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fruit on the bottom posted:Oh great, I’m going up against “my girlfriend’s favorite dildo is the ghost of a former lover’s penis” Better luck next time! therobit posted:If a guy saud he didn't like that his wife has an attractive and flirty coworker and he wanted her to fire him, everyone would be saying to divorce his crazy possessive rear end. I don't see how this is any different. She reacted (increasingly poorly, I admit) out of insecurity, but it isn't like that insecurity was completely unfounded and wasn't then flagrantly dismissed.
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loquacius posted:Most of her reaction kinda makes sense, like, he seemed to be completely okay with his weird hot coworker being all flirty and stuff, which would make me mad if not crying-in-the-shower mad, but yeah I really don't get why she's still mad after he fired the new girl to appease her On the other hand his reaction to her crying in the shower was "gently caress dealing with this I'm going out drinking" followed by social media pics of him with weird hot coworker, so I've got no problem with seeing this as the last straw for her after a long history of him bogging off to the pub every time she's not perfect happy wifie. But who knows.
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Buzkashi posted:People who don't tip are scum but I think responding to "do you want dessert" with "do you want a tip?" might be merited here this implies "yes" though, you'd have to say "do you want no tip" to imply "no" like, this would come off as a personalized "is the Pope Catholic?"
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Sometimes the short ones are the best ones Would having Borderline Personality Disorder put off men? (self.dating_advice) quote:Would hearing someone you were dating had bpd put you off seeing them?
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Runcible Cat posted:On the other hand his reaction to her crying in the shower was "gently caress dealing with this I'm going out drinking" followed by social media pics of him with weird hot coworker, so I've got no problem with seeing this as the last straw for her after a long history of him bogging off to the pub every time she's not perfect happy wifie. But who knows. Yeah that was pretty insane to me. It definitely indicates that it's less about this being her first time and him having a pattern of lovely behaviour that he doesn't notice. Who the heck leaves their wife crying in the shower to head on the beer with the lads and then reckons taking a selfie (albeit group) with the girl your wiffe is upset about is a tip top high shelf plan
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Yawgmoth posted:Her point of view is "I don't trust my husband around anyone attractive" so I don't really sympathize with her at all. You either trust or you don't and if you can't trust you can't be in a (healthy) relationship. Except he explicitly said that in 8 years of marriage she never showed any signs of jealousy, including towards any of his multiple attractive female friends. This is not a case of some hookup who is grilling him about every hot girl he has on Facebook. After nearly a decade of being chill with his female friends and coworkers, she was uncomfortable with one specific person for - as it turned out! - entirely fair reasons, and him acting like she was crazy and trying to find some truth-is-in-the-middle reason to not rock the boat lead to her - entirely logically! - feeling insecure in what was previously a stable relationship. If someone who has never been jealous before is suddenly jealous about one specific person and your immediate reaction is "welp I guess my partner of a decade is just dumb and crazy?" it is actually you who is the awful garbage person.
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Avenging_Mikon posted:No, the important detail is lovely men kept trying to get to the hot friend through her, then one night a guy seemed to be actually interested in her, but revealing later he was wingmanning for his buddy, who wanted the hot friend. That’s rough, but it’s not life. Men are idiots, your main tank should never engage with ads when they need to build aggro with the raid boss. Palpek posted:Yeah, if I were a waiter I'd immediately bring her the biggest piece of pie with even more cream on top of it than usual anticipating a big fat overweight tip. Id hope shed intuitively tip me, but as a server you learn to appreciate a tip at any size.
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EmmyOk posted:Yeah that was pretty insane to me. It definitely indicates that it's less about this being her first time and him having a pattern of lovely behaviour that he doesn't notice. Who the heck leaves their wife crying in the shower to head on the beer with the lads and then reckons taking a selfie (albeit group) with the girl your wiffe is upset about is a tip top high shelf plan Im.pretty sure this one got posted in the last thread (without the she got fired update) and we had essentially the same argument. I'd be curious to go back and see who was dropping the hottest takes on each side but I'm on my phone 
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Barudak posted:but as a server you learn to appreciate a tip at any size. I'm sure fat people do as well. 
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Serephina posted:An important detail there is that they went clubbing together, and Miss Ugly kept getting upstaged unintentionally. Which is rough, but that's life. It seems like the reason she's still mad is that despite eventually firing her he still seems to be treating the situation with a "I mean, I did what she asked eventually, what's the big deal?" kind of attitude and she's frustrated that he still doesn't seem to see what the problem was. He says he does but in a "I mean, my boss also seemed to recognize that this was all inappropriate so I guess my wife had a point" where he begrudgingly admits that everyone else was right but still doesn't see why it was a big deal and treats it dismissively. Regardless of how serious it actually was or how much the wife was being crazy/overreacting, that seems to be the main reason she's still pissed. Alternatively, she might just be having a hard time coming to grips with the fact that she married a gigantic moron and is only just now realizing it.
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HazCat posted:Except he explicitly said that in 8 years of marriage she never showed any signs of jealousy, including towards any of his multiple attractive female friends. The problem with that is, while the dude is dumb as hell, what exactly was he supposed to do? His points were valid; he works with the girl, not seeing her without getting rid of her was not an option. So he ended up firing her, and her main complaint was that he wasn't mean enough during it. What the gently caress could she possibly want? The guy told the coworker to stop, she didn't, she got fired. His wife is right to be displeased about the situation, but her expectations are nonsensical here.
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Again I don't really get how it makes sense for him to leave and be supervised by his parents at this phase in the game, but her demands in the long-term are counseling for both of them, individual and together, all three of which I think are warranted
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My (23f) parents (50s) are tearing down my tree house to install a hot tub and gazebo. I know this sounds so childish but I'm devastated. It was my sanctuary from their constant fighting. How do I deal or convince them not to?quote:First of all thanks for reading, secondly let me apologize for the nature of this post. I know people have real problems out there and mine isn't one of them but this is deeply affecting me.
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fruit on the bottom posted:My (23f) parents (50s) are tearing down my tree house to install a hot tub and gazebo. I know this sounds so childish but I'm devastated. It was my sanctuary from their constant fighting. How do I deal or convince them not to? So is this a Wes Anderson movie or what
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fruit on the bottom posted:My (23f) parents (50s) are tearing down my tree house to install a hot tub and gazebo. I know this sounds so childish but I'm devastated. It was my sanctuary from their constant fighting. How do I deal or convince them not to? Adulthood, it's a bitch sunrise, sunset, sunrise, sunset and the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon, little boy blue and the man in the moon yes, we have no bananas, we have no bananas today
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Holy poo poo those parents are assssshhhhoooolllleeeessss and they know exactly what they are doing.
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fruit on the bottom posted:My (23f) parents (50s) are tearing down my tree house to install a hot tub and gazebo. I know this sounds so childish but I'm devastated. It was my sanctuary from their constant fighting. How do I deal or convince them not to? buy a vape so you don't have to sneak out to your childhood treehouse at thanksgiving, problem solved
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The parents are pieces of poo poo but let them smash it. That treehouse existed because she suffered, so if she wants her kids to have a better life shell build a new one with them that exists because she cares. Plus, like, if she flies in to save pieces her parents will absolutely do something insane like light it on fire in front of her.
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30 Goddamned Dicks posted:Holy poo poo those parents are assssshhhhoooolllleeeessss and they know exactly what they are doing. There are two sides to this one, (a) you can't really expect your parents to keep your old treehouse around forever after you leave home, hell my childhood house and my wife's childhood houses are all sold to strangers by now, but (b) OP's mom is absolutely being way more of a douche about it than necessary
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Blade Runner posted:The problem with that is, while the dude is dumb as hell, what exactly was he supposed to do? His points were valid; he works with the girl, not seeing her without getting rid of her was not an option. So he ended up firing her, and her main complaint was that he wasn't mean enough during it. What the gently caress could she possibly want? An easier way of solving this would be to split up not to have to deal with internal conflict sure but they both want to work on it so that's where they are and it will be emotionally difficult like this for quite some time. With some distance from it and some therapy they'll most likely also see their past reactions as irrational.
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Blade Runner posted:The problem with that is, while the dude is dumb as hell, what exactly was he supposed to do? His points were valid; he works with the girl, not seeing her without getting rid of her was not an option. So he ended up firing her, and her main complaint was that he wasn't mean enough during it. What the gently caress could she possibly want? Mostly to act like he gives a poo poo. Like yeah he fired the girl, and that's good, but when you come home and your wife is crying in the shower, you don't just peace out and have some brews with the bros.
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Can I sue my landlord for coming into my apartment and asking if I would allow him to suck on my toes?quote:This is honestly a super bizarre story from the beginning, but it all started with a strange encounter that happened with my landlord this past Monday night. 
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Barudak posted:The parents are pieces of poo poo but let them smash it. That treehouse existed because she suffered, so if she wants her kids to have a better life shell build a new one with them that exists because she cares. I really like this idea. The old one was a refuge, let the new one be a... something positive that isn't just a synonym with refuge.
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Kuros posted:Can I sue my landlord for coming into my apartment and asking if I would allow him to suck on my toes? fuckin' yikes I don't think he's technically done anything illegal so my initial reaction of "call the fuckin' cops" probably wouldn't pan out, but jeez she needs to crash at a friend's place until she finds a new apartment
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My wife's old landlord stole her panties from the laundry. He also would leave her piles of unmarked pills outside her door. He also had a pet squirrel living with him.
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Kuros posted:Can I sue my landlord for coming into my apartment and asking if I would allow him to suck on my toes? Haha, holy poo poo, if her building is owned by a property management company she needs to reach out their corporate office about this. If the landlord is the owner then there's probably not much she can do outside of move and leave reviews about it on yelp and poo poo but it still might be worth checking with a lawyer, most do free initial consultations and she might find one willing to give it a go on contingency. Scruff McGruff fucked around with this message at 19:55 on Apr 13, 2018 |
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A.I. Borgland Corp posted:How do you know the squirrel want the one leaving the pills gbs hates women (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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I wonder if asking someone you're not already loving if you could please just have 5 minutes of their time to suck on their toes has ever actually worked for anyone in the history of the universe
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Caganer posted:whatever. i've been being postive and making good contributions today, so people bitch about the number of posts because they can't attack the content. at the end of the day, i am my avatar, running from an angry mob that hates me regardless of what i do, it's who i am that angers them I notice and I appreciate your willingness to wade through the layout mess of reddit to find us gems to laugh at. Edit: sorry. The app saved a post that i decided nobody would care about to the clipboard. It is an awesome feature for commenting on multiple posts, but I back out of posts a lot. Bored fucked around with this message at 20:00 on Apr 13, 2018 |
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Bored posted:OK that's me being lovely, not her. But she does expect her dudes to pay lots of money for the privilege of dealing with her constant mood swings and inability to take her psych meds on a regular basis. As I understand it findom is literally just being paid to be a jerk, so yeah it'd be a perfect fit
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Barudak posted:Plus, like, if she flies in to save pieces her parents will absolutely do something insane like light it on fire in front of her. I really want to believe there aren’t parents that evil out there, but I know there are because there are personal anecdotes from these very forums that are even worse.
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burial posted:I really want to believe there aren’t parents that evil out there, but I know there are because there are personal anecdotes from these very forums that are even worse. They found god and its the kind of “found god” where theyre comfortable demanding she forgive them while they show no changed behavoir so shell be lucky if they dont photograph destroying each board of it and mailing her the photos and sawdust, one plank at a time
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Bored posted:I notice and I appreciate your willingness to wade through the layout mess of reddit to find us gems to laugh at.  Is it wrong to kiss my brother on the lis?[new] (self.relationships) quote:Okay, my brother and I are both in high school (16,17) still and we are extremely close, I can trust him with anything he can trust me with anything. Every night before bed we kiss good night and we kiss goodmorning and we kiss when one of us leaves somewhere except we kiss on the lips. A lot of friends tell me that it’s nasty and inappropriate but I think it’s pretty harmless. We like to hang out together, ususllly we have the same group of friends and were like best friends.
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To be fair, the r/relationships post that each of their respective next significant others will make when they find out about this will be solid gold
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My[28F] boyfriend[30M] told me that he had a confused relationship with his mother [40sF]quote:I didn't want to put the main thing in the title because I'm afraid I will get joke responses so first I will say: I desperately need legitimate advice. This is not a joke, I just don't now where else to turn because I can't tell anyone; best way to do it is anonymously I think. 
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