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Getting fertility treatment at 49 makes her a garbage human being and I don't care what other context there is.
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almightyerin posted:My siblings [27F & 24M] and I [26F] just found out my mom [49F] is having a baby in less than three months! She confessed that she has been going through fertility treatments and lied to us about it for over two years. How can we come to terms with her betrayal?
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Nov 29, 2017 15:49
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therobit posted:Getting fertility treatment at 49 makes her a garbage human being and I don't care what other context there is. Mom clearly needs to be the center of attention and literally all times, and a person like that is exhausting.
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Nov 29, 2017 16:02
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therobit posted:Getting fertility treatment at 49 makes her a garbage human being and I don't care what other context there is. Seriously.
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Nov 29, 2017 16:47
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therobit posted:Getting fertility treatment at 49 makes her a garbage human being and I don't care what other context there is. Someone needs to not have a medical license anymore.
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Nov 29, 2017 16:56
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Milotic posted:This is depressing. You should not have a baby or get pregnant if you have this problem you loving idiot. Get an abortion.
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Nov 29, 2017 17:35
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almightyerin posted:My siblings [27F & 24M] and I [26F] just found out my mom [49F] is having a baby in less than three months! She confessed that she has been going through fertility treatments and lied to us about it for over two years. How can we come to terms with her betrayal? quote:Apparently my mom's husband had called him after they left and told him that he made my mom's "high risk pregnancy" even more "high risk" because he was a "selfish child". This woman is gonna get an abortion then claim miscarriage due to emotional duress.
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Nov 29, 2017 17:40
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I (F21) need advice on a situation that’s making me feel horriblequote:Hello, i am currently in a situation that is very confusing for me and making me feel guilty.
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Nov 29, 2017 18:01
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andrew smash posted:Where do people hear this poo poo? No it doesn't. I don’t hear this poo poo, my wife experienced it and it’s one of the rare side effects: https://www.medicines.org.uk/emc/PIL.17377.latest.pdf Repevax in the UK can be used as the vaccination.
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Nov 29, 2017 18:03
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:I (F21) need advice on a situation that’s making me feel horrible I mean... He gave you the okay, in his mind this is probably the closest he can get to maybe having a threesome which is something I think most guys would be up for trying at least once in their lives if given the opportunity. I don't think there's anything to feel guilty about, just talk about whatever you do with her so your boyfriend stays in the loop. That way you know if he starts getting uncomfortable about it and it may end up being something he actively wants to fantasize about. Props to her for giving it this much thought I guess?
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Nov 29, 2017 18:21
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:I (F21) need advice on a situation that’s making me feel horrible You will fall in love with your friend. This is a good move, as it will help fill the void in your life that will soon form when you get married to what is in all likelihood kind of a idiot, or you will  from him. Win-win!
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Nov 29, 2017 18:22
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Admiral Ray posted:You, an idiot: Actually the problem with youth today is unrealistic relationship expectations driven by marketing that causes them to engage in self-destructive behavior. whats the blue belly button thing. its a dick isnt it. its some kind of buttplug-dick yiff thing. god dammit. god drat it all to hell.
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Nov 29, 2017 18:28
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Palpek posted:Help, I'm living in a romantic novel and can do nothing about it, my hands are tied really (except when I'm tickling a 25 year old): I feel really bad for this guy, he's sounds genuinely upset and just wants things to not be hosed, but he's hosed. His best case scenario is the wife dying suddenly so he can Pearl Harbor himself into happiness.
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Nov 29, 2017 18:28
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:whats the blue belly button thing. its a dick isnt it. its some kind of buttplug-dick yiff thing. god dammit. god drat it all to hell. You know what he/she/it does with the lobster? Yeah you know what happens to the lobster.
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Nov 29, 2017 18:30
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:whats the blue belly button thing. its a dick isnt it. its some kind of buttplug-dick yiff thing. god dammit. god drat it all to hell. It's one of those things that you blow into on inflatable toys
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Nov 29, 2017 18:37
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Palpek posted:Help, I'm living in a romantic novel and can do nothing about it, my hands are tied really (except when I'm tickling a 25 year old): Man who works terrible, mentally taxing job "falls in love" and will destroy own life through slowly escalating physical contact until he and his crush "accidentally" gently caress.
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Nov 29, 2017 18:38
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Yawgmoth posted:Chill Brother said what everyone has been thinking for decades and is a certified Good Person™ OP should have just bolded that part because I saw that monolith of text and skipped it, but that was a world class verbal beatdown by the brother.
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Nov 29, 2017 18:38
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Khorne posted:Yeah. Pretty much. Severance pay being 2x his salary normally means he blew an entire month's pay in a week and a half. That's financial fuckup territory. Especially when you've lost your job and then can't pay bills. That means on top of doing that, he has no emergency fund or assets/investments. He does have a financial drain of a vehicle, though! Oh boy! Yeah I meant to mention that, I know people like this, actually a friend of mine's boyfriend just got a new job after being unemployed and blew his entire paycheck in 3 days partying after my friend had been supporting him for months while he looked for a job. In this time period he had his phone shut off multiple times and after borrowing money to turn it back on still didn't pay the bill, would call drunk needing an Uber because he didn't have any money because he blew it all at the bar and did not have money to get home when he would ask to borrow $20 to have dinner with a friend, not get trashed until 2AM. Another friend of mine's long term boyfriend is now facing deportation because he missed his deadline for DACA, like he qualified, he was previously covered, he just didn't bother to send the application in on time. Some people are just irresponsible fuckups at managing their most basic affairs and you should run.
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Nov 29, 2017 18:41
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I guess public school is really bad in the US: My (45F) son (23M) invited my ex-best friend (44F) who blames me for her daughter's suicide to his wedding quote:u/guilty-goose
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Nov 29, 2017 18:45
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Milotic posted:I guess public school is really bad in the US: Ok but like why did your son invite her? Is he marrying the not dead daughter? That might be a good reason to invite her.
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Nov 29, 2017 18:50
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Milotic posted:I guess public school is really bad in the US: It sounds like it was the mothering that was bad
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Nov 29, 2017 18:52
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It wasnt aeroplanes or machine guns, but mothering killed the beast.
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Nov 29, 2017 18:55
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Milotic posted:I guess public school is really bad in the US: quote:I never even cashed the check, I guess out of spite. Hahahahaha you are such a piece of poo poo. You didn't kill her daughter, obviously, but wow, you idiot. This wedding is gonna own.
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Nov 29, 2017 19:01
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Milotic posted:I guess public school is really bad in the US: This is just like that episode of Frasier
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Nov 29, 2017 19:04
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Milotic posted:I guess public school is really bad in the US: It probably wasn't the sole cause but uprooting a teenagers entire life (School is a teenager's entire life) and with social stigma probably did contribute to her suicide. I'm siding with the friend, the poster gave the loan on her own free will within her financial means, apparently did not spell out repayment terms, the woman apparently did not ask for additional money and was apparently righting her financial ship considering she did pay back the money with "considerable" interest. The poster how used the money as leverage to tell her supposedly good friend how she could or could not live with what was her friend's money until the agreed repayment time, it was dickish controlling behavior.
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Nov 29, 2017 19:04
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Pro-tip: Dont do loans to people unless you get terms in writing or employee people with nicknames like “The Enforcer”
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Nov 29, 2017 19:07
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Three Olives posted:It probably wasn't the sole cause but uprooting a teenagers entire life (School is a teenager's entire life) and with social stigma probably did contribute to her suicide. Yeah, nah. If you lend someone a large chunck of change becasue they're crying poor you have every right to be pissed if they start living it up before they pay you back.
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Nov 29, 2017 19:10
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Y’all are missing the point that she DIDN’T CASH THE CHECK. So the formerly rich bad with money mom had zero reason to blame anything on her friend that loaned her money. And maybe if bad with money mom hadn’t continued to be bad with money even after having an “oh poo poo, being bad with money now means I might lose my 1%-er lifestyle” then the hosed up situation could have been avoided entirely. Bad with money mom sounds like she was grieving, in shock, and lashed out at her friend instead of realizing that it was her own lovely financial habits that put her daughter in a lovely situation in the first place.
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Nov 29, 2017 19:15
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30 Goddamned Dicks posted:Y’all are missing the point that she DIDN’T CASH THE CHECK. This makes it worse since it makes it clear she didn't even need or want the money back, but instead just mentioned it for. . . reasons? Like if you don't need the money you loaned out to your best fuckin' friend back, you mentally recategorize it as a gift and tell them that instead.
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Nov 29, 2017 19:20
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Bad With Money Mom got nagged into paying it back so much that she moved a bunch of poo poo around to pay it back with interest, only to have Good With Money Mom never even cash the thing, proving that she didn't even care about the money, she just wanted to gently caress with her. They're both bad. Good With Money Mom's kids are all alive, so I have more sympathy for Bad With Money Mom.
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Nov 29, 2017 19:21
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Outrail posted:Yeah, nah. If you lend someone a large chunck of change becasue they're crying poor you have every right to be pissed if they start living it up before they pay you back. She wasn't crying poor, she was crying temporarily insolvent because of a very real financial crisis that affected a lot of people with a plan and obviously a legitimate one to largely maintain her lifestyle and payback the money. We don't know the situation, maybe they lost a line of credit that if they still had it they could have stayed afloat but without it it would have started a domino effect of penalties and inability to meet financial obligations, maybe she had a balloon payment due on a note that she knew she would otherwise have income to cover if it was not a balloon, there are lots of situations where someone, especially high income, can run into a catastrophic liquidity crisis that has nothing to do with their long term abilities to meet their financial obligations. In the end she was largely able to maintain her lifestyle and repay the money with interest so apparently she had some sort of legitimate plan that was not borrowing money and wasting it.
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Nov 29, 2017 19:22
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Its come up before but people in these stories have a habit of not cashing repayment checks from people so i assume there is some sort of mental deficiency that sees not taking someones money as gettting back at them.
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Nov 29, 2017 19:24
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I think she is, do you?: I [24F] just broke up with my boyfriend (ex?) of 5 years. I am going blind (literally) and I'm now having second thoughts and don't know if I'm making a huge mistake. quote:u/SadDebate Ok so he’s fat, but I guess she can have fun watching every future partner nope the gently caress out when she tells them about being blind by 30.
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Nov 29, 2017 19:25
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Barudak posted:Its come up before but people in these stories have a habit of not cashing repayment checks from people so i assume there is some sort of mental deficiency that sees not taking someones money as gettting back at them. It's a combination of wanting to make a point that the loan that the person desperately needed wasn't such a significant amount of money for them that they couldn't have forgiven it for the sake of the friendship if only their friend had done what they had demanded and also wanting to keep it as a bludgeon to hold against them and use to be a controlling rear end in a top hat in the future if the opportunity presents itself.
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Nov 29, 2017 19:27
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Milotic posted:I think she is, do you?: quote:but his genes aren't great This can mean many things but for now: lol. You've made the right choice. The important thing to maintain in a relationship is a stance of utter intolerance to anything that seems like it may impair or frustrate you. and pretty soon you won't even have to think about looking back.
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Nov 29, 2017 19:28
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30 Goddamned Dicks posted:her daughter in a lovely situation in the first place. Going to a public school in a still pretty nice area. lol the horror!
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Nov 29, 2017 19:28
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Sounds like her genes are pretty bad too
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Nov 29, 2017 19:32
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Milotic posted:I think she is, do you?: Edit: Admiral Ray posted:and pretty soon you won't even have to think about looking back. 
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Nov 29, 2017 19:35
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Three Olives posted:It probably wasn't the sole cause but uprooting a teenagers entire life (School is a teenager's entire life) and with social stigma probably did contribute to her suicide. It wasn't about repayment. It was about begging for money to subsist on and then spending it frivolously.
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Yawgmoth posted:"I don't find him physically that attractive, this will matter to me when I'm blind in a few years because" *sound of tumbleweeds* Physical attraction is still a thing for blind people, my man.
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Tater Love 