally I went through her phone and I found out that she had a long sex conversation with the guy I was shocked of her attitude in tinder she was so wild and had dirty talk with him They talked for one week and then she asked him to come to her town and book a hotel room and eventually they had sex She even didn�t ask for his number or anything all their conversations were in tinder The thing that made me mad that I wasn�t expecting her to do like that since we have been together over one year and she told me that she had only two boyfriends before me What should I do? TL;DR:I [28]M I just found out that my girlfriend [27]F had one night stand before she met me

Other penises exist besides my own?! :monocle:

# ? Nov 6, 2017 08:38

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# ? May 30, 2024 22:36

The American Dream: Mar 1, 2007; Don't Forget My Balls

Haifisch posted:

My boss [32/F] request we, her employees [22/F] dress "nicer" but we can't afford it

Quit, get a job waiting tables or bar tending. You'll make 2-4x the money working 30 hours a week wearing $60 outfits 3 shifts in a row.

Twice a much during tourist season

# ? Nov 6, 2017 08:39

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