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The only reason I was just robbed and not robbed and carjacked is because the bastards couldn't drive stick. The penis enhancement factor goes without saying, of course.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 00:44 |
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Pvt.Scott posted:Horsie has hooves
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 00:45 |
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Admiral Ray posted:i (27f) just found out my best freind (27f) drunkenly kissed my husband (27m) of 2 years at our super bowl party last night. View this as a Drunken mistske or do I go nuclear? Relationships (self.relationships) Baking wings on super bowl Sunday?
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 00:51 |
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I live in a place where pretty much no one, regardless of how rich they are/how sweet their car is actually likes driving, so the concept of someone saying “I love driving around the city in this car so much!” is completely loving weird to me.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 00:52 |
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Bamabalacha posted:I live in a place where pretty much no one, regardless of how rich they are/how sweet their car is actually likes driving, so the concept of someone saying “I love driving around the city in this car so much!” is completely loving weird to me. English food is gross, too
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 00:55 |
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Pick posted:English food is gross, too Someone hasn't had a proper English Sunday roast.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 00:59 |
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Pick posted:English food is gross, too I live in Toronto and my family’s from New York City, we are people of lands of amazing food and terrible gridlock.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 01:01 |
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Bamabalacha posted:I live in Toronto and my family’s from New York City, we are people of lands of amazing food and terrible gridlock. So you went from New York City to Canada New York City
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 01:02 |
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Pick posted:So you went from New York City to Canada New York City Pretty much.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 01:03 |
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The water is polluted and the mayor's a dork They dress real bad and they think they're New York (in Toronto, Ontario)
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 01:31 |
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Al Borland Corp. posted:Regardless I would encourage you all to purchase Hyundai and to a lesser extent Kia brand vehicles He could have gotten her a used Hyundai era Genesis Coupe, it's got seats in the back that can fit kids (if they're short), she gets to keep the RWD sporty snow deathtrap. (source: have a Genesis, love it)
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 01:38 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:This was a really good reply to the "SO-likes-daughter-swap-porn" post: I know this is from some pages back, but I'd like to bow my head for a moment and reflect on how drat lucky I am. I think I'm gonna go ahead and say a prayer for people in these situations. Seems like the least I can do, even if it doesn't help....
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 02:10 |
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Three Olives posted:You are a baby or a poor if you get a manual these days, automatics are better in every way, Ferrari doesn't even make manual cars anymore, Ferrari. every time I think you've hit maximum wrongness and can't possibly get any more wrong about life, you pull something out and surprise me.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 02:20 |
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quote:When he came around to my workstation he said “Hey Frank, here’s your check” and held it out to me. I reached out to take it and he lifted it above his head, knowing I couldn’t reach it (I’m 5’7”, he’s 6’3” maybe). I got out of my chair and humored him a little by trying to jump for it, he started laughing and after a few jump attempts he dropped the check on my desk and walked away laughing. A couple of other people in the office were laughing too. Boss is scum unless he recorded it and put it on YouTube because lmao I want to see this so bad
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 02:29 |
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Me [30F] and husband [29M]. Pregnant with a planned baby but extremely afraid of pregnancy. It's rough and I am having second thoughts.quote:My husband and I have been married for 3 years, having dated for 3 years before that. We have both always wanted to be parents and planned to have a child during our marriage. I have tokophobia, which is a pathological fear of pregnancy and childbirth. This is obviously at odds with our life goals and something I have been seeing a therapist for over the past year in preparation for starting our family. I had many conversations with my husband about considering adoption or surrogacy, but he very much wants the child to be ours genetically, which I can understand. He also wants a more "traditional" pregnancy where he and I are the only two people involved. He doesn't want our baby growing inside another woman and being birthed by her, nor does he want the baby to have a "second mother" that we will have to maintain a relationship with. I thought these were valid opinions and I believed I had made good progress in therapy, so I agreed to conceive the natural way on the condition that this would be our only child. Good thing she has a therapist to talk-- quote:I have talked to him about it. He says there is nothing to do now but push on through because it's too late to turn back.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 02:43 |
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Skutter posted:Me [30F] and husband [29M]. Pregnant with a planned baby but extremely afraid of pregnancy. It's rough and I am having second thoughts. Everything about this sucks but 100% should have been discussed and clearly agreed upon before marriage. If she terminates the marriage is over and depending on the state is going to get very ugly in court.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 02:48 |
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Honestly that sounds like an okay therapeutic opinion. Yes it sucks and it’s horrible and she wants to abort. But from what she says she’s not in any actual physical distress, just mental. And her therapist of all people should be the one to remind her that things are rough but are going okay, and that her life goals and dreams shouldn’t be stopping because of her mental distress. This is her therapist trying to encourage her to do what she wants to do, even as she’s freaking out about it.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 02:55 |
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quote:I have tokophobia, which is a pathological fear of pregnancy and childbirth. Is that really a 'phobia'? It sounds extremely rational to me.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:00 |
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Seriously, pregnancy is one of the most horrific things to happen to the human body.Not just what happens to your body, but the odds of you being murdered goes up, and trauma inflicted on you by medical staff during birth.
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Arivia posted:But from what she says she’s not in any actual physical distress, just mental. quote:I have been nauseous and vomiting every day quote:This is her therapist trying to encourage her to do what she wants to do, even as she’s freaking out about it. b) that is not encouragement
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:21 |
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13Pandora13 posted:Everything about this sucks but 100% should have been discussed and clearly agreed upon before marriage. Er, they SUPER DID have that conversation. Like the entire first part of the story was discussing and agreeing on this. And there's literally nothing about this marriage that will make it super ugly in court if they don't make it ugly. Why would agreeing that you want a kid beforehand and then not having that kid complicate anything? It's not like they have a baby-required prenup or anything. Arivia posted:Honestly that sounds like an okay therapeutic opinion. Yes it sucks and it’s horrible and she wants to abort. But from what she says she’s not in any actual physical distress, just mental. And her therapist of all people should be the one to remind her that things are rough but are going okay, and that her life goals and dreams shouldn’t be stopping because of her mental distress. This is her therapist trying to encourage her to do what she wants to do, even as she’s freaking out about it. She doesn't sound okay if she's losing weight and losing hair and terrified of literally every motion inside her. Every waking moment of her life is a thing she has a phobia of now, that sounds like Actual Hell. Saying it's too late now isn't doing any of the things you're saying, it's shrugging and saying "WELL, YOU'RE TRAPPED, DEAL WITH IT." Unless that therapist is really going for some kind of patient suicide record, that may be one of the worst things he could have said. There are even medications that pregnant women can safely take, specifically for anxiety! EDIT: Oh god, she points out later in the thread that she is having frequent suicidal thoughts. Yeah, fuckin do something, therapist, or you've just killed a pregnant woman. Midnight Voyager fucked around with this message at 03:26 on Feb 6, 2018 |
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quote:I am not extremely religious, but I do believe with all my heart that the soul of my baby would be reborn in the surrogate. This lady is crazy and needs to be in therapy and not think of raising any children in the near future. She also needs to stand up for herself or get divorced so she doesn't end up in the situation of agreeing to a pregnancy with her spouse and then going off and killing the baby in secret.
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Sierra Nevadan posted:This lady is crazy and needs to be in therapy and not think of raising any children in the near future. She also needs to stand up for herself or get divorced so she doesn't end up in the situation of agreeing to a pregnancy with her spouse and then going off and killing the baby in secret. man, if that's how she copes with the thought of having to terminate a baby she wants in a situation she doesn't want, she can go for it. That's pretty harmless as far as things go. It's not like she's a Christian Scientist or something. Also, it's clear her therapist is poo poo, because he's not dealing with any of this: quote:Everyone I know who has been pregnant tells me this, but it really doesn't feel normal. My phobia is the worst part, I feel like every moment is terror. For the past five weeks or so I have been having sporadic suicidal thoughts. I really don't think I can do this. quote:I will admit that I have felt a lot of anger towards my husband recently. I was very much willing to adopt or get a surrogate and, while I understand there are reasons for not wanting those things, I am angry that he basically painted me into a corner where the only choice he would accept would be for me to live in fear and sickness for 40 weeks. the therapist.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:31 |
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Anne Whateley posted:
She’s pregnant. Those seem to be pregnancy effects that run in her family from what you’ve quoted. She makes it very clear she wants a child, to have a family, etc. Also we’re hearing what the therapist said second hand so it might not be that blunt. Even if it is, “just do it and cope afterwards” is a pretty key anti-anxiety technique. This is the kind of stuff my therapist does with me for my own anxiety issues and so on. I get the feeling you’ve never actually done anti-anxiety therapy. This fits pretty well.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:35 |
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Skutter posted:Me [30F] and husband [29M]. Pregnant with a planned baby but extremely afraid of pregnancy. It's rough and I am having second thoughts. It sucks that there isn't a system where people who can't get pregnant or for whatever reason shouldn't/don't want to go through pregnancy could, like, get babies from other people to raise as their own child.
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Dienes posted:It sucks that there isn't a system where people who can't get pregnant or for whatever reason shouldn't/don't want to go through pregnancy could, like, get babies from other people to raise as their own child. She mentions the husband doesn't even want surrogacy because "IT NEEDS TO BE TRADITIONAL " so adoption is likely waaay the hell out
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:42 |
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Honestly, the therapist is like the third one down on the list in this story at the least. With Mr. "I demand you experience your own personal hell despite multiple other options because of my weird ideas about parenthood" husband sitting pretty at the top.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:43 |
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I doubt that the therapist's only words on the matter was that one liner.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:46 |
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That’s a depressing one. I could easily see how going through with the rest of the pregnancy could lead to a whole lot of anger and resentment down the road. On the other hand, if she does get an abortion her marriage probably isn’t going to last much longer. If she is genuinely feeling suicidal about this, it seems like a pretty terrible idea to expect her to continue and just telling her to deal with it. Like, that is not a healthy situation for her to be in.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:46 |
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At some point this thread started talking about murdering people a lot
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:49 |
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loquacius posted:At some point this thread started talking about murdering people a lot
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:51 |
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Skutter posted:Me [30F] and husband [29M]. Pregnant with a planned baby but extremely afraid of pregnancy. It's rough and I am having second thoughts. quote:I am not extremely religious, but I do believe with all my heart that the soul of my baby would be reborn in the surrogate. If you terminate you will need to get a divorce. loquacius posted:At some point this thread started talking about murdering people a lot It's because we got , but we had the already serviceable .
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:51 |
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Admiral Ray posted:If you terminate you will need to get a divorce. I thought we got because this thread kept talking about murder.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:52 |
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touche
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 03:52 |
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SirSamVimes posted:I thought we got because this thread kept talking about murder. We did. I actually coined the "murder" thing, but in my defense, it began with a story where someone was asking for advice and "murder" was absolutely, entirely the right move. It was the one where a brother "pranked" his sister out of a college scholarship so she ended up having to take on ~$60,000 debt and he was upset at her for not accepting his "amends" (he was in AA or drug rehab or something) even though he did literally nothing other than admit he'd done that and demand to therefore be forgiven, particularly because, as he noted, it was "just a prank". She was asking if she should forgive him, not realizing the correct alternative, that being Pick fucked around with this message at 03:56 on Feb 6, 2018 |
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loquacius posted:At some point this thread started talking about murdering people a lot *looks pointedly at your avatar* E:fb.
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SirSamVimes posted:I thought we got because this thread kept talking about murder. We did, but the emote makes it so much easier.
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loquacius posted:At some point this thread started talking about murdering people a lot It's not our fault that murder solves so many problems!
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Arivia posted:She’s pregnant. Those seem to be pregnancy effects that run in her family from what you’ve quoted. quote:Everyone I know who has been pregnant tells me this, but it really doesn't feel normal. My phobia is the worst part, I feel like every moment is terror. Arivia posted:She makes it very clear she wants a child, to have a family, etc. quote:I will admit that I have felt a lot of anger towards my husband recently. I was very much willing to adopt or get a surrogate and, while I understand there are reasons for not wanting those things, I am angry that he basically painted me into a corner where the only choice he would accept would be for me to live in fear and sickness for 40 weeks. Arivia posted:Also we’re hearing what the therapist said second hand so it might not be that blunt. Even if it is, “just do it and cope afterwards” is a pretty key anti-anxiety technique. This is the kind of stuff my therapist does with me for my own anxiety issues and so on. I get the feeling you’ve never actually done anti-anxiety therapy. This fits pretty well. quote:For the past five weeks or so I have been having sporadic suicidal thoughts. I really don't think I can do this. I'm sure the therapist said more than "get over it," but if that's all she got out of it despite actual suicidal ideation? That's a problem in communication at the very least. I gotta ask, is the thing you're anxious about completely inescapable for the amount of time a pregnancy takes, and is it a phobia-level anxiety? Because it seems like that kind of anti-anxiety therapy is telling you to rip off a bandaid and deal with the damage later, which is fair. But bandaids don't take a whole pregnancy to rip off. It seems like a more specialized problem than general anti-anxiety therapy can handle. Dienes posted:It sucks that there isn't a system where people who can't get pregnant or for whatever reason shouldn't/don't want to go through pregnancy could, like, get babies from other people to raise as their own child. Nah, it's not MY BABY if my sperm didn't go into my wife to make it. That makes the baby more important to me for some reason. Or something.
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Midnight Voyager posted:Nah, it's not MY BABY if my sperm didn't go into my wife to make it. That makes the baby more important to me for some reason. Or something. Are you seriously saying that the biological imperative to reproduce is a dumb and arbitrary thing for people to be influenced by because this is living-organism 101 stuff
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