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Shiki Dan
Oct 27, 2010

If ya can move ya toes ya back's fine

fruit on the bottom posted:

I (20f) slept with a married man (32m) and I feel extremely guilty about it.

I recently started babysitting this 8 year old girl every Wednesday. The family is super rich, they live in a huge house and her parents are professionals (both lawyers). I don't really like the woman, she's very bitter and grumpy all the time. She doesn't like me at all. However her husband is always super nice to me and there was always this sexual tension between us. He buys me gifts (his wife doesn't give a poo poo), offers me rides home and always compliments me. I was attracted to him simply because he was good looking and maybe a little arrogant.


Would pay good money for tickets to their divorce proceedings.

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Ride The Gravitron
May 2, 2008

by FactsAreUseless
She could at least join a cool religion. Like Sikh or the satanic temple or Buddhism

Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Dec 22, 2005

GET LOSE, YOU CAN'T COMPARE WITH MY POWERS

Barudak posted:

Sounds like she's desperately searching for a community to belong to and there are massively worse ones to be in than the Catholic Church. All the adult Catholic converts I've ever met are like that, and conflate non-religion with a hatred or disavowal of community.

The death of bowling leagues in america doomed this woman to wasting her sundays.

Yeah some effort to replace this stuff with secular equivalents would be nice. You could explicitly give it the goal of reinforcing values because you believe they will help people genuinely rather than, best case, how close you can approximate that by twisting words from 5000 years ago.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
That’s a bug part of being Catholic is the community it’s pretty cool imho

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Oct 15, 2012

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Biscuit Hider
You atheists just can’t compete. We have forgiveness, redemption, eternal life, etc.

You guys have robots and casual sodomy.

I’m not saying I don’t enjoy the occasional roll in the hay with a homosexual terminator, but at the end of the day I need something deeper in my life.

flick my Mr. Bean
Nov 18, 2014

Community oriented southern church + getting any illness worse than the flu = like five hundred gift cards to cracker barrel in your mailbox

La Brea Carpet
Nov 22, 2007

I have no mouth and I must post

fruit on the bottom posted:

You atheists just can’t compete. We have forgiveness, redemption, eternal life, etc.

You guys have robots and casual sodomy.

I’m not saying I don’t enjoy the occasional roll in the hay with a homosexual terminator, but at the end of the day I need something deeper in my life.

Upgrade to the Sodomighty2000. It can get deeper into any life.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
You can be catholic and still “third way” a terminator, just go to confession after

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Oct 15, 2012

To these sing-alongs 🎤of siren 🧜🏻‍♀️songs
To oohs😮 to ahhs😱 to 👏big👏applause👏
With all of my 😡anger I scream🤬 and shout📢
🇺🇸America🦅, I love you 🥰but you're freaking 💦me 😳out
Biscuit Hider
I’m actually a Protestant so I don’t even have to do that

Cough Drop The Beat
Jan 22, 2012

by Lowtax

fruit on the bottom posted:

I (20f) slept with a married man (32m) and I feel extremely guilty about it.


(UPDATE) I (20f) slept with a married man (32m) and I feel extremely guilty about it.

I cannot stop laughing at how she describes the affair as if she had no agency in the matter. "Yeah, I guess the kid's dad showed up and we had to make out a bunch. Then we ended up on his bed and we had sex. It just had to happen. Whoops!" She uses the same excuses with her boyfriend too. It's amazing. :allears:

I feel really bad for the kid with parents and negligent babysitters like that too. Jeez.

Cough Drop The Beat fucked around with this message at 22:03 on Jan 2, 2018

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Oct 15, 2012

To these sing-alongs 🎤of siren 🧜🏻‍♀️songs
To oohs😮 to ahhs😱 to 👏big👏applause👏
With all of my 😡anger I scream🤬 and shout📢
🇺🇸America🦅, I love you 🥰but you're freaking 💦me 😳out
Biscuit Hider
Daughters getting paid to snitch imo

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Oct 15, 2012

To these sing-alongs 🎤of siren 🧜🏻‍♀️songs
To oohs😮 to ahhs😱 to 👏big👏applause👏
With all of my 😡anger I scream🤬 and shout📢
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Biscuit Hider
I [23M] have been cheated on in every serious relationship I had so far. And my current gf [18F] is very probably cheating on me right now aswell.

quote:

I had 4 serious relationships so far including the current one. They always ended with me finding out I was being cheated on. I don't know what to do anymore to gain trust.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 3 months now. But she refuses to break contact with a few of her ex boyfriends. And one of them I know for sure she's lying about, telling me it's his cousin which is not true, they were together. I really want to trust her, but everyday I can feel the anxiety creeping up, I can't be happy anymore, not even when I'm with her because I keep thinking everything's fake on her side.

I'm very close to find out more about what she's doing and I fear the worst. If what I fear it's true, I will be left alone while she'll easily leave for the other guy when it's all over.

I really don't know what to do anymore, I lost almost all hope. I'm not an independent person, and I care too much. Worst of all, I fear every girl in future will do the same. I never cheated on anyone..

TLDR: I always got cheated on, probably it's happening again, right now and I really don't know how to react or what to do.

Vargatron
Apr 19, 2008

MRAZZLE DAZZLE


fruit on the bottom posted:

I (20f) slept with a married man (32m) and I feel extremely guilty about it.


(UPDATE) I (20f) slept with a married man (32m) and I feel extremely guilty about it.

The first half is a porn plot and the second half is a Lifetime movie.

Barudak
May 7, 2007

fruit on the bottom posted:

I [23M] have been cheated on in every serious relationship I had so far. And my current gf [18F] is very probably cheating on me right now aswell.

New Year, New You baby!

Danaru
Jun 5, 2012

何 ??
Me [17M] lied to my Girlfriend [17F] of over a 1,5 years, I can't stand it and hate myself for it.

quote:

Last year I changed schools, (before we went to the same) and She was really against it but I didn't really have any choice. I love Her more than anything but She hates the fact that I go there.

She was really afraid of me meeting someone else and forgeting about Her. I assured her it won't happend and I promised Her that I won't be talking with any other girls.

I told her I hate it just as much as Her and I was and still am even considering droping. I haven't really been talknig with anyone in there untill last week before christmas break, 2 lessons ~1,5h fell out, I and few other people stayed in the classroom. I talk to some 2 other girls but nothing more than people who know each other from going to the same class. So we chatted a bit but they took some snapchats with my phone as I left it unlocked on a table, I didn't really care since I was going to delete them but it somehow got saved in cloud so even if I removed it from my phone it still got saved. I havent spoken with them since and I'm also not going to.

Today my Girlfriend was at my house and I was giving her pics of us on her pendrive. I'm afraid that I could also give her those snapchats. Usually I wouldn't care but first of all I know how much it would hurt her if She had seen it. I hate myself for lying but I just know how much it would hurt both me and Her, I also love Her more than anything or anyone else. I told her I won't be talknig with anyone and that I don't like anyone in that class (which I did).

I have no idea what I should do, if I tell her that She's goin to breakdown and quite possibly break up, if I don't do anything it's gonn get even worse but I also can't tell that to her, I just can't hurt Her or see her get hurt and I just can't even imagine loseing her, especially because something that I know well I fu*ked up and could and should have been avoided but it happend althozght it shouldn't and I can't stand it. What should I do ?

TL;DR Lied to my Girlfriend about not talking to any other girls. It was nothing romantic or anything like that, I got no feeling for anyone else I wouldn't call it cheating but I promised her not to talk with anyone and I did. Can't stand it. Need advice.

CheesyDog
Jul 4, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
Thread seems a little harsh on the 20-year-old and a little easy on the 32-year-old rich lawyer who employed her

Meme Emulator
Oct 4, 2000

CheesyDog posted:

Thread seems a little harsh on the 20-year-old and a little easy on the 32-year-old rich lawyer who employed her

Mostly because the 20 year old was the one that wrote the post.

Trauma Dog 3000
Aug 30, 2017

by SA Support Robot
I wonder why the wife is bitter???

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Oct 15, 2012

To these sing-alongs 🎤of siren 🧜🏻‍♀️songs
To oohs😮 to ahhs😱 to 👏big👏applause👏
With all of my 😡anger I scream🤬 and shout📢
🇺🇸America🦅, I love you 🥰but you're freaking 💦me 😳out
Biscuit Hider

CheesyDog posted:

Thread seems a little harsh on the 20-year-old and a little easy on the 32-year-old rich lawyer who employed her

We have no idea if he’s even still alive.

Barudak
May 7, 2007

Danaru posted:

Me [17M] lied to my Girlfriend [17F] of over a 1,5 years, I can't stand it and hate myself for it.

She should dump you if you refuse to learn how to wright a readable story.

Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Dec 22, 2005

GET LOSE, YOU CAN'T COMPARE WITH MY POWERS

Meme Emulator posted:

Mostly because the 20 year old was the one that wrote the post.
It's hilarious to try to use the "it takes two to cheat" defense on your partner when you yourself are the one who willfully cheated on said partner. Also acting like the wife is doing this because she just doesn't like her and loving her husband was just the excuse she needed to go nuclear instead of the reason in and of itself.

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Oct 15, 2012

To these sing-alongs 🎤of siren 🧜🏻‍♀️songs
To oohs😮 to ahhs😱 to 👏big👏applause👏
With all of my 😡anger I scream🤬 and shout📢
🇺🇸America🦅, I love you 🥰but you're freaking 💦me 😳out
Biscuit Hider
There’s two options. Either the wife can’t or won’t take it out on her husband so babysitter gets all the wrath or what we saw was her wrath at the lesser party in which case that man is dead.

Now I know which one is more likely, but that’s not the one that’s more fun to believe.

ArbitraryC
Jan 28, 2009
Pick a number, any number
Pillbug

Cough Drop The Beat posted:

Haha, nope. Stuff like thinspo is pro-ana and other eating disorder cult garbage to keep young women "inspired" to stick with their scary weight issues. It's legit horrifying. Nice try though!

Maybe I'm mixing it with fitspo or some other similar tag, I swear I've seen pretty mundane and very health transformations get lambasted as being pro-ana because someone used a hashtag that suggested being fit and thin was a good thing.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
Geez get a female babysitter and she fucks your husbo, get a male babysitter and you get Aatrek

Squashing Machine
Jul 5, 2005

I mean boning, the wild mambo, the hunka chunka

CheesyDog posted:

Thread seems a little harsh on the 20-year-old and a little easy on the 32-year-old rich lawyer who employed her

She's not going to gently caress you man

Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Dec 22, 2005

GET LOSE, YOU CAN'T COMPARE WITH MY POWERS
Yeah the wife is the actual hero in the story despite not appearing until act 3.

Submarine Sandpaper
May 27, 2007


fruit on the bottom posted:

There’s two options. Either the wife can’t or won’t take it out on her husband so babysitter gets all the wrath or what we saw was her wrath at the lesser party in which case that man is dead.

Now I know which one is more likely, but that’s not the one that’s more fun to believe.

it's both. the career will be most important for both and they're in the same social/professional circles. This isn't the first babysitter well dug nor the last.

Pick posted:

Geez get a female babysitter and she fucks your husbo, get a male babysitter and you get Aatrek

he could be bi

Barudak
May 7, 2007

Pick posted:

Geez get a female babysitter and she fucks your husbo, get a male babysitter and you get Aatrek

Actually good babysitters tend to be old enough that a well off 32 year old wouldn't consider loving them so really ever hiring her idiotic 20 year old self was their first mistake

ArbitraryC
Jan 28, 2009
Pick a number, any number
Pillbug

Pick posted:

Geez get a female babysitter and she fucks your husbo, get a male babysitter and you get Aatrek

It's weird how trusting parents are with strangers. I've done a lot of tutoring as a sidejob/volunteering cause I like working 1 on 1 and feel our public education is p lacking and like I dunno if I have a friendly face or what but as a big dude (6'4, over 200) most parents will bother to talk with me for all of 5 minutes before leaving me alone with their 10 year old.

P-Mack
Nov 10, 2007

I like to hope that next week we'll get the exact same post from this couple's pool boy.

spite house
Apr 28, 2009

LadyPictureShow posted:

My [24/f] kind-of boyfriend [26/m] has been possibly living a double life; also had short relationship with a 16 year old girl. I need help and advice!!


These dumbasses deserve each other. Her comments are loving bizarre as well
I can't find this post and kind of need to see her comments real bad

Meme Emulator
Oct 4, 2000

ArbitraryC posted:

It's weird how trusting parents are with strangers. I've done a lot of tutoring as a sidejob/volunteering cause I like working 1 on 1 and feel our public education is p lacking and like I dunno if I have a friendly face or what but as a big dude (6'4, over 200) most parents will bother to talk with me for all of 5 minutes before leaving me alone with their 10 year old.

Are you going to thier home, or a public place, or doing it in private? I do all my tutoring in the public library and I have been shocked at how readily theyll just dump thier kids off on me (dont even ask me a question to see if i know what im talking about) but I dont think safety is that much of a concern as long as youre in public.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost

Barudak posted:

Actually good babysitters tend to be old enough that a well off 32 year old wouldn't consider loving them so really ever hiring her idiotic 20 year old self was their first mistake

It is true, you really want a woman who is about 50 or 60 years old. They know what’s up.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
I have volunteered to do some public events, and it is really shocking and terrifying how gladly parents will foist their children off on you, without even asking you really, and then go wander off and drink.

Universe Master
Jun 20, 2005

Darn Fine Pie

Pick posted:

It is true, you really want a woman who is about 50 or 60 years old. They know what’s up.

Then it just turns out to be your ex in drag.

Submarine Sandpaper
May 27, 2007


You don't want to confuse your child regarding why their hot nanny is old enough to be a grandparent though

ArbitraryC
Jan 28, 2009
Pick a number, any number
Pillbug

Meme Emulator posted:

Are you going to thier home, or a public place, or doing it in private? I do all my tutoring in the public library and I have been shocked at how readily theyll just dump thier kids off on me (dont even ask me a question to see if i know what im talking about) but I dont think safety is that much of a concern as long as youre in public.

Both, one of my first sessions with a 7th grader (so 11-12 years old) I showed up and the family wasn't even home yet. Kid just let me in. I wasn't even sure what to do because in grad school as a TA I remember being directly told not to be behind closed doors with a student 1 on 1 under p much any circumstance. We had met once in person before briefly to discuss what they wanted to work on so the mom did know me but like, that still feels p trusting.

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Oct 15, 2012

To these sing-alongs 🎤of siren 🧜🏻‍♀️songs
To oohs😮 to ahhs😱 to 👏big👏applause👏
With all of my 😡anger I scream🤬 and shout📢
🇺🇸America🦅, I love you 🥰but you're freaking 💦me 😳out
Biscuit Hider

Universe Master posted:

Then it just turns out to be your ex in drag.

Yeah, but you’ve also managed to bring Robin Williams back from the dead so take one for the loving team, Nancy.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost

fruit on the bottom posted:

Yeah, but you’ve also managed to bring Robin Williams back from the dead so take one for the loving team, Nancy.

That premise is truly creepier than one hour photo

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Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
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