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Ham Sandwiches posted:I have, and I think moralizing by proxy and setting up rigid rules about what relationships are ok is something I don't agree with The likelihood that I'm going to stumble across a 30-something dude and a 19-year-old woman who are genuinely suited for each other is... rare, let's say. Rare enough to the point that I'm comfortable making a blanket judgment. I'd expect people of those respective ages to be in massively different stages of their lives, which is enough to make me question motives.
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Wooooo a boob! Hey guys!!!! A boob!!!! Yeaaaaa woooo!!! *sees infant* wait... *boob approaches mouth of baby, organism fed by boob and why boobs exist* NOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooo!!
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:08 |
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They have also have breastfeeding rooms just about everywhere I've ever worked (often euphemistically named "wellness rooms")
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:09 |
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girl pants posted:She's feeding a baby not taking a poo poo you ninny Well, the crazy idiot prude solution is that women should have to go feed their baby sitting on the toilet in a public restroom.
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:10 |
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Leon Einstein posted:Yes, I agree it is unethical for sure; I'm just saying that it isn't in the same ballpark as a youth pastor actually banging a 14 year old. The 19 year old is legally able to choose to have the relationship, no matter how unethical he is. It is also unethical to be banging a married guy. If you have to make up something no one is saying to have a valid argument, that's your clue that what you're contributing to this conversation isn't worthwhile. It really looks like you're just upset people are criticizing a man grooming a teenager, but you know you can't say that out loud so you're making up a fake thing so you can vent your upsetness without looking like a creep. Also do you have any idea how revealing it is that your comp for a youth pastor loving his student is a woman sleeping with a married man.
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:10 |
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who the gently caress cares if somebody breastfeeds, seriously
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Dienes posted:Baby is five days old. Babies need to eat! If you can't get over yourself enough to tolerate a baby being fed in your presence, then don't invite yourself over to a house with a baby less than one week old. I would expect to have attended many more baby funerals considering how many women that I know that have had babies and yet I have never seen breast feed.
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:12 |
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Maybe the 30 year old man is a reverse anime demon and actually 17.
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:12 |
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girl pants posted:They have also have breastfeeding rooms just about everywhere I've ever worked (often euphemistically named "wellness rooms") That's a very recent and very regional trend. Also nursing mothers don't spend 100% of their time at work. Sometimes they're inside their own homes, like this woman was.
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rear end cobra posted:who the gently caress cares if somebody breastfeeds, seriously A lot of american men, specially upper middle class childfree gay dudes apparently.
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sleepwalkers posted:The entire crux of that relationship was that he was her youth pastor and in a position of authority over her, which is gross as hell. I do think the youth pastor / teacher / coach thing is very objectionable so yeah no disagreement there, authority figures should probably err on the side of not loving the people they are educating / mentoring As to your second point, that's a good summation of the general sentiment I see about the topic. I don't quite understand why it's folks responsibility to question other people's relationships if there's an age gap, perhaps people can just do whatever works for them if it makes them happy and they're adults.
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Three Olives posted:I would expect to have attended many more baby funerals for considering how many women that I know that have had babies and yet I have never seen breast feed. Can't imagine why nursing women wouldn't be clamoring to spend time with a man who shrieks like a cartoon elephant seeing a mouse at the mere suggestion that breasts be used for their purpose.
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:13 |
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Youth pastors are creepy scum whether they're loving their charges or not* *they are
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:14 |
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My [27 F] boyfriend [31 M] for 5 years accidentally threw away my mother's ashes.quote:My mother died just before Christmas. She was hit by a car so obviously it was totally unexpected and we're all still in a daze, at least I am. My father even more so, it's like he shut off when he heard the news and hasn't figured out how to power back up again yet.
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:14 |
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Much like working out the specific scenarios where it’s ok to hit a woman, it’s pretty telling when folks are arguing the exact scenario when it’s ok to sexually groom children (???????)
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:14 |
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Three Olives posted:I've seen Roman art too but that doesn't mean I order pizza and then answer the door in a blanket when the pizza comes early and apologize about being in the middle of banging my partner but I'm about to come does he want to wait outside or come in while I finish up. it owns how america has fetishized breasts as solely sex objects so thoroughly that even a gay dude compares breast feeding to outright loving
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:14 |
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Three Olives posted:
So what are you saying that she should use pre pumped milk at all times just in case someone pops by?
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:15 |
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tactlessbastard posted:What possible good reason could a woman have to sit on her friend's husband's lap, and what on earth was he doing allowing her to do so. They were at bar trivia and needed to fit another person in the booth It was his idea, she said no, he apologized, and later she went and say on his lap of her own volition because she felt bad people at the table were dunking on him for asking John Wick of Dogs fucked around with this message at 21:19 on Feb 20, 2018 |
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Galaxy Brain posted:That's a very recent and very regional trend. Also nursing mothers don't spend 100% of their time at work. Sometimes they're inside their own homes, like this woman was. My point is that perhaps many people have never seen a woman breastfeed in public because women are hiding away, almost as though they have been made to feel that using their boobs for their main purpose is somehow shameful
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girl pants posted:My point is that perhaps many people have never seen a woman breastfeed in public because women are hiding away, almost as though they have been made to feel that using their boobs for their main purpose is somehow shameful
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:16 |
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Doggles posted:My [27 F] boyfriend [31 M] for 5 years accidentally threw away my mother's ashes. Sometimes honesty is NOT the best policy. Motherfucker couldn't just burn some poo poo and make some new ashes?
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:18 |
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How the gently caress do you ever wind up having to own up to losing some ashes. They're the most easily replaceable thing on the planet.
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:18 |
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Three Olives posted:
Hey Walking Stereotype, pumping has to be done every couple of hours, and if you're this much of a lil bitch about breastfeeding I doubt you're going to endure it any better with plumbing involved.
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I know this is a shocking and difficult-to-process concept. Perhaps you should take a moment in the "wellness" room.
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:18 |
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Mentor does not mean authority figure, she was not an employee of the church, she was not a minor entrusted to the church's care, she was a peer in the relationship and was free to leave the mentorship or peer relationship at any time. Adults mentor other adults in peer relationships all the time, it's how workplace romantic relationships start a lot of the time.
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:19 |
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girl pants posted:My point is that perhaps many people have never seen a woman breastfeed in public because women are hiding away, almost as though they have been made to feel that using their boobs for their main purpose is somehow shameful Yeah it's 2018 and the war on moms is 100% in full swing, sad to see
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girl pants posted:I know this is a shocking and difficult-to-process concept. Perhaps you should take a moment in the "wellness" room. If it’s one of the Victorian-style ladies resting rooms I am so there
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:20 |
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Argue about short hair on girls instead My boyfriend [21M] hates my [21F]haircut but everyone else loves it... quote:Including me.
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:20 |
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Ham Sandwiches posted:As to your second point, that's a good summation of the general sentiment I see about the topic. I don't quite understand why it's folks responsibility to question other people's relationships if there's an age gap, perhaps people can just do whatever works for them if it makes them happy and they're adults.
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Ham Sandwiches posted:Yeah it's 2018 and the war on moms is 100% in full swing, sad to see Getting reeeeeaalllll tired of the "Women have problems? I've never heard about that! It must not be true!" [Women discuss problems] "Those problems are made up!" cycle in this thread.
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Three Olives posted:
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Galaxy Brain posted:Hey Walking Stereotype, pumping has to be done every couple of hours, and if you're this much of a lil bitch about breastfeeding I doubt you're going to endure it any better with plumbing involved. Someone prepare the fainting couch and the smelling salts, I'm going to show 3O a picture of a pumping bra
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girl pants posted:My point is that perhaps many people have never seen a woman breastfeed in public because women are hiding away, almost as though they have been made to feel that using their boobs for their main purpose is somehow shameful At the same time maybe it's a private feeling activity and it makes sense a lot of women would desire some form of privacy while doing it? It should be socially okay for women to breastfeed in public if they want to, but I imagine outside of unpredictable infants most would probably still not prefer to be doing it in line at burger king.
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Pick posted:If it’s one of the Victorian-style ladies resting rooms I am so there fainting couches should never have gone out of style
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:23 |
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Yawgmoth posted:how are you such an incredible prude and such a filthy trollop at the same time It’s different when it’s his pumping
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:24 |
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Me (21F) and Him (53M) posted:I cant possibly be the only young woman who has been in a situation like this, if there's anyone who can relate at all I'd very much welcome your thoughts or shared experiences.. First time posting because I have no one to turn to about this... Thanks <3 This could be a very long story but here I tried making a bare bones version:
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:24 |
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Official r/r thread opinions: 1. Boobies are for tittyfucking only and any other use should be illegal 2. Any time a man does something wrong it's his woman's fault for not stopping him hard enough 3. Any time a woman expresses a preference her man feels she shouldn't have, it's because there's something wrong with her 4. Any problem a woman has that a man hasn't heard of is just something she's making up for attention 5. Women just need to communicate more, jeez!
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:24 |
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Yawgmoth posted:how are you such an incredible prude and such a filthy trollop at the same time The 3O paradox
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# ? Feb 20, 2018 21:24 |
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Three Olives posted:"Come in, the door is unlocked! Sorry, I'm taking a poo poo but feel free to make yourself comfortable until I get out of the bathroom!" "Okay, sounds fine! I'd have to be some kind of total rear end in a top hat to criticize the fact that you're taking a poo poo in the comfort of your own home!" *Waits in the living room for them to get out of the bathroom like a normal person*
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Just lol that 3O is almost certainly some anti-gay false flag agent so poor that he had to walk back his claims to riches when he found out normal people can own houses
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