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Caganer posted:Fiance [28m] is upset that I [22f] spent more money on our toddler [2m] than him. He hid the stuff as a retaliation. I don't know why he's acting like this?Relationships How the gently caress did that baby reach two years old with its dad having no idea how much baby stuff costs Edit: Or without dad throwing a tantrum sooner than this
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 16:49 |
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Bogus Adventure posted:That's fair. My addiction is diet cola. I hate coffee, like fizzy drinks, and I need the caffeine. It still lets me get my poo poo done without running down the street naked and tearing my skin off of my face. I mean I volley around weight-wise so essentially I just know the diet and the cycle never end. It’s always within the normal range (sometimes underweight but rarely these days). I admit the idea of not worrying about food at all is... incredible
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loquacius posted:Unrelated: who the gently caress gets their engagement ring "checked" to make sure it's as expensive as their fiance claimed it was Lol yeah that stuck out to me too. Who would do that
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 16:50 |
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Caganer posted:Fiance [28m] is upset that I [22f] spent more money on our toddler [2m] than him. He hid the stuff as a retaliation. I don't know why he's acting like this?Relationships Well this sounds like a healthy relationship built on trust.
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Bogus Adventure posted:And I'm standing by mine as you clearly didn't read what I first wrote: Oh my god. Shut up.
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loquacius posted:
The kind of person that would have a kid with and accept a proposal from the kind of guy who announces the cash value of a gift.
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 16:52 |
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The diamond and jeweler industries have put a lot of effort into trying to convince people that how much a man loves his fiancee is directly proportional to how much money he spends on a shiny rock that a child died to harvest when he proposes to her, and a lot of people have always been very ready to hear this for some reason
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 16:53 |
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She says "kids" but only talks about the 2 year old is that a typo or is there another kid? Also diet soda is indeed awesome. Dieting is hard, the only reason I started was because I got food poisoning and literally couldn't eat anything or drink more than a sip for a whole day without vomiting, and then for the next few days I ate less food than normal and continued like that until I lost about 50-60 pounds.
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dudeness posted:She says "kids" but only talks about the 2 year old is that a typo or is there another kid? She says in the comments that she's 8 months pregnant so she's probably hosed
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Buzkashi posted:She says in the comments that she's 8 months pregnant so she's probably hosed Well yeah, that's normally how you get pregnant.
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loquacius posted:Buying a $5,000 engagement ring is in fact a bad sign, and a bad decision, and not something to be proud of I'm really glad I only paid a few hundred for my ring, because when my fiancee (who was cheating on me) dumped me she tossed it somewhere and I've never found it.
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Pick posted:I wish I could find the link, but I read an article I thought was interesting on how heft is the “nurturer’s vice” because you can have an addiction that doesn’t impact your ability to care for others (until you’re at extreme levels). The overworked mom can eat 20 donuts and still get her kids to school safely. Can’t really do that on crack or booze. Lol, yes fat people are just too nurturing and loving that is their true fault.
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 16:57 |
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Dieting is hard but there are Places to Find Help such as letting you know which foods trick your body into thinking you’re getting nourishment. You can make a grilled cheese sandwich with about 100 calories in it. You can make a bowl of pasta with like 50. It sucks and makes you feel you’re in a parallel world where food is bad but it sort of works.
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 16:58 |
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I’m not saying it’s good I’m saying it’s a very functional addiction compared to most so very tempting
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 16:59 |
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chitoryu12 posted:I'm really glad I only paid a few hundred for my ring, because when my fiancee (who was cheating on me) dumped me she tossed it somewhere and I've never found it. Even if this doesn't happen, which it very well might, what if the person wearing your priceless declaration of True Love gets mugged or loses it while jogging or drops it in a sewer drain or etc etc etc. Would they want another one which costs as much or more? I personally just did some research, found out which Diamond Stats were most important and which ones you could compromise on to what extent, and got a min-maxed Canadian diamond that nobody died for and which cost me, well, still more than I was really comfortable spending on a shiny bauble, because my wife had made it clear she wanted an actual diamond It's a hosed-up industry guys Yorkshire Pudding posted:Lol, yes fat people are just too nurturing and loving that is their true fault. It was basically a weird way to say "getting fat doesn't necessarily/immediately gently caress up your life beyond repair, which is why people with responsibilities are more often fat than addicted to heroin"
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 17:02 |
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loquacius posted:The diamond and jeweler industries have put a lot of effort into trying to convince people that how much a man loves his fiancee is directly proportional to how much money he spends on a shiny rock that a child died to harvest when he proposes to her, and a lot of people have always been very ready to hear this for some reason It’s the modern dowry
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loquacius posted:Even if this doesn't happen, which it very well might, what if the person wearing your priceless declaration of True Love gets mugged or loses it while jogging or drops it in a sewer drain or etc etc etc. Would they want another one which costs as much or more? You're preaching to the choir, mate
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But Rocks Hurt Head posted:The depressing thing to me is that we have studies showing that a) once you've gained weight, it's very difficult to permanently lose it, and b) there is a growing childhood obesity epidemic. If people diet and exercise to reach a target weight, only to revert to the unhealthy habits that made them overweight in the first place, it's only natural that the weight will come back. But yeah, healthy eating and physical activity should be encouraged at a young age. I think schools should teach kids about nutrition too; I don't know what they do nowadays but when I was going through NY public school in the 90s all I knew about nutrition was from the odd food pyramid poster which basically said "avoid candy and fried food; eat lots of bread and pasta"
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 17:04 |
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She had to make sure it was a real diamond in case she needs to use it to slice open a glass case, presumably to steal a larger diamond.
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Caganer posted:It’s the modern dowry hell at least with a dowry someone you know gets a nice cow or donkey paying too much for an engagement ring just enriches slavelords in the third world you will never even meet these slavelords
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You shouldn't need to trick your body into getting nourishment. You could probably eat foods that make you feel full (i.e. lots and lots of fiber). Or do the old peasant trick: eat raw oatmeal and drink water.
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fibblins posted:If people diet and exercise to reach a target weight, only to revert to the unhealthy habits that made them overweight in the first place, it's only natural that the weight will come back. Routine is a powerful tool. They used to have the cool plate that Michelle Obama sponsored, but now that Trump is in charge I'm pretty sure it's just a picture of a McDonald's Happy Meal.
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I figured she had it appraised to insure its value.
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Ohhhh yeah, if you want to have a ring insured it has to be appraised
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 17:09 |
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Actually she had it appraised because he often lies to her. E: I think a pertinent fact would be when they got together, because pregnant at 19 and 25 is pretty sketch.
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Modus Pwnens posted:Actually she had it appraised because he often lies to her. Lol
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Modus Pwnens posted:Actually she had it appraised because he often lies to her. lol priorities "the person who just proposed marriage to me lies all the time, soooooooo obviously I got the engagement ring checked after I accepted the proposal, because I'm no fool"
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 17:11 |
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And he specifically mentioned the price because he wanted to tell her exactly what she had to one-up when she got him something in return. You know how gifts work.
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Modus Pwnens posted:Actually she had it appraised because he often lies to her. I think I remember at least one story about a woman having her ring appraised only to find out her fiance lied to her and it was nearly worthless. Does anybody else remember or did I just imagine that?
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"Old tricks" is what concerns me.
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 17:12 |
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/r/relationships: I think she may be my dad up to his old tricks
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 17:13 |
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the healthiest couple is one that mutually agrees beforehand to get an inexpensive moissanite, CZ, or costume engagement ring with no lying required
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Buzkashi posted:And he specifically mentioned the price because he wanted to tell her exactly what she had to one-up when she got him something in return. You know how gifts work. Hahaha whoooo lol
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loquacius posted:lol priorities Also, wisely, they keep separate bank accounts, except he earns almost all the money and she does the stay at home mom thing with an internet side gig (???) Guess who pays for all the baby stuff?
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 17:15 |
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If this is real that dad did a loving number on this kid but it's not real
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 17:15 |
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loquacius posted:If this is real that dad did a loving number on this kid but it's not real lmao yeah it's too nuts to be real but...drat
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# ? Apr 9, 2018 17:15 |
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I (19/m) kinda have a crush on this girl (n/a) but I think she might have been hired by Ramsay Bolton (25/m) as some form of bizarre psychological torture. Advice?
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:lmao yeah it's too nuts to be real but...drat It came from twitter so I’m not sure it even is a real Reddit post TBH
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up to his old tricks
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