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hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:There are lots of other dudes to marry in Stardew Valley, just pick one of the other ones. Sounds like she's eager for that Linus lifestyle
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When I've had friends comfort me when I'm crying or vice versa, we pass tissues and pat each other and say lots of sympathetic things, but we aren't actually wiping away each other's tears and resting our heads on each other's shoulders unless we're super physically intimate. The emotional intimacy is maxed out and that's good and cool, but imo that's a weird level of physical intimacy for two people who've never done anything and don't want to.
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Jun 5, 2018 18:18
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Anne Whateley posted:When I've had friends comfort me when I'm crying or vice versa, we pass tissues and pat each other and say lots of sympathetic things, but we aren't actually wiping away each other's tears and resting our heads on each other's shoulders unless we're super physically intimate. The emotional intimacy is maxed out and that's good and cool, but imo that's a weird level of physical intimacy for two people who've never done anything and don't want to. That's what I'm trying to communicate through my emotionless grunting and banging of rocks.
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Jun 5, 2018 18:22
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Anne Whateley posted:When I've had friends comfort me when I'm crying or vice versa, we pass tissues and pat each other and say lots of sympathetic things, but we aren't actually wiping away each other's tears and resting our heads on each other's shoulders unless we're super physically intimate. The emotional intimacy is maxed out and that's good and cool, but imo that's a weird level of physical intimacy for two people who've never done anything and don't want to. some people are super handsy and other, sane people maintain a strict 6-meter perimeter of personal space even when lovemaking
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Jun 5, 2018 18:26
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boner confessor posted:the worst, saddest thing about him - i looked over his shoulder once while he was playing skyrim and i saw he had 600+ hours on one character I’ve never worn a kilt but I definitely have almost 800 hours on one of the... two? three? characters I played for Skyrim. My goal was to 100% the game as much as possible (radiant quests all completed once) while pretending to be a disillusioned child of immigrant-refugees from Morrowind who hated Nords and the Empire equally. It was a slog and a grind and I hated it by the end. I finished the game two years ago and haven’t even turned my xbox back on. I think maybe sandbox games aren’t for me.
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Jun 5, 2018 18:28
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boner confessor posted:he only knew that one song, and he thought it made him sound cool to know about that song, because then he could talk a little about british pub culture which is extremely cosmopolitan and sophisticated How in the hell were the japanese going to invade america. America had a better capacity to project force, and a much smaller area to conquer and we barely manged to do it to a handful of Japanese owned islands in the pacific and that was only after we sunk their entire fleet
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Jun 5, 2018 18:30
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Weird. I was on the side of non platonic bed sharing, but I think wiping tears is fine. The closer and longer the platonic friend, the more understandable.
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Jun 5, 2018 18:34
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Meme Emulator posted:How in the hell were the japanese going to invade america. It was called the Aleutian Islands campaign 
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Jun 5, 2018 18:35
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The OP who saw her boyfriend consoling his sobbing friend, and whose natural course of action was to voyeuristically observe them from behind a bush with a friend until deciding to slink away is by far the most bizarre and inappropriate thing in that story. Not tear-wiping. That does not belie a reliable narrator.
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Jun 5, 2018 18:38
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:male friendships have almost no intimacy (no not like that weirdos) so imo it's not surprising that most men are confused by it, because for them any time they're doing something intimate, even just like regular friendly intimate like being a little bit vulnerable it's only with whoever they're loving I only cry at passionate displays of honor and nobility especially when those displays are inherently doomed by the whims of gods and fate. (Actually though I do tear up a little bit at the end of the first Rocky movie) My [33 F] father in law [67 M] told my husband he doesn't want me handling money after he passes. quote:A little background- my FIL is a very untrusting person. He does seem to be lacking full mental capacity, but it isn't severe and it isn't often. He also suffers from PTSD. My husband essentially raised himself, his father has been 'gone' for about forty plus years and his mother wasn't in the picture. Dad can be stern and opinionated. He won't see doctors for his medical issues and doesn't like to receive help. We almost lost him two years ago and I invited him and his girlfriend (who is a wasteland) to live in our home and take my bedroom. They stayed for about six months, and it was agony. I offer to run errands for him, and do, often, and I call and send pictures of the kids. He has a new grandson that he has never held; he's five months old. Dad lives twenty minutes away.
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Jun 5, 2018 18:38
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Why would the Japanese want America Is it for our kilts
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Jun 5, 2018 18:39
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But Rocks Hurt Head posted:My closest childhood friend and I have the same kind of relationship as OP's boyfriend and friend, but thankfully when I introduced her to my now-wife, the two of them hit it off in a similar way and we're all super close. I introduced a long time guy friend to my ex and she started a secret relationship with him and now I don't have a friend or a girlfriend, so I can understand why this girl is freaked out. Friends comforting each other is hugs and comfort, not wiping tears from their face. If you feel weird about something, it's for a reason.
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Xombie posted:The OP who saw her boyfriend consoling his sobbing friend, and whose natural course of action was to voyeuristically observe them from behind a bush with a friend until deciding to slink away is by far the most bizarre and inappropriate thing in that story. Not tear-wiping. oh get off your high not constantly lurking in the shadows just out the corner of your loved ones' eyes horse
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Jun 5, 2018 18:40
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fruit on the bottom posted:I only cry at passionate displays of honor and nobility especially when those displays are inherently doomed by the whims of gods and fate. Eh get over it, FIL sucks but he’ll die it’s fine
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Jun 5, 2018 18:42
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Sibilant Crisp posted:I introduced a long time guy friend to my ex and she started a secret relationship with him and now I don't have a friend or a girlfriend, so I can understand why this girl is freaked out. Friends comforting each other is hugs and comfort, not wiping tears from their face. If you feel weird about something, it's for a reason. People only really fall in love once and then they’re just staking out getting it back. Old friends do this, like ducks
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Jun 5, 2018 18:44
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Meme Emulator posted:How in the hell were the japanese going to invade america. America had a better capacity to project force, and a much smaller area to conquer and we barely manged to do it to a handful of Japanese owned islands in the pacific and that was only after we sunk their entire fleet in case it wasnt clear this dude was a huge moron he was super into guns and rah rah patriotism and defense of the homeland etc. so the idea of people invading america so he could prove his manliness by fighting to defend the Flag really gave him a big stiffy. he was also into the idea of la raza mexican invasion, canadian invasion, could basically quote the movie red dawn etc which is probably why he had his pistol taken away by the state when he "intervened" in a domestic dispute he witnessed while working as a valet and ended up going to jail for a weekend on assault charges. that was a nice weekend boner confessor fucked around with this message at 18:51 on Jun 5, 2018 |
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Jun 5, 2018 18:48
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fruit on the bottom posted:I only cry at passionate displays of honor and nobility especially when those displays are inherently doomed by the whims of gods and fate. The first time I saw Casablanca I found myself tearing up a little bit... at the part of the movie where they blast the Nazis out of the bar with a giant chorus of La Marseillaise That was weird
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Jun 5, 2018 18:56
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It’s a weird thing and there’s no good reason for it, like most weird things, but wiping tears from someone’s face is very intimate and not something I’ve ever done for anyone but my wife and kid. Like I don’t think it constitutes cheating or anything, but it is definitely a signpost for that OP that those two are way closer than she thought they were and it’s reasonable to not know what to do with that right away
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Jun 5, 2018 18:58
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tears are basically eye cum
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HM-E2H1ChJM Vive la France! Vive la loving France! 
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Anne Whateley posted:When I've had friends comfort me when I'm crying or vice versa, we pass tissues and pat each other and say lots of sympathetic things, but we aren't actually wiping away each other's tears and resting our heads on each other's shoulders unless we're super physically intimate. The emotional intimacy is maxed out and that's good and cool, but imo that's a weird level of physical intimacy for two people who've never done anything and don't want to. Yeah ther head on the shoulder is a little too intimate. It's like how I will accept a hug from co-worker if offered, but I would never stand or sit with my arm around them.
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Jun 5, 2018 19:09
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Pick posted:People only really fall in love once and then they’re just staking out getting it back. Old friends do this, like ducks You can fall in love many times. Till you fall in love with Them. And then you go on a trip to Berlijn with them. And they sneak out of the hotel to go gently caress some meth head. And when they finally show up again it’s just to get their stuff ‘cause they’re going back to the meth head, and you have to go back home alone. And 14 months later there’s not a day don’t you miss them so much. Ducks do this 
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Jun 5, 2018 19:13
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If you come in for the hug at work I hope you were a tumbler in highschool because youre about to be on the ground. .
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Jun 5, 2018 19:14
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Barudak posted:If you come in for the hug at work I hope you were a tumbler in highschool because youre about to be on the ground. . I work with a bunch of women, but we are all remote. Most of them try to hug me when we see each other. I just allow it because I don't get any vibes of it being anything more than a friendly hug.
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Jun 5, 2018 19:19
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“do girls hug multiple times?”
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andrew smash posted:It’s a weird thing and there’s no good reason for it, like most weird things, but wiping tears from someone’s face is very intimate and not something I’ve ever done for anyone but my wife and kid. What level of intimacy is spying on your loved ones and their clearly upset friends from a distance?
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Jun 5, 2018 19:22
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therobit posted:I work with a bunch of women, but we are all remote. Most of them try to hug me when we see each other. I just allow it because I don't get any vibes of it being anything more than a friendly hug. When the day comes that you have to fight one of them in an open field with mere minutes before the LZ gets bombed to hell youre going to regret not practicing your CQC
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do... girls.... hug...... multiple..... times...........
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Nope, they get one like a bumble bee then they die.
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Xombie posted:What level of intimacy is spying on your loved ones and their clearly upset friends from a distance? That’s hosed up too. Unlike what I mentioned though there’s no serious debate in the thread about that part of it. You dumb mother fucker.
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Pick posted:“do girls hug multiple times?” This is like a loving zen koan at this point. I [20f] feel I’m wasting my life and ruining my future with my boyfriend [26m]. quote:To get started, the reason I feel this way is since around the second semester of my freshman year I started having severe anxiety and depression out of nowhere. Now that I’m older, I kind of understand it’s possibly because of my mother and my grandparents. I don’t really want to go into detail on that but my relationship with my family has always been horrible. My anxiety made it worse, I think, and it distanced me from everyone I grew up with. I stopped hanging out with people because being anywhere other than my room gave me horrible anxiety attacks. I tried multiple anxiety medications and two antidepressants, only to continue having the attacks and my fear of having the attacks and people growing.
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fruit on the bottom posted:I only cry at passionate displays of honor and nobility especially when those displays are inherently doomed by the whims of gods and fate. quote:My mother was an abusive narcissist criminal and my dad was absent. If you are wondering if I have self esteem issues, issues in general, and an insane need for approval, YES. Lol All the comments are excellent, for once, and OP at least explains why she gives a poo poo about this old fart. quote:y husband is a good man, and I didn’t start the fight. He started it when he saw me crying. I wasn’t even going to say anything. And I know what kind of person Dad is, and have tried to communicate that with my husband, but as much as he is aware of Dad and his shortcomings, he is fiercely loyal and we are NOT allowed to discuss anything negative having to do with his dad. So I walk a fine line at all times. Husband's a big dummy tho. I recommend therapy.
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fruit on the bottom posted:I [20f] feel I’m wasting my life and ruining my future with my boyfriend [26m]. Yeah, you are wasting your suspiciously older boyfriends time.
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Jun 5, 2018 19:29
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loquacius posted:The first time I saw Casablanca I found myself tearing up a little bit... at the part of the movie where they blast the Nazis out of the bar with a giant chorus of La Marseillaise ikr it's so brutal; why won't they reasonably debate those guys on the issues like civilized people
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:ikr it's so brutal; why won't they reasonably debate those guys on the issues like civilized people Competing national anthems is one of the correct ways to settle these sorts of disputes. The only other option was a dance off. Debating doesn't work, you need to have a contest of skills.
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Xombie posted:What level of intimacy is spying on your loved ones and their clearly upset friends from a distance? Lol dude he walked up on an unexpected situation and simply left instead of making a big scene, what do you feel this guy did wrong? not burst in like the kool aid man? he should have demanded to search the backpack for condoms? Ham Sandwiches fucked around with this message at 19:35 on Jun 5, 2018 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:This is like a loving zen koan at this point. Definitely not a predator: Oh hello whining ball of anxiety, would you like to be mine?
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andrew smash posted:That’s hosed up too. Unlike what I mentioned though there’s no serious debate in the thread about that part of it. You dumb mother fucker. Having a serious debate on this highly possessive and obviously mentally ill woman's account of her boyfriend's actions is your first mistake. Ham Sandwiches posted:Lol dude he walked up on an unexpected situation and simply left instead of making a big scene, what do you feel this guy did wrong? not burst in like the kool aid man? he should have demanded to search the backpack for condoms? I know I'm better off not replying to you, but I'm too curious what guy you are even talking about.
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Xombie posted:I know I'm better off not replying to you, but I'm too curious what guy you are even talking about. Oh dear, replying to me, ooga booga I was making a joke refering to a post from yesterday, where the BF did confront the air mattress couple, and demanded to search the backpack for condoms and that not going well. What did you expect this guy to do, person that is trying to make a bush / pervert / creeper narrative of someone stumbling upon an intimate moment and not knowing what to do?
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