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Skutter posted:My [21 F] good friend [23 F] is dating a [32 M] sex offender and I don't know how I can remain her friend I'd just set the dude on fire right after walking into the party and then have a long talk with your friend about how she should really never date sex offenders who are 9 years her senior.
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Kak posted:Way to get married in your early 20s
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Skutter posted:My [21 F] good friend [23 F] is dating a [32 M] sex offender and I don't know how I can remain her friend La Brea Carpet posted:I [32F] tell myself my BF's [41M] red flags aren't a big deal, but my friends say otherwise. quote:He's a wonderful man Hahahahahahahaha
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 23:59 |
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Baronjutter posted:lovely husband I am not a lawyer but everything in that story says to my lay understnding they wouldnt be qualified for it and your friend should lawyer up. Something a lot of people dont get is that alimony a) has been declining in the us and b) is not always for life; its often for a set period while someone finishes training/school or gets back on their feet but the younger/faster you divorce the better the odds.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 00:08 |
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Barudak posted:I am not a lawyer but everything in that story says to my lay understnding they wouldnt be qualified for it and your friend should lawyer up. Not in the US, and she probably could lawyer up and protect her self and finally get properly divorced, but the status quo right now is ok and she just doesn't have the time or money to go through what could be a very messy divorce if he chose to make it so. Also her boyfriend gets to be living with a married woman.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 00:12 |
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I (36F) am at my parents (~60) with my boyfriend (34M), they are slowly killing themselves and I’m ashamed of them.quote:I’m sorry this is going to be very long, I need to rant but I also would like pieces of advice, if possible.
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Esoteric Scientist posted:I (36F) am at my parents (~60) with my boyfriend (34M), they are slowly killing themselves and I’m ashamed of them. Accept it and move on.
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Esoteric Scientist posted:I (36F) am at my parents (~60) with my boyfriend (34M), they are slowly killing themselves and I’m ashamed of them. I got really annoyed by the bitching and it wasn't even directed at me, what a loving tiresome person "here is an itemized list of all the ways my elderly parents choose to enjoy their retirement that I don't approve of" Why the gently caress does she have an opinion on how often they run the dishwasher, in the same tone that the rest of the post is written about OMG SECONDHAND SMOKE, and is like really loving angry that her parents don't understand correct dishwasher operation? Fuuuuuck
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 00:28 |
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There's no way they survive retirement because that's not a thing. Death is the finish line.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 00:31 |
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If they don't exercise at all and are obese or near it, both smoke two packs a day and don't eat remotely healthily, then they're in for a world of horrible medical conditions and very likely death in the next 10-15 years. Which will probably make their retirement and final years miserable. Her heart is in the right place, but if people don't want to change, they won't. Old people especially.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 00:40 |
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Rubellavator posted:There's no way they survive retirement because that's not a thing. Death is the finish line. It’s a saying because a lot of people just fall the gently caress apart after retiring because they lose their routine, social circle, and purpose. A staggering number of people literally live to work.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 00:51 |
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boner confessor posted:oh for sure The prefect ending to any sovcit video is always going to be a bailiff yelling "TASER TASER TASER".
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 01:07 |
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Motronic posted:The prefect ending to any sovcit video is always going to be a bailiff yelling "TASER TASER TASER". Anyone have that video where the Sovcit Guy was filming, was a dick to a dude saying ‘you’re just a bailiff’ then tried to enter the courtroom and when he was rebuffed, read the one guy’s name tag and said something like ‘Well B. Daniels, I don’t have to listen to you’ then our main man B. Daniels shot him with a taser?
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 01:16 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:Anyone have that video where the Sovcit Guy was filming, was a dick to a dude saying ‘you’re just a bailiff’ then tried to enter the courtroom and when he was rebuffed, read the one guy’s name tag and said something like ‘Well B. Daniels, I don’t have to listen to you’ then our main man B. Daniels shot him with a taser? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RfVbiefMdNU "I don't have a last name. I don't have a first name, either. I've got a name. My name is Robert."
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LadyPictureShow posted:Anyone have that video where the Sovcit Guy was filming, was a dick to a dude saying ‘you’re just a bailiff’ then tried to enter the courtroom and when he was rebuffed, read the one guy’s name tag and said something like ‘Well B. Daniels, I don’t have to listen to you’ then our main man B. Daniels shot him with a taser? how dare you forget P. Barnes (the P is for Pete)
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 01:20 |
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YeahTubaMike posted:
jfc dude what's wrong with people
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 01:26 |
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Moridin920 posted:jfc dude what's wrong with people Their lovely parents.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 01:32 |
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Long live the name P. Barnes, and woe to those who forsake him.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 01:45 |
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Moridin920 posted:jfc dude what's wrong with people I think most people feel like they can eventually give away all the anger and pain that was given to them, and justify who they give it to by convincing themselves that person "deserves" it
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 01:48 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:[NC] Employer drug tested me, and also gave me a pregnancy test...? Miscarriages are often harder on the employee than the employer
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 01:58 |
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chitoryu12 posted:Borderline personality disorder is basically having a mental disorder that makes you a self-destructive rear end in a top hat permanently. Emotional instability, anger management problems, inappropriate sexual behavior, acting out for attention, freaking out at any possibility of “rejection”, etc. lol shut the gently caress up
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 01:59 |
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boner confessor posted:how dare you forget P. Barnes Shiiiiiiit. I am so so so disappointed in myself now. Thanks for posting it Admiral Ray!
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 02:04 |
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chitoryu12 posted:Me [24 /F] with my husband [35M], married 5 yrs. I feel like a slave. why the gently caress would you marry someone who wouldn't have sex with you why would you stay married to someone who wouldn't have sex with you after even just one year of marriage Moridin920 posted:jfc dude what's wrong with people i have no idea, the town i went to high school in was garbage
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 02:18 |
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My favorite sovcit video is the one where the dialogue goes like "Call the police!" "We are the police" "No"
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 02:41 |
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Dienes posted:Angela was raised 100% by (literate, well-educated) humans and didn't meet her father until she was a (literate) adult. This was Season 2, you have no excuse. I haven't re-watched the series since college, which was actually a way I bonded with some new friends (yay), but this thread is making me miss it. It's by far the greatest soap opera ever. I know I called it "its own fanfiction" but really it's just a soap opera. But such a good one. "A half-Native American, half African-American New York City supercop, with a snarky sense of humor but a heart of gold, falls in love with a gigantic, noble barbaric creature (STONE BY DAY, WARRIORS BY NIGHT) who loves reading poetry. Can they ever be together?! And can they ever survive the machinations of a world full of robot clones, laser guns, and time-traveling wizard Nice Guys? A shapeshifting gay elf and busty ex-wife have something to say about it. Tune in next time to see a bald man in a hovercraft decide not to culturally appropriate Polish Jews."
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The Snoo posted:lol shut the gently caress up Sorry you got diagnosed with BPD.
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Pick posted:I haven't re-watched the series since college, which was actually a way I bonded with some new friends (yay), but this thread is making me miss it. It's by far the greatest soap opera ever. I know I called it "its own fanfiction" but really it's just a soap opera. But such a good one.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 02:56 |
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big penis disease
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 02:56 |
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PetraCore posted:You're making me want to actually watch Gargoyles when I've got the time. Literally every single thing in that description is real.
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chitoryu12 posted:Me [24 /F] with my husband [35M], married 5 yrs. I feel like a slave. loving "allow him to die in a way some might consider suspicious", jesus, this isn't hard.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 03:16 |
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loquacius posted:So, in every single instance where a divorced man has to pay alimony, his ex was a homemaker? I don't know that much about alimony but my sis had to pay child support to her ex husband even though custody was 50/50 because he was a lazy pile of poo poo that refused to work. She worked for the fuckin library making like 35k a year and was paying child support even with joint custody. The judge did at least presume that he was capable of getting a minimum wage job and factored that into the child support calculations, but fuckin jesus, come on.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 03:22 |
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Here's a light one: My [24F] boyfriend [25M] of two years won't take off his sunglasses quote:He got himself aviator sunglasses back in January and now he literally wears them all the time. Every single time we go outside even when it's already dark and sometimes even inside. I swear he would sleep with them if he wasn't afraid of actually damaging them.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 03:22 |
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Admiral Ray posted:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RfVbiefMdNU poo poo never gets old. SovCit youtube owns are a national treasure.
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# ? Feb 8, 2018 03:24 |
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Haifisch posted:Here's a light one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X2LTL8KgKv8
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Haifisch posted:Here's a light one: Pretty sure this one is gonna solve itself by her getting dumped unless she's also had a significant weight loss. There's like a 0.1% chance that "started dressing nice, started getting his hair cut every month, started bathing regularly" isn't because as soon as he finds a sufficient "upgrade" he's gonna ditch her.
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Me [25f] with my boyfriend of 2 years [24m] and I are having a bad argument over sunglassesquote:So, My boyfriend and I are amazing. We love each other, we're compatible, he's recently been helping me through A LOT of poo poo, and I've always deemed him to make really good, thought out decisions... until now!!
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veiled boner fuel posted:Pretty sure this one is gonna solve itself by her getting dumped unless she's also had a significant weight loss. There's like a 0.1% chance that "started dressing nice, started getting his hair cut every month, started bathing regularly" isn't because as soon as he finds a sufficient "upgrade" he's gonna ditch her. That's a pretty dark first response to someone showing some self-improvement. Maybe the OP entering his life gave him a reason to live again. The reasons to start exercising and dressing better kinda speak for themselves.
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Streak posted:Because she'll probably kill herself and it'll be THEIR FAULT!!!! That's when you call the cops. I doubt there are many people with borderline personality disorder who would make a suicide attempt without notifying the entire world, if possible. Before I met her, my BPD roommate wrote very nice letters to people on facebook as she downed a bottle of sleeping pills. One of her Facebook friends is a cop. There's still a crack in the door frame from cops breaking down the door. She seriously wanted to die, so it wasn't crying wolf, but she still felt the need to use whatever time she had left to seek attention, which was a good thing, in my case, since it means she's still alive. Pretty sure a break up is what precipitated the attempt, even though the way she tells the story, the guy didn't break up until after she got out of the hospital. She has a habit of rewriting how events occur to make herself look less bad.
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Haifisch posted:Here's a light one: So she's dating the Corinthinian now?
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Haifisch posted:Me [25f] with my boyfriend of 2 years [24m] and I are having a bad argument over sunglasses It's kind of none of her business particularly considering it sounds like she's gonna become the defacto owner of it immediately but if it really is a 500 vs 200 dollar thing I don't really get why he wouldn't just take the higher value thing and sell it/return it to get some extra free money. That's also an oddly specific reward, "you can have some an ipad or raybans of your choice".
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