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Is this illegal?quote:If I were to ask a stripper on snapchat to give me a BJ for money and if she were to screenshot the message and deny me. Would that be illegal? In the sate of Nebraska. -Thanks(asking for a friend) "asking for a friend"
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Nissin Cup Nudist posted:If I tip a guy a 5, but only because my next smallest bill is a 20, what does that make me? None of those bills are tip worthy.
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Chomp8645 posted:If you presented this in the form of a reddit post with a few extra paragraphs people itt would be calling it fake and obvious red pill propaganda. the difference being i'm just sharing a funny story and i actually am capable of meeting women, so when one rejects me it's not the end of the world and cause to write long paragraphs on the internet
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when am I going to get tips for my posts?! gotta add that functionality so people can throw me $10-15 any time they want to make amends for being mean to me ~
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Dec 29, 2017 02:31
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Pick posted:when am I going to get tips for my posts?! gotta add that functionality so people can throw me $10-15 any time they want to make amends for being mean to me ~ Gotta start a twitch stream.
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fruit on the bottom posted:Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to go through life without empathy. Do sociopaths still end up with ethical systems? Is it just based on what they can get away with or do some of them end up something coldly rational and utilitarian? It's not like you need to be a sociopath to dehumanize people and disconnect your empathy responses from them, so I kinda wonder if the impulse control thing is what causes the problems most times?
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If "never see this person's threads again" was a $5 upgrade I would have bought it so I don't have to see any more dumb Pick Asks GBS threads what I'm saying is, please implement the tip system, but make it so that I can tip lowtax to not see threads from certain posters
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I’ll tell you the same thing I told Bill and Melinda, “Sorry I only donate to patreons”
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Ham Sandwiches posted:If "never see this person's threads again" was a $5 upgrade I would have bought it so I don't have to see any more dumb Pick Asks GBS threads That will be $10, ham 
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maskenfreiheit posted:Guy who I'm currently dating is now asking me out on a second date at his house?Advice (self.dating) OK, Reddit poster who will never see and for whom English is a second or third language, this response is going to be a long one: No. he wants to see my hairy vaginal
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My wife [28F] and I [30M] are rowing about my Brother-In- Law's gift: A painting of us in medieval costumequote:So my brother-in-law is a decent amateur artist, but nothing great. This Christmas, short of money (I imagine. He is a PhD student) he decided to paint us as a surprise gift.
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fruit on the bottom posted:My wife [28F] and I [30M] are rowing about my Brother-In- Law's gift: A painting of us in medieval costume That owns bones, I'd love for someone to gift a terrible painting of my and my hypothetical wife. Put it up in the guest bedroom, facing the bed.
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fruit on the bottom posted:My wife [28F] and I [30M] are rowing about my Brother-In- Law's gift: A painting of us in medieval costume Hang it above the shitter. My [26F] boyfriend [30M] of two years has admitted he is not attracted to women over 30. I'm worried about our future together quote:We have talked about marriage but this whole thing is making me very hesitant. I have long known that he isn't attracted to "older women" but I didn't realize he has such a strict limit. He actually explicitly told me "as soon as a woman turns 30 she starts going downhill". To me, 30 isn't even old at all, but to him I only have 4 years until I turn disgusting I guess. He has assured me that he will always love me despite his loss of attraction but I don't know if I can spend my life with someone who will find me ugly for the majority of our lives. What should I do? I love him and had planned out our lives together. Someone tell this dude that best by dates are not scientific.
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fruit on the bottom posted:My wife [28F] and I [30M] are rowing about my Brother-In- Law's gift: A painting of us in medieval costume What an rear end. Strike 1: used whilst. Strike 2: ‘it is hateful to me’ is nonsensical unless the painting hates him. Strike 3: wants to throw it out but admits that’s not going to be allowed.
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La Brea Carpet posted:Hang it above the shitter.
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PetraCore posted:Some sociopaths end up with ethical systems from what I know. They don't get the warm and fuzzy feedback from helping people so the temptation to gently caress other people over is higher, but as long as they've got a good grip on their negative emotions and try not to make decisions based purely on those I suppose you'd also be less likely to end up with crimes of passion or the like. The problem is if someone is unable to feel genuine innate empathy for other people at all there's a high comorbidity that they'll have impulse control problems. There might even be jobs where lacking the human empathy response could help. Like a triage nurse maybe? If one disaster victim in an area is sure to die but is a mother with several children watching, a more empathetic person might try to help them fruitlessly rather than helping the three prisoners who are critically injured but savable with quick action.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:There might even be jobs where lacking the human empathy response could help. Like a triage nurse maybe? If one disaster victim in an area is sure to die but is a mother with several children watching, a more empathetic person might try to help them fruitlessly rather than helping the three prisoners who are critically injured but savable with quick action. IIRC a lot of surgeons are real weirds. super weirds.
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Pick posted:IIRC a lot of surgeons are real weirds. super weirds. yes but there's also a difference between "this person is anesthetized and this will help them" and "Oh boy look at all that blood. CUT CUT CUT"
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:There might even be jobs where lacking the human empathy response could help. Like a triage nurse maybe? If one disaster victim in an area is sure to die but is a mother with several children watching, a more empathetic person might try to help them fruitlessly rather than helping the three prisoners who are critically injured but savable with quick action. Pick posted:IIRC a lot of surgeons are real weirds. super weirds.
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Yo for real though if someone gave me a painting of me in like a suit of armor I would build a loving fireplace just so I could hang it on my mantle
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People with specific brain damage are better at cost analysis benefit and would do things that would make them monsters in our eyes but would be the objectively humane choice. Our hosed up stupid brains weren't made to function in society that's for sure. Honestly, being a doctor seems to require such an insane drive and single-minded effort that I don't know how a strictly normal person could ever succeed at just becoming a licensed doctor. Same thing for famous people. Anyone that driven to fame has a huge chance of being brain hosed.
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maskenfreiheit posted:yes but there's also a difference between "this person is anesthetized and this will help them" and "Oh boy look at all that blood. CUT CUT CUT" I don't know which one you think surgeons are. I don't know which one I think surgeons are.
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Emotions don't make you worse at decision-making. They're literally decision-making guides that exist in the brain. People who have lost their emotions tend to have extreme problems in making decisions. Established phenomenon.
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Pick posted:Emotions don't make you worse at decision-making. They're literally decision-making guides that exist in the brain. People who have lost their emotions tend to have extreme problems in making decisions. Established phenomenon. That's why I said specific ways dumbkoff
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Pick posted:Emotions don't make you worse at decision-making. They're literally decision-making tools that exist in the brain. People who have lost their emotions tend to have extreme problems in making decisions. Established phenomenon.
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I [27M] hit my [26M] boyfriend of 3 years. I don't know what to do to start picking up the pieces.Relationships (self.relationships)quote:This is hard to explain. I guess it all began on Christmas eve. My boyfriend and I are together for 3 years and all this time I've never met his family. We have been talking about marrying in the next two years, so, it was inevitable I met his family at some point. He told them he was gay a few months ago, told them about me, asked if he could invite me to Christmas dinner (they do a whole thing with some family friends), then invited me. I was nervous and kinda expecting a warm welcome but all night I was introduced as his "friend" by his family, cold stares and pretty much ignored. At midnight, my boyfriend, his godmother, her husband and a child I don't exactly know were the only ones to wish me merry Christmas (out of... 10-12 people) During secret santa (which I was obviously not a part and I never expected to be, I was meeting most of people there that day and a lot of them didn't know I existed) I was just shoved into a corner and no one tried to make me feel included. I never expect to have a parade thrown in honor of me but I'm kinda marrying his only son, so I expecte they would try to include me a little bit. So yeah, I was a bit bummed at the end of the night. The night ended, we went to my home and I fully understand I did lash out on my driving that night. I was a bit angry, the streets were clean and for someone who doesn't drive it might have looked like I was just angry and being reckless but I know what I was doing. I just wanted to get home fast and forget I ever left. H was asking me to speed down and poo poo, but whatever. I didn't punch my boyfriend - my fingers formed a fist! I'm like the guy from idle hands! Help me reddit!
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Faffel posted:That's why I said specific ways dumbkoff You went back and added content and context to your post after I responded to it!!
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Pick posted:I don't know which one you think surgeons are. I don't know which one I think surgeons are. 
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maskenfreiheit posted:I [27M] hit my [26M] boyfriend of 3 years. I don't know what to do to start picking up the pieces.Relationships (self.relationships)
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PetraCore posted:Also sounds like the boyfriend is really twitchy about being hit in the first place. Not like OP deserves a second chance but lol at thinking it's possible to recover the relationship if his boyfriend already flinched every time they touched and it took months for him to be able to casually touch his boyfriend in the first place. Some people are really touch averse and it drives me nuts.
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Pick posted:Some people are really touch averse and it drives me nuts. Yeah, it's terribly frustrating when people think THEIR opinions on if you can touch them outweigh yours. It takes two to consent, amirite?  I [19/M] want to start making out with my girlfriend [18/F], We're both very shy and I'm not sure how to go about this (self.relationship_advice) quote:So I've been dating my girlfriend for just about 5 months now. We're both on the shyer side, and were both each others first boyfriend/girlfriend, so its been a somewhat slow moving relationship. Anyways, I'm very happy with our relationship at the moment, however I do want to get more physical with her and I think she feels the same. We have kissed before (closed mouth) and we do lots of cuddling, but I really want to make out with her. Like I said before, I feel like she wants to also, I just don't know how to initiate this. Should I ask her if she wants to? just randomly go for it? Also i've never made out with anyone before so I'm also anxious that I'd be pretty bad at it
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Pick posted:Some people are really touch averse and it drives me nuts.
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maskenfreiheit posted:Yeah, it's terribly frustrating when people think THEIR opinions on if you can touch them outweigh yours. It takes two to consent, amirite? Human touch is necessary for human health. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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PetraCore posted:I'm saying it sounds like the boyfriend's been hit before in specific. It also sounds like OP drove dangerously and handwaved it as "I knew what I was doing" then argued til late then woke up and punched their BF
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Pick posted:Human touch is necessary for human health. I'm saying this as an autistic person whose dad used to go out of his way to pat me on the leg when he walked by me so I'd learn to deal with surprise input, though.
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Death by a thousand no hugs. Also, what is this supposed to mean "He's like a pound of sugar on a can on pepper" i can parse up to pound of sugar but then it falls apart.
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dudeness posted:Death by a thousand no hugs. the dennis system story
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Pick posted:You went back and added content and context to your post after I responded to it!! Not that content though.
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