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Heavy neutrino posted:Is it weird that my [26F] BF [28M] took a female friend to lunch on Valentine's Day? Reminds me of that sign I’ve seen people posting on Facebook. “Roses are red Violets are blue If he’s busy on V Day The side chick is you”
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Beachcomber posted:There are good and pure pranks left in this world.
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Feb 15, 2018 14:36
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a hot gujju bhabhi posted:You guys are way too jaded. This is really sweet and I'm glad this father is setting a good example for his daughter for what she should expect from a man. Warm your drat hearts for a moment on the one nice story we've seen in here. she's going to be loving someone she can call daddy in bed
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Feb 15, 2018 14:50
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I hope my daughters do a little better than someone like me, frankly.
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Feb 15, 2018 15:04
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Inescapable Duck posted:Like, the whole idea of Nice Guy behaviour is literally emulating the exact behaviour of male characters in everything from movies to sitcoms to cartoons, hanging around a girl for up to years silently pining over them until eventually after some wacky action sequence she suddenly realises he's The One and they kiss and either the show ends or they proceed to hang around each other and do not much else interesting for the rest of it because stable relationships are boring. The Nice Guy stuff is hitting home right now because my 22-year-old stepson is going through some gut-wrenching 22-year-old things with this girl he likes at work, who's apparently just not ready for a relationship. She wants to be "bros" because she's 20 and just got out of a relationship she was in since 16, so understandably she wants time to herself and isn't looking for some thirsty-rear end college boys after her. He's having trouble reconciling the whole "but I really like her and she seems to like me" with "she backed off when I tried to kiss her and says she still wants to hang out/be affectionate but not date anyone". He's a good kid and he'll figure it out, and I've been trying to help where I can, but he's kinda depressed and still holding out hope that she'll change her mind. It's got to be hard at that age, with constant access to social media and inundation with "BUT IF YOU JUST WAIT IT OUT" TV shows and movies telling them that if they just keep it up the girl will realize you're It and you'll live happily ever after, as opposed to reality, which blatantly tells us that if you keep pushing a girl to "think about it" or "I'll be here" or whatever she's gonna ghost the gently caress out of you because you're that guy that won't take a hint.
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Feb 15, 2018 15:54
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maskenfreiheit posted:I’m not any of this and still single. The only common factor in all of your failed relationships is you. 
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Feb 15, 2018 17:17
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tactlessbastard posted:I hope my daughters do a little better than someone like me, frankly.  But I think that girl looking up to her cool dad is very heartwarming and sweet too. 
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Feb 15, 2018 17:20
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TheKennedys posted:The Nice Guy stuff is hitting home right now because my 22-year-old stepson is going through some gut-wrenching 22-year-old things with this girl he likes at work, who's apparently just not ready for a relationship. She wants to be "bros" because she's 20 and just got out of a relationship she was in since 16, so understandably she wants time to herself and isn't looking for some thirsty-rear end college boys after her. He's having trouble reconciling the whole "but I really like her and she seems to like me" with "she backed off when I tried to kiss her and says she still wants to hang out/be affectionate but not date anyone". He's a good kid and he'll figure it out, and I've been trying to help where I can, but he's kinda depressed and still holding out hope that she'll change her mind. The problem is that boys and young men are getting literally no good advice on that front.
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Feb 15, 2018 17:21
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Also, doing what she wants and being "bros" would also be bad advice
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Feb 15, 2018 17:23
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loquacius posted:Also, doing what she wants and being "bros" would also be bad advice There’s a chance she might want to charge some crystals!
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Feb 15, 2018 17:24
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Maybe he's holding out for a bro job.
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Feb 15, 2018 17:34
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TheKennedys posted:The Nice Guy stuff is hitting home right now because my 22-year-old stepson is going through some gut-wrenching 22-year-old things with this girl he likes at work, who's apparently just not ready for a relationship. She wants to be "bros" because she's 20 and just got out of a relationship she was in since 16, so understandably she wants time to herself and isn't looking for some thirsty-rear end college boys after her. He's having trouble reconciling the whole "but I really like her and she seems to like me" with "she backed off when I tried to kiss her and says she still wants to hang out/be affectionate but not date anyone". He's a good kid and he'll figure it out, and I've been trying to help where I can, but he's kinda depressed and still holding out hope that she'll change her mind. Yep that was me at 22.
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Feb 15, 2018 17:38
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loquacius posted:Also, doing what she wants and being "bros" would also be bad advice This is one goon consensus I don't really understand. Just be friends with people whose company you enjoy. You'll grow out of pining like a teenager eventually, which is a lot less lovely than ghosting people who consider you a friend but also don't want to bang you.
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Feb 15, 2018 17:43
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:This is one goon consensus I don't really understand. Just be friends with people whose company you enjoy. You'll grow out of pining like a teenager eventually, which is a lot less lovely than ghosting people who consider you a friend but also don't want to bang you. OTOH some people never grow out of pining like a teenager, which basically just makes an innocent person feel lovely and then it ends up being them that has to end the friendship. If you think you can't get over someone, or can't watch them have a partner that isn't you, then you absolutely should be the one to gently caress off.
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Feb 15, 2018 17:45
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Pvt.Scott posted:There’s a chance she might want to charge some crystals! I have seen references to this before but what is the etymology? What's it referencing exactly because it sounds hilarious
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Feb 15, 2018 17:47
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:This is one goon consensus I don't really understand. Just be friends with people whose company you enjoy. You'll grow out of pining like a teenager eventually, which is a lot less lovely than ghosting people who consider you a friend but also don't want to bang you. Not if the kid is so hung up on her that he isn't taking the hint and will still be wanting more. He needs to put distance between them and get over it before an honest friendship can be successful.
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Feb 15, 2018 17:48
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Again, the average male has been fed literally nothing but bad relationship advice and examples all their life nowadays, and the most readily accessible self-help sources are literal Pick Up Artists and assorted insane internet rabbit holes.
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Feb 15, 2018 17:49
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There's no reason PUAs are more accessible than other non-insane internet sources like Captain Awkward. They're certainly turning to PUAs more, but it's not like it's harder to type in non-psycho URLs.
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Feb 15, 2018 17:50
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Pvt.Scott posted:The only common factor in all of your failed relationships is you. [extremely incel voice] no, the common factor is feeemallesss
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Feb 15, 2018 17:54
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Al Borland Corp. posted:I have seen references to this before but what is the etymology? What's it referencing exactly because it sounds hilarious 
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Feb 15, 2018 17:55
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Al Borland Corp. posted:I have seen references to this before but what is the etymology? What's it referencing exactly because it sounds hilarious 
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Feb 15, 2018 17:55
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But he doesn't tell us how to get a crystal of our own! Like, are the dimensions important? Does it have to be a specific type of Crystal?
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Feb 15, 2018 18:03
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I want to know if there’s extended JO crystal lore. Are there different colors of crystal that have different properties? How does priapism play into this? Does the crystal have to be worn around the neck on a leather thong to be effective? Does the crystal lose power if too many people know about it’s true nature? E: ^^ goddammit
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Feb 15, 2018 18:03
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i hope jo crystal guy survived hurricane harvey 
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Feb 15, 2018 18:07
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Caganer posted:[extremely incel voice] 
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Feb 15, 2018 18:10
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If you are looking for guidance on your JO crystal then you are doing it wrong. Just like every JO session, each crystal is unique, and through years of arduous jizzing you'll learn that the power to jack off was inside you the entire time.
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Feb 15, 2018 18:10
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Caganer posted:i hope jo crystal guy survived hurricane harvey Look in your heart, you know he did
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Feb 15, 2018 18:10
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Feb 15, 2018 18:12
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tactlessbastard posted:Look in your heart, you know he did you mean look into your crystal
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Feb 15, 2018 18:12
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Is it illegal to not drive your kid to school in Wisconsin? (self.legaladvice) quote:So my mom and I got into a fight today, I am 15 if this information helps at all. For whatever reason she thinks that if I am on my phone any longer than 30 minutes I am being in healthy and she thinks she needs to take it.
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Feb 15, 2018 18:12
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Does this count as sexual assault or not? GF refused to let me out of chastity u/NJPWISSHIT2010 Me and (who I thought was my) girlfriend had this arrangement where she locked me in a chastity cage and would let me out of it at certain times. Yesterday I didn't want to wear it because I wasnt feeling well so after class I found her and said I needed the key to open to it. She said I was being a pussy and just to keep it on for a while longer and then she'd let me out. I said no, that I needed the key right now so she said she'd have to go home to get it. Oh, and we only have one key. So she goes home but messages me saying I should keep it on. At this point I am feeling extremely upset so I go to her house, and her room mates tell me she went out with friends. When I called her to ask WTF she is doing, she said she has the key with her, and she will let me out of it tomorrow. At this point I legit started crying and wanted it off straight away so I had to ask my room mate to drive me to the hospital to have it taken off, while having to tell him that I'm feeling unwell. I am still angry, hurt, embarrassed, confused. She has tried calling me and left me texts but I didn't respond to her. I don't know what to say to her or do. WTF? what should I do? Thanks everyone who took the time to comment and ask and offer advice. I think deep down what I want is some closure and for her to know that she did actually hurt me, not just physically but emotionally as well. What I am going to do is write a letter (electronically) and send it to her, then completely cut contact with her immediately after. Secondly, I think indulging in a partners kinks like this one will be off the table for the foreseeable future.
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Feb 15, 2018 18:27
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CheesyDog posted:Does this count as sexual assault or not? GF refused to let me out of chastity I think this is the equivalent of the guys who find out their cuck fetish isn't so much fun IRL but for a different weird fetish (they probably should have had a safeword or some other way to communicate that no this isn't a fun sexy time game KAREN my dick actually really hurts jesus h)
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Feb 15, 2018 18:31
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Caganer posted:Is it illegal to not drive your kid to school in Wisconsin? Put on a scarf, you whiner. CheesyDog posted:Does this count as sexual assault or not? GF refused to let me out of chastity What's the point of a chastity belt if you can just ask to have it taken off smh
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Feb 15, 2018 18:31
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This is why you always put points into lockpicking.
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Feb 15, 2018 18:32
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tactlessbastard posted:What's the point of a chastity belt if you can just ask to have it taken off smh yeah as I understand it the fetish is entirely based around not having control over your own bodily autonomy but it turns out it has a downside in that you don't have control over your own bodily autonomy
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Feb 15, 2018 18:33
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tactlessbastard posted:Put on a scarf, you whiner. What man does not have a set of pliers that can cut the lock off?
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Feb 15, 2018 18:34
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Like yeah, that’s a silly thing and maybe he was the one who initially wanted to do it but later regretted it, but gently caress that piece of poo poo for toying with him when was clearly in distress. If he went to the hospital clearly he wasn’t messing around.
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Feb 15, 2018 18:35
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The_end posted:What man does not have a set of pliers that can cut the lock off? The kind that lets another person lock his junk up
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Feb 15, 2018 18:38
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areyoucontagious posted:Like yeah, that’s a silly thing and maybe he was the one who initially wanted to do it but later regretted it, but gently caress that piece of poo poo for toying with him when was clearly in distress. If he went to the hospital clearly he wasn’t messing around. If you show up to the hospital and say "I need help safely removing this medieval torture device which my girlfriend put on me and refuses to take off" they'll probably ask if you want to call the cops for domestic abuse and I can't really argue with them on this one It's a bad fetish and people shouldn't do it, is what I'm saying Gonna just go ahead and kinkshame here
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loquacius posted:If you show up to the hospital and say "I need help safely removing this medieval torture device which my girlfriend put on me and refuses to take off" they'll probably ask if you want to call the cops for domestic abuse and I can't really argue with them on this one Your financially clever kinkster would take his chastity belt problem to a mechanic or locksmith
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