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spite house posted:I like this OP and foresee great things for her after she ditches the deadweight. God drat people who can't be bothered to show up on time for things piss me off.  I've had friends and roommates that would always do this poo poo and it was aggravating as hell. Yeah sure, let's wait until 10 minutes before we have to be at an event halfway across town to shower or get ready, then get mad when I was like "peace, find your own way" and left without them. A few stopped talking to or riding with me, so it all worked out since I wasn't wasting my time or gas on loving deadbeat morons.
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hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:The fact that she couldn't make plans to be out of her house with presumably a month's notice is pretty telling. can you predict the weather a month in advance? what if it's cloudy and thundering? and dark?!
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Look it isn't her fault if she gets grounded for being out after the street lights turn on
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Caganer posted:honestly, my bet is it's a combination of neuroric as heck GF (darkness falls, the criminals are out oh no!) and a set of guys ranging from fedora owner to full blown incel who make her feel uncomfortable in her own apartment for valid reasons. I Was The Fury posted:I just admitted to playing dnd, what makes you think I'm actually any kind of authority on what makes someone an adult So, Fury, would you say you're more of a fedora owner or an actual incel? One thing is for sure, if you are a D&D player you must fall within that range! 
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Not out of /r/relationships specifically but, Man's girlfriend pretends to be him and rejects prestigious full-ride music scholarship for fear of losing him while he's in another city, man wins $350 000 in court quote:Gilad accepts only two new students per year from the dozens who apply. All Colburn students receive a full scholarship that covers tuition and room and board, along with a living stipend for meals and other expenses. Emphasis mine. This woman deserves prison. Poulpe fucked around with this message at 22:32 on Jun 15, 2018 |
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hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:The fact that she couldn't make plans to be out of her house with presumably a month's notice is pretty telling. You think she should get a hotel room or sleep at a friend's house or something? D&D nights are notorious for not being a 1-2 hour quiet thing
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Darkrenown posted:So, Fury, would you say you're more of a fedora owner or an actual incel? One thing is for sure, if you are a D&D player you must fall within that range! I technically haven't owned a fedora but I did have another insufferably gross-person hat. Google says it's an Irish flat cap so yeah just think of someone with that hat and pink aviator shades and you've got a picture of me at age 20
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QuarkJets posted:You think she should get a hotel room or sleep at a friend's house or something? D&D nights are notorious for not being a 1-2 hour quiet thing Well I'm guessing it's a weekend, and lots of people have plans on weekends that involve not being in their house for multiple hours. If she comes home and it's still going on, go to sleep or read in your bedroom or something. If it's sweaty nerds pounding Red Bull and playing until 9 in the morning, ok that's a different story.
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Poulpe posted:Not out of /r/relationships specifically but, She can't be punished in any way because she's blocked on social media.
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Baronjutter posted:She can't be punished in any way because she's blocked on social media. Usually the court hacks into your twitter and garnishes your bitcoin to enforce judgments.
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Jun 15, 2018 22:45
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Whelp, the Chris Hardwick sex pest thread is full of people defending age gaps between 20 and 40 year olds so I’m just checking back in to my safe space: this thread.
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WaPo is defending a 30 year age gap where the guy ditched his starter family to have a new baby He’s 70 or something lol He had to “find himself”
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Pick posted:WaPo is defending a 29 year age gap where the guy ditched his starter family to have a new baby That’s gross, but it’s also impressive
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fruit on the bottom posted:Whelp, the Chris Hardwick sex pest thread is full of people defending age gaps between 20 and 40 year olds and people who get weirdly obsessed if you joke about john hodgeman being a sex pest (?!)
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Pick posted:WaPo is defending a 30 year age gap where the guy ditched his starter family to have a new baby Look, he's the president, they have to cover him.
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My [F/18] mom [F/53] thinks there are demons in my house just because (1) my sister [F/20] told her a dream about demons and (2) I deal with depression. She won’t stop screaming for God to “cast them out” and it’s bothering me.quote:Long post.
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Barudak posted:I know, we all miss Tuvix I hate you forever for reminding me of that.
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"It's bothering me" is the best way to end that sentence.
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How do you send off a strong signal to a date who keeps delaying to meet? (self.dating)quote:It's complicated. I mean, I met this girl in my office a month back and we got along really well. I asked her out on a date and she & I have been talking ever since. Either I call her or she calls me in the evening and we've had many late night conversations about our lives, what we want in the future, past relationships etc.
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Caganer posted:How do you send off a strong signal to a date who keeps delaying to meet? (self.dating) it bugs me when people keep canceling plans too but calm yo rear end down dude
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goethe.cx posted:it bugs me when people keep canceling plans too but calm yo rear end down dude you mean telling a potential date "woman, your refusal to do what I say is making me very angry!" doesn't increase desire? 
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Caganer posted:you mean telling a potential date "woman, your refusal to do what I say is making me very angry!" doesn't increase desire? it's ok, he says he's a nice person! vvvv "soft ghosting," a thing that extremely normal people do and isn't stupid as poo poo goethe.cx fucked around with this message at 00:31 on Jun 16, 2018 |
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Jun 16, 2018 00:26
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I bet she's deliberately trying to soft-ghost him.
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I like that she said she wanted to meet up but only had an hour and he immediately blew her off. Bitches right?
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goethe.cx posted:it's ok, he says he's a nice person! Soft-ghosting is indeed an extremely normal person thing to do because hard-ghosting breeds serial killers and capitulating to the demands of nice-guys breeds date-rape
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I Was The Fury posted:Soft-ghosting is indeed an extremely normal person thing to do because hard-ghosting breeds serial killers and capitulating to the demands of nice-guys breeds date-rape uh what i realize a lot of men don't take rejection well and that's why women aren't always upfront that they're not interested, but continuing to message and talk with a guy while always finding a reason not to meet up is really irritating and immature imo
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Not being able to take the loving clue is immature
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But she didn't give him a signed & notarized notice that she was terminating their dating relationship effective immediately, which means this will never hold up in relationship court.
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goethe.cx posted:uh what
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My (35m) Wife (32f) was Raped I am Trying to be Supportive but she asks a lot (self.relationship_advice)quote:My wife was raped last month. I was out of town for business and she went out with some girls from work to a bar after work to blow of steam she said. I was a bit upset because she never called or told me she was going out, but I also dont want to be a controlling rear end in a top hat. I was also upset because we have two children and they were both left with a baby sitter so she had ample time to tell me. Well she apparently got drunk, although she thinks something was put in her drink and two guys brought her to a car in a parking lot and took turns while she was blacked out in the back seat of the car. She doesnt remember much of it at all, but says it lasted a long time. I could tell by what the baby sitter charged she got home around 5 am. She says they left her in the parking lot and drove off. She already got tested and is going to get tested again today. She told me right when I got back from the business trip. She was a mess. Crying. It hurt to see her that way. She had some marks on her body and could barely get the words out.
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Caganer posted:My (35m) Wife (32f) was Raped I am Trying to be Supportive but she asks a lot (self.relationship_advice) ...WTF?
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Caganer posted:My (35m) Wife (32f) was Raped I am Trying to be Supportive but she asks a lot (self.relationship_advice) 
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Caganer posted:My (35m) Wife (32f) was Raped I am Trying to be Supportive but she asks a lot (self.relationship_advice) man oh man i hope that's a fakepost because 
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Uhhh
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There's an update Update My (35m) Wife (32f) was Raped I am Trying to be Supportive but she asks a lot quote:I am not sure if I posted something wrong, or offensive. I didnt mean to. Never been to this part of Reddit. Anyways. I am just in a drat tail spin and a lot of people's advice believe it or not is making me feel better for feeling what I am feeling. I am furious. I want to cuss her out, take my kids and run away. Everything I have ever learned or been told though says I have to support her. So I am like destroyed in the head. My wife got back an hour ago. I checked and the starbucks she says she met them at would have still been open. She says she met them and just talked to them. She found out their names...which brought up some other issues I dont want to get into. They seemed to say over and over again that they thought she was into it. They say she gave one her number and went to the car. She told me that they at least claim it was her idea to stop in a parks parking lot and start things and that they drove her back. She says talking to them helped her remember most of it, but she is adamant that she was blacked out during most of it and never remembers anything past talking to one of the guys at the bar for a little bit, bits in pieces in the back of the car, and being let out by her car in the parking lot.
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this guy is a terrible writer and sometimes makes new topics sometimes edits posts to add addendums there's morequote:update: I figured I would put this here. A lot of people have confirmed my feelings as being legitimate and not the actions of an angry self centered ex. I didn't sleep last night and reached out to a friend of her's on facebook who works at the hospital she works at. I figured if anyone was there it was her. I am good friends with her husband and it was probably the most embarrassing thing I have ever done. She told me she was there that night. It was all girls, "just blowing off steam." She did tell me that my wife was wishy washy about coming because of inability to find a baby sitter and me being out of town. She knew nothing of anything afterwards, but she did tell me that my wife was around one guy the entire night. She said she was only telling me this because she felt it was inappropriate. My wife and this guy apparently were drinking and dancing all night together. I know its one of the guys because it matched the description. She said the girls were all leaving to go to another bar and my wife told them that she wanted to stay. That is all she knew. It stood out because it was very unlike my wife and this guy was very different than what she would expect. I couple this with my wife not talking to me at all today and the fact that her cell phone is now locked with a password. I have never once checked her cell phone before and its driven me to this, but she has told me to answer her phone for her and other things before and it never had a password. I think I am done. I am getting the hell out of this as fast as possible. I have way too many bad thoughts and now for the first time ever I am wondering whether I can trust my wife and I am also wondering where she is right now. I am lucky to have money so will be fine getting another place. I might try to talk to her one time when she gets home, but even then I think I am done.
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If that's real, I think this guy just found out that his wife is cheating on him and really bad at improvising excuses.
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Yo hey that’s a reeeeeeal lovely situation.
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chitoryu12 posted:If that's real, I think this guy just found out that his wife is cheating on him and really bad at improvising excuses. correct me if i'm wrong, but if you can't remember sex, you were blacked out correct? and if you were blacked out, there's no informed consent? and if you don't give informed consent... it's sexual assault?
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This may be a loving nuclear hot take, but I do not think she was raped, and she is almost definitely loving them entirely consensually now
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