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Me(39m) Wife(37) came out as bi and wants a another woman. Need advice.quote:So after 14 years of being together, 8 of those years being married my wife comes out as bi and says she wants to have sex with another woman. I asked her why she finally tells me now after all these years and she says she thought I knew. I had no clue to be honest. quote:For me, I can't cheat of my wife, it goes against everything I believe in. I know right now she is in a bad spot, she has anxiety issues and takes meds for that. She goes through this every once in awhile. I may be open to her sleeping with another woman with rules/terms. I just can't give her an answer right now. This is new to me.
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Nov 15, 2017 17:38
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Palpek posted:Me(39m) Wife(37) came out as bi and wants a another woman. Need advice. quote:She has told me she doesn't believe in divorce Well, you still can.
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Nov 15, 2017 17:41
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Palpek posted:Me(39m) Wife(37) came out as bi and wants a another woman. Need advice. This marriage is already over.
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Nov 15, 2017 17:45
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I like the part where he desperately tried to spin it into a threesome and now is still unsure about the situation because he still hopes he could maybe spin it into a threesome in the future.
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Nov 15, 2017 17:45
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My GF Broke up with me to try sleeping with other guys but wants to get back together afterwards. (self.relationship_advice)quote:So we’ve dated for nearly a year and a half and I can truly say she’s different than any other past girlfriend. We mesh in every conceivable way. Only catch is that she was a virgin. She’s under the impression that she needs to explore with other guys before she commits any further but wants to get back together at some point when she’s done. Why the heck do I do. I’ve told her I think this should just be the end of us but all of me wants to be with her still. I’m just extremely confused.
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Nov 15, 2017 17:46
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Hmm yes what the hell does he do, what a dilemma. What's missing is their age though, I'm guessing early 20s but it would be hilarious if they're older.
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Nov 15, 2017 17:51
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Palpek posted:I like the part where he desperately tried to spin it into a threesome and now is still unsure about the situation because he still hopes he could maybe spin it into a threesome in the future. I mean, I can totally see him offering up a threesome since she did that before (by cheating on him and loving lol at him for not leaving then) and it lets her explore her desires while keeping him involved (you know, the guy she supposedly loves). But if they're not having sex at all and she just wants to go gently caress other women I don't know why he'd bother staying in the marriage as she doesn't seem to give a poo poo about him/his satisfaction in the relationship. I know she doesn't believe in divorce (lol) but as someone else pointed out, he still can.
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Nov 15, 2017 17:52
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maskenfreiheit posted:My GF Broke up with me to try sleeping with other guys but wants to get back together afterwards. (self.relationship_advice) Are you, like, 16? In any case, yes, do this. This will set a really good tone for the dynamic and result in way more drama down the line that you hopefully will post about on reddit.
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Nov 15, 2017 17:53
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Ouhei posted:I mean, I can totally see him offering up a threesome since she did that before (by cheating on him and loving lol at him for not leaving then) and it lets her explore her desires while keeping him involved (you know, the guy she supposedly loves). But if they're not having sex at all and she just wants to go gently caress other women I don't know why he'd bother staying in the marriage as she doesn't seem to give a poo poo about him/his satisfaction in the relationship. I know she doesn't believe in divorce (lol) but as someone else pointed out, he still can.
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Nov 15, 2017 18:01
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Palpek posted:I’ve (23f) lived with my BF (29m) for 6 months now and he just annoys me. He says these are normal growing pains, I think it might be a larger issue. Help? this lady should check into whether or not she has misophonia, because those symptoms sound exactly like mine! common, everyday noises drive me fuckin crazy and i end up having to wear headphones a lot of the time, including when my bf is around and doing something as simple as typing
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Nov 15, 2017 18:13
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Admiral Ray posted:Are you, like, 16? I agree, because I'm betting on a drama explosion when she finds someone she likes more and just stays with them, only for him to break down because "we had a deal!"
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Nov 15, 2017 18:15
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Blade Runner posted:only for him to break down because "we had a deal!"
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Nov 15, 2017 18:26
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Palpek posted:Me(39m) Wife(37) came out as bi and wants a another woman. Need advice. it's abusive to be controlling, the slut shamey, homophobic OP has no right to dictate how his wife spends her time.
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Nov 15, 2017 18:29
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maskenfreiheit posted:it's abusive to be controlling, the slut shamey, homophobic OP has no right to dictate how his wife spends her time. Did Maskenfreiheit make a joke?!
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Nov 15, 2017 18:31
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blarzgh posted:Did Maskenfreiheit make a joke?! Hard to tell.
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Nov 15, 2017 18:33
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Blade Runner posted:I agree, because I'm betting on a drama explosion when she finds someone she likes more and just stays with them, only for him to break down because "we had a deal!"
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Nov 15, 2017 18:34
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Palpek posted:Me(39m) Wife(37) came out as bi and wants a another woman. Need advice. Stories like this are why people freak out when their partner reveals they are bi.
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Nov 15, 2017 18:46
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Avenging_Mikon posted:Is that part in a comment somewhere? I see the "our money" part, but is that explicitly established? Because if the MIL is buying it and not being paid back, then still absolutely annoying, but a different thing than if the husband is paying her back. Yeah, it's elaborated on in the comments, I figured putting the sirens around 'our' made that clear, my bad. The MIL buys whatever piece of jewelry, and the husband reimburses his mom despite the OP telling him multiple times she doesn't want it/won't wear it. I don't understand how hard it is to say 'thanks but no thanks ma'. But the OP's plan if this doesn't put a stop to it is to put the jewelry aside and let her kids have it when they get a little older.
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Nov 15, 2017 18:51
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While jogging early this morning, a guy assaulted me, and I stabbed him.quote:I’m just jogging along a residential area when he comes up to me from behind, pulls me close to his body, and grabs my rear end. Really? Things that are justified self defense: Stabbing someone who has grabbed you in the leg Things that are kind of a grey area: Stabbing the attacker twice in the chest after they're no longer grabbing you Things you will go to jail for: Chasing the man you've already stabbed three times down the road while wielding a knife and yelling
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Nov 15, 2017 18:54
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Danaru posted:While jogging early this morning, a guy assaulted me, and I stabbed him. Don’t break the social contract then complain the response is illegal ya dingus
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Nov 15, 2017 18:58
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Danaru posted:While jogging early this morning, a guy assaulted me, and I stabbed him. This was 100% written one handed
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Nov 15, 2017 19:01
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Blade Runner posted:This was 100% written one handed 
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Nov 15, 2017 19:06
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Blade Runner posted:This was 100% written one handed I kinda hope so because as hilarious as an attempted rapist getting shanked is, that's a pretty fair amount of jail time even if the rapist DOESN'T die
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Nov 15, 2017 19:06
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Danaru posted:While jogging early this morning, a guy assaulted me, and I stabbed him.
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Nov 15, 2017 19:14
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Danaru posted:I kinda hope so because as hilarious as an attempted rapist getting shanked is, that's a pretty fair amount of jail time even if the rapist DOESN'T die It reads like a classic power fantasy in the vein of "I walked into the McDonald's to get my daily supply of chicken nuggets and singlehandedly defeated ten armed robbers at once using my secret sauce techniques" I somehow do not believe that this woman carries a loving knife in her sweaty palms every day she jogs, nor that her immediate reaction to getting groped was to turn into a loving Navy SEAL and stab this man multiple times before giving a pithy one liner, and if she actually told the police what happened she'd definitely be in jail until they found the dude and not posting on the loving internet because, yeah, it's impossible to prove you didn't just turn around and start stabbing a man jogging near you and then claim he tried to grope you, and if he bleeds out then you have just called the police and admitted to murder If that story is real, she is legitimately 100% hosed if the guy claims he never touched her and she just started stabbing him. I guess she has to hold out hope that people who grope women in the park are idiots, which isn't a terrible bet, but she's more than likely screwed. Blade Runner fucked around with this message at 19:18 on Nov 15, 2017 |
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Nov 15, 2017 19:14
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Palpek posted:The guy's wife tells him she wants to start loving other people and his first reaction is to ask if he can get something out of it, it's pretty lol. Sure that the right thing to do is to get divorce but his weird reaction gives it a spin. He just doesn't know what to do, it's all so new to him - I'm wondering if he would be having similar doubts if she said she'd like to start sleeping with other men, I'm guessing nope because it wouldn't feed his fantasy. I just meant that I could see the thought process behind hearing that your wife is bi and wants to explore that by loving some women and saying well we could try threesomes since on paper that would be her exploring that need while still keeping her husband as part of her sex life. More of a "okay lets try to figure this out as a couple rather than you running off on your own" thing than anything else. It obviously also plays into his fantasies of 2 women at once, but if she's getting to live out some of her fantasies/desires I don't really see the shame in him living out some of his really. I doubt his reaction would be the same at all if it were her wanting to gently caress other dudes, but I think a lot of people would have different reactions to their SO announcing they're bi and need to explore that side of them as opposed to just announcing that their SO isn't enough of a man/woman to keep them satisfied and they need to find replacements in bed.
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Nov 15, 2017 19:16
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Danaru posted:While jogging early this morning, a guy assaulted me, and I stabbed him.
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Nov 15, 2017 19:17
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I’m glad I returned to this thread in time for Githusband and Mammary Makeover Motherfucker.
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Nov 15, 2017 19:21
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You may love your dogs but no one else really cares. Also sounds like there’s some unknown history here Me [61F] with my daughter [28F], she’s angry I don’t consider her pets my grandchildren quote:u/notadognana
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Nov 15, 2017 19:22
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Blade Runner posted:It reads like a classic power fantasy in the vein of "I walked into the McDonald's to get my daily supply of chicken nuggets and singlehandedly defeated ten armed robbers at once using my secret sauce techniques" One post above yours
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The unfolding saga of the Central Park* Sex Stabber also looks promising. *no idea what park. E: based on further information, Salt Lake Sex Stabber is more accurate and also a better name imo christmas boots fucked around with this message at 19:30 on Nov 15, 2017 |
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Nov 15, 2017 19:23
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Blade Runner posted:If that story is real, she is legitimately 100% hosed if the guy claims he never touched her and she just started stabbing him. I guess she has to hold out hope that people who grope women in the park are idiots, which isn't a terrible bet, but she's more than likely screwed. Enh, you can freely shoot a child for wearing a hoodie and just claim he assaulted you. This woman will be fine, especially in Utah. American society loves this kind of revenge fantasy crap.
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Nov 15, 2017 19:24
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Captain Yossarian posted:One post above yours The last paragraph was the response to that. That story also doesn't make sense and isn't consistent with how she told it. By her telling, she called the police while she was there. By the news story, she went home and did it. Apparently, the other people at the bus stop just went about their day as a woman chased after a man with a knife, and didn't think this was worth calling the police first over? Blade Runner fucked around with this message at 19:29 on Nov 15, 2017 |
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Nov 15, 2017 19:25
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Holy poo poo lol.
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Nov 15, 2017 19:26
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Wife [35f] doesn't want kids speaking to their step-brothers because of their fathers cheating. They all knew and didn't say anything. They're not listening and now she wants to kick them out. How to talk sense into her?quote:My wife and I have now been married for a year and a half now. She was in a previous marriage that ended horribly-the husband was cheating on her, and his kids (15, 16, 17) as well as hers (15 and 16) knew about it- but no one said anything until after she found out. The reasons as to why nobody knows. There is still some resentment between her and her sons and , and she doesn't want her communicating with their (ex) step-brothers at all.
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fruit on the bottom posted:Wife [35f] doesn't want kids speaking to their step-brothers because of their fathers cheating. They all knew and didn't say anything. They're not listening and now she wants to kick them out. How to talk sense into her? You've been away too long, old man We've already done this one
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Milotic posted:You may love your dogs but no one else really cares. Also sounds like there’s some unknown history here I have the opposite problem, my mother calls my dogs her furry grandchildren and sends me cards from them on holidays and even father's day and it weirds me out. She knows I'm not having children and she doesn't seem bothered by it but come on, dogs are not children, they are better. And then last year my dad bought all his grandkids iPads (I'm his only child that doesn't have children) and he didn't even give my dogs iPads. It's lose/lose.
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Nov 15, 2017 19:30
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Blade Runner posted:You've been away too long, old man I am undone!
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blarzgh posted:Did Maskenfreiheit make a joke?! I’m shocked maskenfreiheit may have made a fakepost
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