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My [24M] gay friend fell out with me [24M] because I said being gay was a diseasequote:The other day, me and my friends went out for a few drinks. One of them, who I will name Stephen, is gay. Stephen however likes to make snarky comments, and the more he drank, the more he was making them. I'll point out that I am ginger, and that is usually what he makes comments about.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 05:48 |
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Haifisch posted:My [24M] gay friend fell out with me [24M] because I said being gay was a disease Lol, gay dude had it coming.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 06:03 |
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Haifisch posted:My [24M] gay friend fell out with me [24M] because I said being gay was a disease "Instead of just telling him that the ol "soulless ginger" joke annoys me deeply, I went straight to hate speech! What's wrong with saying the same thing that someone might say who wants to put him into gay conversion therapy?"
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 06:04 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:My [25M] girlfriend [25F] of two and a half years made fun of my trains. Death to those who insult trains
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 06:10 |
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Midnight Voyager posted:"Instead of just telling him that the ol "soulless ginger" joke annoys me deeply, I went straight to hate speech! What's wrong with saying the same thing that someone might say who wants to put him into gay conversion therapy?" Yes this was clearly hate speech in third instance. No way it could be anything else.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 07:57 |
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If you don't want people to insult you for things you can't help, don't insult people for things they can't help. Gay guy needs to get the gently caress over himself and stop dishing out what he can't take.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 08:05 |
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Pretending jokes about hair color and gay people are equivalent is really loving dumb.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 08:08 |
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They're not equivalent but I'd be willing to bet a lot of money that this is a pattern of behaviour and ginger guy just got pushed too far. "Makes snarky comments" is always code for "insults people to their faces" and while ginger guy shouldn't have pushed the nuclear button, it doesn't make him Hitler and an apology should be enough. Hopefully there's a happy ending where they stay friends and learn that neither getting the last word nor roleplaying Chandler Bing is worth losing friends over.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 08:58 |
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All aboard, the trainwreck train is leaving the station. I owe my fiance(33M) an open relationship, but the thought makes me(32F) feel ill quote:Let me preface this by saying I was a bitch, I know that and I changed 5 years ago and am ashamed of my past, hence the throwaway accout.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 11:22 |
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I mean where do you even start with that?
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 11:33 |
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Are open relationships today's theme? Me [28 M] with my Wife [28 F] of 10 years, tried open relationship per my request, it failed and now I am depressed. Any advice on how to cope? quote:
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 11:43 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:My [25M] girlfriend [25F] of two and a half years made fun of my trains. Actually, it sounds like she's like really proud of him as a boyfriend and is making fun of him because she thinks it's funny too. No reason why it can't be both. Maybe it's a little rude, sure, but why can't this fool just roll with the punches and laugh along with her at his very silly model trains hobby?
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 13:19 |
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Actually, it sounds like she's like really proud of him as a boyfriend and is making fun of him because she thinks it's funny too. No reason why it can't be both. Maybe it's a little rude, sure, but why can't this fool just roll with the punches and laugh along with her at his very silly model trains hobby? The “friend” is trying to break them up so she can move in and give him some HO gauge action.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 13:25 |
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Actually, it sounds like she's like really proud of him as a boyfriend and is making fun of him because she thinks it's funny too. No reason why it can't be both. Maybe it's a little rude, sure, but why can't this fool just roll with the punches and laugh along with her at his very silly model trains hobby? Asperger's.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 13:28 |
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Known Lecher posted:The “friend” is trying to break them up so she can move in and give him some HO gauge action. Yeah, like why would the gf's friend do this? There has to be some ulterior motive, either because her friends don't like him or that particular friend is into him.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 13:42 |
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blackmet posted:Asperger's. Trainman posted:I agreed and when we met she made me promise to keep what she was telling me between us. Trainman posted:
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 13:54 |
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Train dude is hilariously naive, and yup, is definitely on some part of the spectrum. Such an idiot. So good. I wonder what else he would blow up his relationship over, besides his girlfriend's friend telling him pointless poo poo? A limited-edition train release that he had to line up for during an important planned date with his girlfriend? His girlfriend not telling him about what she had for lunch that day? Turning into a werewolf? The beer selection not being good at a bar?
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 14:05 |
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Well she sounds positively insufferable... Husband of 1 year (29m) and I (32f) and I went to a comedy club last night. Comedian was very offensive and and I told him so, he proceeded to lambast and embarrass me while crowd laughed. Husband did not back me up and I'm livid. What do I do? quote:Background: Edit: Haaa! She took it down already. almightyerin fucked around with this message at 14:32 on Jan 16, 2018 |
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Palpek posted:All aboard, the trainwreck train is leaving the station. This is such a great self own.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 14:42 |
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almightyerin posted:Well she sounds positively insufferable... She would've been totally reamed by the edgelords of Reddit. And rightly so. Who the gently caress takes the view that she has as much right to speak as the person literally everybody has paid to listen to?
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 14:48 |
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I hope she got banned from the comedy club, because she will do it again
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 14:50 |
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Oh no, a comedian is making an official statement on stage in the Comedy Club, somebody needs to step in, it will be me.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 14:56 |
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Sounds like the guy was mocking victims of sexual assault. Seems fair enough to call him out on being a piece of poo poo. I mean, that's what heckling's for.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 15:03 |
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Not necessarily. Mentioning metoo and using it in the formulation of a joke isn't necessarily doing it at women's offense.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 15:04 |
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this FEMALE has ruined the sanctity of the Comedy Club
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 15:07 |
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Maybe it was a Louis C.K. show .
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 15:09 |
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Al Borland Corp. posted:Not necessarily. Mentioning metoo and using it in the formulation of a joke isn't necessarily doing it at women's offense. quote:making fun of the me too moment
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 15:31 |
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Anne Whateley posted:is not the same as "mentioned it in a setup" Yeah but the lady writing that is irrational and can't be trusted
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 15:40 |
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girl pants posted:A bunch of her other posts are about how she wants to move to Toronto to study science at U of T. Yeah I'm sure a 19 year old who can't drive and needs her mom to do her laundry for her is going to do just great in a city of 3 million people. There is absolutely no reason to have a car if you live in Toronto. I'll give you the laundry thing though.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 15:43 |
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Al Borland Corp. posted:Not necessarily. Mentioning metoo and using it in the formulation of a joke isn't necessarily doing it at women's offense. Wanna bet a dollar? Al Borland Corp. posted:Yeah but the lady writing that is irrational and can't be trusted Would you say that she's being hysterical?
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 15:43 |
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Yeah, someone who literally got kicked out of a bar for making a scene may not be giving a completely accurate picture of the events that led to them making a scene.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 15:47 |
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Two friends and I left a comedy show (quietly walked out) because the comedian was making fun of people with mental illness. Then we were standing around on the sidewalk outside the club deciding where to go next, and the comedian came outside and confronted me on the street about leaving during his set.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 15:59 |
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WrenP-Complete posted:Two friends and I left a comedy show (quietly walked out) because the comedian was making fun of people with mental illness. Then we were standing around on the sidewalk outside the club deciding where to go next, and the comedian came outside and confronted me on the street about leaving during his set. How did that go?
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 16:00 |
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Al Borland Corp. posted:Yeah, someone who literally got kicked out of a bar for making a scene may not be giving a completely accurate picture of the events that led to them making a scene.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 16:02 |
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Anne Whateley posted:So your take is that the comedian happened to mention "me too" in a neutral way as part of a setup, and just upon hearing those words, she just stood up and went into full hysterics for no reason and then picked a fight with her husband and then ran and lied to the internet? My take is he probably started in on a joke having to do with interpersonal relationships between men and women which involved the metoo movement, and the lady snapped assuming where the joke was going. Or had a bad joke about him being harassed but not really and saying "#metoo am I right?" or something stupid like that and she overreacted. It could be freaking Tosh.0 up there and if you stand up and interrupt the show to the point security kicks you out, guess what you were probably the one in the wrong. Nobody paid money to see you take a stand over a lovely joke, you aren't going to be club hero for stopping it.
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 16:05 |
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Anne Whateley posted:So your take is that the comedian happened to mention "me too" in a neutral way as part of a setup, and just upon hearing those words, she just stood up and went into full hysterics for no reason and then picked a fight with her husband and then ran and lied to the internet? People who interrupt comedy shows are universally idiots so I'm fine taking this position
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 16:07 |
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she may have made up the part about the audience cheering and singing when she was escorted out, but if that's true she was probably just being crazy
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 16:07 |
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I'm sure that woman was driven to scream at the comedian until she got kicked out for his staunch support of #metoo!
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 16:10 |
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hawowanlawow posted:she may have made up the part about the audience cheering and singing when she was escorted out, but if that's true she was probably just being crazy They were probably singing na na na na hey hey hey goodbye
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# ? Jan 16, 2018 16:11 |
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Anne Whateley posted:went into full hysterics for no reason She said she was already upset by the opener. She was primed to be more upset. I've no doubt the guy was making a lovely joke, but I also have no doubt she over-reacted to an insane degree because she was already riled up.
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