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Baronjutter: Dec 31, 2007; "Tiny Trains"

Danaru posted:

Is it illegal for a lawyer to suggest to their client to commit a crime?

I really want updates on this.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 18:51

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# ? May 28, 2024 09:20

Patrick Spens: Jul 21, 2006; "Every quarterback says they've got guts, But how many have actually seen 'em?"; Pillbug

So it turns out it's not that my father [36 M] didn't want to have anything to do with me [17 F], he didn't even know about me in the first place!

quote:

The story I got told at 14 was that my dad wasn't my biological father, he was the man who married my mom after I was already born, and basically my mom and dad thought at the time I deserved to know this because a few people in our environment kept saying how I didn't look like him and I was asking them if I was maybe adopted or something. Yeah, I know.

Very little was spoken of the man my mom got pregnant with, but the basic gist of it was that he didn't care about mom being pregnant, didn't want a child in the first place and then she didn't want anything to do with him any further, so she cut all contact (no child support because my mom's family is well-off).

I won't bullshit you and say I wasn't hurt, but I got over it quickly enough with the help of my mom and dad. Sadly, mom and dad got a divorce last year, just felt like they didn't love each other that way anymore, I guess. They're still good friends with each other though, no drama, for which I'm grateful. Still, this sort of prompted me into thinking about my biological father lately and I ended looking him up online. Dunno what I expected to see really, but he's just... normal, I guess? I might have been thinking he'd have this kind of rear end in a top hat look to him because of how he rejected me before I was even born.

Anyway, one night after drinking more than I should with some friends on a night out, I did a stupid thing and sent him a message, basically accusing him how he's horrible, evil and other less polite words, because of how he abandoned me.

Next morning, after I actually remembered what I did, I see his reply to me. It's polite, but confused and he has no idea who I am or how I'm supposed to be related to him (I had my dad's last name), saying in the end that I probably got the wrong person, and wishing me the best. I don't know, it just pissed me off, even though I was sober (and a bit hungover), so I fired up several paragraphs to him about who exactly I am, who my mom is and what he did to us. His reply came in the evening and it was quite extensive, but I'll sum it up for you: they broke up with each other, on bad terms, after they were together for a little over a year, she never mentioned any pregnancy to him and when he tried to contact her later afterwards, because he felt like poo poo how it ended, she rebuffed him and blocked him and that was the last time he tried getting in touch with her.

Needless to say, me being pissed off at him was gone in a flash, and now my father was the one angry at my mom for doing this. I was wondering how to talk to my mom about what I found out, but I didn't have to bother, because my father contacted her first and confronted her about her hiding me from him.

We're getting to know each other slowly, mostly over the internet, though we talked a few times over a video chat, because he doesn't live in the same country as us. It'll be time soon enough to meet IRL and I'm nervous like hell, but by all accounts and the way he's talked to me, and held back on sharing me with the rest of his family, I think I'm going to like him a lot.

Why the gently caress did she do it? She says she has no idea why she really did this, blames it on pregnancy and stuff, but I don't see how the pregnancy could have influenced her for my whole life. I love her, but there's times when it's just the two of us and I can't help but hating her for denying the both of us a chance to know each other as I grew up. I can tell my father is hurt about this, though he doesn't talk about it directly. And my mom probably can guess how I feel, given that she just starts tearing up at times she sees I'm angry or being curt with her.

I'm split in half, happy when I'm talking with my father, but mad like hell when I talk to my mom after. I want all this to get better, but at the same time, I want her to hurt. What do I do now?

tl;dr: Mom hid her pregnancy and my existence from my biological father, he only found out about me when I went off on a drunken rant about how he abandoned us. Now he's back and we're getting to know each other, like we should have years back. But I'm angry at my mom and worry that the anger won't go away. What the hell do I do?

Place your bets.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:01

ArbitraryC: Jan 28, 2009; Pick a number, any number; Pillbug

TheScott2K posted:

I do blame pornhub and the like for normalizing incest porn to the point that this dude didn't think his meticulously sorted collection didn't belong on an encrypted flash drive in a bunker somewhere.

yeah if you ever check out a porntube site at least 50% of the thumbnails on the front page are gonna be some form of incest, which I assume are there because it's such a popular genre. It's real weird.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:02

UZR IS BULLSHIT: Jan 25, 2004

Patrick Spens posted:

So it turns out it's not that my father [36 M] didn't want to have anything to do with me [17 F], he didn't even know about me in the first place!

Place your bets.

I remember this one from months back, any update?

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:04

ArbitraryC: Jan 28, 2009; Pick a number, any number; Pillbug

Looks like this is update

quote:

Link to the previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/7j23cd/so_it_turns_out_its_not_that_my_father_36_m_didnt/

I found out why she told me the lie that my biological father didn't want me. It's maddeningly simple and stupid. She was basically getting to know my dad (her now ex-husband) and he wanted to know about my father's involvement in our lives. Put on the spot, she made out this ridiculous story about how he didn't really care for having a child, they didn't keep in touch and over the years it evolved into a loving theater play (which is what I got years down the line when I asked about my father). My dad, I guess, didn't want to put salt on wound, so he just avoided that subject in the future, until I asked about it.

That's it. That's the whole reason why I didn't know my father for my whole life up until recently. No, really. Because she didn't want to look like some spiteful, crazy woman who neglected to tell someone they're a father, she made this up. Which is some bitter irony for her, because she does look like a crazy and spiteful woman with the lies she told about my father.

I am so mad at her. I can still barely control my anger around her. All I want to do is hurt her until she feels really hurt like I was when I found I missed out on knowing my father all along and him getting to know me as well. I restrain myself more often than not, but God drat, this isn't something that's going to be just pushed to the side. I don't know what we'll do, and I know that sometime in the future I'll probably reestablish having a good relationship with my mother, but right now, it's just not happening.

But on the brighter side of things, I met my father! Some people mentioned in the last thread that I should be careful how, when and where I met him (someone thought I would be flying out of our country to meet him, I think?), but given how everyone that knew him back then and now had nothing but good to say about him (I connected with my father's side of the family, have plenty of cousins, aunts, uncles and so on to talk with and meet, and it's a bit overwhelming just how many of them are there and how overjoyed they were to find about me), I gave him a few dates when we could meet and he picked this last weekend. He flew back on the Friday, visited his parents (my grandparents, and man, that's so weird, how I have another set of grandparents to the whole mix) and then we met up.

I really don't know what I was expecting. I mean, yes, we talked and he seemed very understanding and kind and good and so very interested in meeting me, but I guess there was just that hosed up fear of him not liking what he actually saw and leaving (no, really, thanks for this poo poo, mom). It didn't matter in the least. As soon as we met, there was just this moment, I don't know how to describe it, I don't really think I ever had anything like that before and he just hugged me and I could feel him shaking (I think he was holding himself back from crying) and I started crying for no real reason and then we talked and just spent the rest of the day together.

We pretty much spent the whole weekend together, from the moment I got up we talked and by the time he was boarding his flight I didn't want him to leave ever again (and he won't, not really). He wanted to know everything about me, and I literally mean everything. And I guess what really made me actually love him is him asking to meet my dad, asking me if that was okay with me, and then thanking him for his part in raising me. They talked some more with each other while I was busy with something else, and I think they became sort of friends (I don't really know what to call their relationship).

So to all of you who helped me deal with my hosed up situation, thank you, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. Even if it seemed like I was just venting outloud on the internet, thank you. Thank you all! Except those one or two people who thought my father is a rapist and an abuser, seriously wtf?!

tl;dr: Mom told me the reason behind her lies: so she wouldn't look bad when she was dating my dad and when they got serious. Still mad like hell, but eventually I think I'll get past it. Met my father in person, had a great time, got to know about a ton of family, and best of all, both him and my dad seem to get along! Thank you everyone for your support and help!

My two guesses from reading the first post was
1. Biodad actually abusive, mom left because she was afraid of him/raising daughter with him
2. Dad she was raised by was dating mom at the time, she picked him and made up the backstory as an easy out to not deal with court and complications over raising kid

Looks like it was #2

ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 19:09 on Jan 17, 2018

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:06

P-Mack: Nov 10, 2007

I wonder if the tubesite porn picking algorithm is stuck in some weird feedback loop now that normies have resigned to clicking on the incest porn and just skipping the first 30 seconds.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:06

Brother Entropy: Dec 27, 2009

ArbitraryC posted:

yeah if you ever check out a porntube site at least 50% of the thumbnails on the front page are gonna be some form of incest, which I assume are there because it's such a popular genre. It's real weird.

the theory i've heard is that incest is not as explicitly as popular as those videos would make it seem; it's obviously got people into that fetish but that stuff can still draw in people with more vanilla tastes because outside of the skipped preamble of 'but you're my step-sister!' it's mostly indistinguishable from standard penis goes in vagina porn

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:08

LGD: Sep 25, 2004

P-Mack posted:

I wonder if the tubesite porn picking algorithm is stuck in some weird feedback loop now that normies have resigned to clicking on the incest porn and just skipping the first 30 seconds.

I'm completely convinced that's it and it's not necessarily driven by an algorithm- structurally "incest porn" is basically straight vanilla porn, maybe with an age gap (which is not unpopular). It's "taboo" but in a way that's very easy for someone to ignore and provides a built in reason for why these two particular people are loving if you care about "plot." I think from the perspective of the people making the porn it's pretty much straight upside since the number of people who can't ignore the ickiness of the premise by skipping the first minute or two are absolutely dwarfed by the number of normies happy to ignore it to get some quality MILF porn + pervs who get off on premise's transgressiveness (like the OP in this case).

e;fb

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:18

navier-stoked: Aug 30, 2004

La Brea Carpet posted:

My [21M] mom [48F] found my themed porn collection and now things are beyond awkward

i wonder what his definition of "well concealed" was. a folder on the desktop labeled "business docs (not porn)" i assume.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:20

Patrick Spens: Jul 21, 2006; "Every quarterback says they've got guts, But how many have actually seen 'em?"; Pillbug

ArbitraryC posted:

Looks like this is update

My two guesses from reading the first post was
1. Biodad actually abusive, mom left because she was afraid of him/raising daughter with him
2. Dad she was raised by was dating mom at the time, she picked him and made up the backstory as an easy out to not deal with court and complications over raising kid

Looks like it was #2

Man it's not fun if you shortcut the speculation.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:20

LadyPictureShow: Nov 18, 2005; Success!

Catalina posted:

I actually didn't know about the meat making GBS threads statue part of it until someone kindly sent me a PM after my first post. I guess you could say that I'm the one who learned something today.

We both learned something unfortunate today, friend.

Current bizarre fangirl poo poo makes me wonder if back in the 30s/40s, were there weirdos that would go see a Universal monster film, then go home and fill a whole journal with crazed scribblings about �the Wolfman and Dracula hook up, Wolfman has a dog dick, Drac�s into it, and meanwhile the Invisible Man plots against them, hoping that someday Wolfman will finally see (lol) him. But Invisible Man is also carrying on a loveless affair with Dr. Frankenstein and pushing him to create more monsters with alarming and increasingly grotesque genitalia�

They�d probably just be institutionalized back then.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:21

TheScott2K: Oct 26, 2003; I'm just saying, there's a nonzero chance Trump has a really toad penis.

LGD posted:

I'm completely convinced that's it and it's not necessarily driven by an algorithm- structurally "incest porn" is basically straight vanilla porn, maybe with an age gap (which is not unpopular). It's "taboo" but in a way that's very easy for someone to ignore and provides a built in reason for why these two particular people are loving if you care about "plot." I think from the perspective of the people making the porn it's pretty much straight upside since the number of people who can't ignore the ickiness of the premise by skipping the first minute or two are absolutely dwarfed by the number of normies happy to ignore it to get some quality MILF porn + pervs who get off on premise's transgressiveness (like the OP in this case).

e;fb

That's probably why most "incest porn" doesn't have the dude constantly referencing the fact that she's his sister and whatnot. I imagine someone actually into that would want that sort of thing all the way through.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:21

ArbitraryC: Jan 28, 2009; Pick a number, any number; Pillbug

Patrick Spens posted:

Man it's not fun if you shortcut the speculation.

sorry, pretend there's 5 pages of some people arguing back and forth over whether the mom is a selfish rear end in a top hat or dad beat and raped her.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:21

TheScott2K: Oct 26, 2003; I'm just saying, there's a nonzero chance Trump has a really toad penis.

LadyPictureShow posted:

We both learned something unfortunate today, friend.

Current bizarre fangirl poo poo makes me wonder if back in the 30s/40s, were there weirdos that would go see a Universal monster film, then go home and fill a whole journal with crazed scribblings about ‘the Wolfman and Dracula hook up, Wolfman has a dog dick, Drac’s into it, and meanwhile the Invisible Man plots against them, hoping that someday Wolfman will finally see (lol) him. But Invisible Man is also carrying on a loveless affair with Dr. Frankenstein and pushing him to create more monsters with alarming and increasingly grotesque genitalia’

They’d probably just be institutionalized back then.

They got some stuff right back then

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:22

Brother Entropy: Dec 27, 2009

LadyPictureShow posted:

We both learned something unfortunate today, friend.

Current bizarre fangirl poo poo makes me wonder if back in the 30s/40s, were there weirdos that would go see a Universal monster film, then go home and fill a whole journal with crazed scribblings about �the Wolfman and Dracula hook up, Wolfman has a dog dick, Drac�s into it, and meanwhile the Invisible Man plots against them, hoping that someday Wolfman will finally see (lol) him. But Invisible Man is also carrying on a loveless affair with Dr. Frankenstein and pushing him to create more monsters with alarming and increasingly grotesque genitalia�

They�d probably just be institutionalized back then.

a lof of modern fandom stuff can be traced back to kirk/spock fanzines back when og star trek was airing

there wasn't as much of an emphasis on weird dicks but well, no one gets things perfect their first time through

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:24

Danaru: Jun 5, 2012; 何 ??

Me [44 M] with my GF [45 F] 3m - Waiting for the "Spark / Butterflies / Feeling"

quote:

I have been going out with this woman since the middle of November. Our relationship is so positive, upbeat, drama-free and sexual. But we are very different people, I am emotional, Artistic, Creative, Extremely Big Picture and Intellectual and only marginally into social activities. And she is very extroverted with an excellent work-life balance, and no where nearly as emotional, creative or intellectual. The focus of her life is helping people, social activities.

We have spent a ton of time together, gone on a trip to the mountains and have sex at least 4-5 times a week but for some reason I find myself desiring that feeling in your stomach, the butterflies, the magic, the spark. I think about the few things that we don't share together, like an intellectual connection, and french kissing (tongues gross her out) instead of focusing on the matched libidos, drama free relationship, matching love languages.

A lot of men would die for a drama free, extremely sexual woman, yet somehow it seems a little empty to me. What is wrong with me?

I am guessing its something to do with my past relationship, that ended in august. That woman was almost the exact opposite of my GF. She was a PhD, a workaholic, introverted, emotional, artistic, but we had some drama, and only were intimate 2x a month. I don't think about her any more and am reasonably certain I'm "over" her.

What gives, should I keep going with my GF hoping this spark develops?

tl;dr: 3 month relationship, no butterflies in my stomach, should I move on?

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:25

Baronjutter: Dec 31, 2007; "Tiny Trains"

Danaru posted:

Me [44 M] with my GF [45 F] 3m - Waiting for the "Spark / Butterflies / Feeling"

This guy is dumb but these are pretty normal feelings for highschool kids, they'll grow out of it.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:31

blarzgh: Apr 14, 2009; SNITCHIN' RANDY; Grimey Drawer

TheScott2K posted:

That's probably why most "incest porn" doesn't have the dude constantly referencing the fact that she's his sister and whatnot. I imagine someone actually into that would want that sort of thing all the way through.

This topic always reminds me of that panel discussion video where the nerdy guy out of nowhere comments something like, "Its not incest porn if you turn the sound off." and gets side-eyed and crickets from everyone else and I always get a good giggle.

Edit: somebody google that, because I'm not putting it in my search history!

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:42

Dienes: Nov 4, 2009; dee
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Danaru posted:

Me [44 M] with my GF [45 F] 3m - Waiting for the "Spark / Butterflies / Feeling"

I get the feeling he doesn't actually respect his current gf and just likes to get hosed a lot.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 19:50

CheesyDog: Jul 4, 2007; by FactsAreUseless

r/Bitconnect
I'm literally shaking. This can't be happening.
u/eric_meams

quote:

My mom came into my room to bring me a plate of chicken nuggets and I literally screamed at her and hit the plate of chicken nuggets out of her hand. She started yelling and swearing at me and I slammed the door on her. I�m so distressed right now I don�t know what to do. I didn�t mean to do that to my mom but I�m literally in shock from the what happened today. I feel like I�m going to explode. This can�t be happening. I�m having a loving breakdown. I don�t want to believe the world is so corrupt. I want a future to believe in. I cannot loving deal with this right now. It wasn�t supposed to be like this. This is so hosed.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:17

DACK FAYDEN: Feb 25, 2013; Bear Witness

blarzgh posted:

This topic always reminds me of that panel discussion video where the nerdy guy out of nowhere comments something like, "Its not incest porn if you turn the sound off." and gets side-eyed and crickets from everyone else and I always get a good giggle.

Edit: somebody google that, because I'm not putting it in my search history!

Having never heard of this before I have a mental image that I bet is at least 85% accurate. Someone dig this up.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:17

MF_James: May 8, 2008; I CANNOT HANDLE BEING CALLED OUT ON MY DUMBASS OPINIONS ABOUT ANTI-VIRUS AND SECURITY. I REALLY LIKE TO THINK THAT I KNOW THINGS HERE

INSTEAD I AM GOING TO WHINE ABOUT IT IN OTHER THREADS SO MY OPINION CAN FEEL VALIDATED IN AN ECHO CHAMBER I LIKE

CheesyDog posted:

r/Bitconnect
I'm literally shaking. This can't be happening.
u/eric_meams

MOM THOSE loving CHICKEN NUGGETS WEREN'T TYSON BRAND, HOW COULD YOU BUY GENERICS.

What the gently caress is this person so worked up about? Bitcoin taxing?

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:18

CheesyDog: Jul 4, 2007; by FactsAreUseless

MF_James posted:

MOM THOSE loving CHICKEN NUGGETS WEREN'T TYSON BRAND, HOW COULD YOU BUY GENERICS.

What the gently caress is this person so worked up about? Bitcoin taxing?

Lockback posted:

/r/bitconnect is closed. Here is a glimpse of what it looked like before they locked it

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:20

tactlessbastard: Feb 4, 2001; Godspeed, post; Fun Shoe

quote:

I am emotional, Artistic, Creative, Extremely Big Picture and Intellectual and only marginally into social activities.

More like I am a great big bag of excuses as to why I shouldnt have to meet my girlfriend halfway, she isn't doing all the work to make me happy and it must be that she's intellectually incapable, because who wouldn't just walk backwards on their hands to please my special self.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:25

Draxion: Jun 9, 2013

The chicken nugget story is a meme from the 2016 presidential primaries, but most of the rest of those are extremely real.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:27

Meme Poker Party: Sep 1, 2006; by Azathoth

I'm guessing something happened with bitcoin recently???

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:28

Bunni-kat: May 25, 2010; Service Desk B-b-bunny...
How can-ca-caaaaan I
help-p-p-p you?

MF_James posted:

MOM THOSE loving CHICKEN NUGGETS WEREN'T TYSON BRAND, HOW COULD YOU BUY GENERICS.

What the gently caress is this person so worked up about? Bitcoin taxing?

That�s an ancient copy/paste. I first saw it about Bernie, but I�m told it predates that by several years

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:30

Draxion: Jun 9, 2013

Price dropped a couple thousand dollars from last week, after skyrocketing for months. A lot of people invested in a bubble.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:30

TheScott2K: Oct 26, 2003; I'm just saying, there's a nonzero chance Trump has a really toad penis.

Chomp8645 posted:

I'm guessing something happened with bitcoin recently???

The bubble is venting at the same time one of the "exchanges" that was pretty obviously a Ponzi scheme is closing up shop. A lot of sad nerds who thought they were ubermensch are learning what happens in the absence of regulation.

So, you know, good things are happening with Bitcoin.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:31

UZR IS BULLSHIT: Jan 25, 2004

The internet hasn�t given me this much happiness since half A press memes.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:32

LadyPictureShow: Nov 18, 2005; Success!

CheesyDog posted:

r/Bitconnect
I'm literally shaking. This can't be happening.
u/eric_meams

Either that�s a copy/paste from an oooooold GBS thread, or the joke about �Man baby�s mom makes him chicken nuggets while he still lives at home� became something of a meme.

Then again I�ve been a goon for like, 12 years. Who knows where that first popped up.

(I don�t know poo poo about bitcoin; I know the price rocketed a few months back; I�m guessing there�s people crying about not selling when they had the chance?). I do know there was a guy posting in r/relationships about hating his cousin, and other redditors called him out about �quit being jealous that he profited off of bitcoin.

LadyPictureShow fucked around with this message at 20:37 on Jan 17, 2018

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:32

CheesyDog: Jul 4, 2007; by FactsAreUseless

2017 left me with an inability to distinguish memes and reality

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:39

cumshitter: Sep 27, 2005; by Fluffdaddy

Chomp8645 posted:

I'm guessing something happened with bitcoin recently???

It's going to the moon but first its making a brief pit stop at the center of the Earth.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:41

Catalina: May 20, 2008

blarzgh posted:

This topic always reminds me of that panel discussion video where the nerdy guy out of nowhere comments something like, "Its not incest porn if you turn the sound off." and gets side-eyed and crickets from everyone else and I always get a good giggle.

Edit: somebody google that, because I'm not putting it in my search history!

Shift + Control + P, my friend, Shift + Control + P.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 20:47

boner confessor: Apr 25, 2013; by R. Guyovich

Brother Entropy posted:

the theory i've heard is that incest is not as explicitly as popular as those videos would make it seem; it's obviously got people into that fetish but that stuff can still draw in people with more vanilla tastes because outside of the skipped preamble of 'but you're my step-sister!' it's mostly indistinguishable from standard penis goes in vagina porn

yeah

so few people pay for porn that when there is someone willing to pay for it because they have some creepy fetish (you can make huge bucks selling commissioned furry porn) the industry dives in head first

incest is way easy to market because as you say it's just regular porn except the performers involved spin up a story first about how they're related

# ? Jan 17, 2018 21:04

Nissin Cup Nudist: Sep 3, 2011; Sleep with one eye open

We're off to Gritty Gritty land

Lot of lonely only childs out there, I guess

# ? Jan 17, 2018 21:27

Kuros: Sep 13, 2010; Oh look, the consequences of my prior actions are finally catching up to me.

Would It Be Selfish Or Rude For Me (15F) To Ask My Court (15-22F) To Pay For Their Own Dresses?

quote:

I'm turning 16 in a few months. I'm saving a lot of money for my dress and asking my parents about my venue and all the other details. I don't have a lot of money and I'm the "poor friend" as some have called me.

I turn 16 a few months after most of my friends and my cousins and sisters are already 16 or older. My other friends are both going to be 15 at the time of my sweet 16. I am going to have 11 girls in my court all together. I know I can't afford to buy 11 dresses, my own dresses, shoes, food, a venue, send out invitations, and pay for my hair/nails. I'm not expecting them to get an expensive dress like mine. I'm thinking of just asking them all to get a cheap dress from Charlotte Russe or Forever 21 that I'll pick out when it gets closer to the date. I don't care about the shoes or how they'll wear their hair/makeup but I really want them all to wear the same dress.

I'm not going to chose a dress that's more than $25 but I still don't want anyone mad at me for not paying for their own dress.

I haven't even thought about the guys in my court but I think that it'll be easier.

tl;dr: I can't afford dresses for all the girls in my court for my sweet 16. Can I ask them to pay for their own dresses?

First World Problems.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 21:39

MF_James: May 8, 2008; I CANNOT HANDLE BEING CALLED OUT ON MY DUMBASS OPINIONS ABOUT ANTI-VIRUS AND SECURITY. I REALLY LIKE TO THINK THAT I KNOW THINGS HERE

INSTEAD I AM GOING TO WHINE ABOUT IT IN OTHER THREADS SO MY OPINION CAN FEEL VALIDATED IN AN ECHO CHAMBER I LIKE

Kuros posted:

Would It Be Selfish Or Rude For Me (15F) To Ask My Court (15-22F) To Pay For Their Own Dresses?

First World Problems.

wtf is this garbage, is it real? It can't be real.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 21:42

Danaru: Jun 5, 2012; 何 ??

Kuros posted:

Would It Be Selfish Or Rude For Me (15F) To Ask My Court (15-22F) To Pay For Their Own Dresses?

First World Problems.

I apparently have no idea what a sweet 16 is :stare:

# ? Jan 17, 2018 21:44

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# ? May 28, 2024 09:20

Barudak: May 7, 2007

Kuros posted:

Would It Be Selfish Or Rude For Me (15F) To Ask My Court (15-22F) To Pay For Their Own Dresses?

First World Problems.

This is how you stay the poor friend.

# ? Jan 17, 2018 21:48

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