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Palpek posted:I meant the 30-year-old spineless fuckwit who can't stand up to his parents, stand up for his fiancee, gets defensive when called out on it and in the end asks like a little baby "tell me what to do to make it right". The stripper part is funny but it's peanuts. Yeah 100% agreed the dude is a complete doormat and the lady expands on that in the comments. It's not in the original post but some of the way that she writes about him it seems slightly controlling so perhaps they are a good match. Like this one: quote:That is not something I am even remotely worried about. Fiance is an internalizer. He is more likely to practice self harm than do anything violent towards me. I just found the comments about her being incensed that he went to a strip club in the past to be a funny aside.
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JaneError posted:Me [28M] with my fiance [26F] of 7 years. She's on a "solo" trip and I can't find any evidence she paid for a hotel or plane ticket. Now her crossfit "partner" is also gone but no one knows where. Any possibility they aren't together? Subsequent edit to that post: quote:Edit: so someone who asked to be remain nameless in PMs suggested I text her and say “hey hope all is going well I did CrossFit yesterday and ran into Dr. Bob says to tell you hello.” So I did exactly that and waited for maybe 15 minutes and she texted back: hmmmmm I don’t think it was Dr. Bob because you’re not gonna believe this but I actually ran into Dr. Bob here in Jamaica! Life is so Random sometimes! He staying across the property so I don’t expect to see him that much so please don’t worry… Having a great time! LMFAO
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LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL poor chub
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Yeah whoever suggested that text is loving clever also thread was nuked after edit 
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Theophany posted:Subsequent edit to that post: drat that's p. fuckin' cold. Lady is a hosed up piece of garbage.
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Ham Sandwiches posted:Yeah whoever suggested that text is loving clever Another goon suggested it was a cuck fetish post, which might explain it. But tbh, I just want to believe.
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Since today's theme seems to be strippers My brother (33/M) is letting his stripper girlfriend (36/F) move in. He's blinded by her big boobs and big butt and fails to realize he's being used and manipulated. An intervention is needed - I really truly need your help. quote:TL;DR My (29/M) brother (33/M) moved in and out of his self-centered stripper girlfriend's (36/F) house within two weeks because it was not working out. Now she and her kids are going to move in with him only after he builds a $25k garage he can't afford so she can park her Mercedes. He cares more about her looks than her manipulative personality.
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Strange that the wife would confirm that Dr. Bob was with her. Either way, I'd be gone by the time she got back.
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Leon Einstein posted:Strange that the wife would confirm that Dr. Bob was with her. Either way, I'd be gone by the time she got back. Yeah, you would think she wouldn't give away the con so easily. Why not just say "oh I thought he was on vacation this week?" which seems to be the story that everyone else has from him.
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Theophany posted:Subsequent edit to that post:
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I [24F] ruined my husbands [25M] friendship with a coworker [32F]. Can I fix it? So they aren't exactly coworkers, they met at the smoke pit at work and thats the only time they see each other. She is really into the kink life and her and her husband swing among other things. She is very open about her sex life and my husband was interested because he wants us to be more kinky. I don't mind them talking about that, but here's where it went downhill: My husband overshared a lot. Specifically things that I barely feel comfortable telling him about. He can talk about his kinks all day long and I won't care, but I was really hurt when I found out he told her things about my sexuality. Another thing I'm annoyed about is I'm pregnant and we havent told anyone yet, but he told her. Not as big a deal but I feel uncomfortable with him telling her when he doesn't even want to tell our parents yet. My husband and I are both flirty people so I can forgive some mild flirting. Them telling each other that they're cute or whatever doesn't bother me. But he made a fetlife so that he could look at her fetlife. He left the page up so I took a look and he had commented "can't wait to tap that rear end" on one of her pictures. I immediately confronted him and told him that it was inappropriate and I deleted his fetlife account. I made clear to him that it was over the line and he agreed and apologized. I even made him send her a text saying that I wasn't comfortable and they needed to back off. I saw her reply and it more or less said "ok, i completely understand." Fast forward a week, he's reassured me about how respectful she's been about my feelings and I feel fine. I don't mind the friendship as long as it's nothing more than that. We were hanging out in the bathroom and he gets a text from her and I ask what it says. I don't think it was anything weird but she called him a pet name. I asked about it and it was from a very sexual innuendo between them. I told him I was extremely uncomfortable with that and he needed to immediately let her know. We had a pretty long talk about how each of us was feeling and he fell asleep after. I was feeling better because he said he understood how I felt and he would let her know. An hour or 2 later we're watching a movie or something and he again falls asleep on the couch. I checked his phone to make sure he had told her how I felt. Nope. They were picking out baby names. I FLIPPED. I tried to wake him up but he sat up grogily, didn't understand what I was saying and promptly fell back asleep. I had already previously let him know that if he didn't set up boundaries then I would contact her and let her know. But here's the thing: I knew it wasn't her fault. I knew the only reason this conversation was happening was because my husband was allowing it to. He was refusing to respect my feelings but I knew that she would. He had told me all about how she had been in situations before where a spouse wasn't comfortable and she had to respect boundaries. My husband obviously wasn't able to respect the boundaries I had set. I quickly made a fetlife and sent her a message. I tried to emphasize that I wasnt mad at her or looking for a confrontation, but that I needed her and my husbands relationship to be strictly friendship. She quickly replied apologizing and letting me know she wasnt aware of how I felt. I told her I knew she wasn't to blame and that I know my husband appreciates her friendship and that I hoped she could still be a friend to him. (My husband has been dealing with severe depression and having a friend who was so supportive was having a positive impact.) When my husband finally woke up I told him i had talked to her. He told me them picking out baby names was just because they both had a pregnancy fetish (like that makes it ok?). The next time they talked she told him they should just be smoke pit friends and not text. I could tell he was pretty upset about it although he didn't say it. I truly appreciate her sticking up for me and my feelings at a time when my husband wouldn't. As far as I'm concerned that small act of trust makes her a friend. I felt bad I had messed up their friendship and I never intended to make her feel bad (I don't know exactly how she feels but I know she was upset by the whole situation) so I told my husband he should invite them for a double date. After I said that he got me at me because I was the one who had dug a wedge between their friendship and now all of a sudden I wanted to be friends. (Hanging out with them was something we had discussed previously and I had never been against it). He did reluctantly extend the invitation and from what I understand she reluctantly accepted. We haven't set a date but I don't know if I should push it. I never wanted to ruin their friendship, I just wanted my husband to respect my comfort level but all of a sudden I'm the bad guy. I'm at a total loss of how to handle the situation. Is there any point trying to salvage this or should I just let it die? Should I feel this guilt? Was I wrong to assert my feelings? Help. Tldr: my husbands friendship was crossing a line so I put a stop to it. Can I still save the friendship? Edit: my husband and I have tried the kink life in the past and want to try it again in the future. However that doesn't include my husband being with other women comments: When your husband tells you consistently that suicide seems like a good option you look for anything that helps. As much as I hate to admit it the 2 weeks they were friends suicide didn't come up as much. So yes maybe I am crazy. I don't know how to handle my husbands depression and if I ruined one of the few friendships he has I think its natural to feel bad about it.
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Leon Einstein posted:Strange that the wife would confirm that Dr. Bob was with her. She thought duder really was that dumb, and to be fair, the evidence is compelling.
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Apr 16, 2018 22:29
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Nothing weird bout a man and a woman talking about their pregnancy fetishes together
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Me [32 F] with my husband [32 M] 8 years, I ruined one of his socks & there's nothing I can do to make it up to him apparently :-(quote:My husband got home from work to find that one of his brand new special athletic socks was in the dryer - my fault. I accidentally put it in there. He got very upset and said it had ruined it, he cursed a bit and threw the socks down on the floor.
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Apr 16, 2018 22:45
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Maybe sock husband should do his own loving laundry for a change. Also divorce him.
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Ouhei posted:Yeah, you would think she wouldn't give away the con so easily. Why not just say "oh I thought he was on vacation this week?" which seems to be the story that everyone else has from him. She saw the text, correctly deduced that it was a trap, but miscalculated and thought he already knew for sure Bob was with her and was trying to catch her in a lie. Mistakenly thinking her primary lie busted she prematurely moved to the fallback lie.
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P-Mack posted:She saw the text, correctly deduced that it was a trap, but miscalculated and thought he already knew for sure Bob was with her and was trying to catch her in a lie. Mistakenly thinking her primary lie busted she prematurely moved to the fallback lie. The Kansas City Cuckle
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He is being a baby. I bet they have some underlying problems in their relationship and he is a bad communicator. If you find yourself fighting about laundry, you should ask yourself what you are actually fighting about, because it aint laundry.
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Holy crap guys, it’s a bizarro version of ‘my sister asked me to be the legal guardian of her kids if she died, and I said nah’ Me [35F] and my husband [38M] with my sister-in-law [33F]; we didn't pick her to be the guardian of our twins [6months] and it's dropped a bomb in our relationship quote:My husband and I have been married for five years, and recently had twins. Now that life is settling down (ha!) we met with our lawyer to update our wills and do all that proper legal things that people should do once having kids. Part of that was setting up legal guardianship for the twins. We asked my best friend and her husband. They agreed and it’s all sorted out.
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fruit on the bottom posted:The Kansas City Cuckle LMFAO
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therobit posted:He is being a baby. I bet they have some underlying problems in their relationship and he is a bad communicator. If you find yourself fighting about laundry, you should ask yourself what you are actually fighting about, because it aint laundry. I would normally 100% agree but this thread has unearthed some honest to god manbabies that would absolutely throw a tantrum like that about a sock going through the dryer when it should have been washed a specific way so at this point it's hard to tell.
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JaneError posted:Me [32 F] with my husband [32 M] 8 years, I ruined one of his socks & there's nothing I can do to make it up to him apparently :-( It's not about the sock, it's about the memories that were encrusted within it. You didn't just wash a sock; you washed his life down the drain.
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LadyPictureShow posted:Holy crap guys, it’s a bizarro version of ‘my sister asked me to be the legal guardian of her kids if she died, and I said nah’ Tell her to go pray about it.
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Leon Einstein posted:Strange that the wife would confirm that Dr. Bob was with her. Either way, I'd be gone by the time she got back. Please, I’d text her a photo of her stuff on the curb, and cancel that credit card.
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JaneError posted:Me [28M] with my fiance [26F] of 7 years. She's on a "solo" trip and I can't find any evidence she paid for a hotel or plane ticket. Now her crossfit "partner" is also gone but no one knows where. Any possibility they aren't together? lmfao nope, none. you could ask to see his passport if he denies
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LadyPictureShow posted:Holy crap guys, it’s a bizarro version of ‘my sister asked me to be the legal guardian of her kids if she died, and I said nah’ Tell her you've accepted Moloch into your lives as your guiding light and simply cannot countenance her raising your children in the House of Abraham because he left the job half done.
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Palpek posted:The fat dude pretty much exprienced what it's like to stay behind when a partner turns their life around and progresses a lot in an important area. This is true for many parts in life, not just a weight thing - keep up or you become incompatible. when you get married you promise "in sickness and in health" - i hope he gets alimony or a nice settlement out of the divorce because actions need to have consequences. people are not disposable! fruit on the bottom posted:Yeah. Ham if your primary complaint is that we didn’t take her to task for the cheating, I think we’re probably all in agreement that it was a poo poo thing to do. "dress for the job you want, not the dress you have  " <-- a dumb redditorI actually this exact thing happen in college (minus getting any sex out of the friend - womp womp) valuable learning experience. 
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My wife [39F] and I [41M] are very worried about how our daughter [17F] is reacting to losing her boyfriend.quote:Our daughter Olivia first started dating Armando over a year ago, shortly after she started her sophomore year of high school. He was always a great kid and my wife and I were really very happy they had both found each other. We never really said anything about it but after about 7 or 8 months we started wondering if they would be high school sweethearts and marry after graduation or something. He was always respectful, intelligent, and generally a fun kid. My wife said he was very boyish, but with the best traits of being so. Our family grew around him since he was over so often and was always a good kid. 
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Ham Sandwiches posted:This is a weird loving post, please enjoy LadyPictureShow posted:Holy crap guys, it’s a bizarro version of ‘my sister asked me to be the legal guardian of her kids if she died, and I said nah’
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fruit on the bottom posted:The Kansas City Cuckle My God
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Palpek posted:The fat dude pretty much exprienced what it's like to stay behind when a partner turns their life around and progresses a lot in an important area. This is true for many parts in life, not just a weight thing - keep up or you become incompatible. Fat dude most def needs to keep up but if you marry someone an effort needs to be made to help them keep up and from the story the wife realized she's hot now and is saying gently caress it. Granted it seems mostly made up.
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Theophany posted:Subsequent edit to that post: Next text should read: 'Nice try. You've got 12 hours to send me proof you've been paying for everything on your solo holiday.'
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Caganer posted:when you get married you promise "in sickness and in health" - i hope he gets alimony or a nice settlement out of the divorce because actions need to have consequences. people are not disposable! what divorce? she's just sought the assistance of a medical professional for the "in health" portion of the vows.
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I'm late to it, but going to a strip club with your dad? What the gently caress is that??
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Jeza posted:I'm late to it, but going to a strip club with your dad? What the gently caress is that?? Really goddamn weird getting boners with your dad
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LadyPictureShow posted:My wife [39F] and I [41M] are very worried about how our daughter [17F] is reacting to losing her boyfriend. RIP Armando, he'll be sucking the dicks of angels soon
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LadyPictureShow posted:My wife [39F] and I [41M] are very worried about how our daughter [17F] is reacting to losing her boyfriend. Thought she was in a romantic comedy, she was half right. Getting her Miss Havisham on early. Jeza posted:I'm late to it, but going to a strip club with your dad? What the gently caress is that?? Sounds like the kind of thing where it's more his dad dragging him to the club 'to make a man out of him' and he probably wants to forget about it.
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"This is a funny thread, guess I'll read through i----- 2805 pages? HOLY poo poo."
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LadyPictureShow posted:She came home in a wedding dress that she dropped $520 on, and she's apparently blown all of her schoolwork off to focus on planning their marriage. well she's officially crossed from "taking it poorly" to "frothing insanity"
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Caganer posted:when you get married you promise "in sickness and in health" - i hope he gets alimony or a nice settlement out of the divorce because actions need to have consequences. people are not disposable! Theyre not married. This is her being a horrible loving person about realizing she doesnt have to stay with an unmotivated fat sack of crap. LadyPictureShow posted:My wife [39F] and I [41M] are very worried about how our daughter [17F] is reacting to losing her boyfriend. How did she have 520 bucks to blow on a wedding dress? Also probably should make sure you get rid of any guns and knives you have in your house.
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