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I had never heard the term name tape before. I guess it means like when your name is stitched on your uniform? But I like the mental image of figuring out who your husband cheated with because they're still writing their name on the band of their underwear.
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cumshitter posted:I had never heard the term name tape before. I guess it means like when your name is stitched on your uniform? But I like the mental image of figuring out who your husband cheated with because they're still writing their name on the band of their underwear. I hope they write the rank on the underwear too, and not just the name.
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Jun 12, 2018 22:11
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loquacius posted:People in the legal advice subreddit kept whining at me all like "wah wah wah kidnapping is technically illegal" like lol yeah whatever losers all I want to do is put him in a position where he can do whatever he wants in the whole wide world (but he can't go home and he has to stay on my good side or he's homeless in a strange city) quote:Lmao I'm not gonna hold him against his will for more than a week. Definitely only until I can get him think for himself and experience life away from his parents.
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Jun 12, 2018 22:12
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cumshitter posted:I had never heard the term name tape before. I guess it means like when your name is stitched on your uniform? But I like the mental image of figuring out who your husband cheated with because they're still writing their name on the band of their underwear. iirc the US military will punish soldiers for adultery, so she should be able to tattle on the mistress
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La Brea Carpet posted:I [27/F] walked in on my husband [29/M] cheating on me. fun fact: you can still be court marshall'd for adultery  edit: loving beaten like a private who stepped out on his SACRED VOWS Clark Nova posted:iirc the US military will punish soldiers for adultery, so she should be able to tattle on the mistress we kid, but did you know that "do x or I'll report this crime" is technically extortion, and also a crime? the united states is a hosed up police state where simple things like "divorce me uncontested and give me obscene amounts of alimony or i'll report you to the law" is technical a crime. (hosed up but true) Caganer fucked around with this message at 22:22 on Jun 12, 2018 |
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Jun 12, 2018 22:20
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La Brea Carpet posted:I [27/F] walked in on my husband [29/M] cheating on me. quote:he needs help and doesn't know what love is vs meaningless sex because of his parents divorce Just lol they divorced when he was 22.
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Jun 12, 2018 22:21
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I [23M] was in a findom arrangement with [20s F]. I ended the arrangement months ago, and now she is back trying to blackmail me for moneyquote:I will start this by explaining what findom is. Findom means "financial domination" where I was the male submissive who had to pay to be dominated by the "Goddess" as she called herself.
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Jun 12, 2018 22:26
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My [24F] relationship with my husband [26M] is starting to scare me.quote:My husband and I have been together for 8 years and have two kids under 6. Our relationship has always gone through periods of seriously rocky terrain and then periods of amazing good times...I long for stability though. My husband has always joked about screwing me in the rear. Literally. He says it is joking but he usually attempts it a few times a year without warning me and then acting frustrated and disappointed when I either cry in pain and beg to stop or when I try to negotiate it (things like we have to work up to it with lube so I’m not hollering and crying about it. He tells me that he feels bad after he does it to me but that something just “takes over him” and makes him unable to resist doing it. He will promise not to do it, then a few months or a year later, he tries it again. Mind you, it is not loving feeling to me. He is rough, aggressive, and honestly I get so scared and shook up for days after which he feels bad about but for some reason he can’t stop I guess. Jeez I feel bad for this woman. She’s been with this guy since she was 16, and most likely doesn’t understand the full extent of what a massive piece of poo poo this guy is. ‘Hi Reddit, my husband anally rapes me because he ‘can’t control himself’, constantly puts me down and deliberately negs me. Why am I so stupid and doing everything wrong? Three psychologists have told me to GTFO, but how can I make this work and stop upsetting him?’
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Caganer posted:I [23M] was in a findom arrangement with [20s F]. I ended the arrangement months ago, and now she is back trying to blackmail me for money
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Jun 12, 2018 22:30
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I think the security camera in my [19/F] house is ruining my relationship with my new boyfriend [21/M]quote:Okay this is going to be a very ridiculous story to some of you but I advise you I am serious about it. 
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Jun 12, 2018 22:39
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Bardeh posted:I think the security camera in my [19/F] house is ruining my relationship with my new boyfriend [21/M] I hope someone with some technical knowledge can rig them up to just stream a loop from like the last month over and over.
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Jun 12, 2018 22:42
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LadyPictureShow posted:My [24F] relationship with my husband [26M] is starting to scare me. That poor woman. What a loving pig she’s married to, makes me ashamed to be a bloke.
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Jun 12, 2018 22:46
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Baronjutter posted:I hope someone with some technical knowledge can rig them up to just stream a loop from like the last month over and over.
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Jun 12, 2018 22:47
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LadyPictureShow posted:My [24F] relationship with my husband [26M] is starting to scare me. In the thread someone introduced the OP to negging which she said was very accurate after she looked it up. Also there's this fantastic exchange between the OP and the world's most oblivious redditor. I think maybe it's the same guy who had the, "I would never tell anyone to divorce based on a single story" quote. Redditor posted:Something is bothering him, and he's not telling you for whatever reason. OP posted:I usually ask him how is feeling first and what would help him in this situation. He gets angry when I ask. I do not use a tone. So then I have tried I statements such as, “when you hold me down and try to put it in THERE while I’m begging you not to, I feel scared and I don’t want to feel scared of having sex with you. Help me figure out what I should do.” That didn’t work. He got upset saying I make him sound like a monster. I have then really put my foot down once and that really did not go well at all. He was pinching me a lot and cornering me calling me a derogatory name I won’t list and laughing and I had asked him several times to stop because I was bruising, so I yelled at him to GET THE HELL OFF OF ME and shoved him off. Then I went outside to cool down. When I came inside I apologized for shoving him and asked him to please not corner me because I felt like I had no other option to make it stop. He told me violence is a choice and if I ever touched him like that again he would divorce me and take kids. I just can’t figure out the right response and it’s driving me crazy The Same Redditor posted:I don't want to be one of those people that speculate an entire person based on one point of view, and I certainly don't know you or him.
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Jun 12, 2018 22:48
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Baronjutter posted:I hope someone with some technical knowledge can rig them up to just stream a loop from like the last month over and over. Seriously. That's way loving creepy.
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what are the odds daddy's a purity ball type too
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Jun 12, 2018 22:52
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Dad: remove that disgusting image at once Girl: okay it should be gone...check again Dad: BFDLGJSFD Girl: hmm I can't work this thing...try again <repeat>
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cumshitter posted:In the thread someone introduced the OP to negging which she said was very accurate after she looked it up. Also there's this fantastic exchange between the OP and the world's most oblivious redditor. I think maybe it's the same guy who had the, "I would never tell anyone to divorce based on a single story" quote. Jesus Christ. There’s more than one person reading these awful stories and deciding ‘hm, divorce might be too hasty’ The story gets worse! quote:OP: And that dumb-dumb you posted edited in a rebuttal: quote:Edit:
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Leon Einstein posted:What exactly do I need to do in order to get men to send me their money? Do I just pretend I'm a woman spending all his money on manicures and binkini waxes and he cums? Seriously, hot girls get paid to dom guys without doing anything. They don’t even necessarily need to get naked. They just have to be good at dominating men who want to be dominated by women and have a lot of money to blow on it.
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Bardeh posted:I think the security camera in my [19/F] house is ruining my relationship with my new boyfriend [21/M] yes her parents are absolutely using the camera to police her morality and yes she should go gently caress at his place, what the hell Scathach posted:Seriously. That's way loving creepy. it's creepy but she is technically an adult and she can make decisions like turning down her parents money with strings attached or just dealing with not being able to gently caress in the apartment they pay for because they want to be the cum police
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Or she can keep taking their money and disobey anyway. I hate the common reddit wisdom of "their money, their rules". That's not how parent-child relationships work in general - the idea that you have to obey your controlling parents 100% if they pay for your college is largely paranoia - most controlling parents don't cede all control immediately because you say no once. Most of the time, you don't have to give up your parents money, just act like you are willing to. Willful disobedience should be the default response. "Their house, their rules" is only true if your parents are willing to go to court and evict you or violently harm you.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Or she can keep taking their money and disobey anyway. I hate the common reddit wisdom of "their money, their rules". That's not how parent-child relationships work in general - the idea that you have to obey your controlling parents 100% if they pay for your college is largely paranoia - most controlling parents don't cede all control immediately because you say no once. Most of the time, you don't have to give up your parents money, just act like you are willing to. Willful disobedience should be the default response. "Their house, their rules" is only true if your parents are willing to go to court and evict you or violently harm you. According to the comments, it’s being paid for from her student loans, that are in her name, that her parents say they will pay back one day.
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Ugly In The Morning posted:According to the comments, it’s being paid for from her student loans, that are in her name, that her parents say they will pay back one day. Also she can't possibly stand up to her parents or do anything because they might not approve and that might damage her relationship with them and she HAS to be a good daughter.
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Jun 12, 2018 23:42
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Extort your parents, dummy
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Pick posted:Extort your parents, dummy
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Ugly In The Morning posted:According to the comments, it’s being paid for from her student loans, that are in her name, that her parents say they will pay back one day. Whoa now. In that case gently caress wildly in front of the camera then smash it.
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my parents threatened to cut me off once, and my reaction was "well i have a master's, a good paying job, and am on track to retire early so uh, do whatever you like - enjoy having a lavish retirement home with zero visitors  " and they cut that poo poo out real quickto be clear they weren't actually paying for anything at this point they just were like we'll edit our will because you only call us once a week  Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Frankly the parent-child relationship is extortion on the parent's part from the get-go and it's only fair to pull a reversal of fortune. As a reasonably successful adult child you are your parents reward for years of thankless work, start acting like the prize to be withheld that you are. "parenthood is abuse" is nihilistic as heck and i want to subscribe to your newsletter
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Pick posted:Extort your parents, dummy Mom, Dad, Im feeling the call of base urges and without at least a thousand dollars in cash in the next 24 hours Ill succumb
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Lmao if your parents don’t hold a valuable trusteeship over ur head
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Barudak posted:Mom, Dad, Im feeling the call of base urges and without at least a thousand dollars in cash in the next 24 hours Ill succumb Amazed Oscar Wilde never wrote this play
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Or she can keep taking their money and disobey anyway. I hate the common reddit wisdom of "their money, their rules". That's not how parent-child relationships work in general - the idea that you have to obey your controlling parents 100% if they pay for your college is largely paranoia - most controlling parents don't cede all control immediately because you say no once. Most of the time, you don't have to give up your parents money, just act like you are willing to. Willful disobedience should be the default response. "Their house, their rules" is only true if your parents are willing to go to court and evict you or violently harm you. It’s a mutation of a reasonable rule just like the snooping thing. It’s “their money their rules” in the sense that if they catch you breaking the rules they may stop with the money so factor that risk in accordingly.
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Pick posted:Lmao if your parents don’t hold a valuable trusteeship over ur head Smdh pick
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fruit on the bottom posted:It’s a mutation of a reasonable rule just like the snooping thing. It’s “their money their rules” in the sense that if they catch you breaking the rules they may stop with the money so factor that risk in accordingly. Or, as I read it once in a book, "The whole point of having rules is to make you think before you break them"
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fruit on the bottom posted:It’s a mutation of a reasonable rule just like the snooping thing. It’s “their money their rules” in the sense that if they catch you breaking the rules they may stop with the money so factor that risk in accordingly. yeah. the price of disobeying rules like this is to have your parents nag you about who you let in your house. the easiest solution is just to go to the boyfriend's place, assuming he lives under a roof somewhere
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fruit on the bottom posted:It’s a mutation of a reasonable rule just like the snooping thing. It’s “their money their rules” in the sense that if they catch you breaking the rules they may stop with the money so factor that risk in accordingly.
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Pick posted:Lmao if your parents don’t hold a valuable trusteeship over ur head your parents told you that if you're good you get to administer a trust for someone else's benefit? lmao
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boner confessor posted:yeah. the price of disobeying rules like this is to have your parents nag you about who you let in your house. the easiest solution is just to go to the boyfriend's place, assuming he lives under a roof somewhere gently caress that. It's 100% her money, not theirs. I feel like the best option is destroying the camera and telling them to STFU. Girl needs to put a foot down now or she's going to have dating/wedding/pregnancy/baby/raising kids drama with them constantly. I'd love to hear the other batshit things they've pulled.
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They do exist
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goethe.cx posted:your parents told you that if you're good you get to administer a trust for someone else's benefit? lmao Trusts are their own legal entities and even after the grantors die they have to be administered by a designated successor trustee. Typically it's a revocable living trust and when the grantor(s) dies you can do a step up in cost basis. That's when you reset the purchase price of stocks to the day of the grantor's death for the purpose of calculating capital gains. Just power through the grieving process and install yourself as trustee ASAP from the date of death so you can liquidate with minimal capital gains.
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Clark Nova posted:iirc the US military will punish soldiers for adultery, so she should be able to tattle on the mistress oh yeah they'll even tack on blowjobs as a sodomy charge
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