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RoboRodent posted:A redpiller is born. In this instance the dude seems justified, but I had a roommate whose dad beat the poo poo out of him and his brothers to the point where he was super paranoid and carried around a knife starting at 10 years old, then later on reconciled with his dad and started blaming his non-abusive mom for not intervening and is 100% MRA to a ridiculous degree now. Human brains work in really weird ways I mean being a 5'2 Latino dude whose younger brother is a heroin addict probably didn't help but still, wtf
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My (26f) BF (potentially fiance, 26m) together 4 years. He makes fun of me relentlessly for believing in horoscopes and going to psychics. He got drunk and publicly tried to embarrass me last night. Is this a deal breaker?quote:hello, I realize this can be a controversial topic and I'm not intending to inflame anyone's passions. However I will say that I know my experience with horoscopes, psychics and mysticism has made my life better and will continue to do so. I have dozens of examples of my life literally being saved because I read my horoscope on specific days. I wonder why she didn't see it coming...
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flashman posted:I don't blame her for not wanting to waste her time on the off chance five years from now he realizes whoops I'm actually just gay. Life's too short That's why people won't tell people they're bi. Because people like you go "how do I know you won't decide you want guys more and dump me?" or alternatively "you're just experimenting with the same sex, you're just young" or "You're just greedy, pick one!" Hey, what if there's an "off chance" five years from now he just decides he doesn't like her and goes for another woman? Life's too short, so take no chances and never date anyone!
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Midnight Voyager posted:That's why people won't tell people they're bi. Because people like you go "how do I know you won't decide you want guys more and dump me?" or alternatively "you're just experimenting with the same sex, you're just young" or "You're just greedy, pick one!" Someone with sexual desires that I am not physically capable of satisfying would qualify as a red flag to me.... (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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There's a psychic and horoscope believing moron waiting for you out there somewhere who you can be happy with instead. It doesn't take Nostradamus to see there's no possibility of mutual respect in that relationship. Have to say I'm morbidly curious about these "dozens" of occasions that future predictions have saved her life. That's some high level delusional poo poo - that or she lives in a mystical realm where death lurks behind every other corner.
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flashman posted:Someone with sexual desires that I am not physically capable of satisfying would qualify as a red flag to me.... news flash dingus: even straight men like all sorts of women. if a guy likes redheads AND skater chicks and dates a skater chicks, is he undateable because he also wouldn't mind if ellie kemper... kempered him? (hint: no) part of being monogamous is trading variety for volume
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flashman posted:Someone with sexual desires that I am not physically capable of satisfying would qualify as a red flag to me.... Have I got some bad news for you about every relationship you've ever had...
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Being gay is the same as liking red hair? Somewhat dismissive of people's sexual identities don't you think?
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Jeza posted:There's a psychic and horoscope believing moron waiting for you out there somewhere who you can be happy with instead. It doesn't take Nostradamus to see there's no possibility of mutual respect in that relationship. Have to say I'm morbidly curious about these "dozens" of occasions that future predictions have saved her life. That's some high level delusional poo poo - that or she lives in a mystical realm where death lurks behind every other corner. Based on the post I'm gonna guess that she lives in NYC and a psychic took a wild leap and told her to be careful walking around the city at night and later she heard about somebody being murdered near where she was and because people who believe in this poo poo aren't great at understanding coincidence she reacted like THAT COULD HAVE BEEN MEEEEEEEEEE  . ~15 times.
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flashman posted:Being gay is the same as liking red hair? Somewhat dismissive of people's sexual identities don't you think? Then replace "red hair" with literally any physical attribute.
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flashman posted:Being gay is the same as liking red hair? Somewhat dismissive of people's sexual identities don't you think? you do realize i mentioned being heteroflexible earlier right? but yeah, keep on trucking. obviously the straight-ish guy who says "you always want other partners in a relationship whether you're gay or straight" is a homophobe
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My [21/M] Bi girlfriend [20/F] has a female best friend [20] she flirts with and not sure how to feel about itquote:I have been in a monogamous relationship with my bisexual girlfriend for the past six months. We've recently been discussing incorporating threesomes so that she can further explore her female-female side, and we are both feeling pretty confident about doing so. However, today, when we were talking about this, she brought up that she had been thinking about her best friend (female) who she sometimes thinks about in a physical manner. This is the first time she admitted this to me, but it was pretty obvious to me already. When I'm with them, and sense that it's a bit more than just a friendship. The thing is that they have been intimate in the past, and so her liking her friend in that manner seems more complicated and more serious than anything like a threesome. Her flirting with this friend makes me feel uncomfortable, and I'm not sure how to handle it. She hasn't done anything with her, and so I'm not really upset. I'm just uncomfortable with the situation, and I don't know what we could do to make it better. I don't have a solution, and me feeling uncomfortable is kind of driving her mad since she insists that I come first and that they haven't done anything together. Any advice?
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flashman posted:Being gay is the same as liking red hair? Somewhat dismissive of people's sexual identities don't you think? Saying that being bi is a red flag because you're not physically capable of satisfying their desires for both dicks and vaginas is as much of a dumb(and inaccurate) stereotype as saying lesbians just haven't found the right man yet.
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girl pants posted:Based on the post I'm gonna guess that she lives in NYC and a psychic took a wild leap and told her to be careful walking around the city at night and later she heard about somebody being murdered near where she was and because people who believe in this poo poo aren't great at understanding coincidence she reacted like THAT COULD HAVE BEEN MEEEEEEEEEE Well, that or something blanket-y like ‘beware Tuesdays’ and come Wednesday morning she reads something about a mugging that happened the night before vaguely near her. Or ‘blue is unlucky’ then they later find out, like, their cousin’s friend had a blue car and died in a car accident. What’s the term for like, analyzing things in order to make them match up to something you believe? It’s not self fulfilling prophecy, but self something, I think?
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LadyPictureShow posted:Well, that or something blanket-y like ‘beware Tuesdays’ and come Wednesday morning she reads something about a mugging that happened the night before vaguely near her.
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LadyPictureShow posted:Well, that or something blanket-y like ‘beware Tuesdays’ and come Wednesday morning she reads something about a mugging that happened the night before vaguely near her. Cherry-picking? Projective construction?
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flashman posted:Being gay is the same as liking red hair? Somewhat dismissive of people's sexual identities don't you think? Literally all "bi" means is you're into men and women. Plenty of bi people are monogamous, just like straight or gay folks. Do you think the average straight woman is lusting for other men's dicks too?
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Literally all "bi" means is you're into men and women. Plenty of bi people are monogamous, just like straight or gay folks. Do you think the average straight woman is lusting for other men's dicks too? It drives me crazy that some people seem to think that bisexuality makes you more likely to cheat. It doesn't, any more than being gay or straight does! Being a cheater makes you likely to cheat! Also the horoscope woman should check out the Wikipedia article on "cold reading", it might rock her world a little bit. Edit: it won't but I can dream
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I'm super uncomfortable with shaming people for not wanting to have sex with certain people. Like if someone says they don't want to date someone who's bi, that's their right. Saying that no one straight should ever date someone bi is where you cross the line. But bodily autonomy comes first for me. Is that weird? 100% not being facetious here or trying to fish a certain response or anything like that.
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Obviously the only thing that can truly satisfy a bisexual is a threesome relationship with one of each sex. There is no other solution. That's what bisexual means in my tiny caveman brain, not that they just are fine with either sex in a relationship.Modus Pwnens posted:I'm super uncomfortable with shaming people for not wanting to have sex with certain people. Like if someone says they don't want to date someone who's bi, that's their right. Saying that no one straight should ever date someone bi is where you cross the line. But bodily autonomy comes first for me. Is that weird? 100% not being facetious here or trying to fish a certain response or anything like that. It's literally the only reason she has. "You would be okay with having sex with dudes? I am not okay with that." There's no way to spin it that isn't homophobia and/or absurd jealousy. I'm not saying to make her gently caress the guy, but I'm fine with calling her out on it. If she thinks she isn't homophobic, she should examine her reaction to that information. Is she wrong, or is she absurdly jealous of having to "compete" with a wider playing field?
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Modus Pwnens posted:I'm super uncomfortable with shaming people for not wanting to have sex with certain people. Like if someone says they don't want to date someone who's bi, that's their right. Saying that no one straight should ever date someone bi is where you cross the line. But bodily autonomy comes first for me. Is that weird? 100% not being facetious here or trying to fish a certain response or anything like that. You can gently caress or not gently caress whoever the hell you want but if your motives for doing so are rooted in racism, homophobia, or misogyny you should take a really long hard look at yourself.
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what an awesome debate to have, this is great next why dont yall try to determine whether its worse to not date someone for being bi or being the wrong race, that would also be productive i 100% bet
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Modus Pwnens posted:I'm super uncomfortable with shaming people for not wanting to have sex with certain people. Like if someone says they don't want to date someone who's bi, that's their right. Saying that no one straight should ever date someone bi is where you cross the line. But bodily autonomy comes first for me. Is that weird? 100% not being facetious here or trying to fish a certain response or anything like that. what kinda sets this apart is they've already been dating and having sex for 2 years. I mean there are no rules that bind you to a relationship, if you wanna break up for whatever reason you can, some reasons just kind of indicate you're a garbage person.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:what an awesome debate to have, this is great A closer equivalent would be her finding out that he is also attracted to people of another race and that being a dealbreaker for her.
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Thanks for the replies. Those make a lot of sense.
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Kicked out of nursing school. Dean not getting back to me about result of appeal.quote:I am located in Ohio. I attended a nursing school in which I failed out of the same clinical portion twice. The school has a policy in which you are kicked out for failing any two clinical sections. I had passed all portions of the course, but was failed over not meeting the requirements listed in a signed agreement between myself and the instructor (basically a ten minute bs paper needed to be submitted that I didn't submit but that wasn't mentioned in the signed document. The course manager/instructor is notoriously unreasonable and is rated in the bottom 3 percent of all instructors on ratemyprofessor.) quote:[–]dorkofthepolisci 253 points 1 day ago  at the idea of any of them being 'naturally agreeable' and not questioning things.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:A closer equivalent would be her finding out that he is also attracted to people of another race and that being a dealbreaker for her. wasn't claiming equivalency just that one side is gonna say "bodily autonomy" and the other side will say "bigotry" and nothing will be decided im down to watch tho
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:what an awesome debate to have, this is great i have never seen an attractive australian aboriginie (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST) (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Absurd Alhazred posted:A closer equivalent would be her finding out that he is also attracted to people of another race and that being a dealbreaker for her. I found out my girlfriend of several years had slept with a black man in her past and can't view her the same way, how can I break up with her for this without coming across as a bad person. well you can't really because it does make you a bad person. You do what you want but people are gonna think less of you for it. *burst into thread* are you saying he's obligated to stay in a relationship with her? Trying to browbeat this poor man into sex with someone he's not comfortable with is clearly trying to remove his bodily autonomy.
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Haifisch posted:Kicked out of nursing school. Dean not getting back to me about result of appeal. I wasn't sure which way this one was going to break until he started going on about  . I bet they booted him and started giving him the runaround because he was an obnoxious walking UM ACTUALLY.
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Me [23 F] with my friend [24 M] 6 years, worried about his well-being after receiving strange emailquote:First off, we met in 2008 in college and dated for two years, it was an intense relationship that put us through many different challenges. We broke up in 2010 and we both moved back to our original states. My "friend" Bitch leave him alone
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Lots of people can't seem to take a hint
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girl pants posted:I wasn't sure which way this one was going to break until he started going on about
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Dunning Krugerrand posted:My (26f) BF (potentially fiance, 26m) together 4 years. He makes fun of me relentlessly for believing in horoscopes and going to psychics. He got drunk and publicly tried to embarrass me last night. Is this a deal breaker? He should have  d the day he found out you took horoscopes seriously.
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Should I [M 25] tell my girlfriend [F 24] that I'm bi, have previously hooked up with guys and regularly watch gay porn?quote:I am VERY attracted to my girlfriend whom I've been with for close to a year now. Sexually speaking, she turns me on like no other person and I love having sex with her (I'm assuming she loves it too? haha)
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Dunning Krugerrand posted:My (26f) BF (potentially fiance, 26m) together 4 years. He makes fun of me relentlessly for believing in horoscopes and going to psychics. He got drunk and publicly tried to embarrass me last night. Is this a deal breaker? 🔮 It's you, dumb redditor. You're the dealbreaker. 🔮
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Mother (58) called social services on me (30F)quote:I cannot give a lot of information about this but here are the main points.
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Haifisch posted:I love you more than I like myself What the gently caress?
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Haifisch posted:Mother (58) called social services on me (30F) When a crazy mother threatens legal action instead of talking to see their grandchild then there's something seriously wrong.
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Dunning Krugerrand posted:My (26f) BF (potentially fiance, 26m) together 4 years. He makes fun of me relentlessly for believing in horoscopes and going to psychics. He got drunk and publicly tried to embarrass me last night. Is this a deal breaker? I've always thought that psychics with storefronts are money laundering operations.
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