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loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

chitoryu12 posted:

I know someone who got into it because she just really, really liked sex and decided that she may as well get paid for it.

Outside of professional porn, it's also not uncommon for girls to use stuff like camming or selling content to help pay their way through school or otherwise supplement their income. It can provide a fast way of making money for someone who's already into sex and/or voyeurism.

get a job doing what you love and you'll never work a day in your life

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Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
Pensions aren’t free they’re made of money which can go to non assholes

Ugly In The Morning
Jul 1, 2010
Pillbug
Yeah, it’s loving baffling to me that someone who knows they have a complaint file a mile long and is retiring soon can’t bring themselves to not be a human garbage pile for long enough to not risk their pension.

Barudak
May 7, 2007

Ugly In The Morning posted:

Yeah, it’s loving baffling to me that someone who knows they have a complaint file a mile long and is retiring soon can’t bring themselves to not be a human garbage pile for long enough to not risk their pension.

Its worked so far

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost

Ugly In The Morning posted:

Yeah, it’s loving baffling to me that someone who knows they have a complaint file a mile long and is retiring soon can’t bring themselves to not be a human garbage pile for long enough to not risk their pension.

Some people are total poo poo, this is not news

Ugly In The Morning
Jul 1, 2010
Pillbug

Pick posted:

Some people are total poo poo, this is not news

I mean, yeah, but you would think that self-interest would take over at some point.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
Most people do not think ahead, in anyway. They don’t think about the future. They are poo poo, complete poop

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Oct 15, 2012

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Biscuit Hider

Ugly In The Morning posted:

I mean, yeah, but you would think that self-interest would take over at some point.

I believe those were the frog’s last words as he drowned

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
Their brains are poop, their manners are poop. Everything they do is basically just poop, poop of the moment

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Oct 15, 2012

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Biscuit Hider
Excuse me, waiter? I’ll have the poop du jour.

Gumbel2Gumbel
Apr 28, 2010

Ugly In The Morning posted:

Yeah, it’s loving baffling to me that someone who knows they have a complaint file a mile long and is retiring soon can’t bring themselves to not be a human garbage pile for long enough to not risk their pension.

If this person needs to ship stuff every day for work why isn't she scheduling pickups at her home or place of business

My shipping person does not leave the office, ever.

Outrail
Jan 4, 2009

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fruit on the bottom posted:

I believe those were the frog’s last words as he drowned

This story should be hammered into kids in school. Be careful, coz a lot of people out there are scorpions, and will gently caress you up. For no goddamn reason and there's nothing you can do but avoid them. Also, far, far more importantly, make sure you're not a scorpion. Think about your actions and how they effect not only you, and not only the people around you, but also how that will effect you in the long term because that is the most important thing. You idiots.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
Yeah, you might become president. And he might’ve thought that would be cool, but

Blade Runner
Aug 14, 2015

I heard that story when I was like five and I remember my dumb child brain's immediate thought was "What a stupid frog. I'll make sure I'm always the scorpion" and that is how I've lived my life since

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
They both die

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Oct 15, 2012

To these sing-alongs 🎤of siren 🧜🏻‍♀️songs
To oohs😮 to ahhs😱 to 👏big👏applause👏
With all of my 😡anger I scream🤬 and shout📢
🇺🇸America🦅, I love you 🥰but you're freaking 💦me 😳out
Biscuit Hider

Blade Runner posted:

I heard that story when I was like five and I remember my dumb child brain's immediate thought was "What a stupid frog. I'll make sure I'm always the scorpion" and that is how I've lived my life since

Pick posted:

They both die

Lmao

Blade Runner
Aug 14, 2015

Pick posted:

They both die

I realized that then, too, but I'm very stupid

cock hero flux
Apr 17, 2011



Pick posted:

They both die

yeah but the frog died getting owned

Scathach
Apr 4, 2011

You know that thing where you sleep on your arm funny and when you wake up it's all numb? Yeah that's my whole world right now.


At least the scorpion just died out of spite.

Blade Runner
Aug 14, 2015

Might as well go down owning someone as hard as possible

La Brea Carpet
Nov 22, 2007

I have no mouth and I must post
I [26F] not sure if [29M] is going to change drug use habits? I know people can, but he's said things like "once I have kids I won't do coke" and I don't know if that's how it works. Has anyone else had experience with similar?

quote:

I wrote this whole crazy long thing about us but I realized it can be pared down to the facts, basically I'm not sure if I'm overthinking things.

He uses maybe once a month, maybe .5-1 gram, which is below average in his social circle (the city, the workplace, the people in general). I don't like it myself but I don't judge others for using it. However, I think it's been problematic lately. He used some that was laced with something else the night before a workday and felt like poo poo the entire next day, and I think that if it impacts his work that should be a pretty decent sign to maybe back off, no? Or at least be smarter about when he uses?

So I let him know I was worried and brought up the future which I probably shouldn't have done - I mean, I don't want kids yet either, I'm super immature myself, but... one day I will and he says he does too, and even if we break up for unrelated reasons before then, it'll still be an issue for him, surely. So I said something like "well are you going to keep on with this pattern forever? It's never going to stop being fun and triggering your brain's reward patterns -" (I'm logical to a fault even when I'm being emotional, may or may not be mildly autistic, that's not a rag on autistic people I genuinely have no idea because my mother hated doctors, who knows) "- so when are you going to have reason to stop, because I don't want to make you do anything but you realize this isn't tenable for your whole life and from an outside perspective it looks like the negatives (the night and day after) are really not worth it (the few hours having a blast), so..." pretty much just feeling out what he thinks about it. And he said "well, obviously I'd stop when I have kids" and that just seems like... okay, but is it really so great that you just want to keep doing it until you can't, until someone else's existence forces you to stop? Am I just jealous because I don't have that much fun with it? Lol I know it's not that, but seriously, what.

I don't want to issue an ultimatum. He knows I'm not comfortable with it, and he knows I want him to be honest about it, so he is, which I'm glad for. But I think he also sees me as worrying overly, because I don't come from a culture where this is standard, whereas he's seen far worse and a little coke once in a while really doesn't seem like a big deal to him, he isn't addicted. Is this just incompatibility? Would he really stop once he has kids? Do people generally? Or (this is what I'm worried about) would the stress of raising children actually worsen drug use considering his attitude towards it to begin with is lax? I mean hell, I was reading whitepapers on the use of marijuana on the developing brain trying to decide when I'd be okay with my kid smoking (18+, in case you're wondering, and even then I'd prefer if they waited to 21+ but I don't have control over it, I would just ensure they're aware that their white matter is their business and they can treat it well or lose it) and he's just... not that stressed about it.

tl;dr unsure if I'm overthinking it or underthinking it, or if I should just keep feeling it out, unsure if I know him well enough to call it, unsure how to discuss it without sounding judgmental and blame-y

Babe babe babe *sniff* I can totally quit coke *sniff* the minute you're pregnant *sniff*

Smirking_Serpent
Aug 27, 2009

Is my [20F] boyfriend of two years [20M] racist?

We are both white; I don't really want to bring politics to reddit but I feel it's important to note that we are both liberal (or so I thought). He agrees with my views on a lot of topics and has always speaks of his support for everybody's rights... but he is fixated on black guys. He thinks I find them ALL attractive, like I have a fetish. Let me make it clear that I do not fetishise black men or any other race of man!! One black male celebrity in particular was my number 1 celebrity crush for a long time, and I went on a few dates with a black guy when I was FOURTEEN, but I have never, ever fetishised the entire race. He is obsessed with the idea that I have.

It gets insane, he made me turn off the TV when a black boxer came on. My Mom once showed us a picture of this black musician from the 70s that we all like, and when she left he said "she obviously showed you that because you both find him attractive" (we don't). He looked up "black guys" in the facebook search once to see if any white girls had put up posts with those words in it. He told me once that "no black guy would want to be with you". He was FIXATED on the idea that I had a crush on Travis Scott, who I had literally never mentioned around him ever, nor had I ever really in my life thought about (he doesn't listen to rap and when I do it's usually not that sort of rap). He claims that I only like 2Pac because I think he's hot. He says I used to watch black porn and I did that because they have big penises. He thinks that I support black people's rights because I fancy them.

He has no ex's with black fetishes, no strange experiences with black men, so it seems that this is completely from within himself. He is also not lacking in the downstairs department so it's not a complex over that either. I have asked him why he is like this and he says it's because he 'knows' that I like black men better. The guys I have found attractive in the past have been all different races, I have never even had a subtle preference, and even if I did 'prefer' black men it wouldn't matter because I love him!

One time, btw, he told me that he used to like black girls because of their big bums, but when I brought that up to him he said it was only in response to me saying that I had a crush on my black celebrity crush. I'm thinking of leaving him over this. I completely lost it at him the other week when he went on another rant about black guys (in public) and told him that it seriously hurt my feelings, not only because he is accusing me of fetishising a race but also because he is being racist. I sort of shouted at him because I couldn't take it anymore. He said he would stop, but it seems a bit more like he's being cautious.

tl;dr, white boyfriend of two years has a weird complex over black guys, i don't know how much more I can take. I shrugged it off for a while but now i'm realising that he might actually just be a racist person

Barudak
May 7, 2007

Ill take Berth El Pup for 200, Alex

La Brea Carpet
Nov 22, 2007

I have no mouth and I must post

Barudak posted:

Ill take Berth El Pup for 200, Alex

quote:

Or his fetish is the idea of her loving a black guy and cuckolding him or something, and he's uncomfortable with that.

quote:

OP:
lol, definitely considered this and have even said this to him in response to one his tirades. we spoke about it and he said that it's not that; he just 'knows' how black guys treat white girls and he thinks it's sad that i apparently fall for it

PetraCore
Jul 20, 2017

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He's just a huge racist.

Barudak
May 7, 2007

PetraCore posted:

He's just a huge racist.

Sorry but your answer was not in the form of a question.

tactlessbastard
Feb 4, 2001

Godspeed, post
Fun Shoe

La Brea Carpet posted:

I [26F] not sure if [29M] is going to change drug use habits? I know people can, but he's said things like "once I have kids I won't do coke" and I don't know if that's how it works. Has anyone else had experience with similar?


Babe babe babe *sniff* I can totally quit coke *sniff* the minute you're pregnant *sniff*

Full speed ahead, girl! It's not like you're ever going to find someone else!

tactlessbastard fucked around with this message at 02:19 on Apr 14, 2018

Barudak
May 7, 2007

tactlessbastard posted:

Full speed ahead, girl! It's not like you're every going to find someone else!

Given that she says its a workplace thing the money probably makes her want to think this ok

tactlessbastard
Feb 4, 2001

Godspeed, post
Fun Shoe

Barudak posted:

Given that she says its a workplace thing the money probably makes her want to think this ok

I forgot to add, what's the worst that could happen??

La Brea Carpet
Nov 22, 2007

I have no mouth and I must post

Barudak posted:

Sorry but your answer was not in the form of a question.

What is "I'm in the klan, not concerned about the girth of my glans?"

Scruff McGruff
Feb 13, 2007

Jesus, kid, you're almost a detective. All you need now is a gun, a gut, and three ex-wives.

Pick posted:

Some people are total poo poo, this is not news

I mean, in her defense, she's theoretically had to deal with post office customers for 30 years, that's enough to break anyone's soul and turn them into a heartless husk. Let the poor woman have her pension.

therobit
Aug 19, 2008

I've been tryin' to speak with you for a long time

Barudak posted:

Ill take Berth El Pup for 200, Alex

What is "interracial porn broke his brain" alex.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
isn't it weird how porn hosed up every single person, except me?

*jerks off to more interracial incest cockold porn, but isn't affected by it, unlike how everyone else is, because im so much smarter than everyone else, which is how it works*

Ghost Leviathan
Mar 2, 2017

Exploration is ill-advised.

chitoryu12 posted:

I know someone who got into it because she just really, really liked sex and decided that she may as well get paid for it.

Outside of professional porn, it's also not uncommon for girls to use stuff like camming or selling content to help pay their way through school or otherwise supplement their income. It can provide a fast way of making money for someone who's already into sex and/or voyeurism.

From what I hear about porn I'm p sure there's nothing better than porn for destroying your like of sex.

A 50S RAYGUN
Aug 22, 2011

Pick posted:

isn't it weird how porn hosed up every single person, except me?

*jerks off to more interracial incest cockold porn, but isn't affected by it, unlike how everyone else is, because im so much smarter than everyone else, which is how it works*

uh these kinks can't even be put together like this, idiot

Valentin
Sep 16, 2012

Smirking_Serpent posted:

Is my [20F] boyfriend of two years [20M] racist?

...

He thinks that I support black people's rights because I fancy them.

"My boyfriend says I only think black people deserve to be treated like people because I want to gently caress them. Is that racist?"

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

Pick posted:

isn't it weird how porn hosed up every single person, except me?

*jerks off to more interracial incest cockold porn, but isn't affected by it, unlike how everyone else is, because im so much smarter than everyone else, which is how it works*

what about the gay elves, do they not count

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Oct 15, 2012

To these sing-alongs 🎤of siren 🧜🏻‍♀️songs
To oohs😮 to ahhs😱 to 👏big👏applause👏
With all of my 😡anger I scream🤬 and shout📢
🇺🇸America🦅, I love you 🥰but you're freaking 💦me 😳out
Biscuit Hider

Pick posted:

isn't it weird how porn hosed up every single person, except me?

*jerks off to more interracial incest cockold porn, but isn't affected by it, unlike how everyone else is, because im so much smarter than everyone else, which is how it works*

I can’t use these things together.

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

Interracial incest cuckold porn is where a white guy wants to gently caress his mom, but can't because his black stepdad is doing it

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Ghost Leviathan
Mar 2, 2017

Exploration is ill-advised.

loquacius posted:

Interracial incest cuckold porn is where a white guy wants to gently caress his mom, but can't because his black half-brother is doing it

Fixed?

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