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LethalGeek posted:I have actually seen this happen more than once. When women find their sexual peek in their 20s/30s it's on for some of them. I thought sexual peeking was usually a solo activity done best under the cover of night?
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quote:I've asked him to sell it many times - he's been stranded on the highway three times, it's had thousands of dollars poured into it, and he refuses. My mom has asked him to sell it. Oh, well. If your mom is against it too, then I guess the car just has to go.
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Jan 20, 2018 17:56
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That wagon owns bones. He should sell her instead.
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Khorne posted:Probably. The girlfriend is an unreliable narrator. She clearly went into the discussion already upset and leapt at the first chance she had to take it out on him, she even admits this in her reddit comments and think's she handled a lot of it badly to the point she wants to apologize to him. I get that people are super upset about his language but we really only had a onesided account of the discussion that took place in texts when the OP was already in a bad mood. I think he should respect her choice on what language to use and apologize for being stubborn about it, but I'm glad to see her recognize she probably contributed to why it blew up into such a fight in the first place. It's something that could have been handled more calmly all around.
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Girl with the dude with the car - just wash your hands of it. Pay no money towards it, give him no lifts, if he gets stranded then that's his problem. He doesn't have to get rid of it, you don't have to help him out with it.
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Would it be completely weird for me [23f] to ask out my favorite pilot [25m]?quote:Okay, so I’m going to be completely honest here......I’ve never really dated as an adult.
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Hire a second pilot to write a sky message asking him out.
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La Brea Carpet posted:Me [28/F] and my husband [30/M] fight constantly about his car. How can I let it go? That car fuckin rules
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Haifisch posted:Would it be completely weird for me [23f] to ask out my favorite pilot [25m]? I want updates to this because if you need advice on how to hit the softest of softballs, then you are 100% going to gently caress it up somehow.
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LadyPictureShow posted:I honestly can’t make heads or tails of this. She got duped by a business partner and the company came down on her and because she already has a criminal record they paid the court to have her thrown in jail?
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Our dog bites family and friends, relationship falling apart over itNon-Romantic 68 points 76 comments submitted 2 years ago by bison_curious to r/relationships I am a 26 yr old female, living with boyfriend of 2 years (27). Great relationship, potential marriage material, except for.. The Dog. Bf and I got a medium sized rescue dog together 6 months ago- a white shepherd mix. He is cute around just us two but has had a series of incidences where he bit people (chunks of skin) like our flatmate, my bf's dad, and my Bf himself. We have been working with a professional trainer that deals with aggressive dogs for 5 months (thank GOD he hasn't been charging us most lessons- so at least there's that). Recently The Dog bit my mom around her whole arm. Luckily she was wearing a few thick sweaters so there was no puncture wounds but huge purple bruises where the teeth bit. I am 100% convinced we need to surrender the dog or euthanize him as it is a huge liability and I am nervous he might bite at any time. My bf says the dog is salvageable and that he loves the dog and refuses to give it up. I love my bf, but I'm petrified the dog might hurt someone. Everytime we talk about it, it ends in a huge fight and our relationship is falling apart over it. Am I in the wrong? Should I ask the Bf to move out? Is this grounds for breakup? Please help me get some footing with this situation. Tl;Dr (sorry dont know how to bold text)- dog is biting, and the liability scares me. I want to get rid of dog but Bf wants to keep it- what to do?
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Euthanize the boyfriend. I loving hate people who won't put down their ~precious furbaby~ even after it's proven itself a giant liability and has caused harm to others. The girl did everythig right; aggression training was attempted, it didn't work, goodnight Cujo.
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Pick posted:Our dog bites family and friends, relationship falling apart over itNon-Romantic Punch the dog.
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CHUNKS O' SKIN!
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extra row of teeth posted:Euthanize the boyfriend. Basically this. My dad is one of those terrible human beings that will keep a dog alive well into the suffering phase of old age. Intense animal lovers are just mentally ill man-children.
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Beachcomber posted:They're a bunch of butchers who'll just try to milk you for all you're worth. He should definitely steer clear of all that bull. Thank you!
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Jan 20, 2018 22:11
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Sounds like if you just leave the dog and the boyfriend alone together the problem will take care of itself
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Rubellavator posted:They should
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Khorne posted:This is a false equivalence. It would hold up if illegal weren't a well defined term across multiple fields, the majority not involving immigration, to refer to a state of being... not legal. Which is accurate. I used to process paperwork for state assistance from Texas Health and Human Services. "Undocumented" was the term we used because the parents, who were trying to get benefits for their children, could not provide documentation that they were legally allowed to work in the US. There IS a social security card that people who entered the US illegally can apply for in order to work here while they wait for their immigration hearing (which is usually 3 years away). I can't remember if that card allowed HHSC to give benefits to the parents or not.
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I'm surprised nobody called animal control on them after the first time it took out chunks of skin.
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Pick posted:Our dog bites family and friends, relationship falling apart over itNon-Romantic Holy poo poo put down the dog, there's millions of dogs in shelters looking for homes, you gotta play triage here. Put down the violent bitey dog and go adopt a nicer dog that may have been put down otherwise if you hadn't adopted it.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I'm surprised nobody called animal control on them after the first time it took out chunks of skin. Yeah. If they had gone to a doctor for the bite, it would have been reported and that dog would have had to go in for a rabies observation. I have no clue if there is, like, a 3 strikes rule or something in the state. But that dog should already be in the books of it's broken the skin like the OP says.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I'm surprised nobody called animal control on them after the first time it took out chunks of skin. Neighbor had a dog like that. The owner kept letting it just roam wild and it would murder anything it got near and bite anyone. Turns out you should not own a loving Australian Shepherd if you are a single dad wit one kid. He managed to keep the dog out of animal control calls by going on about how it was all his son had left since his mom left them. What I'm saying is a sob story, all the people who've been bitten probably got hit by a sob story and thus didn't report it.
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animal control can also be useless, in my town last year a kid was mauled to death waiting for the school bus and another was scalped by some idiot's feral dogs. neighbors kept calling and calling on these aggressive dogs but animal control (a private, contracted company) did nothing because it was a bad part of town. someone should have poisoned the dogs in the night, or shot them http://www.myajc.com/news/local-govt--politics/mother-child-mauled-bus-stop-sues-fulton-county-animal-control/sDMLpFhgcARoPwUtE8HrML
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Bored posted:Yeah. If they had gone to a doctor for the bite, it would have been reported and that dog would have had to go in for a rabies observation. I have no clue if there is, like, a 3 strikes rule or something in the state. But that dog should already be in the books of it's broken the skin like the OP says. I used to work at a vet hospital/boarding facility and we did a lot of rabies quarantines for our clients' bitey dogs. They have to prove a rabies vax and stay for 10 days, then are either released or vaccinated and released. Usually the dogs are terrified and don't give us any trouble at all. It does stay on their records, I've never seen any with a more than one time quarantine. I was always kind of hopeful that they'd just want us to euthanize right away because then I'd get to cut the head off and send it out. No one ever did, though, even if they euthanized right after the 10 days. I'd probably get bored halfway through the neck and regret everything, tbh.
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empty sea posted:I used to work at a vet hospital/boarding facility and we did a lot of rabies quarantines for our clients' bitey dogs. They have to prove a rabies vax and stay for 10 days, then are either released or vaccinated and released. Usually the dogs are terrified and don't give us any trouble at all. It does stay on their records, I've never seen any with a more than one time quarantine. 
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Poor dog. Note: I think the dog should be euthanized. They've been doing aggression training for 5 months and the dog is still aggressively biting. It's a safety issue. Give the dog one really good last day or week and then take him in.
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boner confessor posted:someone should have poisoned the dogs in the night, or shot them You can be that change.
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LadyPictureShow posted:LOL. Her comment history mentions she was locked out of a PayPal account for sketchy activity re work, but it's okay since a client continues to put money in?
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Haifisch posted:Would it be completely weird for me [23f] to ask out my favorite pilot [25m]?
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This seemed way goofier in Friends: Me 29M with wife 26F 4 years, shortly after our baby was born she told me she thinks she is a lesbian, I am trapped quote:It is as bad as it sounds, we got married and I sold my house to put all my money into getting a new house with her near all her family and friends. I was not resentful of this at the time since its only about 20 miles from where I lived before, but now obviously I regret it. 
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Palpek posted:This seemed way goofier in Friends: Wow. A legit "open the marriage" scenario.
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Palpek posted:This seemed way goofier in Friends: So has she stated any intention to make things hellish for him if he tries to seperate? Because I read it twice and all I can see is the assumption that because she has lawyer friends she'll use them.
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SirSamVimes posted:So has she stated any intention to make things hellish for him if he tries to seperate? Because I read it twice and all I can see is the assumption that because she has lawyer friends she'll use them. Dude seems like he’s just fearing the absolute worst. Wouldn’t they have to ‘buy him out’ for the amount of money he put up for the house if she keeps it in a divorce? I’m also confused at how if he ends up paying child support he’ll be financially sunk; but I guess he means paying CP in addition to finding a new place, paying his own rent/utilities/court costs etc. that all probably racks up.
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La Brea Carpet posted:Me [28/F] and my husband [30/M] fight constantly about his car. How can I let it go? We had one of those from a junk yard when I was a kid.. (my parents were poor as hell, and bought their cars from a friend that owned a junkyard, he would gather pieces together, get a car running, and sell it to my parents for ~500 dollars. It would last ~18 months and then they would get a new one) My say its a great car for a road trip. The "trunk" has seats that face backwards and it was super fun on roadtrips. That being so, it did die when we were on a road trip to colorado and we sat on the side of the road for 6 hours while my dad walked to a gas station for a tow truck.
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Pretty horrendous. I guess an open marriage is theoretically possible so long as he is fulfilled in every other aspect other than sexually. Somehow I doubt that.
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Jeza posted:Pretty horrendous. I guess an open marriage is theoretically possible so long as he is fulfilled in every other aspect other than sexually. Somehow I doubt that.
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What a great place for a child to grow up: married parents who have nothing but bitterness and misery between them. Way better than sharing custody when one parent is an out lesbian!
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