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La Brea Carpet posted:My (35m) MIL (60s, married to wife, 35, for 10 years) threw away about 200lbs of Elk meat I'd hunted/harvested. I am so hurt/sad/angry I'm afraid I might do or say something terrible. MIL is a bad person, but please try to be less hilarious when discussing your problems.
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Apr 18, 2018 17:42
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La Brea Carpet posted:My (35m) MIL (60s, married to wife, 35, for 10 years) threw away about 200lbs of Elk meat I'd hunted/harvested. I am so hurt/sad/angry I'm afraid I might do or say something terrible. Well for starters Dances With Wolves here should sack up and understand that animals like deer and elk are hunted specifically because their population would spiral out of control if we didn't cull the herd routinely every season, which is why licenses have limits. So it's either kill them or deal with the consequences. Secondly, he absolutely should sue his MIL for the estimated cost of the meat because, win or lose, she'll probably be out of their lives forever.
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Apr 18, 2018 17:42
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Jeza posted:I'm late to it, but going to a strip club with your dad? What the gently caress is that?? Didnt Al take Bud to the nudie bar when he turned 18
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Apr 18, 2018 17:44
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I don't like that guy in that sorry because he respects deer. Deer are loving trash. He should put aside his bow, grab a machine gun, kill as many as possible. loving deer. They're loving giant rats. gently caress deer. They don't deserve any tears.
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Apr 18, 2018 17:47
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I mean, in his shoes I'm furious about the elk meat but I also definitely lol'd at the bit where he gets spiritual over the corpses of deers and is in floods of tears about their 'sacrifice'. just lmao
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Apr 18, 2018 17:52
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He should force his MIL to hunt him a new elk herself. 
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Apr 18, 2018 17:52
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SpazmasterX posted:Well for starters Dances With Wolves here should sack up and understand that animals like deer and elk are hunted specifically because their population would spiral out of control if we didn't cull the herd routinely every season, which is why licenses have limits. So it's either kill them or deal with the consequences. Secondly, he absolutely should sue his MIL for the estimated cost of the meat because, win or lose, she'll probably be out of their lives forever. Agreed, but lets not forget the telling little detail of the OP being sent to a hotel, not the MIL
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Apr 18, 2018 17:53
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A.I. Borgland Corp posted:I don't like that guy in that sorry because he respects deer. Deer are loving trash. He should put aside his bow, grab a machine gun, kill as many as possible. loving deer. They're loving giant rats. gently caress deer. They don't deserve any tears. if a deer is a giant rat an elk is a mammoth rat that hates you & wants to gently caress you up, specifically. they're a league apart.
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Apr 18, 2018 17:53
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La Brea Carpet posted:Agreed, but lets not forget the telling little detail of the OP being sent to a hotel, not the MIL I'm more inclined to believe that was easier for this spineless wife then to try and get her mother to leave at that moment.
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Apr 18, 2018 17:56
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La Brea Carpet posted:Agreed, but lets not forget the telling little detail of the OP being sent to a hotel, not the MIL This is the part where I just had to laugh. The two softest people on earth treating their home like a lizard tail as they run off to cry more.
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Apr 18, 2018 17:57
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Man the backstory for the Minnesota Shrike from Hannibal is really lame.
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Apr 18, 2018 17:59
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SpazmasterX posted:I'm more inclined to believe that was easier for this spineless wife then to try and get her mother to leave at that moment. Honestly it probably was Spine or no, she seems like the kind of person where trying to get her to leave because she did something she is enough of an idiot not to recognize as wrong is an hours-long endeavor
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Apr 18, 2018 18:00
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La Brea Carpet posted:When you're so woke you create a hostile work environment. Hostile woke environment. I'm gonna open a bar in Portland with this name, and ther only meat served will be either from hunted game or dead white mothers in law.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:02
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loquacius posted:Honestly it probably was It's pretty simple of you are willing to burn the relationship. You tell them to leave, and get physical if they won't.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:03
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Jeza posted:I mean, in his shoes I'm furious about the elk meat but I also definitely lol'd at the bit where he gets spiritual over the corpses of deers and is in floods of tears about their 'sacrifice'. just lmao That's how sacrifices work. You make them by having no choice in the matter and its forced upon you with a bullet. I also hate the idea of hurting animals, I even find it hard sometimes to kill bugs. How would that translate to the idea of personally shooting one myself?
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Apr 18, 2018 18:04
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La Brea Carpet posted:My (35m) MIL (60s, married to wife, 35, for 10 years) threw away about 200lbs of Elk meat I'd hunted/harvested. I am so hurt/sad/angry I'm afraid I might do or say something terrible. quote:It went south from the second she got out of security at the airport when she told my wife "you know, when my friend Jane's daughter picks her mom up the airport, she's able to meet her at the gate. Why didn't you try that?" Where the gently caress does she live that you can meet people at the gate, 1998? Also go hunting with your mother in law, it'll be fun!
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Apr 18, 2018 18:04
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Also lol at those loving morons for allowing her to stay in the first place because it was the "right" thing to do.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:05
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You can’t even get proper game elk legally, bushmeat isn’t legal in the USA. Farmed elk is not the same.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:08
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therobit posted:It's pretty simple of you are willing to burn the relationship. You tell them to leave, and get physical if they won't. I mean, I feel like I have to know the disposition of the rest of OP's wife's family toward her and their relationship because she would absolutely go crying to everyone who would listen if OP's wife "got physical" with her Admiral Ray posted:Also lol at those loving morons for allowing her to stay in the first place because it was the "right" thing to do. I'm totally on board with this lol though Someone is either safe to be allowed in your life and home, or they're not +1 lol for continuing to allow her to stay after she immediately broke their ground rules
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Apr 18, 2018 18:09
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Admiral Ray posted:Also lol at those loving morons for allowing her to stay in the first place because it was the "right" thing to do. It's not even a case of "Well she's done lovely things to me but my wife has a good relationship" No, man. You both hate her and this is what happens when two doormats get married.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:10
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Their child is going to be born without bones, like a flatworm
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Apr 18, 2018 18:13
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Pick posted:Their child is going to be born without bones, like a flatworm And equally as parasitic.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:14
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If you are a guest at someone’s house and you go through their fridge/freezer and throw out anything for any reason other than “hey, I found out this pork is actually people” you should be thrown out like the garbage you are. Yes, there’s wiggle room like if you don’t live here and are super close or an SO or something and the food is rancid or w/e but you know drat well what I’m talking about you rule lawyers. And that’s a another thing you know back in my d I (25F) used a friend's (29F) train ticket, got busted, have to pay a fine for identity fraud. My friend is getting into trouble too. Should I pay her fine too as she's asking ? quote:I live in Germany, and the train here is pretty expensive. As I had no job, my roommate offered to lend me her student's ticket that is valid in the whole region. She said if they asked for my ID, I should just say I don't have it, and she can go to the station the next day to show her ID. Easy, right ? I happily accept, go around with no problem for a few weeks.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:24
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Where the gently caress is she going with no job and pennies a day in income?
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Apr 18, 2018 18:27
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SpazmasterX posted:Where the gently caress is she going with no job and pennies a day in income? Probably going to throw someone’s elk out you know how kids are these days smh
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Apr 18, 2018 18:31
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SpazmasterX posted:Where the gently caress is she going with no job and pennies a day in income? Job interview?
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Apr 18, 2018 18:35
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Any friend willing to commit fraud for you is a friend worth keeping, pay her fine.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:36
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girl pants posted:Job interview? She's got a job lined up, apparently. No mention of these train rides being involved.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:48
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well in THAT case, she's clearly Doing Something Wrong And Deserves To Be Punished. she should hide in her Shame Shanty until the Jobhavers reward her with Citizen Dollars, so she can enjoy the amenities of Citizenhood. edit- probably sucking drugs so she can smoke dicks no dount in my mind.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:50
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How the gently caress are these two grown rear end adults getting so owned by their crazy newly vegan MIL? How the gently caress was the outcome them paying for a hotel rather than kicking MIL out and making her get a hotel? How could she reduce her daughter to tears over popsicles? MIL sounds awful but holy poo poo this couple are spineless and pathetic. They agreed to host her on certain conditions, she broke those conditions on the car ride home. Dump her at the nearest motel and go home and enjoy your extremely emotionally significant meat. Or ok, you let MIL drive you to tears but she's family so you let her stay. She throws out all the meat, like 4k worth of meat. Once again, you kick her out. You don't need to flip the gently caress out and cry like a baby or stomp around throwing a tantrum in a hotel room. You firmly explain she needs to leave, and they'll be expecting restitution for the meat otherwise you'll be seeing her in small claims court. If taking her to small claims court is too much of a hassle just sever. Jesus christ sever from this lovely woman. Also maybe get therapy if someone criticizing your popsicles sends you into crying fits. Can this family do anything without crying?
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Apr 18, 2018 18:57
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Pick posted:You can’t even get proper game elk legally, bushmeat isn’t legal in the USA. Farmed elk is not the same. I doubt really understand what you are getting ary here. Its legal to take wild elk with a license and tag right here in Oregon. I know people that hunt elk every year, in both bow and rifle season.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:58
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Baronjutter posted:How the gently caress are these two grown rear end adults getting so owned by their crazy newly vegan MIL? How the gently caress was the outcome them paying for a hotel rather than kicking MIL out and making her get a hotel? How could she reduce her daughter to tears over popsicles? MIL sounds awful but holy poo poo this couple are spineless and pathetic. The man cannot stomp on a bug without crying so no
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Apr 18, 2018 18:58
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therobit posted:I doubt really understand what you are getting ary here. Its legal to take wild elk with a license and tag right here in Oregon. I know people that hunt elk every year, in both bow and rifle season.
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Apr 18, 2018 18:59
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Baronjutter posted:If taking her to small claims court is too much of a hassle just sever. Jesus christ sever from this lovely woman. Also maybe get therapy if someone criticizing your popsicles sends you into crying fits. Can this family do anything without crying? I think it was probably less about the popsicles and more about the lifetime of emotional abuse which, yes, should have been their cue to kick her out, they missed so many cues to kick her out
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Apr 18, 2018 18:59
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Honestly just open up the relationship and get in a person who isn't a loving pissbaby to handle your problems like an adult
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Apr 18, 2018 19:01
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Pick posted:You can’t even get proper game elk legally, bushmeat isn’t legal in the USA. Farmed elk is not the same. Please explain. Do you mean buy game elk? I literally just ate an elk steak last night that was game elk
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Apr 18, 2018 19:01
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Blade Runner posted:Honestly just open up the relationship and get in a person who isn't a loving pissbaby to handle your problems like an adult People willing to be third parties in established relationships are called "unicorns" because of how rare they are What you're describing is so mythical a literal unicorn would roll its eyes and bray with laughter
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Apr 18, 2018 19:04
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Am I the only one who heard a twee loving my morning jacket indie rock bullshit soundtrack while reading elk man's post?
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Apr 18, 2018 19:04
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loquacius posted:People willing to be third parties in established relationships are called "unicorns" because of how rare they are It is still more realistic than either of these retarded ooze creatures managing to stand up for themselves in literally anything
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Apr 18, 2018 19:05
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Sorry y'all are so inured to the overwhelming beauty of the world that you can ice a literal ton of rampaging animal and feel nothing in your cold, dead hearts. i bet y'all laugh when you four wheel over a burrowing owl nest, too.
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Apr 18, 2018 19:06
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