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cumshitter
Sep 27, 2005

by Fluffdaddy
Steve Jobs was pretty clever at marketing but not so bright in other ways. For example, the reason all doors at Apple HQ are revolving doors is because Steve would frequently embarrass himself or come in angry every morning because he kept ignoring the large, printed "PULL" and "PUSH" signs people taped to the doors for him.

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Kak
Sep 27, 2002
Did somebody say Steve Jobs?

Leon Einstein
Feb 6, 2012
I must win every thread in GBS. I don't care how much banal semantic quibbling and shitty posts it takes.

Doggles posted:

Every single person in this story needs a smack upside the head.

I (24m) fell in love with my roommate (28f) but was scared to date her. She then dates our other roommate (26m) and I don’t know how to handle it.
There's no such thing as both parties "wanting" to date, but being unable to do it. That just means that one of them actually doesn't want to date. This isn't difficult to figure out.

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

Three Olives posted:

Look at this old man, 19 years older than her and left his wife for her. Oh, he is a philosopher and she is an heiress worth, uh, hundreds of millions of dollars.

Shut up 3O stop defending pervos scheming on teens.

Three Olives
Apr 10, 2005

Don't forget Hitler's contributions to medicine.

COMRADES posted:

Shut up 3O stop defending pervos scheming on teens.

19 year olds are technically teens but they are also adults entrusted to make all sorts of much more important life decisions like racking up massive amounts of non-dischargeable debt, appearing in hardcore pornography, having a child, getting married and joining the military then engaging in a consensual sexual relationship with someone that is older than them.

19 year olds like to get hosed too and choosing an older man to do the loving does not universally mean they are being taken advantage of, the guy she is loving might actually have much more to lose in this situation.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
hey milo how's the book comin

Brother Entropy
Dec 27, 2009

the 'cheating on your wife with a teenager' defender has logged on

Sarcopenia
May 14, 2014

Three Olives posted:



Look at this couple, fashion editor taking advantage of hot younger man who also happens to be one of the most famous designers in the world worth hundreds of millions of dollars.



Another old guy taking advantage of a much younger person, oh wait, she is also worth hundreds of millions of dollars and runs a successful business empire.



Look at this old man, 19 years older than her and left his wife for her. Oh, he is a philosopher and she is an heiress worth, uh, hundreds of millions of dollars.

The last woman was almost 40 when she started dating that dude

ArbitraryC
Jan 28, 2009
Pick a number, any number
Pillbug

Leon Einstein posted:

There's no such thing as both parties "wanting" to date, but being unable to do it. That just means that one of them actually doesn't want to date. This isn't difficult to figure out.

yeah lol she didn't care about causing drama through loudly banging the roommate the second they called things off, that's not what's stopping her from going back to the OP either.

dudeness
Mar 5, 2010

:minnie: Cat Army :minnie:
Fallen Rib

Doggles posted:

Every single person in this story needs a smack upside the head.

I (24m) fell in love with my roommate (28f) but was scared to date her. She then dates our other roommate (26m) and I don’t know how to handle it.

Self owned himself so hard that it caused collateral self own for someone else.

Three Olives
Apr 10, 2005

Don't forget Hitler's contributions to medicine.

Sarcopenia posted:

The last woman was almost 40 when she started dating that dude

The first one was 25 when he started dating the guy. 30 years ago.

tin can made man
Apr 13, 2005

why don't you ask him
about his penis

Jeza posted:


[28F] My Dad looks like Santa [60M] and acts weird about it all year round


Take away the kids and this is almost a literal King of the Hill episode

John Wick of Dogs
Mar 4, 2017

A real hellraiser


There was an episode of Judge John Hodgman about it as well

Cough Drop The Beat
Jan 22, 2012

by Lowtax

Three Olives posted:

19 year olds are technically teens but they are also adults entrusted to make all sorts of much more important life decisions like racking up massive amounts of non-dischargeable debt, appearing in hardcore pornography, having a child, getting married and joining the military then engaging in a consensual sexual relationship with someone that is older than them.

19 year olds like to get hosed too and choosing an older man to do the loving does not universally mean they are being taken advantage of, the guy she is loving might actually have much more to lose in this situation.

Dude, it's a creepy church Sunday school situation where the guy was almost certainly grooming her since she was like 15. Besides, authority figures like teachers or bosses aren't allowed to take advantage of their students/workers sexually for this very reason, regardless of their age. Why are you defending this? Are you a pedophile?

John Wick of Dogs
Mar 4, 2017

A real hellraiser


T-t-t-Technically he's an ephebo- :suicide:

Pvt.Scott
Feb 16, 2007

What God wants, God gets, God help us all

Huntersoninski posted:

A 19 year old is still growing. Their brain won't be done cooking for a handful of years. The part that's not done yet helps them make choices and understand the consequences of their actions, making them pretty vulnerable still to people who would take advantage of them. 19 is a legal adult, but not really a full grown adult.

Humans learn by constantly loving up. We let people join the military, own property, take on debt, be subject to the full force of the justice system, have sex with other adults and more at 18. This thread already makes plenty of complaints about the delayed adulthood and responsibility shirking of manchildren and the like. How long do you want to protect people from consequences? Humans exist as messy garbage creatures, popped barely formed from the womb. They learn to walk by falling over thousands of times until they get it right. Sometimes while learning to walk a baby gets mildly or even seriously injured because falling over repeatedly is an inherently dangerous process. America chose 18 as a ballpark "good enough" fuzzy age where the majority of humans don't irreversibly or fatally ruin their lives. On average, an individual has received at least a modicum of preparation for surviving getting rolled by the world at 18. You will get rolled by the world at 18 in some way or another.

If a skeezy 30-something pulls somebody into a lovely relationship when they're 18 or 19, hopefully, the teenager gets out and learns not to do that again. For those that don't, there's always the collective wisdom of /r/relationships to appeal to. The brain is still cooking, so painful lessons will stick very well and are the exact things that allow them to hone a sense of consequence beyond the immediate.

girl pants
Sep 21, 2006
I feel a great disturbance in my pants
I think 3O is a robot designed to spend money and have terrible opinions and to what end I can only speculate

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

Three Olives posted:

19 year olds are technically teens but they are also adults entrusted to make all sorts of much more important life decisions like racking up massive amounts of non-dischargeable debt, appearing in hardcore pornography, having a child, getting married and joining the military then engaging in a consensual sexual relationship with someone that is older than them..

They're not allowed to drink alcohol.

Teens shouldn't do any of that other stuff too tbh but capitalism is predatory.

COMRADES fucked around with this message at 20:35 on Feb 20, 2018

girl pants
Sep 21, 2006
I feel a great disturbance in my pants
I'm pretty sure teenagers are allowed to rack up debt BECAUSE they're dumb and terrible. They're easy to exploit. This is why grown adults shouldn't gently caress teenagers.

Three Olives
Apr 10, 2005

Don't forget Hitler's contributions to medicine.

Cough Drop The Beat posted:

Dude, it's a creepy church Sunday school situation where the guy was almost certainly grooming her since she was like 15. Besides, authority figures like teachers or bosses aren't allowed to take advantage of their students/workers sexually for this very reason, regardless of their age. Why are you defending this? Are you a pedophile?

The creepy pedophile had been grooming her since she was like 15 to have sex with her and then waited an additional year after the highest age of consent, perhaps even 3 years to make his move? Strikes me as highly unlikely. How about 19 year old as an adult decided to strike it out on her own as adults do, found a church and hit it off with another consenting adult that they had mutually enjoyable sex with?

(USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

Three Olives posted:

The creepy pedophile had been grooming her since she was like 15 to have sex with her and then waited an additional year after the highest age of consent, perhaps even 3 years to make his move? Strikes me as highly unlikely. How about 19 year old as an adult decided to strike it out on her own as adults do, found a church and hit it off with another consenting adult that they had mutually enjoyable sex with?

quote:

So it started out as a church mentor relationship and we both got closer to the point where he unexpectedly kissed me when we were alone in his house (after a game of tennis)

quote:

I tried to pull away a few times, and set boundaries but failed


See that bolded bit? That would disqualify you from a romantic relationship regardless of age ANYWAY. Taking advantage of relationships like that is what scumfucks do, hth.

Pvt.Scott
Feb 16, 2007

What God wants, God gets, God help us all

girl pants posted:

I'm pretty sure teenagers are allowed to rack up debt BECAUSE they're dumb and terrible. They're easy to exploit. This is why grown adults shouldn't gently caress teenagers.

I don’t disagree on any of those points.

girl pants
Sep 21, 2006
I feel a great disturbance in my pants

Three Olives posted:

The creepy pedophile had been grooming her since she was like 15 to have sex with her and then waited an additional year after the highest age of consent, perhaps even 3 years to make his move? Strikes me as highly unlikely. How about 19 year old as an adult decided to strike it out on her own as adults do, found a church and hit it off with another consenting adult that they had mutually enjoyable sex with?

We actually had an age gap post (possibly multiple) in this very thread where the OP said something like "don't worry we waited until I was 18 to have sex".

Also she said in her post that the guy knew her since she was 15 iirc

dudeness
Mar 5, 2010

:minnie: Cat Army :minnie:
Fallen Rib
I remember that one and i think it wasn't that they knew eachother it was that they started dating at 15 then had sex at 18

Brother Entropy
Dec 27, 2009

condolences in advance to 3O's husband, destined to one day be replaced with an 18 year old twink

Three Olives
Apr 10, 2005

Don't forget Hitler's contributions to medicine.

COMRADES posted:

They're not allowed to drink alcohol.

Teens shouldn't do any of that other stuff too tbh but capitalism is predatory.

I think the drinking age should be 18 and the only reason it isn't is we decided to make it not only stupidly easy to obtain a license at 18 we decided that 16 was good enough too and it was easier to do the takebackies on the drinking than the driving.

girl pants
Sep 21, 2006
I feel a great disturbance in my pants
My friend [28/M] got upset with me [27/F] for breastfeeding my daughter [5days/F]

quote:

u/bittibette

My SO and I welcomed our first child, a little girl, 5 days ago. She's eating like a total champ, and it's super impressive, but just a tad exhausting. We've had a revolving door of people coming by, quite a few unannounced or off-schedule, and sometimes, I just don't have the time to throw on the cover before they see me, because I don't cover when it's just me and my SO. I try to be really respectful, though. One of the ladies is always in the shirt, and the other is covered by the baby's head. Unless they say otherwise, I try to get a cover on as soon as possible. If I gotta switch sides, I turn away, provide warning, and try to be as modest as I can be. It's natural, it's feeding my baby, but I know not everyone is cool with seeing my rack and I don't expect everyone to be. I just try to be considerate when I can be.

A friend of mine that I've known for the past 5 years called, asking if he could come over today at about noon. I gave him the go ahead, and a bit before he was supposed to come over, my SO hopped in the shower. Our daughter was demanding to be fed, and so I went ahead and started to feed her. Of course, my friend got to our place early, and I didn't have a cover nearby. I figured that this guy has seen me much worse, so I went ahead and answered the door. I opened it just a crack, and warned him I was feeding. He was disgusted, and told me I "might feel empowered, but it's just gross." I said I was sorry, she would be done in a minute. I asked if he wanted to wait in the hall while I found a cover, and he said he'd just go. I apologized one more time, and he said he was just disgusted I thought it was appropriate to "put nudity like that on display." I was a little weirded out, but it was his choice to leave, so he left. I called him later, and he said he was sorry to get upset, but it was really disgusting and he asked what I would think if he had been the mailman. I responded that the mailman has seen me at a much worse state, and he got extremely upset and started yelling- saying that I'm a mother now, and I don't get to go flashing every man that comes knocking on the door. I guess what I'm here to ask is- is this guy still worthy to hang out with? Was I really being as gross and rude as he says I was? Am I a total rear end for feeling like this was an unwarranted freak out?

TL;DR: My male friend got disgusted when I was breastfeeding my daughter.

oooooookay

Leon Einstein
Feb 6, 2012
I must win every thread in GBS. I don't care how much banal semantic quibbling and shitty posts it takes.

Three Olives posted:

The creepy pedophile had been grooming her since she was like 15 to have sex with her and then waited an additional year after the highest age of consent, perhaps even 3 years to make his move? Strikes me as highly unlikely. How about 19 year old as an adult decided to strike it out on her own as adults do, found a church and hit it off with another consenting adult that they had mutually enjoyable sex with?
She posted about it, so she's certainly not 100% hunky dory with the situation. Plus, the guy is married and I'm sure the dumb 19 year old is wracked with religious guilt about the whole thing.

I do agree though that dumb teenagers have the right to be dumb teenagers. The guy is skeezy, but lots of guys are, and many women aren't bothered by that.

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

girl pants posted:

My friend [28/M] got upset with me [27/F] for breastfeeding my daughter [5days/F]


oooooookay

Dude what a crazy person. I'm not a fan of seeing people breastfeeding in like a restaurant or whatever but dude.

dudeness
Mar 5, 2010

:minnie: Cat Army :minnie:
Fallen Rib
What did the mailman see?

hawowanlawow
Jul 27, 2009

girl pants posted:

My friend [28/M] got upset with me [27/F] for breastfeeding my daughter [5days/F]


oooooookay

I bet he posted about it somewhere

girl pants
Sep 21, 2006
I feel a great disturbance in my pants

dudeness posted:

What did the mailman see?

giant engorged milk-spewing titties would be my guess

tactlessbastard
Feb 4, 2001

Godspeed, post
Fun Shoe

quote:

 I guess what I'm here to ask is- is this guy still worthy to hang out with? Was I really being as gross and rude as he says I was? Am I a total rear end for feeling like this was an unwarranted freak out? 

No, gently caress him, no and NO!

Three Olives
Apr 10, 2005

Don't forget Hitler's contributions to medicine.

COMRADES posted:

Dude what a crazy person. I'm not a fan of seeing people breastfeeding in like a restaurant or whatever but dude.

God no, it's disgusting and inappropriate. There were so many options to handle it tactfully besides "Sorry, ignore the baby sucking on my gross engorged breast, would you like to come in?"

Three Olives fucked around with this message at 20:51 on Feb 20, 2018

Leon Einstein
Feb 6, 2012
I must win every thread in GBS. I don't care how much banal semantic quibbling and shitty posts it takes.

Three Olives posted:

God no, it's disgusting and inappropriate. There were so many options to handle it tackfully besides "Sorry, ignore the baby sucking on my gross engorged breast, would you like to come in?"

You're kidding, right? Are you really this fragile? Anybody that thinks breastfeeding is gross or scary or anything other than feeding a baby is broken in some fundamental ways.

Ham Sandwiches
Jul 7, 2000

I went to a relevant meetup in San Francisco and there was a really wealthy gay guy in his late 40s dating a really attractive gay guy in his early 20s

According to this thread that's abuse / exploitation but I don't agree, I think adults can do what they want in their life, and coming up with weird pseudo rules about like "Well you're 18 but you're not making good choices by doing stuff I wouldn't" is really dumb and controlling

Like at what point do people just get to be people and do what they want to do? We still coddle 18 and 19 year olds like they're vulnerable children, I think that sucks poo poo

Yes this is a cliche but at 18 you can enlist in the army and get shot in the desert but you can't choose to date someone in their 30s or you're doing something wrong. What a bizarre way of thinking :confused:

Anyway I get a bit tired of the endless moralizing of other people's relationships but I get that many people here believe in these super rigid / uptight rules about acceptable age ranges so my point of view is not the representative one.

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

Three Olives posted:

God no, it's disgusting and inappropriate.

Why?

I grew up seeing art of Madonna and Child so legit I don't understand what the problem is why are Americans so weird and prude about stuff like this? I mean I get you, you're a gay dude so already you hate titties but like....... she's in her own house with a 5 day old baby?

girl pants
Sep 21, 2006
I feel a great disturbance in my pants
I was gonna make a joke about 3O barging in to tell us about how gross breastfeeding was but WELP

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

Ham Sandwiches posted:

Yes this is a cliche but at 18 you can enlist in the army and get shot in the desert but you can't choose to date someone in their 30s or you're doing something wrong. What a bizarre way of thinking :confused:

Hi have you read the thread?

'cuz bizarre is reading the thread then concluding there is no issue when a 30 something year old is dating teenagers.

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tactlessbastard
Feb 4, 2001

Godspeed, post
Fun Shoe

dudeness posted:

What did the mailman see?

Home birth :gonk:

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