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TheScott2K posted:The only good use of the love language thing is to use it to tune into how your partner is already showing their love for you. The people who turn it into conflict fuel are morons. Where I got married asked folks to do a marriage preparation course. That was the first place I heard of the love language thing at all. You ranked things that were important to you. It all seemed fairly sensible and you know it does give you some insights into yourself and your partner. But then I came on here and see everyone seems to hate them which was initially quite confusing because it seemed totally harmless. But then you read the insane love language stories and it all begins to fall into place. Like in that one, she describes that he like physical touch, but all her examples of showing that she loves him are her buying him things, she does try to say she caters to him as well but without much in the way of examples. Aramoro fucked around with this message at 14:07 on Jul 4, 2018 |
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A lot of people aren't equipped to have healthy adult relationships at all and they have a tendency to find similarly deficient people to fail with. And thank God for that, for it gives us r/relationships
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Jul 4, 2018 14:08
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What's love language
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Jul 4, 2018 14:12
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Fartbox posted:What's love language the passive aggressive back and forth between two sad human beings caught in a monogamous relationship
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Jul 4, 2018 14:14
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It's supposed to be a simple way to explain why different people in a relationship value different expressions of love. Like a guy might fix his wife's car to show he cares where a woman might buy a birthday card. A new coat of paint to the "Women are from Venus" line of thinking. It should be used to foster communication between two people and allow them to make a bit of effort to understand what their partner wants while understanding their gestures have equal value. Of course it's quickly gotten to 'my love language is to be completely catered to every second' or the other extreme 'his love language is loving all my friends how do we resolve this while respecting his boundaries'
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Jul 4, 2018 14:18
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My(31F) Boyfriend (32M) texts me that he wants to have sex with his friendquote:New boyfriend of two weeks, 32M, 31F. We had exclusive conversations about our status before getting into a relationship. I made it clear I wanted monogamy, he claimed that's exactly what he wants too. We agreed if we wanted to do threesomes, we'd need to talk extensively about it and set strict and clear boundaries, and LATER on in the relationship.
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Jul 4, 2018 14:19
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lmao at being 30 years old and still being mentally 15
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Jul 4, 2018 14:20
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I met this dude 2 weeks ago and now he wants to gently caress other women. Is this a red flag? Please help i cant think or form opinions at all because i am a doormat
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Jul 4, 2018 14:21
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:My(31F) Boyfriend (32M) texts me that he wants to have sex with his friend I mean, he texted her and asked before doing it. She doesn't sound very cool. His love language is communication
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Jul 4, 2018 14:22
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Fartbox posted:"I want advice from grognards and children"" You've come to the right shop, brother
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Jul 4, 2018 14:30
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quote:Well my bf just TEXTS me if it's okay if he messes around sexually with his friend while hanging out. I told him if that's what he wants, then he should go ahead but then we'll have to break up, because Ist of all, too early in the relationship for that. 2nd, we need to talk about it AND establish boundaries, 3rd, I'm not even there nor have I ever met this said friend. 4th, that doesn't sound like monogamy. Ultimatums are abuse.
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Jul 4, 2018 14:33
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Fatkraken posted:r/relationships: my CIA skills is over the roof and haven’t caught him with lies she assassinates foreign heads of state to destabilize the countries around her in order to further her own economic agenda
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Jul 4, 2018 14:38
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Me: Hey Billy, I'm having a dang good time with you after 2 weeks. Just letting you know I'm into monogamy. Billy: Yeah, that's good with me. I really like you and I'm into monogamy only. Billy: Actually, it's midnight and I'm horny as hell. Is it okay if I mess around with my friend? Me: No. Billy: How could you do this to me?!! I thought we had an amazing relationship built on trust and communication!
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Jul 4, 2018 14:40
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Me: Hey Billy, I'm having a dang good time with you after 2 weeks. Just letting you know I'm into monogamy. Yeah, dude sounds like a real piece of work. It's all about that sweet steady strange. People just don't appreciate each other anymore.
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Jul 4, 2018 14:42
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Me: Hey Billy, I'm having a dang good time with you after 2 weeks. Just letting you know I'm into monogamy. She's just teaching him not to ask next time
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Jul 4, 2018 14:46
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Why would you relashe with someone when you just want to bang around and have the social ability to do so?
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Jul 4, 2018 15:22
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TheScott2K posted:Why would you relashe with someone when you just want to bang around and have the social ability to do so? "Can I gently caress you?" "No, I only gently caress my boyfriends." "Well..."
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Jul 4, 2018 15:24
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My husband [27M] spends all his time drawing and no time for us [25F], I’m not sure how to approach thisquote:We’ve been married for a year and a half and together for about 4 for context. Lol your boyfriend is drawing furries loving.
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Jul 4, 2018 15:43
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:My(31F) Boyfriend (32M) texts me that he wants to have sex with his friend Might as well break up anyway since he was going to gently caress her no matter how you responded.
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La Brea Carpet posted:My husband [27M] spends all his time drawing and no time for us [25F], I’m not sure how to approach this She married Shmorky
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Jul 4, 2018 15:44
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02-6611-0142-1 posted:she assassinates foreign heads of state to destabilize the countries around her in order to further her own economic agenda give her my number, im a supervillain
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Jul 4, 2018 16:43
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Anony Mouse posted:A few pages late but I had to dig it up again because I'm the one who originally found this gem lol The comments are even crazier on it, she keeps doubling down and telling people it's "wrong" that he has an opinion and should just like anything, even if he's lying to her  https://www.reddit.com/user/myclothesmybody/comments Dienes posted:Might as well break up anyway since he ftfy BOOTY-ADE fucked around with this message at 17:11 on Jul 4, 2018 |
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Jul 4, 2018 16:57
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Fartbox posted:I met this dude 2 weeks ago and now he wants to gently caress other women. Is this a red flag? Please help i cant think or form opinions at all because i am a doormat As far as I can see the friend’s gender isn’t specified. Maybe he just wants to gently caress men too! gently caress sake woman it’s been 2 weeks. Spirit of Pete, endow this woman with thy mighty HA HA NOPE.
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Jul 4, 2018 17:25
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Haifisch posted:My (24F) boyfriend (25M) has no apparent interest in my love language... "Cooommme aaaaannnnd geeetit!" Dingdingdingdingding Fake Edit : oh. Apparently you can buy one from Walmart and it is a service bell.  My (24F) boyfriend's (25M) love language is pinafore... loquacius posted:Ok wait I thought it was so dumb to list as a thoughtful gift, I didn't even finish reading the post. Great minds think alike, I guess. I mean, I know sex is awesome and telling your partner that you like to have it with them a lot is a good thing, but a sex bell seems like it would be one aisle over from the fake cat vomit in a gag gift store. Bored fucked around with this message at 17:38 on Jul 4, 2018 |
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Jul 4, 2018 17:30
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the world is stupid
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Jul 4, 2018 17:35
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Bored posted:"Cooommme aaaaannnnd geeetit!" Nothing fancy about it. Figure a regular bell would work just the same. A sex horn would be more original.
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Jul 4, 2018 17:37
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Bored posted:"Cooommme aaaaannnnd geeetit!" Those things don't work, I've been ringing mine for days now, and nobodies shown up.
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Jul 4, 2018 17:38
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Universe Master posted:Those things don't work, I've been ringing mine for days now, and nobodies shown up. You need to send out a sex SOS. Maybe use all the dildos and make a sign on your yard that can be seen from above.
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Jul 4, 2018 17:39
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Bored posted:"Cooommme aaaaannnnd geeetit!" They could at least paint it to look like a titty jfc you assholes,. you maroons
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Salty Josh posted:Nothing fancy about it. Figure a regular bell would work just the same. Sorry you're stuck tooting your own horn.
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Ring My Bell https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=URAqnM1PP5E
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BOOTY-ADE posted:The comments are even crazier on it, she keeps doubling down and telling people it's "wrong" that he has an opinion and should just like anything, even if he's lying to her  quote:myclothesmybody i mean if she's using words like "femme" and "presentation" in this context she's maybe just got some more complicated gender situation going on and denies it/doesn't know it yet right "myclothesmybody" is pretty lol though, like some "first amendment means you can't be mad at what i say" poo poo
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Jul 4, 2018 17:51
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Universe Master posted:Those things don't work, I've been ringing mine for days now, and nobodies shown up. You need to level up with a gently caress Triangle.  okay it's not actually a triangle, but it clearly attracts the fucks Salty Josh posted:
LOL! https://youtu.be/Uh6TpkEd_Oc Toot...toooooot! Gimmeablow job! Bored fucked around with this message at 18:11 on Jul 4, 2018 |
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Jul 4, 2018 18:05
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Bored posted:I thought it was so dumb to list as a thoughtful gift, I didn't even finish reading the post. Great minds think alike, I guess. It even seems a little demanding depending on who is meant to be ringing it, like, if one partner buys it for the other to ring vs if one partner buys it and says "ok, when I ring this it's gently caress time and you come running, teehee, what a fun gift" Either way I don't think anybody is actually using the sex bell and I don't think it's worth putting in a big list of Love Gifts e: sex vuvuzela
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Jul 4, 2018 18:11
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Bored posted:You need to level up with a gently caress Triangle. Looks like the start to a Nine Inch Nails music video.
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Jul 4, 2018 18:15
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Bored posted:https://youtu.be/Uh6TpkEd_Oc More like https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8dENYJbN1z4
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Jul 4, 2018 18:15
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Salty Josh posted:Looks like the start to a Nine Inch Nails music video. I actually tracked down the performance that gif came from a few years back. The whole thing's weird and funny. I don't know if it is all supposed to be funny.  for arte. (The women wear pasties and a diaper thingy)https://youtu.be/GNh9488y0WI
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Bored posted:I actually tracked down the performance that gif came from a few years back. The whole thing's weird and funny. I don't know if it is all supposed to be funny. God drat....
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Jul 4, 2018 18:34
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Bored posted:I actually tracked down the performance that gif came from a few years back. The whole thing's weird and funny. I don't know if it is all supposed to be funny. New Deus Ex prequel looking good.
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Time to brainstorm the different types of sex horns First time with.new partner: trumpet fanfare Known infidelity : car alarm loving your cousin: Dukes of Hazzard Dixie horn While sexytiming, the candles are knocked over: fire truck claxon HAES orgy: ship horn Recreating Mr Hands / Catherine the Great: bugle announcing call to post CannonFodder fucked around with this message at 18:42 on Jul 4, 2018 |
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