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fruit on the bottom posted:Negotiate. Tell her that you’ll help her fix her hygiene problem and wingman for her so she lands a great guy that won’t ghost and in exchange she’ll abort. this is actually kind of a sweet thought. I'd watch this movie.
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therobit posted:Candida albicans is a normal part of the flora down there and our skin flora but if conditions are right it can lead to excessive growth and it can take over. This is also the cause of jock itch and athlete's foot. God drat Candidnadians.
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Yeast infections are itchy and incredibly painful and also smell like beer, how could she not know she had one? My money is on bacterial vaginosis
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girl pants posted:Yeast infections are itchy and incredibly painful and also smell like beer, how could she not know she had one? That is a term I do not want to google.
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girl pants posted:Yeast infections are itchy and incredibly painful and also smell like beer, how could she not know she had one? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbhtS-WhMcI Could be yeast or BV. BV tends to have more of an amine or fishy smell.
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girl pants posted:Yeast infections are itchy and incredibly painful and also smell like beer, how could she not know she had one? She may have dealt with it for so long that the smell is normal to her.
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girl pants posted:this is actually kind of a sweet thought. I'd watch this movie. You can turn just about anything into a romcom if you’re creative enough.
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La Brea Carpet posted:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbhtS-WhMcI I'm thinking she just assumed vaginas are supposed to smell like fish.
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girl pants posted:this is actually kind of a sweet thought. I'd watch this movie. The next Axe Ventura sequel I guess.
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She works at an aquarium and is used to the smell.
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Jeza posted:I think you can wait until things go wrong before slapping your SO with some kind of household work schedule before they move in. In my experience, those things falls apart anyway, and the people that push them are no better at doing chores than anybody else. Hell, often worse. I think the specific agreement that Person A will be X chores and Person B will do Y ones *before* anyone moves in together is a bit overkill, I agree. But, she's been down this road with people who didn't help clean and it's a dealbreaker for her, so kudos that she is actually trying to communicate her preferences before signing a lease. I think it's pretty telling that this guy won't agree to anything at all and is using emotional blackmail (BUT TWUE WUV WILL DO THE DISHES) as a way to get her to drop the subject and not expect anything from him.
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As someone who's had probably over 40 housemates over the last 15 years the only way anything stays clean is to let the cleanest person* in the house violently beat anyone of their choosing with an axe handle at any time of their choosing. The only other option is to live with other reasonable people who value having a reasonably clean house and who have a work ethic and sense of fair play. But good luck with that. *provided they're not a headcase OCD clean freak
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In the military I had a barracksmate who was so autistic about cleanliness that he would unscrew the lightbulbs so he could wash underneath them That is fine and cool, but you can gently caress right off if you expect me to be as clean as you in that situation, crazy person welp that's my story
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I used to live with a person who insisted, among other things, that I pull the door off the oven and scrape the grease off the window with a razor blade. Had I known they were like that I would not have moved in with them. It really impacted our friendship for a while. It's good to get that stuff out on the table and the boyfriend's response indicates that they're probably going to break up over dishes.
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You’ve just given me an idea: Go into business as a relationship psychic who can predict what issue will cause the end of the relationship.
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Oh no, Temperance in reverse! I sense a startling lack of commitment.
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I had to make a goddamn chore list for old housemates (one in his 30s the other in their 40s) about whose turn it was to take out the trash, sweep, and buy toilet paper. Then I left for two weeks and it all went to Hell.
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If the guy's house is clean already he probably just doesn't want to be bothered about some sort of cleaning contract carved in stone because he's a normal adult who keeps his house clean. If he was a slob, it would be different.
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fruit on the bottom posted:Luckiest man in the world fucks own NOT-dignity. At least in USA many companies won't allow contractors to go to company events due to if you treat the contractors like FTEs, they must then be FTEs to make it short. Microsoft hosed that up a while back, seen here: https://www.reuters.com/article/businesspropicks-us-findlaw-dont-treat-c/dont-treat-contractors-like-employees-idUSTRE53063S20090401
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Kuros posted:At least in USA many companies won't allow contractors to go to company events due to if you treat the contractors like FTEs, they must then be FTEs to make it short. Microsoft hosed that up a while back, seen here: https://www.reuters.com/article/businesspropicks-us-findlaw-dont-treat-c/dont-treat-contractors-like-employees-idUSTRE53063S20090401 As a contractor; gently caress companies that outsource their work to contractors. We should be casual employees at minimum, and the fact that we aren't just so they can save more money on benefits for their shareholders is bullshit. Bring back unions I say. If you've been contracting someone to do the same job for years on a regular, ongoing basis they're just employees you don't care about.
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girl pants posted:I used to live with a person who insisted, among other things, that I pull the door off the oven and scrape the grease off the window with a razor blade. Is it wrong that I kinda like this idea?
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Motronic posted:Is it wrong that I kinda like this idea? Where did I put my axe handle?
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girl pants posted:I used to live with a person who insisted, among other things, that I pull the door off the oven and scrape the grease off the window with a razor blade. Had I known they were like that I would not have moved in with them. It really impacted our friendship for a while. It's good to get that stuff out on the table and the boyfriend's response indicates that they're probably going to break up over dishes. How many times a year? Like if it's once a year that's not too, bad, but the way you are saying it makes me think it was more like every time you used the oven.
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If it was every time you cooked, a razor would be useless, you'd just give it a wipe.
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It was more the fact that they got mad at me for not knowing it had to be done. I'd never in my life heard of anybody doing that before. If they'd asked me, I would have done it. I just got a barrage of angry texts about it one day. This wasn't an isolated thing, they had many similar requests that I was apparently disgusting for not doing. Their parents came to visit once and left post it notes all over the house for me and our other roommates that said things like 'THIS HOUSE IS FILTHY' 'TAKE YOUR TURN TO CLEAN THIS HOUSE'
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My (21F) boyfriend's brother (19M) throws temper tantrums, ignores us and just acts like a child overall. I want to confront him about his behavior, but I am not sure its worth it. Is there a way to get it through to him that his behavior is not ok?Non-Romantic submitted 8 hours ago by CuddlyHoneybee I have known his brother since he moved in this April, and yes I live with my boyfriend (24M) as well. My boyfriend feels the same as I do, but has spoken to his brother before and nothing changed so he isn't going to try again. So lets call my boyfriend 'J' and his brother 'G'. Basically G acts 13 still. He refuses to get a job, or clean up after himself. His idea of cleaning up after himself is putting everything in the sink, not to mention any time I need dishes you can bet they will be on his bedroom floor. He also never showers, brushes his teeth or washes his clothes. He absolutely reeks....but thats another story. He throws temper tantrums. He once broke a mug of mine because I told him I wasn't going to buy him soda. The latest though is J and I were telling G that you cant just pour new litter on top of the old litter, and that you have to totally clean the box out. He got upset, grabbed his bag, stormed to his room and we could hear him throwing things around. He hasn't spoken to us in 2 days. Anytime he gets upset he throws a fit like that and them doesnt talk to us for days, and wont enter any room we are in. We have stopped paying for his stuff (not even food anymore), refuse to give him rides places (he also refuses to get his licence), and refuse to clean up after him. He doesn't care because his dad keeps dropping money into his account, he takes the bus or calls friends for rides, and apparently likes the filth. We were hoping that this would give him some motivation to grow up some....but nope! My boyfriend has had a conversation with him and basically told him that if he doesn't straighten up, that he will be totally done with him. Didnt change. I really want to tell him that he needs to grow up, be responsible, take care of himself, ect. or he will be alone, and no one will want to be his roommate. He has already been kicked out of 3 different family members houses because of his behavior. We are at a loss here. Tl;DR: Boyfriends brother throws fits, doesn't talk to us, acts like a child. Needs to grow up and have a reality check. We have done all we can think of. I want to have one final conversation with him, before he gets kicked out....like give him one last shot. How would you handle this?
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Pick posted:My (21F) boyfriend's brother (19M) throws temper tantrums, ignores us and just acts like a child overall. I want to confront him about his behavior, but I am not sure its worth it. Is there a way to get it through to him that his behavior is not ok?Non-Romantic Th...throw him the gently caress out?! Like what the gently caress lady.
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Pick posted:My (21F) boyfriend's brother (19M) throws temper tantrums, ignores us and just acts like a child overall. I want to confront him about his behavior, but I am not sure its worth it. Is there a way to get it through to him that his behavior is not ok?Non-Romantic Kick him the gently caress out.
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Admiral Ray posted:Kick him the gently caress out. Yeah, I mean after being kicked out of three other houses he's a lost cause. I'd pay a few bucks to watch the eviction though.
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Though the path of the dogpuncher may be a lonely one, one must heed its callquote:
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How buttfucking stupid do you have to be to be unable to tell a charging dog versus a playful one? The subtleties are not that subtle.
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If you were "just" protecting your family, you would put your body between them and the dog and take the risk it might hurt you. Trying to punt Fido downfield would clearly be an attempt to protect yourself, you enormous idiot coward. Otoh, punch dogs every day etc.
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Why would someone who doesn't like dogs go to a dog bar?
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mind the walrus posted:How buttfucking stupid do you have to be to be unable to tell a charging dog versus a playful one? The subtleties are not that subtle. It's blindingly obvious be was just looking for an excuse.
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mind the walrus posted:How buttfucking stupid do you have to be to be unable to tell a charging dog versus a playful one? The subtleties are not that subtle. quote:
It matters not whether the dog is playful or wrathful, only that it is neutralized
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Maybe he has a serious phobia of dogs and is too fragile to admit it?
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therobit posted:Maybe he has a serious phobia of dogs and is too fragile to admit it? Absurd Alhazred posted:Why would someone who doesn't like dogs go to a dog bar?
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