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Three Olives posted:Why would tenants not be allowed to access the breaker? Like has he never lived in a home with electricity before?
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therobit posted:10 years on your weeding day will not seam special or all that important, especially details lie this. You will realize as you watch others have weddings that the little details you obsessed over were insignificant and you will laugh at how important they were to you because literally none of the guests care if things were not perfect. poo poo happens, and the bride AND the mom should both loving get over it, because everyone else has already moved on. Hmm, or perhaps that person had the right to have their request honored on their one special day and intentionally undermining it was kinda lovely? Having expectations and asking them to be met, and being unhappy when people choose to disregard them, is a valid thing.
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Nov 14, 2017 21:51
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Anne Whateley posted:We can infer the landlord didn't want tenants loving with it because the landlord put a lock on it and didn't give them the key. I think he assumed that the breaker would have a lock on it because he clearly doesn't know what a breaker is or does, I would be shocked if locking a breaker box for any purpose but a safety lock out would be against code.
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Nov 14, 2017 21:55
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Ham Sandwiches posted:Yeah dude the whole "but the children" angle sucks poo poo, imagine having one day where you want to be able to remember it for the rest of your life the way you wanted it to go, but no, the most important thing in the world is that you don't confuse some other person's kids whose mom can't go along with the request for the group. because one the SIL had already done that rear end in a top hat move, there were only two choices: be an additional rear end in a top hat in the situation, or let the kids just loving be. yes, it is an unfair choice, unfairly foisted upon the bride by the lovely mom. it's still the choice she had, though. that's life.
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Nov 14, 2017 22:05
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:because one the SIL had already done that rear end in a top hat move, there were only two choices: be an additional rear end in a top hat in the situation, or let the kids just loving be. yes, it is an unfair choice, unfairly foisted upon the bride by the lovely mom. it's still the choice she had, though. that's life. Oh please, kids want lots of things, you are not an rear end in a top hat for telling a kid no, they will hear it for the rest of their lives and need to get used to it. Sorry, you don't get a glass of wine, sorry, you don't get to play with knives, sorry you don't get to swim, sorry you don't get to play with the adults at this very expensive and fancy party. Sucks, that's life kid.
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Nov 14, 2017 22:10
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:because one the SIL had already done that rear end in a top hat move, there were only two choices: be an additional rear end in a top hat in the situation, or let the kids just loving be. yes, it is an unfair choice, unfairly foisted upon the bride by the lovely mom. it's still the choice she had, though. that's life. Being an rear end in a top hat would have been allowing the kids to remain, demonstrating that those children are exceptional compared to all the others.
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Nov 14, 2017 22:15
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:because one the SIL had already done that rear end in a top hat move, there were only two choices: be an additional rear end in a top hat in the situation, or let the kids just loving be. yes, it is an unfair choice, unfairly foisted upon the bride by the lovely mom. it's still the choice she had, though. that's life. Ah yes once people pull the super advanced move of "Ignoring what you asked because they know you'll probably react like this" your only choice is to go along with it for the kids??? If we're talking about a random party sure, if we're talking about someone's wedding with a really explicit request that they went through a bunch of effort to facilitate, then no
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Nov 14, 2017 22:19
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Me [31F] with my husband [35M] of 4 years, I'm tired of babysitting him when he gets drunkquote:My husband of 4 years drinks excessively at social gatherings and the holiday season always highlights the extent of this problem. Having grown up in a bar and worked at bars my entire life, christ I hate people like this man and just can't fathom why people put up with this poo poo.
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Nov 14, 2017 22:21
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almightyerin posted:Me [31F] with my husband [35M] of 4 years, I'm tired of babysitting him when he gets drunk I mean I would want to pick up the corgi too.
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almightyerin posted:Me [31F] with my husband [35M] of 4 years, I'm tired of babysitting him when he gets drunk
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I like kids. We want to have one. We enjoy spending time with our nephew, and the nieces we'll meet at Christmas. Kids are never the problem. Parents are the problem. Mom at the wedding needed her extended family to see her kids dancing cutely and soak that up so she could feel good about herself. Toes crushed by a stroller at Disney*? Think a kid was driving it? Kids brought into the adult-only area? They didn't just wander in themselves. Unruly kid in a restaurant? If I acted up in a restaurant I'd have been taken outside until I cooled off. Parents, I know parenting is hard, but we've got a society going on here and part of the social compact is behaving appropriately in public. Maybe ease them up to places with glasses made of glass and non-plastic tablecloths. I can deal with all of that, BTW. It's fine. Kids are going to act out now and then. But... If your plan to keep your kid quiet at dinner is to let them watch Paw Patrol on your phone, please also bring some loving headphones! Not doing so shows your utter disregard for everyone else but you. You knew you were coming. A kid might make some noise. YouTube will definitely make noise and continue to do so throughout the meal, and kids media is designed to be simple to understand and attention getting enough to hold a toddler. It is very difficult to ignore and have an adult conversation over. This continues to not be a problem with children.
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Nov 14, 2017 22:34
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almightyerin posted:Me [31F] with my husband [35M] of 4 years, I'm tired of babysitting him when he gets drunk I noticed nowhere in that post did she say the problem got worse over time. I have to wonder if he was like that before they got married as well. There really ought to be some kind of public awareness campaign that tells everyone that marrying someone or having kids with someone will not improve them; if they were a drunken lout or a slovenly game-addict or an abusive rear end in a top hat before, they will be after.
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Nov 14, 2017 22:47
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therobit posted:poo poo happens, and the bride AND the mom should both loving get over it, because everyone else has already moved on. Well, we haven't
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Nov 14, 2017 22:48
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almightyerin posted:Me [31F] with my husband [35M] of 4 years, I'm tired of babysitting him when he gets drunk 
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almightyerin posted:Me [31F] with my husband [35M] of 4 years, I'm tired of babysitting him when he gets drunk Divorce his rear end. Go make babies with someone that isn't an alcoholic wreck. I feel a little baffled at 'he can't stop himself until he gets hosed up drunk, but he doesn't drink every day so I dunno if he's an alcoholic?'. If you can't limit/control your intake, that's one of the main issues, not if he does it every day or not. One of my best friends dated a shithead like that for more than three years (she, unfortunately figured he would 'mellow out'). One 4th of July he got so blind shitfaced drunk (at his boss's party) that he knocked over an entire table of food/drinks, kicked in his boss's screen door/dented his front door, and tried jumping in his koi pond. Once we lured him back home, he proceeded to kick a hole in the drywall behind the couch, kicked my boyfriend in the chest (he was trying to hold him down so he'd stop loving things up in the apartment), and I had to resort to punching him in the face because he had a death grip on my arm and was trying to bite me. He ended up pissing himself too. When my friend finally dumped him he went out for Halloween, and ended up in the hospital, needed plates put in his face and had his jaw wired shut, because some guy jumped him 'for no reason'. Everyone knew the reason was he got lovely drunk and tried pulling the wrong poo poo on the wrong person.
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Nov 14, 2017 22:53
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Isn't there some stat that's like 10% of people in the US do like 90% of the drinking? So basically the odds are good that if someone drinks at all they drink a lot. Reading that was part of what motivated me to cut back and maybe someday all but quit. I already cut out hard liquor because I could not adequately control how much of it I drank.
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Farmer Crack-rear end posted:I noticed nowhere in that post did she say the problem got worse over time. I have to wonder if he was like that before they got married as well. yeah, sounds like she might be the one at fault. she agreed to marry him in sickness and in health. alcoholism is a disease. should have read the contract more carefully sweetie!
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chumbler posted:Isn't there some stat that's like 10% of people in the US do like 90% of the drinking? So basically the odds are good that if someone drinks at all they drink a lot. Reading that was part of what motivates me to start cutting back and maybe someday all but quit. I already cut out hard liquor because I could not adequately control how much of it I drank. I cut back from 18 drinks a day to 1 by changing jobs off the night shift. Just changing your environment helps a lot.
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Nov 14, 2017 22:57
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chumbler posted:Isn't there some stat that's like 10% of people in the US do like 90% of the drinking? So basically the odds are good that if someone drinks at all they drink a lot. Reading that was part of what motivates me to start cutting back and maybe someday all but quit.
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chumbler posted:Isn't there some stat that's like 10% of people in the US do like 90% of the drinking? So basically the odds are good that if someone drinks at all they drink a lot. Reading that was part of what motivates me to start cutting back and maybe someday all but quit. That stat comes up pretty often. If you have HBO Now or HBO Go, the documentary 'Risky Drinking' is both unsettling and eye-opening. They give a lot of stats during it, and they follow a few people. The first one is some sorority chick that does the weekend binge drinking and cries in club bathrooms. You have the divorced mom that doesn't have a problem, because it's only wine with the girls! (she missed her child's 8th grade graduation because of drinking) the last one is a guy that is so goddamn debilitated by drinking, he has to kill a sixer in his car on his lunch break or his shakes get uncontrollable. It's fuckin' morbid.
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chumbler posted:Isn't there some stat that's like 10% of people in the US do like 90% of the drinking? So basically the odds are good that if someone drinks at all they drink a lot. Reading that was part of what motivated me to cut back and maybe someday all but quit. I already cut out hard liquor because I could not adequately control how much of it I drank.
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Meme Emulator posted:I cut back from 18 drinks a day to 1 by changing jobs off the night shift. Just changing your environment helps a lot. leaving grad school made me no longer desire drinking. weird
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Am I [26 F] overreacting to my BF's [28 M] football obsession?quote:I started dating my BF back in March, and, for the most part, things have been great. However, about a week after we became official he warned me that in the fall he generally just spends his weekends watching football...and that's it. I thought it was funny at the time. Have you tried role-playing as John Madden to spice things up? 
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Nov 14, 2017 23:12
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I [25F] have a stalker. All of my friends seem to think it’s no big deal and are friendly with him [20?M]. It's making me think I’m crazy.quote:You may remember I posted a few months ago about my best friend dating my stalker, but here’s more background:
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Doggles posted:Am I [26 F] overreacting to my BF's [28 M] football obsession? Deflate his balls
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maskenfreiheit posted:I [25F] have a stalker. All of my friends seem to think it’s no big deal and are friendly with him [20?M]. It's making me think I’m crazy. Holy poo poo that’s a rough one.
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Nov 14, 2017 23:21
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therobit posted:10 years on your weeding day will not seam special or all that important, especially details lie this. You will realize as you watch others have weddings that the little details you obsessed over were insignificant and you will laugh at how important they were to you because literally none of the guests care if things were not perfect. poo poo happens, and the bride AND the mom should both loving get over it, because everyone else has already moved on. it's sometimes good to suppress your natural urge to look like a tough guy, nobody can see your dick
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Doggles posted:Am I [26 F] overreacting to my BF's [28 M] football obsession?
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maskenfreiheit posted:yeah, sounds like she might be the one at fault. she agreed to marry him in sickness and in health. alcoholism is a disease. should have read the contract more carefully sweetie! i'm not saying she doesn't deserve sympathy, it's just tragic that people get locked into "well all i need to do is get engaged/married/pregnant and my spouse will get their poo poo together"
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maskenfreiheit posted:I [25F] have a stalker. All of my friends seem to think it’s no big deal and are friendly with him [20?M]. It's making me think I’m crazy. Every time he contacts post it publicly. I'm guessing it'd probably stop things. Or he'd buy a ticket to the states and follow through on his threats.
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My (20F) teacher (70sM) made inappropriate comments; unsure how to proceed.Non-Romantic (self.relationships)quote:I'm in a class at my college where, a while ago, someone brought some food to share. I declined any. My teacher looked at me and said, "Is that how you stay so trim?" then winked at me. Definitely weird. Then the next class he winked at me again. I do my best to avoid eye contact with him now.
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maskenfreiheit posted:I [25F] have a stalker. All of my friends seem to think it’s no big deal and are friendly with him [20?M]. It's making me think I’m crazy. Wait, did the Jews have drugs all this time and no one told me?
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I [20s/F] witnessed my father [60s/M] browsing incest-themed pornography.Non-Romantic I know we're not supposed to touch the poop but I couldn't resist. I messaged OP and she told me that reddit mods deleted her post, and she provided me with the full text quote:I live pretty far away from my parents, and only see them a few times a year, but I'm usually willing to hop on remote viewing software (that they know I control, with permission) to help with tech issues or business stuff on their PCs.
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I [32F] am being forced by my husband [33 M] of 3 years to file bug reports??quote:My husband is an engineer, and we've been together for 3 years, and bought a house together last year. He's always been a tinkerer and I've been fine with it but lately it has gotten out of hand. It started with a smart lock. I don't know why I regular lock wasn't fine, we live in a safe neighbourhood, on the 7th floor in an apartment. I don't think I've ever worried about a break in, but now I need to pull my phone out to unlock a door instead of my keys, and the app is buggy and crashing constantly. He keeps telling me how much better it is because we can remotely unlock our doors, but why would I ever need to do that? When the battery runs out I have to end up using a key anyway, so I don't get the point of this thing, but fine. I lived with it. Oh my good god 
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uptown posted:I [20s/F] witnessed my father [60s/M] browsing incest-themed pornography.Non-Romantic She should just forget about it. If it was father-daughter on the other hand...
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almightyerin posted:I [32F] am being forced by my husband [33 M] of 3 years to file bug reports?? "Honey just download my smart house app groverhaus, I built it myself."
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I'm more of an ideas husband, looking for a programmer wife to implement all my ideas that i can take credit for when they work.
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almightyerin posted:I [32F] am being forced by my husband [33 M] of 3 years to file bug reports?? Don't date engineers
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dudeness posted:I'm more of an ideas husband, looking for a programmer wife to implement all my ideas that i can take credit for when they work. Ziv Zulander posted:Don't date engineers It's been my experience that women who engineer are worth their weight in platinum.
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