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I'm [22F] working for a nonprofit and a volunteer couple [20s/F & 30sM] wants a threesome with me. They creep me out and their behavior is starting to scare me!quote:Throwaway account because I don’t want to get fired. Reddit, I need help and don’t know where else to turn. I feel like a sitting duck. Sorry this is so long! [Update] I'm [22F] working for a nonprofit and a volunteer couple [20s/F & 30sM] wants a threesome with me. They creep me out and their behavior is starting to scare me! quote:Hello once again, Reddit! Sorry for not posting an update sooner- I know lots of you messaged me to make sure I was still ok and I thank you so much for your concern and care Thank you to everyone who helped me on my prior post as well! Anyways, on to the update.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 06:16 |
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# ? May 14, 2024 14:02 |
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My sister (20F) viciously lashed out at the guy (25M) I (18M) have been casually seeing TLDR;My wildly overprotective sister nearly smacked the older guy I've been casually seeing and won't talk to me. As a bit of context, my sister (N) basically raised me. Our parents are a No-Go, they weren't present, whatever. She worked jobs in highschool so that I never wanted for stuff and had the freedom to go out with my friends and basically pass as coming from a normal home so minimal questions were raised and I didn't have to deal with a lot of poo poo. She sheltered me to an extent that's impossible to describe, and I know (because she's told me, and because of everything else) that there's very little she wouldn't do for me. When things were the worst they'd ever been, she used to say that she loved me double. She taught me how to tie my shoelaces. I'm sorry if this is all too much at once, but I feel like no one else is going to get it. Naturally, she's crazy overprotective. It's wild but I don't think I have anything to say about that, it's not a convo we've had because I just don't know what I'd say? 'So I know you raised me but I want it to stop, sorry!' I made the mistake of bringing this guy back home, but I didn't think she'd be around and to be fair, it's nothing serious. I haven't 'done' anything with him but I know he's interested in me and I don't really do anything to stop that because I don't care or mind I guess. We had just come in the door and as soon as she saw us, I knew I was in deep poo poo. This guy looks his age, and even if it was something else, it was pretty late and past my curfew. She walks up to him and the first thing she says is: how loving old are you, guy? You look like you should be teaching high-schoolers, not loving them. She was the maddest I've ever seen her. I forgot to mention that I only brought him home because he asked to use the bathroom, and she wasn't supposed to have come home from uni yet. Our roomates are asleep, so she's not yelling but she's very aggressive, she corners this guy and she looks like she's going to hit him, hard. I'm terrified and she notices and I'm sure that's the only reason she didn't actually hit him. She makes him turn on his phone, deletes my number and blocks me from his phone. My sister is a loving terror when she needs to be, and she's always been like this about me. Before he leaves, she says he better hope that I never hear from him again. She's never done anything like this before, and though the 2 other boys I was interested in were intimidated and made uncomfortable by her, it's mostly just because she IS intimidating, not because she actually actively did anything to make them uncomfortable. She was basically in tears after he left, and I've never seen her cry before. She hasn't spoken to me in like 3 days and I don't know what to do, about her, or the guy, whom I can download tinder and message again if I want. Help me, I love my sister and I hosed up.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 06:16 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My sister (20F) viciously lashed out at the guy (25M) I (18M) have been casually seeing Another Good Sister for the club
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 06:29 |
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TheKennedys posted:Another Good Sister for the club Seriously.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 06:32 |
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Imagine sacrificing your entire adolescence to raise your kid sister and having her be all "no gently caress you Like I get the reason we find it so creepy is because teenagers are so stupid but like drat, can't even imagine how frustrated I'd be.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 06:39 |
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Dunning Krugerrand posted:I'm [22F] working for a nonprofit and a volunteer couple [20s/F & 30sM] wants a threesome with me. They creep me out and their behavior is starting to scare me! Stories in which creeps get owned are the best thing ever. They bring a smile to my face every single time.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 06:53 |
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The little sister is, upon review, (18M). So I think that might change things a little from what I've read, but I'm not qualified to weigh in. Would like to know about how much of a garbage fire the parents are.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 06:54 |
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Beachcomber posted:The little sister is, upon review, (18M).
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 06:57 |
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The older sister owns and the little brother is a moron for trying to pick up someone 7 years his senior especially since it's so abjectly obvious that his sister gave up a lot to raise him and bring him into her household away from their parents. What a way to repay someone for giving up so much and working so hard all in order to protect him.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 08:06 |
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My [20M] father [53M] thinks eating strawberries is feminine? I'm a 20 year old man. I love eating strawberries. My father asked me, "Why do you always eat strawberries? That's very girly. I see a lot of women eating strawberries." I'm not kidding when I say this. My father literally thinks eating strawberries is feminine. I don't see nothing wrong for a man to eat strawberries. They're very good and they're good for you. Is it feminine for a man to eat strawberries? tl;dr: My father judges me for eating strawberries all the time. He thinks it's girly. I'm not kidding when I say this. Is it really girly for a guy to eat strawberries all the time or is my father just insane?
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 08:13 |
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ah so this is that toxic masculinity I've been hearing tell about, isn't it
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 08:28 |
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Mr. Lobe posted:ah so this is that toxic masculinity I've been hearing tell about, isn't it Yup.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 08:38 |
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It's not something "SJWs" just made up, it's real. See also: men who don't wipe they own asses because going too far up between the cheeks is "gay" and consequently smell like poo poo all the time https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliegerstein/listen-up-men-we-need-to-talk-about-how-to-wipe-your?utm_term=.lcwnZ5VrB#.jhRKmjVBL
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 08:45 |
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Mill Town posted:It's not something "SJWs" just made up, it's real. See also: men who don't wipe they own asses because going too far up between the cheeks is "gay" and consequently smell like poo poo all the time https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliegerstein/listen-up-men-we-need-to-talk-about-how-to-wipe-your?utm_term=.lcwnZ5VrB#.jhRKmjVBL That has to be one of those things that started as a joke but then idiots were like "oh yeah that makes sense, I'm not gay so I'll just wipe inadequately from now on"
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 09:05 |
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Mill Town posted:It's not something "SJWs" just made up, it's real. See also: men who don't wipe they own asses because going too far up between the cheeks is "gay" and consequently smell like poo poo all the time https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliegerstein/listen-up-men-we-need-to-talk-about-how-to-wipe-your?utm_term=.lcwnZ5VrB#.jhRKmjVBL I didn't doubt it was real, but it's wild to see these extreme examples of it. I'm more used to thinking of "toxic masculinity" being like lead in the water, something ambient in the environment that builds up in people over time and stunts their development. Toxicitywise, this is a more like drinking straight isopropyl alcohol.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 09:13 |
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Hopefully this leads to the bright conclusion that things coming out of the butthole are just as gay as things going in, therefore pooping makes you a fagot and they simply refuse to ever poop again e: And then they die QuarkJets fucked around with this message at 09:19 on Jun 18, 2018 |
# ? Jun 18, 2018 09:17 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [20M] father [53M] thinks eating strawberries is feminine? Like clearly the solution is to start eating bananas all the time in front of dad tho.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 11:09 |
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Beachcomber posted:The little sister is, upon review, (18M). Not really That being said though it's apparently a pattern and something she does whenever she meets someone her brother wants to hook up with, not just this older guy, and if she were a dude we'd be (rightfully) calling her a fascist
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 13:34 |
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loquacius posted:That being said though it's apparently a pattern and something she does whenever she meets someone her brother wants to hook up with, not just this older guy quote:She's never done anything like this before, and though the 2 other boys I was interested in were intimidated and made uncomfortable by her, it's mostly just because she IS intimidating, not because she actually actively did anything to make them uncomfortable.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 13:43 |
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Ok yeah it's actually kind of ambiguous from that sentence upon reread
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 13:45 |
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It’s not ambiguous unless you assume the dude is straight up lying.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 13:47 |
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I'd be willing to bet entire dollars that "she's just intimidating" means "she does everything in her power to be as menacing as possible to anyone who might touch her precious baby not-son" and she just went off the rails this time because oh no, he's older yeah kids are dumb but guess what people are loving stupid all the time from cradle to grave and making mistakes is the best teacher when it comes to people
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 15:24 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:It’s not ambiguous unless you assume the dude is straight up lying. It's ambiguous what he means by "she's just an intimidating person" Like, that could mean that she's just very serious as a result of having to run a household herself to make up for a pair of extremely lovely parents, or it could mean that she's trying to scare away anyone who threatens her gay brother's virginity even if this is the only time she's straight-up backed someone into a corner and somehow made him delete a number from his phone Hot take: if it is possible to force a person to delete a number from their phone without the use of a weapon, they probably really were just there to use the bathroom
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 15:28 |
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loquacius posted:Not really I know it shouldn't be different, but I've been told from multiple sources that this kind of...mentor relationship is historically common in the gay male community. It may take awhile for this kind of thing to go away, if it ever does, and I'm not qualified to pass judgement.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 15:34 |
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loquacius posted:It's ambiguous what he means by "she's just an intimidating person" Ah you do just assume he is straight up lying. Could have just led with that also ambiguous isn’t the right word either way CharlestheHammer fucked around with this message at 15:41 on Jun 18, 2018 |
# ? Jun 18, 2018 15:39 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:Ah you do just assume he is straight up lying. Uh, no People make unconscious excuses for their loved ones all the time. If you did a count of r/r posts ITT featuring a sentiment along the lines of "ehh, they didn't mean anything by that, it's just how they are" I'm sure it'd be in the hundreds
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 15:41 |
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loquacius posted:Uh, no People make unconscious excuses for their loved ones all the time. If you did a count of r/r posts ITT featuring a sentiment along the lines of "ehh, they didn't mean anything by that, it's just how they are" I'm sure it'd be in the hundreds loquacius posted:Uh, no People make unconscious excuses for their loved ones all the time. If you did a count of r/r posts ITT featuring a sentiment along the lines of "ehh, they didn't mean anything by that, it's just how they are" I'm sure it'd be in the hundreds Unconscious doesn’t make it ambiguous you are assuming he is being misleading (based on nothing in the text)which is lying. Whether he is doing it on purpose is neither here nor there
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 15:43 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:Unconscious doesn’t make it ambiguous you are assuming he is being misleading which is lying. Whether he is doing it on purpose is neither here nor there We apparently use different definitions for "lying" and especially "straight up lying" but that is also neither here nor there The ambiguity stems from whether he is accurately judging her intentions; assuming the best of someone who has done a lot for you doesn't make you a straight-up liar
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 15:44 |
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loquacius posted:We apparently use different definitions for "lying" and especially "straight up lying" but that is also neither here nor there Yeah I tend to use the commonly used one while I’m not entirely sure what your definition is, besides dumb really ambiguous
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 15:47 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:Yeah I tend to use the commonly used one while I’m not entirely sure what your definition is, besides dumb really ambiguous This is the one I'm using Yours, apparently, is "to be wrong about something"
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 15:56 |
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Me [35 F] with my daughter 17F, She was taken out of state without my knowledge or consent years ago. I want to reach out but don't know how, please help me.quote:I had we will call "Babygirl when I was just about to turn 17, I honestly was not ready to be a mother due to an abusive home life and no support system. I was so happy though! loved on my baby and did the best I could. Her father was 36 when I got pregnant at that time and was in a relationship, basically used me. The other woman was about his age and not mentally all their herself. She angry and hateful to me and used my baby as a tool against me. It’s affecting her grammar at least.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 15:58 |
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Good to see even a 17 year old into MLM is smart enough to block the living personification of Florida from her life
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 16:06 |
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loquacius posted:This is the one I'm using Lol thanks for proving my point I guess
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 16:08 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:Lol thanks for proving my point I guess you're welcome I guess I'm not even sure what we're fighting about at this point
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 16:10 |
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Caganer posted:My boyfriend [27 M] told me [21 F] to stop giving my number out in bars. Some guy at the bar got angry with me for not giving him my number, and I'm upset with my boyfriend for telling me what to do without understanding the situation[new] (self.relationships) holy poo poo shes dumb ArbitraryC posted:not that I can't understand her predicament and frustration over the whole "why don't you stop getting sexually harassed" thing but I feel like her whole situation is kinda weird too. Only gf I ever had that consistently went out to enjoy clubs and nightlife and such without me there cheated on me. The rest of them never had this sort of problem. i mean she's 21 so it is understandable but yea she's kinda stupid, lol at 'having' to give your number out tsa fucked around with this message at 16:23 on Jun 18, 2018 |
# ? Jun 18, 2018 16:20 |
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Mill Town posted:It's not something "SJWs" just made up, it's real. See also: men who don't wipe they own asses because going too far up between the cheeks is "gay" and consequently smell like poo poo all the time https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliegerstein/listen-up-men-we-need-to-talk-about-how-to-wipe-your?utm_term=.lcwnZ5VrB#.jhRKmjVBL lol nice buzzfeed link moron
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 16:26 |
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...Why is someone in a relationship constantly at bars anyways? If you want to drink it's cheaper to drink at home with friends. I guess it depends on the type of bar? Like is she going for live music or whatever? But if so why is BF not going with her? I just don't understand this dynamic at all. Part of that may be that I only go to bars for fried food and music though.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 16:36 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:...Why is someone in a relationship constantly at bars anyways? If you want to drink it's cheaper to drink at home with friends. I guess it depends on the type of bar? Like is she going for live music or whatever? But if so why is BF not going with her? I just don't understand this dynamic at all. Part of that may be that I only go to bars for fried food and music though. She said she was with her friend there who was hooking up, sounds like she was being her wingman. Doesn't sound that unusual. I still go to pubs even though the offy is cheaper because they offer different things.
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 16:40 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:...Why is someone in a relationship constantly at bars anyways? If you want to drink it's cheaper to drink at home with friends. I guess it depends on the type of bar? Like is she going for live music or whatever? But if so why is BF not going with her? I just don't understand this dynamic at all. Part of that may be that I only go to bars for fried food and music though. Sometimes people want to go out and drink in a busy, social setting. Maybe she's meeting a bunch of friends out there for a girls night so the BF isn't invited, maybe he's not the bar scene type but she is and goes without him. The post does make it sound like this happens fairly often so who knows. I don't entirely get it either, but we don't have all the info on it and it ultimately doesn't matter. Giving out your phone number at will is a bad solution and she shouldn't do it, but the bf sounds like an rear end in a top hat too (why didn't he go get her once she was freaking out? He's also being kind of condescending about the whole thing).
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 16:42 |
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# ? May 14, 2024 14:02 |
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Aramoro posted:She said she was with her friend there who was hooking up, sounds like she was being her wingman. Doesn't sound that unusual. I still go to pubs even though the offy is cheaper because they offer different things. I've basically never been single over the age of 21, and generally hate bars, so I guess I'm biased. I can't imagine my wife being cool with me going to wingman some dude trying to get laid, and I certainly wouldn't be cool with her wingwomaning at a bar either. I kinda feel like friends going out to find bone partners should leave relationship people out of it?
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# ? Jun 18, 2018 16:46 |