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PhilippAchtel posted:Here you go, dumbshits. Read this article until you really grok the kinds of poo poo that women have to think about all the time as a matter of personal safety in our society in the tyool 2017. Tabatha Southey, famously oppressed woman because dave foley can't afford to pay her the 17k a month child support he owes her. When will the patriarchy end
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Dec 18, 2017 03:23
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Postess with the Mostest posted:Tabatha Southey, famously oppressed woman because dave foley can't afford to pay her the 17k a month child support he owes her. When will the patriarchy end Read the article.
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Dec 18, 2017 03:25
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what's young feminist journalist leah mclaren think 
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Dec 18, 2017 03:30
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namaste faggots posted:what's young feminist journalist leah mclaren think Breaking gender stereotypes one stranger's baby at a time.
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Dec 18, 2017 03:41
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namaste faggots posted:maybe we can fund it out of some aboriginal reserve suicide relief fund since the money's not being used anyway holy poo poo amazing
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Dec 18, 2017 03:45
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Postess with the Mostest posted:Well I asked and she was pissed off she didn't get the handshake. She wanted him to see her first as a professional competent employee and not as a woman. I agree the touching was inappropriate but that wasn't what really hurt, it was her perceived, probably accurate, reasoning behind it and that her boyfriend got what she wanted just by default. The CEO is either misses glaringly obvious things or recognizes what motivates her and withholds it like a perfect slot machine. Yeah, as a woman, as soon as I started reading the replies I was like "SHE WAS UPSET THAT HE GAVE HER BOYFRIEND A HANDSHAKE LIKE HE IS A STRONG BUSINESSMAN AND JUST TOUCHED HER ON THE SHOULDER LIKE A FRAGILE WOMAN JESUS" I know none of you guys actually have any way of knowing the issue because you don't live it every day, and I like that most of you do make an effort to see why we consider those sorts of things problematic, but it's amazing that it's just so pervasive that I instantly knew her problem where none of you got that it was the boyfriend getting the handshake.
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Dec 18, 2017 04:17
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You wouldn't think that would need to be explained...
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Dec 18, 2017 04:23
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man i'd love to see the looks on your faces when you go visit pakistan or egypt and try to shake hands with women
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Dec 18, 2017 04:46
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On the other hand, odds are Ikantski's story happened in Canada.
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Dec 18, 2017 04:47
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Postess with the Mostest posted:I got to see one of these at a christmas party. CEO comes over and gives the female employee a pat on shoulder and says "Smile!" and her boyfriend, who doesn't work there, a big handshake. I don't think it was a microaggression because there was no intent there but, having been oversensitized to the gendered lens from this thread, I checked in and she was seething. I've dealt a lot with female muslims in the workplace. Hand comes out when meeting? Go ahead and shake. No hand comes out? Stay the gently caress away. She should stick her hand out for a shake when that's how she wants to be greeted. Don't leave it to the CEO to dictate the interaction.
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Dec 18, 2017 04:51
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*pats laotian toddler on the head* *is a canpol goon* namaste
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Dec 18, 2017 04:57
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namaste friends posted:*pats laotian toddler on the head* it puts the loatian on the head or else it gets the hose.
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Dec 18, 2017 04:58
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cougar cub posted:I've dealt a lot with female muslims in the workplace. Hand comes out when meeting? Go ahead and shake. No hand comes out? Stay the gently caress away. Is there any negative male-female interaction that isn't somehow the fault of the female? We just don't know. 
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Dec 18, 2017 04:59
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cougar cub posted:I've dealt a lot with female muslims in the workplace. Hand comes out when meeting? Go ahead and shake. No hand comes out? Stay the gently caress away. Also, nobody's ever filed a HR complaint for tipping the invisible fedora.
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Dec 18, 2017 05:08
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Maybe just bow to everyone you meet, don't touch, and outside of photography, refrain from telling people to "smile"? That should have you sorted.
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Dec 18, 2017 05:54
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PhilippAchtel posted:Is there any negative male-female interaction that isn't somehow the fault of the female? We just don't know. You misinterpreted. I provided an example where a handshake was both the wrong and correct interaction with a woman. The only way I (male) know which is correct is by following the female's lead, otherwise I default to my own gender norms of a handshake. Basically, the woman in the story has the ability to influence the interaction and I've seen others in similar situations communicate their expectations by simply sticking their hand out. If you disagree with that approach, feel free to provide a better way for her to communicate her expected gender norms.
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Dec 18, 2017 05:56
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Postess with the Mostest posted:Also, nobody's ever filed a HR complaint for tipping the invisible fedora. Just salute to everyone, what are they going to do? Complain?
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Dec 18, 2017 05:58
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how the gently caress do you idiots even leave the house without starting a racial holy war lmao
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Dec 18, 2017 05:59
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B33rChiller posted:Maybe just bow to everyone you meet, don't touch, and outside of photography, refrain from telling people to "smile"? That should have you sorted. There's a lot to be said for the kowtow cougar cub posted:You misinterpreted. I provided an example where a handshake was both the wrong and correct interaction with a woman. The only way I (male) know which is correct is by following the female's lead, otherwise I default to my own gender norms of a handshake. Basically, the woman in the story has the ability to influence the interaction and I've seen others in similar situations communicate their expectations by simply sticking their hand out. If you disagree with that approach, feel free to provide a better way for her to communicate her expected gender norms. I get the distinct impression a lot of CanPol does not understand how a handshake works. Generally speaking, it doesn't involve forcefully grabbing the other party's hand. apatheticman posted:Just salute to everyone, what are they going to do? Complain? Depends on the salute really, for example, I'd avoid the Roman one. namaste friends posted:how the gently caress do you idiots even leave the house without starting a racial holy war lmao You know that thing about white people over complicating everything? It's that.
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Dec 18, 2017 06:01
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namaste friends posted:I'm totally positive this oval office isn't pulling this stunt or of some cynical and devious plot to curry some kind of favour go gently caress yourself
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Dec 18, 2017 07:42
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Just loving shake hands with everyone or take the hint and don’t you socially malfunctioning incels.
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Dec 18, 2017 08:04
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CI going for the elusive back to back 30-day probation/ban
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James Baud fucked around with this message at 12:09 on Aug 26, 2018 |
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Dec 18, 2017 09:13
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Baronjutter posted:it puts the loatian on the head or else it gets the hose. The only good post for the last two hundred pages.
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Dec 18, 2017 11:01
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Postess with the Mostest posted:Tabatha Southey, famously oppressed woman because dave foley can't afford to pay her the 17k a month child support he owes her. When will the patriarchy end Wait, THAT Dave Foley? How does he even have $17K a month? quote:https://www.thestar.com/entertainment/television/2011/03/11/comedian_dave_foley_fears_arrest_owes_500000_in_childsupport.html Oh I see, he doesn't.
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Dec 18, 2017 15:09
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Man, think how many shirts I could buy from Lowtax if I was making $17k month... Any who https://twitter.com/OkigboHTX/status/942107102817943553
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Dec 18, 2017 15:13
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Postess with the Mostest posted:Tabatha Southey, famously oppressed woman because dave foley can't afford to pay her the 17k a month child support he owes her. When will the patriarchy end The fact that men are usually on the hook for child support because women are encouraged to neglect their careers in order to be caregivers is actually one of the ways patriarchy expresses itself. (Dave Foley's specific situation is also an example of the way laws can express themselves in unreasonably inflexible ways. But it's also the patriarchy thing. A specific event can be the result of more than one thing.)
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Dec 18, 2017 16:16
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Falstaff posted:The fact that men are usually on the hook for child support because women are encouraged to neglect their careers in order to be caregivers is actually one of the ways patriarchy expresses itself. (Dave Foley's specific situation is also an example of the way laws can express themselves in unreasonably inflexible ways. But it's also the patriarchy thing. A specific event can be the result of more than one thing.) The point was that southey isn't the one who should be writing about the patriarchy. Or anything, she's terrible.
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Dec 18, 2017 16:31
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Postess with the Mostest posted:The point was that southey isn't the one who should be writing about the patriarchy. Or anything, she's terrible. Bah. I'm dumb and missed that context. Sorry.
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Dec 18, 2017 16:32
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I see "pay $12000 you don't have every month because my kids are used to having a rich dad" as being different from "I raised our children instead of having a career and now I can't support them without some sub-100% amount of your actual, existing paycheque".
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Dec 18, 2017 16:34
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Well I guess that explains why he did Postal.
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Dec 18, 2017 16:39
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Wistful of Dollars posted:Man, think how many shirts I could buy from Lowtax if I was making $17k month... Wow. If I got an email like this from a prof I would promptly be headed out the door to punch them in the face.
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Dec 18, 2017 16:42
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For real, if everyone fucks up an exam that's on the professor not the students.
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Dec 18, 2017 16:42
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That sounds more to me like someone guessed the prof's password and used it to do something they thought was clever.
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Dec 18, 2017 16:44
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Yeah I doubt a professor actually sent that, although it's definitely the type of email every professor or TA wants to send after marking an exam or major assignment. A couple years of TAing in grad school gave my a hell of a lot of sympathy for my professors from undergrad for the crap they must have had to put up with. Oh gee, you hosed up an assignment because you skipped the tutorials where I outlined exactly what you needed to do to get an A, ignored all the emails to the class where the same was repeated, and handed me something written at a sixth grade level full of illegible figures where what I could understand was a direct contradiction to what the assignment asked? Yeah, I'm sure the best response is to somehow track down my personal email and message me saying how because of your mark on this 10% assignment it's my fault you might fail the term. And yeah a bad exam mark isn't always the professor's fault. I once saw a pile of students gently caress up a final where like half of the questions were copied directly from the midterm and the rest were basically handed to them from the study guide. Mr Luxury Yacht fucked around with this message at 17:05 on Dec 18, 2017 |
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Dec 18, 2017 17:01
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lmao i'd love to see all your tears if you fuckin idiots did an undergrad in a STEM. It was a regular occurance for everyone to fail the midterm and get assigned assignments that nobody had any idea how to do except the one or two genius motherfuckers in my class who are now full tenured profs at real universities.
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Dec 18, 2017 17:05
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namaste friends posted:lmao i'd love to see all your tears if you fuckin idiots did an undergrad in a STEM. It was a regular occurance for everyone to fail the midterm and get assigned assignments that nobody had any idea how to do except the one or two genius motherfuckers in my class who are now full tenured profs at real universities. Holy moly they get to be professors????
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Dec 18, 2017 17:08
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If they're so smart why are they academics?
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Dec 18, 2017 17:08
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namaste friends posted:lmao i'd love to see all your tears if you fuckin idiots did an undergrad in a STEM. It was a regular occurance for everyone to fail the midterm and get assigned assignments that nobody had any idea how to do except the one or two genius motherfuckers in my class who are now full tenured profs at real universities. We all agreed classes with first year overachieving STEM students were the worst to TA because they all think their 98 percents they got in high school were deserved and not hilarious grade inflation.
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