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Caganer posted:i don't think anyone posts sincerely here I do. Edit: Content for new page: My[22F] boyfriend[23M] believes everyone is out to get him re his blond hair quote:We have been been together for one year recently, but been good friends since our childhood. I do remember as a kid he has strikingly blond hair, like almost as if on flash and fairly glaring. It’s nice hair though, healthy and thick.
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Nonvalueadded User posted:In mixed-gender cases, physical domestic violence is most commonly (but not solely) inflicted by men on women. Its tough to escape abuse, even more so if the answer you recieve is "Quit being abused then your spineless wimp!". Hellblazer187 posted:I agree with all of that. I'm just saying I'd consider forgiveness depending on how else the relationship is and if she gets treatment. It would be his choice of course if he stayed with her, and the relationship history. If this incident is just one more to the pile, the relationship, if it was out of no where's you can move on. Considering her history though, it is probably the former. For content: quote:My [F25 boyfriend [M25] is making drastic appearance changes and I hate it[new] If they don't last he can date that woman that dressed like a clown earlier in the thread.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 19:30 |
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Nonvalueadded User posted:For whatever sins Pick May have committed in this thread, she has more than expatiated those with her Star Trek doodle thread. She has indeed expatiated on her sins, but I don’t think that’s what you mean.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 19:32 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:even outside the redpill freight it carries 'flip the genders' type poo poo is dumb as hell cause it's predicated on the assumption everyone else is just hypocritically picking on poor men out of totally unexamined sexism and by just going 'but what if it was a man doing it to a woman' you're gonna blow their minds like woooooww Also not saying that they are often used to justify bad arguments, even ironically to the point of supporting Of course we’re all so woke we are immune to these. (By we I mean the good INTJs.)
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 19:34 |
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Subjunctive posted:She has indeed expatiated on her sins, but I don’t think that’s what you mean. I can’t believe I’ve been using that word incorrectly for so long. Expurgated? What is the word I’m looking for? P.S. I should have a user name as good as yours. Were I to change mine, I’d try for one as good as yours. Ehh, that mood doesn’t work as clearly in English as other languages.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 19:40 |
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Nonvalueadded User posted:Ehh, that mood doesn’t work as clearly in English as other languages. I appreciate the effort. (Expurgated seems better, yeah.)
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:even outside the redpill freight it carries 'flip the genders' type poo poo is dumb as hell cause it's predicated on the assumption absolutely everyone else is just hypocritically picking on poor men out of totally unexamined sexism and by just going 'but what if it was a man doing it to a woman' you're gonna blow their minds like woooooww Nah, it's true a lot of the time that men are treated like that, but it's not imaginary feminazis or whatever, it's most often other men who do it. Men are usually other men's worst enemy when it comes to things like abuse and mistreatment
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 19:44 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I do.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 19:46 |
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Miserable Maid posted:Nah, it's true a lot of the time that men are treated like that, but it's not imaginary feminazis or whatever, it's most often other men who do it. Men are usually other men's worst enemy when it comes to things like abuse and mistreatment and if you 'flip the genders' someone going haw haw beat up by a woman do you really expect this to rock their world
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 19:54 |
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I [26F] already want to quit my lawyer job after just 3 monthsquote:I recently graduated law school and started working at a non-profit firm, providing free legal services to low income individuals. What rear end in a top hat clients, unable to speak english, and missing appointments. I'm sure they have sold, reliable transportation and plenty of childcare. OP is right - they need to show some respect!
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:04 |
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Caganer posted:I was just trying to say I want the same respect that a doctor or a private lawyer would get.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:12 |
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Nonvalueadded User posted:I can’t believe I’ve been using that word incorrectly for so long.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:13 |
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Caganer posted:I [26F] already want to quit my lawyer job after just 3 months They really are letting ANYONE be a law client nowadays.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:13 |
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i'm shocked, shocked that someone working in a nonprofit turned out to be a covert narcissist who doesn't actually care about the people their org serves
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:14 |
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Ah yes, Lawyers, truly the beacons of humility and generosity that us poor people look to as a Normal Person would look at a heart surgeon saving a child's life
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lol the worst kind of person
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:19 |
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Lol well people from all walks of life can be entitled assholes but lol welcome to the wonderful world of “customer service” haha Maybe she should be like a patent lawyer or something haha I dunno she clearly isn’t made to be dealing with the public.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:20 |
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Anne Whateley posted:Expiate is precisely the word you mean (rather than expatiate). Expunge is closeish, expurgate is wrong. I would have gone with extirpate myself Caganer posted:i don't think anyone posts sincerely here I sincerely wish you took your act somewhere else
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:20 |
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I kinda miss Mirthless tbh
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:21 |
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I'd take that person's job, depending on the pay and location.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:29 |
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Danaru posted:I kinda miss Mirthless tbh Whatever happened to that long haired weirdo?
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:43 |
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edit: double post
Caganer fucked around with this message at 20:50 on Jul 15, 2018 |
# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:46 |
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tudabee posted:
like i said, a narcissist. she was willing to forgo salary for narcissistic supply and now like most NGO workers is becoming bitter. she'll be tweeting about hillary 2020 and how neoliberalism isn't a dirty word by the end of the week tactlessbastard posted:I would have gone with extirpate myself https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlOSdRMSG_k Bamabalacha posted:Whatever happened to that long haired weirdo? he stayed up all night manic PMing me insults, then told me i was ableist for not excusing it because he was manic, sent some more insults, then melted down in this very thread and vowed never to return. he posts in pet island now about birds mostly Caganer fucked around with this message at 20:53 on Jul 15, 2018 |
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Caganer posted:I [26F] already want to quit my lawyer job after just 3 months One of my friends from temple recently accepted the ED position for the regional legal aid org. When we lunch together, its fun to chat with her about org culture and the turnaround shes been working on. From what I gather, many legal aid societies aren't run with positive org cultures that respect staff time and establish clear boundaries for clients while holding clients accountable to expectations.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:52 |
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My Imaginary GF posted:One of my friends from temple recently accepted the ED position for the regional legal aid org. When we lunch together, its fun to chat with her about org culture and the turnaround shes been working on. From what I gather, many legal aid societies aren't run with positive org cultures that respect staff time and establish clear boundaries for clients while holding clients accountable to expectations. same old story
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:54 |
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My Imaginary GF posted:One of my friends from temple recently accepted the ED position for the regional legal aid org. When we lunch together, its fun to chat with her about org culture and the turnaround shes been working on. From what I gather, many legal aid societies aren't run with positive org cultures that respect staff time and establish clear boundaries for clients while holding clients accountable to expectations. one of my exes is a bonafied Human Rights Attorney™ and yeah, tldr: the more someone makes themselves out to be holier than thou the more toxic they tend to be. i wish there was a non-loaded term other than "virtue signalling" to describe this, but i've met some real pieces of work who think just because they work for the UN or some poo poo they can be unpleasant and demanding all the time.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:55 |
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I think it's more that it stresses you out horribly and makes you mad, but you're not allowed to be mad at work so you end up taking it elsewhere. Sometimes people you're working within in nonprofits are... not super awesome people. Only so many times you want to get yelled at for handing out off-brand products at the soup kitchen. They stopped doing giving trees in my hometown because they got more requests than there are people in my hometown.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 20:58 |
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Caganer posted:one of my exes is a bonafied Human Rights Attorney™ and yeah, tldr: the more someone makes themselves out to be holier than thou the more toxic they tend to be. i wish there was a non-loaded term other than "virtue signalling" to describe this, but i've met some real pieces of work who think just because they work for the UN or some poo poo they can be unpleasant and demanding all the time. I think you get it from both ends in a nonprofit: clients that don't always respect boundaries, and staff who have unfulfilled personal needs in life. My drinking buddy/surrogate fatherly figure in town is married to the ED of the only abortion clinic in the region. At least at their health clinic, the protestors outside and threats against staff promote a mission-centric, positive organizational culture rooted in a firm us-vs-them mindset, where us is folk who respect women and them is crazies. edit: wait, dont you post in the Taiwan.jpg thread? lol@the thought of a mainlander human rights lawyer working at UN
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My Imaginary GF posted:I think you get it from both ends in a nonprofit: clients that don't always respect boundaries, and staff who have unfulfilled personal needs in life. yeah, said friend brought up the prospect of a raise and was told that she's paid in line with what she'd make on the GS payscale and kind of lectured about how "we're not here for the money" and if she's was "profit driven" nonprofit work wasn't for her i'd clued her in that top compensated 501c3 employees are listed on certain documents, and when she pointed out that the person she was talking to made MUCH in excess of the top of the GS payscale (director made ~300+k, GS executive pay tops out at like 180l) she got screamed at and eventually took another job because it was clear they were starting the paper trail to fire her for a very mild pushback during salary negotiation.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 21:19 |
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Me [26F] with my SO [30M] of 3 years. He resents me for financially supporting my family. He'd rather I let them go through charityquote:My fiancé J and I got engaged recently and have a pretty good relationship overall other than a couple disagreements here and there we don't argue much in general.
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Haifisch posted:Me [26F] with my SO [30M] of 3 years. He resents me for financially supporting my family. He'd rather I let them go through charity What's the hobby? I'm going to guess W40K or thereabouts. I think if she wants to marry this selfish brat, she should 1000% make sure they have a clear prenup and separate finances.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 21:28 |
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Caganer posted:one of my exes is a bonafied Human Rights Attorney™ and yeah, tldr: the more someone makes themselves out to be holier than thou the more toxic they tend to be. i wish there was a non-loaded term other than "virtue signalling" to describe this, but i've met some real pieces of work who think just because they work for the UN or some poo poo they can be unpleasant and demanding all the time. "Sanctimony" is "virtue signaling" for people who don't spend their entire lives griping on Twitter about ethics in video games journalism
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 21:34 |
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drat, i would love for my SO to make 2.5x what I do, support her family, and still have money to put in the bank. how are you gonna get mad at someone you (hopefully) love for making money and loving their family? fake edit: she only uses 10% of her income? she owns, he's a stupid insecure baby.
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# ? Jul 15, 2018 21:38 |
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dudeness posted:Do you think he subconsciously divides things into 3's or does he do it on purpose? A page back but
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How do I [26M] get over a girl that completely humiliated me [26F]?Dating (self.relationships)quote:I'm at a summer program and was into this girl for the past few weeks. We hang out all the time and she calls me her "work husband" and holds my arm while we walk around together and that sorta stuff. Caganer fucked around with this message at 22:21 on Jul 15, 2018 |
# ? Jul 15, 2018 22:10 |
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Holy Christ the fragility on display here. Ask the woman out, if she says no move on and don't be a creep. The worst thing these spineless idiots do is pine away for months and years and build up a big expectation and then when this expectation fails to materialize, they hold a grudge. It's a big self own but it repeated enough times to be a societal problem.
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Hellblazer187 posted:Holy Christ the fragility on display here. Ask the woman out, if she says no move on and don't be a creep. The worst thing these spineless idiots do is pine away for months and years and build up a big expectation and then when this expectation fails to materialize, they hold a grudge. It's a big self own but it repeated enough times to be a societal problem. i think it's pretty clear she's noticed his crush, is unnerved, and made it clear she sees them as friends.
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Haifisch posted:That /r/intj thread was a mini goldmine to itself, now that I look. why do intjs think they're so rare when they're like the #1 most common internet meyer brigs dweebs. You'd think in all their profound intellect they'd realize how overplayed their archtype was.
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ArbitraryC posted:why do intjs think they're so rare when they're like the #1 most common internet meyer brigs dweebs. You'd think in all their profound intellect they'd realize how overplayed their archtype was. Because Meyers Briggs is a horoscope for men so only the absolute dumbest would use it.
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Caganer posted:i think it's pretty clear she's noticed his crush, is unnerved, and made it clear she sees them as friends. While that is true its kinda messed up to say that in front of a bunch of people. He needed to nut up and ask her out but that ship has long sailed soooo he just needs to move on and learn a lesson from this.
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