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La Brea Carpet posted:A 35 year old man texting a 13 year old girl every day. This guy's post history has a ton of Bitcoin poo poo so it seems pretty likely that either he's the texter or he's jealous that the girl isn't paying attention to him instead.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 20:04 |
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The total lack of details makes me wonder if that wasn’t written by said 35-yo, he got found out, and now he’s trying to see if he’s in “tut tut” trouble or “flee to Mexico” trouble
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 20:06 |
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AmiYumi posted:The total lack of details makes me wonder if that wasn’t written by said 35-yo, he got found out, and now he’s trying to see if he’s in “tut tut” trouble or “flee to Mexico” trouble That seems the likeliest scenario, yes.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 20:06 |
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"He has told her his deepest secrets that he hasn't even told his wife. " Is the telling quote, how would you even know if you weren't one of the parties?
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 20:07 |
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Penguissimo posted:This guy's post history has a ton of Bitcoin poo poo so it seems pretty likely that either he's the texter or he's jealous that the girl isn't paying attention to him instead. sadly a large chunk of legaladvice seems to be pedos/rapists trying to learn how to pedo/rape better. there was a post that indirectly led to the closing of /r/incels that basically was like "hurr durr if a woman claims i raped her she needs more proof than here word right" and was incredibly obviously plotting to rape someone and say she made it up
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 20:08 |
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Admiral Ray posted:That kid will be lucky to survive the birthing process and needs to get an abortion. Jesus. Wasn't there a really depressing r/relationships post from waaaaaaay back by a 25 year old 'widower' with a 10-year old kid? His girlfriend got pregnant at 14 or 15, her parents refused to let her get an abortion and she died giving birth because her pelvis wasn't wide enough. Even if it wasn't reddit, that story made me feel sick. In less soul-suckingly depressing news, a friend of mine posted this on facebook, and I'm wondering if they were secretly the OP of that 'I embarrassed myself by asking where my boyfriend keeps his poop knife' classic:
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 20:40 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:that 'I embarrassed myself by asking where my boyfriend keeps his poop knife' classic: ...go on...
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 20:43 |
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I was off a little on the details: I was 22 years old when I learned that not every family has a poop knife. quote:My family poops big. Maybe it's genetic, maybe it's our diet, but everyone births giant logs of crap. If anyone has laid a mega-poop, you know that sometimes it won't flush. It lays across the hole in the bottom of the bowl and the vortex of draining water merely gives it a spin as it mocks you.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 20:47 |
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Should I [26F] be worried that my soon to be husband [26M] almost hit me?Relationships (self.relationships)quote:My soon to be husband and I are very close. However, we have been fighting a lot lately and I’m worried about the future of our relationship.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 20:54 |
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COMRADES posted:My point was more that I've never once seen cops actually interrogate anyone as to the source of some alcohol they brought to a party nor would "so and so bought it for me" constitute any kind of legal evidence whatsoever and they wouldn't really pursue it. Like sure if there are adults there and wasted 11 year olds running around that's one thing but a high school party?
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 21:05 |
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LabyaMynora posted:I'm not a cop, not even a "Blue Lives Matter" weirdo. I'm just an old guy. I don't revere cops, and I'd give the same advice to someone who was on the cusp of being a teacher, lawyer, or anything else where the job you invested in could be taken away for relatively minor misconduct. I apologize. I've learned a valuable lesson to never attribute to authoritarianism what can be explained by gooniness.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 21:05 |
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quote:Breaking up with him hasn’t been an option because we have been together for almost a decade now. Oh, well in that case I guess you better suck it up.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 21:06 |
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Caganer posted:Should I [26F] be worried that my soon to be husband [26M] almost hit me?Relationships (self.relationships) He hit you and he is 100% cheating on you.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 21:06 |
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Pastor's son [22M] broke into media department office and stole my [24F] camera and related equipment. I'm expected to replace it because he "can't afford to buy a new camera and feed his two daughters"quote:I'm sorry for the length! I'm just really confused and emotional right now. tl:dr at the bottom.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 21:30 |
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Haifisch posted:Pastor's son [22M] broke into media department office and stole my [24F] camera and related equipment. I'm expected to replace it because he "can't afford to buy a new camera and feed his two daughters" I realize its very hard to confront your molester but you should probably press charges.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 21:39 |
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Caganer posted:"women aren't funny" is a well documented sexist untruth The hilarious part will hit you once you find out what documented means
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Haifisch posted:Pastor's son [22M] broke into media department office and stole my [24F] camera and related equipment. I'm expected to replace it because he "can't afford to buy a new camera and feed his two daughters" quote:From what I'm reading, though, it seems that notifying the pastor ahead of time to see if we can find a better solution is illegal on my part, and falls under the category of extortion. Saying "compensate me for the stuff you stole from me so I won't have to go to the cops" isn't extortion. Neither would saying "here's the money for a new camera my drug addict son stole, please let's just forget this" be bribery. This is like when people think any expression of conditional disapproval with consequences is an abusive ultimatum.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 21:51 |
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hawowanlawow posted:just a quick lol at the drinking age being 21 still Also having a late, quick lol, because my old campus with a drinking age of 18 has four bars on-campus, three off-licenses nearby, another two bars five minutes walk off-campus, with multiple nightclubs 15 mins via bus. You'd see walks of shame between the dorms and similar evidence of debauchery every Wednesday and Friday morning, but at least you could get a proper full irish and a pot of coffee for €4.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 22:13 |
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I went to a campus bar in Canada and it was pretty placid. More like a pub. Later found out this was the undergrad bar as well. Weird how when you let people drink at 19 (and younger w/ parental supervision) people don't act like animals when drunk. Back when I hosteled I went into a few pubs that would pretend they had a 21 limit if they heard American accents. I found this out when I went to one in London with a group of Australians, had a (tranquil) time then brought some other people (mostly American) and they were all "oh we are 21+" until they finally caved and admitted they just don't like American college students but can't say "no americans" because of human rights law
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E: oops wrong thread
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 23:01 |
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Is it inappropriate to send “apology flowers” and an apology letter to a woman at work? (self.dating)quote:Recently broke off a relationship and didn’t feel great about how I handled it. I basically told the woman after 3 months that communication wasn’t there and felt as if I always had to initiate so staying a couple wasn’t something I was going to do anymore. A week passed, hadn’t heard anything so I decided to arrange for a “friendship and peace offering” flower bouquet(no red roses or anything) and typed up an apology letter that was from the heart. She received the gift and lost her mind on me, told me that it was extremely inappropriate to do that and that she never wanted to speak to me again, she did confirm that she had NOT read the letter yet when she was firing off those messages which I honestly feel would have changed her opinion on why I decided to send her the flowers and brought clarity to the last couple months of our friendship/relationship. Was it wrong for me to do this? Did she overreact? I did a bit of research online before deciding to send flowers and mostly all the responses I read thought it was a good idea, plus. other woman at my office get flowers all the time so it’s not like this sort of this is unheard of where I work.. she said to not contact her anymore and I don’t plan on doing so however this week at work I can tell that she is extremely depressed, I’m sure it’s because of how she overreacted at first, told me to piss off then read that heart felt letter I wrote to her and wants to apologize but doesn’t have the guts to do so. What do you all think? I want to hear from ladies to see why this was so wrong for me to do. I indicated in the final message that I sent to her that “I was amazed she felt this way and all I wanted to accomplish with the flower and letters was to be an adult, admit my wrongs and bring closure to the whole situation” geez, other women (who are in relationships) get flowers at work all the time, why is this woman (who I dumped) so mad when I send her flowers? so illogical, amirite reddit?
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 23:16 |
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:What? "Pay me or I'll report your crimes" is legally extortion; whether or not the DA's gonna press charges in this particular situation is another story altogether but any lawyer would strongly advise you against exposing yourself like that, and so would a fake internet lawyer. "Compensation" is a civil-court matter, you can totally go "pay me back for the camera or I'll sue" but you'll never loving get your money. Caganer posted:I went to a campus bar in Canada and it was pretty placid. More like a pub. Later found out this was the undergrad bar as well. Weird how when you let people drink at 19 (and younger w/ parental supervision) people don't act like animals when drunk. yeeeah citing Austrialians isn't a great case for "if you let people drink before 21 they become able to handle their booze" A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 23:32 on Jun 30, 2018 |
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:This is like when people think any expression of conditional disapproval with consequences is an abusive ultimatum. an ultimatum is abuse quote:Abusers often threaten their victims with ultimatums: “If you do x, then I will leave you.” Victims are constantly made to feel fear for the possibility of being left, neglected, or ignored. quote:Ultimatums or threats are a means of *control* and are typically given when the behavior in question hasn’t occurred yet. The person giving the ultimatum or issuing the threat is very invested in the outcome of the situation and in controlling the other person’s behavior.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 23:35 |
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You know, that's the first time I read the famous poop knife story and was expecting something very different. Also, goddamn it I clicked on "last" again and missed like 100 pages of thread I needed to catch up on. I hope I didn't miss anything good.
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 23:36 |
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I [28 M] am attracted to my stylist [30 F], but she thinks I'm gayquote:So, yeah, I've got myself into a bit of a pickle here..... top comment posted:Expert relationship doctor here. My undoubtedly rock solid advice here is this:
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=luIz2z524XIHaifisch posted:I [28 M] am attracted to my stylist [30 F], but she thinks I'm gay put these thoughts to rest, as a phd student you are streets ahead of some stylist. maybe hit her up for some thanksgiving sex when you come home, but you need to set proper expectations. you don't invite gently caress buddies to drive out and visit you, you text them at 10pm the night before thanksgiving Caganer fucked around with this message at 23:47 on Jun 30, 2018 |
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oh yeah ty for the poop knife story, our modern day Odyssey
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# ? Jun 30, 2018 23:59 |
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This is a few pages back, but doesn't the 20 year old woman have any other friends that are 21? Like, at least one that is not going to become a cop? At ages 16-20 I could always find someone to buy beer. It's not that hard.
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Hellblazer187 posted:This is a few pages back, but doesn't the 20 year old woman have any other friends that are 21? Like, at least one that is not going to become a cop? At ages 16-20 I could always find someone to buy beer. It's not that hard. my RA bought it for me Caganer fucked around with this message at 00:30 on Jul 1, 2018 |
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almightyerin posted:You know, that's the first time I read the famous poop knife story and was expecting something very different. You did miss Pick (further) outing herself as a terrible person by saying hitting your spouse is cool and good and that not wanting to be hit is emotional manipulation
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# ? Jul 1, 2018 00:15 |
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I haven't been able to keep up with this thread, but was there ever an update to that story about the roommate filing official complaints of racism and harassment because her roommates listened to Drake? For some reason, I found that one particularly funny and wanted to know how far it would go.
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# ? Jul 1, 2018 00:37 |
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quote:I suppose this would make me bisexual, but I never have liked this label (or labels in general). quote:However, a few months pass by, and it becomes clear to me there was a bit of a miscommunication as my family is now openly identifying me as gay - not “not straight” but gay, in the strictest sense. I’m annoyed by the situation I guess you better get some labels then, dickhead.
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# ? Jul 1, 2018 00:41 |
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Haifisch posted:I [28 M] am attracted to my stylist [30 F], but she thinks I'm gay Accidentally spill a deck of those cards with nude ladies on them. She'll figure it out.
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# ? Jul 1, 2018 01:03 |
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almightyerin posted:You know, that's the first time I read the famous poop knife story and was expecting something very different. Fat camp saga is a must-read. Caganer posted:the fat camp trilogy is
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# ? Jul 1, 2018 01:10 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:oh yeah ty for the poop knife story, our modern day Odyssey No prob my man Now that I know there are actual poop knives, I know what I’m buying my brother for his birthday.
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ArbitraryC posted:Yeah tbh I found her followup more depressing than anything, like I obviously think she hosed up badly but it sounds like there were dysfunctional parts of her relationship she was resentful over for a while. doesn't really excuse what she did and lol how selfish was it to try and actually shoot for raising that kid together but the guy did kind of come across as pretty controlling and demanding in a way that I'm not really surprised his worst fears came to fruition. I have to give her a lot of credit for how she's coming to terms with what she did. It'd have to be really loving hard to face up to breaking a relationship that badly. She's looked in the mirror and told the world what she saw. She did terrible things, but she's sharing a powerful lesson. Admiral Ray posted:Bobby's a piece of poo poo but still young enough to stop being one. Don't apologize, hopefully he won't do this poo poo again. Let him back in the group if he apologizes with remorse and shows signs of having learned a valuable lesson. quote:Ephebophilia chat... poo poo, freshmen looked like kids when I was a senior in high school.
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# ? Jul 1, 2018 01:26 |
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COMRADES posted:You know how I can tell you didn't go to a lot of parties in HS? Posting on SA?
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# ? Jul 1, 2018 02:01 |
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Husband (24) thinks that my (26) desire to feed the family healthy food is my "hobby" therefore he doesn't have to help me with it. Thoughts?quote:We've been married for 7 years and have 3 kids (3,3, and 10mo). Well I was extremely sick during pregnancy so the cooking fell onto him. He said that he was too over worked to cook so we just started eat fast food for almost every meal. quote:[–]Libertarian1986 [S] -55 points 5 years ago
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# ? Jul 1, 2018 02:07 |
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seems understandable you'd cling to some hosed-up childrearing practices when you're 150 years old
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Haifisch posted:Husband (24) thinks that my (26) desire to feed the family healthy food is my "hobby" therefore he doesn't have to help me with it. Thoughts? This but unironically. Except for the circumcision, who cares 'bout dick skin.
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